Dr. Shaikh says: August 10, 2015 at 3:43 am
jainab, it was very inspiring reading your life story, i am in your same situation, my lover is also a hindu guy, we met each othr during our medical studies and now we want to tie knot forever, but problem is our religion, for me love is the biggest religion but they say a muslim girl cannot marry a hindu man, i want to know why? if a muslim-man can marry hindu girls then why only restrictions on us muslim girls?
We are educated and we should we allowed to choose our life partner, but only muslim-men are given such freedom. I am a proud muslim girl and i believe in islam, but i respect all other religion too, for be being human is the greatest religion, just because he is hindu, i cannot marry him, i don`t understand this rule. -Dr. Shaikh
dr. shaikh says: August 10, 2015 at 3:52 am
very inspiring story, thanks mac for sharing this story, every muslim must be like abdul sattar, but mac i don`t understand why you are against muslim girl marrying hindu men?
my lover respect me as a muslim, he never told me change my faith, and i don`t want him to change his religion just for me. All religion are same and teach same thing, i believe every religion ends to same loving god, then why so much fight about religion. i just want to marry him -Dr. Saikh
Jainab says: August 11, 2015 at 6:20 am
Dear Dr. Sheikh, asslam,Thanks for sharing with me, I think you are also in a position similar to me. But iam not a scholar of Islam. My fault is this that i love a Hindu guy from depth of my heart. I was born in a Muslim family, and i spent a very good time with a Hindu family. thus i have experienced both religions, I know about practical life of both community. In my opinion love wants your full dedication, in lieu of that a girl like me, only want a peaceful, graceful life full of joys.
its not a barter system of give and take. when a girl dedicates her everything to a particular person, then there is no space for if and but as far as religion is concerned i think its not a big matter, if we want to worship Allah, nobody can object, its our life, no one can decide our way. hence i have no parents, but my observation is this that in our community, we have so many brothers and sisters, that if one child dies, parents don’t bother so much.
As far as holy Quran is concerned,nobody can follow 100%. People like mac say it a zina and haram relation, it may be, after death if i will go to fire of hell, i am ok, it is better to live in this life, happily instead of thinking about paradise with 72 Virgin girls, My paradise is on this earth with my b/f. I don’t want to think about after death.
Their are billions of Muslim boys who are doing anti Islamic works,nobody condemn them,but when a matter related to Muslim women comes, every one start teaching and planning to punish her. everywhere is double standards for women, That’s why i did not compromised, I have decided to select my way of living myself. As i am not very much educated, can’t suggest you properly, but if one can see my heart, there is only my would be, and i can sacrifice my whole life for him, that’s all…Best of luck… -Jainab
dr. shaikh says: August 22, 2015 at 2:25 am
Dear admin, once i tried to walk away from our relation but it is he who promised me that he will respect my faith and not hurt my religious sentiment, he is forcing me not to leave him, it is he who proposed me first during our college days, initially i rejected his propose but he kept on proposing me again and again, he assured me that our relation will not hurt my religious sentiment, now that i came to know that islam is against such marriage, now what option i do i have?
If i marry him, it will violate our religious requirement and i will be sinner, while he is not willing me to let go and i have already rejected so many marriage proposal for him, now no marriage proposal comes as people have already known that i have relationship with a hindu men, now if i don`t get married with him, it will be difficult for me to get a muslim life partner, so i pray to allah to help me to get out of this situation -Dr. Shaikh
dr. shaikh says: August 20, 2015 at 4:10 am
Dear Akash, can we contact each other, i want to know why you liked islam and can you help me in this regard, it will be great if my hindu bf convert to islam like you did. I pray to allah everyday….. -Dr. Shaikh
Momeen says: September 2, 2015 at 8:24 pm
Dr. Shaikh: ” i just wrote here that i pray for his conversion and you people all started lecturing me, calling me love jihadi etc.”
How she entered the forum with sheep clothing and how gradually she revealed her true colour‐ desperate for a 100% conversion, this can never be an issue for her!
Her mentor stomps under his feet‐ his mother’s original faith, his own motherland and icons of the nation‐ all these matters are non‐issue for her!
But if someone questions the justice in her conduct, she immediately begins to scream: discrimination and intolerance! They can stab but others should not even prick‐ throttling others beliefs is their birth‐right and the victims should walkaway even without raising a voice!
As has already been said, she (Dr, Shaikh) is a perfect Muslima! -Momeen
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Heart Attack moment for Admin,Kumar,Momeen and Harjeet Gang.
Because,
Grandson of Nelson Mandela embraces Islam, marry a Muslim girl
So get your burnol ready
Mandla Mandela, grandson of former South African late president Nelson Mandela embraces Islam two months ago and married Rabia Clarke in a private Muslim ceremony at the weekend.
Influential Islamic leader Sheikh Ebrahim Gabriels, who wedded the two, informed Anadolu Agency that Mandla embraced Islam two months ago. Mandla is currently the Xhosa traditional chief of Mvezo, Nelson Mandela’s birthplace, while Rabia Clarke is from a Muslim household in a Southern suburb of Cape Town.
speaking at his marriage Mandela announced late Sunday that, “I am honoured and delighted to announce my marriage to Rabia Clarke, in Cape Town, on 6 February 2016. I wish to extend my heartfelt gratitude to Rabia’s parents, her extended family and the Muslim community, for welcoming me into their hearts.”
In 2013, family disputes raised to the surface only months before Nelson Mandela’s death. The feud erupted and led to questioning of Mandla’s leadership legitimacy as head of clan. Mandla has been married three times before embracing Islam.
Reacting to conversion of Mandle, South Africa provincial chairperson Chief Mwelo Nonkonyane on Tuesday said, “We are shock on the news of his conversion. We were also very concerned. What we know is that the woman converts, not the man. That is our custom.”
Sister Shaik, what is your status now, are you married or still waiting for his conversion?
Kumar here said what is my problem, well i don`t have any problem, then why you are having problem with Shammen`s life and what she want to do with her hindu lover?
https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10328&cpage=1#comment-357473
To jainab, here is my reply to gang of fauzia,kartar,shagul,human,shabana,etc
https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10416#comment-357637
my above reply is for this comment
https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10416#comment-357584
Now lets see whether Fauzia defends her arguments or she flee away like they always do and then return with another fake muslim girl name with another long long anti-islamic, anti-Muslim comment.
That is why once i told you that i donot waste my time replying to their false propaganda, here i replied because of sister Achu.
Dear admin,hi.Its a matter of great surprise,that all Hindu boys are bad,but after conversation in Islam they becomes good human beings.what a joke? Secondly If all Muslims are good,who is responsible for my mothers death,who is responsible for my exploitation,where was mac and his teachings,when i was wandering heither and thither without shelter,without food,no any Muslim godfather helped me,where was our holy leaders,when i went to a mosque,they tried to abuse me,nobody gave a small bit of food,except their ugly eyes and abusing notes.Mac says he never suffered hunger,that’s why he is teaching this way.but i know what is hunger,if you don’t get food for continues 5 days,you always remember Allah tala,and pray for help,and you are not heard,what will you do.No body will answer,every body knows the holy teachings are very good,but only people having stomach full can follow and discuss on these topics,A hungry person needs food ,not teachings,Thus it becomes very simple that religion is a secondary matter,some people do not agree with me,but when some one has to face situation like me,he will automatically came to know the realities of life,and life is more important than religion.One thing more people who helped me and adopted me as their own daughter,with my Muslim background,should i regard them or not.should i say them kafir.One guy who is smart kind hearted and earning well,always helping me in every part of life,should i blackmail him to convert,because this is the only way for me.I humbly oppose these opinions and suggestions.My own life and my iman is more important than being a 100% Muslim,and i am proud of this decision.Thanks…..Jainab.
🙂 🙂
See reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10165&cpage=3#comment-357619
Dear sister, first of all i am very saddened to hear that you mother is no more, RIP to your mother i mean Rest In Peace, hope you don`t misunderstand this and take it other way.
Now coming to many points raised by you, one of them was that all hindu boys are bad and they become good after converting to islam, well no one here ever claimed that all hindu boys are bad and they become good after converting to islam atleast not me, but many had made comments like all muslim boys are bad like kartar,chandosmani,fauzia gang.
How i know who is responsible for your mothers death, what you mean by that, hello sister, i only came to know you last month, then where the question of `where was mac and his teachings,when i was wandering heither and thither without shelter`?
If someone exploited you, is it fault of islam, infact it is fault of him for not following islam, if he had followed islam, he would have never exploited you, islam is religion based on reality, it doesn`t say you hang on with my name and i will provide food, Allah gave us hands,eyes,brain,etc so that we can use them, i don`t know about you, but whenever i called Allah, Allah shows me path, the problem is with people like you that you remember Allah when you feel helpless and forget Allah when you are in comfort while i remember Allah every time whether i am in comfort or dis-comfort, this dr shammea shaikh remembers Allah even though she became doctor and well earning, many people forgot god when they become rich and say well god doesn`t exist, religions are fake etc but when they face struggle, then start crying god help me as if god is waiting to prove his existence to people who only remembers him when they are in need.
If you had contacted me, i would have surely helped you as i know what is islam and what is humanity. Earlier in this website i posted, i had to sacrifice my first Friday Ramadan jumma namaz in order to help my friend who is hindu, i hate to mention all these but you are forcing me to mention this by pointing your life story towards me.
Btw you say this country is so great, then why no govt authority saved you, why this country forced you to remain hungry for 5 days,it is the duty of state to ensure the minimum living standard of it`s people, all are CM,MP muslim that they loot huge money of common people? admin brought the example of Saudi Arabia, believe it or not, in Saudi Arabia you would have been in such situation in the first place, it is Saudi Arabia women donot roam around 5-6 days in hunger, it happens only in india as we all know it is the home land of world`s biggest hungry people and i feel sad about it, hope i could help these people who are in hunger, i really feel sad about you that you have to pass away in such horrible situation, btw earlier you tried to disqualify my arguments that why i showed example of only one richshaw wala to show genoritst of muslim or why i put example of one old man Abdul Sattar elahi , but here i see you are putting your own single story to demonize whole muslim community and faith, now is it fair that you bash me on the criteria which you yourself used above to demonize whole community, also you are not only who went through such situation, during independence day program, we went to remote corners of villages to see the condition of people there and their life, there i saw and heard many sad stories of people, one story is similar to yours, where a girl of age 20-25 told us that her father is injured and cannot work and thus she has to work 25 Kms or so to work on homes and earn little money, while she stays empty stomach in night so that her younger sister could eat meal as she gets her meal during day outside in her work place, now this is the condition of india and you were jumping up and down that why i didn`t reply to your independence day wish while i was very busy during those 2 days,you people think you are patriot just by saying independence day while doing nothing in ground level while level people like me as anti-national, anti- country who is doing work in ground label for just not replying to mere independence wish, no wonder why we have so many hungry people in great great great india as we have people who attach service of country with song and wishes rather than real life work and thus life in india for general people sucks.
You said should you blackmail your hindu bf, no it`s not about blackmail it`s about bringing people in right religion, he helped you when you are in need now it`s your turn to help him in saving his afterlife , you reject order of Allah and yet you call yourself muslim girl, how come?
Should you regard them as kafir, it`s not about you, it is they who are calling themselves kafir as they call themselves by persie name `Hindu` which Moghals kept them as Mughals were not arabic, so they didn`t use the word kafir, they used the persie word for kafir which is `hindu`, now they are calling themselves kafir what is our fault, why don`t they worship right god instead of worshipping false gods like cow,snake,ram,etc.
///.I humbly oppose these opinions and suggestions.My own life and my iman is more important than being a 100% Muslim,and i am proud of this decision.///
These are not my opinion or suggestion, this is order from ALLAH(Quran 2:221) , okay your own life is important, no one is forcing you, but you don`t have right to call yourself muslim girl as there is nothing like 100% muslim or 50% muslim, muslim is a muslim, either practicing or non-practicing(munafiq), you are showing examples of non-practicing Muslims(munafiq) to bash me and islamic religion while ignoring every examples of true Muslims. A muslim is one who obeys the commandment of Allah and submits to Allah instead of saying my life, my rules, we muslim don`t have my life, my rules as we didn`t created ourselves, Allah created us, so we have ti obey Allah, you are free to disobey Allah, no one is forcing you to obey Allah, but those who disobey allah, hell fire is waiting for them, and you already witnessed what is hunger, in hell there is no good food, there one have to live hungry for eternal life, so choose what you like. Since you are proud of your anti-allah decision, so please from next day don`t call yourself a muslim girl and then criticize muslim community as you said a muslim is not supposed to criticize Hindus,Christians rather his own, so since you are not a muslim, so you are not supposed to criticize muslim community.
To Jainab, you said that Muslims don`t help people in need and so on, here is two more examples where a muslim family took the responsibility of girl of his hindu friend, now you may say that they adopted this hindu girl to convert her to Islam, we will see it later what they do with her and what she religion she follows, but that may not be the case as a similar muslim couple who adopted a hindu Brahmin girl in childhood allowed that hindu girl to follow her religion and also married her off with another hindu girl in hindu customs because islam donot teaches o force religion on others, islam comes from heart, there is no need to follow islam forcibly.
Muslim Pilot Adopts Kids Of His Hindu Friend After His Death
In a city where police and judges often come across brutal crimes done in the name of property or inheritance, a Muslim couple’s bid to raise two Hindu orphans has earned praise from the Delhi high court. Moved by what it termed a “noble endeavour”, the HC recently appointed Mohd Shahnawaz Zaheer, a commercial pilot, as the guardian of twins Ayush and Prarthana under the Hindu Minority & Guardianship Act.
In a city where police and judges often come across brutal crimes done in the name of property or inheritance, a muslim couple`s bid to raise two Hindu orphans has earned praise from the Delhi High Court.
The decision set a new precedent in Indian Law
In his landmark order allowing cross-religion guardianship, Justice Najmi Waziri also approved a Trust set up in the name of the siblings, where the Indian Commercial Pilots Association and other well-wishers have contributed over Rs 1 crore. By virtue, the entire estate and remaining wealth of the dead parents will automatically go to the Trust and not to the guardian.
When reporters visited the Zaheer household earlier this week, it found the twins bonding well with the family. Zaheer said, “The HC order streamlined everything to allow the twins to integrate with us. I have a three-storey house and my in-laws and parents live with me. Ayush and Prarthana are the cynosure of their eyes. Since the court appointed me as guardian, now they will get a passport and can travel abroad with us.”
Zaheer also disclosed how the court has entrusted one Arun Saini, a willing neighbour, to make sure the children receive Hindu religious instructions and can visit temple for prayers. “I don’t want them to ever convert. They will be raised as Hindus,” he said.
Twins lost both parents in 2012
Twins lost both parents in 2012
The twins lost their airhostess mother and pilot father within a year’s time in 2012 and were at the mercy of the family driver who took care of their basic needs. Though their father Praveen Dayal extracted a promise from Zaheer that he will take care of the twins, the latter remained unsure as cousins and distant relatives of Dayals allegedly laid claim to bank accounts and family property.
Mistreatment from relatives made them approach Zaheer
Mistreatment from relatives made them approach Zaheer
A hectic flying schedule kept Zaheer busy till he got a call from the sobbing kids complaining of maltreatment. Zaheer then filed a suit under the Guardianship Act, urging the court to give legal approval to his role as a guardian.
In his plea, Zaheer informed HC that during the critical phase of his illness, Praveen Dayal requested him to take care of the children. He also placed on record a statement by Dayal’s brother saying he has full faith in Zaheer for discharging the duty of guardianship of the children. With their maternal uncle and grandmother also settled abroad and expressing helplessness, the twins had nowhere to turn to, Zaheer pointed out.
How the court saw it
“Poets and writers of different literatures have elegantly articulated and eulogized the principle of foster care and guardianship amongst the foremost and finest human duties. The essence of human endeavour is caring for innocent lives,” Justice Waziri observed, quoting poets Nida Fazli and Javed Akhtar to stress that “taking care of orphaned children who are in urgent need of foster care and the protection of their interests is amongst the noblest of human endeavours.”
The court also took note that all the monies to which the children are entitled is to be kept in the “Aayush Prarthana Benevolent Trust” till they attain the age of 25 years. “It is, therefore, directed that all banks, financial institutions and insurance companies shall make all payments, maturity or redemption amounts, etc apropos the estate of late Praveen Dayal and late Kavita Dayal in the name of Aayush Prarthana Benevolent Trust.”
A victory of Cross-religion relations
Advocate Yogesh Jagiya, who fought the case free of cost, viewed it as an unprecedented order. “It was a cross-religion matter. There have been cases of adoption but not of guardianship where you only raise the children but have no rights in their property. We worked hard to convince the court.”
Enrolled in a top public school in Delhi, Ayush says he wants to become a pilot while his sister wants to be a designer.
Source: http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/delhi/Muslim-pilot-takes-Hindu-kids-under-wing/articleshow/47837030.cms
Here is second example
Muslim parents marry adopted Hindu girl to Hindu groom
A childless 55-year-old Muslim furniture shop owner adopted a Hindu Brahmin’s daughter 18 years ago, brought her up as a Hindu, and on Thursday night, married Gudiya off to a Brahmin business executive from South Delhi.
In what may sound as a fairy tale, Gudiya’s Muslim parents married off their only ‘child’ with full Hindu rites, in a ceremony as grand as they could afford.
And, as they bid a tearful farewell to Gudiya, now called Rakhi, who hung on to the couple as though she would never leave, the neighbors and invitees were amazed at the intensity of the bond between parents and child.
Gudiya left with her husband, a multi-national corporation executive, Ranjit Sharma, leaving her ‘father’, Shabir Khan, behind. “Who will we now celebrate Holi with? No Eid will be the same without her. She is more our child than a natural one would be,” he said.
It all started 18 years ago, when Shabir Khan used to live in Vinod Nagar in East Delhi. The couple had no child of their own. And, one Sharma, a neighbor and close friend, had 6 daughters. Sharma agreed that Khan could adopt one of his daughters, which Khan did.
Then, some years later, Khan moved to Rahul Vihar in Ghaziabad, where his shop in Pratap Vihar was doing well.
“I thought it was my daughter’s arrival that brought us luck. And, since she joined us, she has been a sort of reason for our existence. “Aaj mujhe lagta hai jaise mere dil ka ek tukra chala gaya (Today, I feel like a peace of my heart has departed from me.)
When Khan adopted Gudiya, he had a separate pooja ghar (prayer room) for her, where she could pray to the Hindu deities. The family celebrated Diwali with as much gusto as they did Eid.
Gudiya completed her 10+2 examination from a Central Board of Secondary Education affiliated school. “We are a little conservative, as is the groom’s family. And, they thought that, to be a housewife, she needed only to have passed school,” the father said.
Source: http://timesofindia.indiatimes.com/city/delhi/Muslim-parents-marry-adopted-Hindu-girl-to-Hindu-groom/articleshow/4202493.cms
They did it because Islam says:
***Treat non-Muslims in a kind and fair
manner (60:8)
***Help those in need by finding them (2:273)
***Protect orphans (2:220)
***No compulsion in religion (2:256)
***Spend wealth in charity (57:7)
***Honor guests (51:26)
***Most noble of you is the most righteous
(49:13)
***Enjoin right, forbid wrong (31:17)
***Walk on earth in humility (25:63)
***Do not kill your children for fear of poverty
(17:31)
***No one will bear others’ sins (17:15)
***Be just (5:8)
***Stand out firmly for justice (4:135)
***Be good to others (4:36)
So those muslim who didn`t help you and took advantage of your situation are not true muslim and are not representative of islam in anyway and as we see from Quran, they have acted against the religion of Islam, they did it because they are ignorant about the teachings of Quran, Quran is the solution for humanity, muslim must follow Quran as it is, while you said earlier that why i am only preaching Quran,hadith, see if those people had read those above verses about compassion, they wouldn`t have misbehaved with you.
Also it is interesting that you accuse only Muslims and single out Muslims for their bad act, while that pilot adopted those two orphan hindu kids as their hindu relatives didn`t treated them well, so here we have a example where Hindus didn`t treat their kids properly and thus a muslim adopted them, but that is not making me to generalize all Hindus, like you do with Muslims, you generalize all Muslims.
Thanks.
Mac,
The doctrine of Taqqiya allows muslims to lie to trap non muslim girls, ditch kaffir and all techniques of deception for expansion of islam is just and fair.
Islam is criminal religion not sparing even muslim girls in ISIS dominated areas of Gulf countries. They are marrying even 8 years old girls to 50 and above aged persons, after keeping them for a week or so, handing over to the other person, same process continues and after 3/4 months, these girls are sold in an open auction.Bastard if your sister is fucked in the name of marriage in such a way and later auctioned, how would you feel? You are just dreaming to enjoy pleasure of 72 virgins in heaven.
LOL another frustrated comment from Human
isis dose not representing islam ..islam dogma is represented by 4 schools hanafi-shafii-hanbali- mallicki
isis dose not follow any of them ..they follow the doctrine of ( alkhawarij) means in english = the outers which also means those who are fighting the muslim govts for trifle reasons
not only govts but also the muslim public the majority of muslims do not agree with this bad understanding of islamic rules ..me my self can not argue with them
but this group was vanished long time ago that is why we suspect that some countries intelligences are behind them ..but their fighers are mostly do not know
and for ur kind info Rifa Ali is still following islam.
How it is possible she is following islam when she clearly disobeyed Allah`s commandment of Quran, either she is munafiq or non-muslim now, she is surely not a muslim as she married a un-believer.
When they both don’t have problem, wht is ur problem?
ok, she is a non muslim
so what ?
Because mac wants the whole world to follow Muhammad’s teachings.
Kumar says:
August 23, 2015 at 6:57 am
When they both don’t have problem, wht is ur problem?
ok, she is a non muslim
so what ?
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If Shammena`s husband converts to islam willingly, what is your problem?
Good point mac
Dr. Shaikh,
We have created this web site to warn all innocent youths to be careful of love-Jihadi. First, like you, they start by saying I believe in humanity, I am secular, make statements “i respect all other religion” but once the other party is trapped in love, they take their conversion business out. WHAT A SHAME!!! Whole world know this dirty game except a few innocent youths.
mac, how do you know that Koran is Allah’s commandment and not Muhammad’s?
Because if it was word of Muhammad, then we wouldn`t have hadith.
When one read Quran, it`s clear that it is word of allah not muhammad pbuh as in Quran we see allah commanding muhammad to do this and that.
dear kumar, who is rifa ali and how did she got married, can i contact her
Yes u can shameena sis.
Rifa Ali who was my senior in college.
She fell in love with my friend named Rajath.
Recently they got married according to hindu customs.
But right now Rifa Ali is following her own faith (islam) and they both r living happily.
Dear sister dr. shameena shaikh, ask kumar how rifa ali is following islam?
mac, if i marry him by hindu ritual or by special marriage act, can i follow islam or will i be muslim anymore, please reply asap, i want answer to this
His answer will be no because his interest is in expanding Islam. God made you an intelligent person, why can’t you use your own brain?
For Hindu marriage act is for both Hindus, thus use the Special Marriage Act. Like Saif and SRK are still Muslims, you could also be a Muslim.
Now if you are asking if you will be “true” Muslim as Muhammad wanted you to be, then first you have to ask if you perform namaz 5 times/day and 7 days/week? You do this for one year and then try to claim yourself a “true” Muslim. Even mac does not do that! Further, being a “true” Muslim wife is … don’t ever raise such question, “why only restrictions on us muslim girls?” but be a submissive wife to husband. Are you ready?
Is he willing to convert? Did his parents approved it? Be honest and tell him parents what is your plan (to make him 100% Muslim and 0% Hindu). Stop the taqiyya game that you have been playing so far.
If you wish a Muslim husband, don’t dream of fake-converting him. A rose cannot be converted to carnation. Mac dumped her Hindu girl friend for Islam and that is honesty. Arshia, a true Muslim, went to the Middle East and married a true Muslim. Learn from them. Drop the idea of fake-converting him to Muhammad’s faith.
You once said, “being human is the greatest religion”, now what happened so you become a love-Jihadi?
Dr Shaikh, I have recently joined this forum and I have been compared to you as we have similar situations. I see that you have not posted since August 2015. Brother Mac and others have been giving me a lot of their own opinions and points of view to convince me that what I did was wrong, but if you need a fellow sister’s guidance on how you can marry a Hindu boyfriend (or are you married to him already?) please feel free to reach out to me. I cannot claim to be a PhD in Islam but as Mac will testify, I am educated in Islam (and some other religions) enough to know what’s right and what’s wrong for me. InshAllah you are doing well. (I first came across your name when they were debating with me and brought it up as an example). – Rabia
Rabia,
It is good that you are following your mind and not following others. There is no way you will be happy if you try to please others. You are intelligent enough to continue what you are doing WITHOUT ANY GUILTY feelings.
You know this childhood story of a mouse with 7 tails. Try to please others, she cut one tail, now people are saying the mouse with 6 tails. Ultimately only one tail left but people got in habit of teasing by saying a mouse with one tail. Finally she cut the last one.
Another way convincing you, people were stoning a lady because she committed some sin. Jesus requested that only person who has never sinned in their life, should cast a stone on this woman. Likewise, all these guys who are guiding you are not following Islam themselves. mac is flittering with girls in college and none of them are perfuming namaz five times a day.
You are on a right track, keep it up!
People gave different opinions on different times but thats only their opinions.. Its you who decides to take it wrong or right its ur hand sister
People gave different opinions on different times but thats only their opinions.. Its you who decides to take it wrong or right its ur hand sister
And another thing you said “you are educated in Islam”
Iam sorry sister..you are not properly education, If you were educated in islam then you wont think you will marry a non muslim which is prohibited in Islam..
Mohammed, I guess I am a gullible girl who was not guided by her parents & family well. I will blame them on the Day of Qiyamat when Allah asks me why I did such a wrong thing. Meanwhile, if you can find me a single well-educated & non-oppressive & smart & kind & good-looking & understanding Muslim man, I promise you (no need to bring the Holy Qur’an into this, as Allah is my witness & knows all that I do) that I will divorce my husband tomorrow & marry this wonderful angelic perfect Muslim guy who is way ahead of me in life & is on Siratal Mustakim. I have looked and trust me, either I was unlucky & he didn’t want me, or I was lucky & Allah gave me the right guy. Both of us cannot be right, can we?
Its so sad to hear that your parents didnt guided you in the islamic way which is most important to the muslims thus in most cases muslims becomes loves to the non muslims and eagerly waiting for marriage/get marriage, after that there would be a great fight between them, Then why should to blame non muslim peoples because they dont know about Islam, This is so wrong
Any way come to your point
Allah clearly says in the Quran in Surah baqrah chapter 2 v 221
“And do not marry polytheistic men [to your women] until they believe. And a believing slave is better than a polytheist, even though he might please you. Those invite [you] to the Fire, but Allah invites to
Paradise and to forgiveness, by His permission. And He makes clear His verses to the people that perhaps they may remember.”
Do not Marry a Mushrik(unbeliving men) untill they belive even though he is most beutifull in the world, even thought well educate, Its far better better to marry a muslim men who may uneducated, who may not beutifull.. because those unbelivers call you to the hell fire..
If you belive in Aqirah(judgement day) , Then dont marry, Even though you got married with unbeliver, The marriage gets nullified near Almighty Allah(s.w.t)
Only the marriage that acceptable is through Nikah which is the Sunnah of prophet Muhammed (p.b.u.h)
The only two option you left is
1. Either Teach Islam to your non muslim husband and revert him to islam with the heart not by fake convert , re-marry through nikah (My Recommendation)
2. or divorce him and marry a muslim man
If you divorce him , you become guilty because you are going to broking heart of that Guy
Wow!!! It must be hard being a Muslim girl. Any and all Muslim boys come and tell her what is right and what is wrong for her, like she does not know.
Muhammad, if you have concerns with your daughters, best is not to educate them, get them married at very early age and never let them go alone to the West (and not expose them to non-Muslims). Sorry, this lion (Rabia) is out of the cage now! Now she is going to do that her parents has taught her and what she feels that is right to do.
// Muhammad, if you have concerns with your daughters, best is not to educate them, get them married at very early age and never let them go alone
to the West (and not expose them to non-Muslims).//
You are in the misconception that Islam doesnt allow to educate for womens,
The first Ayath(verse) which was revealed is “IQRA” “Read and Recite in the name of your lord”
Education is most important in Islam
but in the Islamic Law
// Sorry, this lion (Rabia) is out of the cage now! Now she is going to do that her parents has taught her and what she feels that is right to do.//
She is not a child which she follows only the parent thoughts to her, She has grown up.. her brain is mature..She will decide herself what to do. .she will learn by herself
Its better if a person like u marries a Muslim instead of marrying a hindu.
Starting ur question was why can’t a Muslim girl marry a hindu man ,but now ur talking about converting ur bf. Don’t u feel ashamed of urself.
Y can’t u just break up?
Says a guy who lied to his muslim gf sabaa and his other hindu friends converted muslim girls into Hinduism for marriage, hypocrisy at its peak.
where have i mentioned in this site that i’ve lied to my gf ?
can u plzzz show me?
TO lie, you don`t have to mention i lied, you told me that you initially told your gf sabaa that you will convert to islam and later you told her that these religions donont come in between love when the love got deeper. you are so coward that instead of accepting your fault, you are now trying to get out of this by making diplomatic comments, but remember god is watching you and god knows who lied to whom.
I still have those messages from you in my inbox and i will now take snapshots of those messages that you sent me, and will paste here if needed.
mac, you you were in LOVE with a Hindu girl, and not followed Islam (Koran (24:30) says Muslim men are not supposed to look at women. If they (Muslim boys) see other (Hindu) girl, they are supposed to lower their gaze)? Does it prove you a Love-Jihadi?
Every one makes mistake. If Kumar said any thing without fully exploring facts, that is a mistake. That does not mean he MUST convert to Islam. Again, some times people may get impressed by simplicity of Islam but do not know that Islam in not only about Allah but in all state of life about MUHAMMAD!!!!!! If one removes Muhammad from Islam, there is nothing left.
He told me he intentinally lied to her muslim gf sabaa that he will convert to islam, but he had that time no plan of converting to islam, he just lied, and going by your logic, shamena shaikh didn`t know Quran is against such marriage, now she came to know truth, and willing to follow Quran, then why you are all bashing her character and shouting at her to leave her hindu bf, if her hindu bf likes islam and converts to islam like Akash, then what is your problem, you should be happy that two souls got united under the umbrella of marriage, like you were happy incase of Shakira Khan, if her hindu bf donot convert to islam, it will be seen later what she does, why you are not advising kumar to leave sabaa?
‘but i found this website only against islam, people have writen so much against islam’, – No introspection as why only Muslims should be hated in a nation where other minorities like Parsis, Christians, Sikhs, Jains and Buddhists could live with absolute peace; not a word admonishing the faith-obsessed youngster who claims to be the son of Muslim-Hindu parentage to be egalitarian; not a word criticizing the boy who declares that saying Vande-Mataram would contaminate his piety; not a word condemning the open death threats by another member- but simply, ‘so much of hatred against Islam’- well, that’s unadulterated, Islamism.
‘i want to know why they only target islam’- Wow, what an observation! Well, I can’t summarize the endless reasons- for that, you need to read the entire Islamic countries atrocities on morality and humanity. I’ll give only the tip of the iceberg: Muslims opt to look the other way when integrity and compassion are uprooted- you can fight for Palestinian cause on Indian soil but not for the Kashmiri Pundits who were hounded out of their homeland just and only because of their faith; Muslims can come out in thousands for Rohingya Muslims but not a single soul to raise the voice when Amar Jawan Jyothi was desecrated; in case of war with Pakistan, don’t you know your leaders would openly declare ‘quran orders us to support only Islamic state’; apart from this, bombings, riots, faith-obsessed discrimination, supremacy- India has learnt to internalize the menace.
You definitely make a perfect Muslima- blaming the victim and at the same time playing the victim card, effectively.
‘i don`t think mac is evil minded person against muslim girls’- no, definitely he is not, he is just a victim of a destructive cult. He has been sucked into the cult and now his job is to justify the cult and add on to the numbers.
‘what he stated were words of quran and i thank him and others for letting me know about my religion’: Absolutely, they were the exact words of Quran and hence help us to expose the fascism and authoritarianism and prove that Islam is a suffocating cage where there is only an entry gate and no way for an exit one.
‘why i cannot marry a hindu guy under normal circumstances’: Educated lady, you never considered giving equal status for his faith and arrived at a single-sided decision- Islamic values! Go ahead lady, the sacrificial lamb who was brought up with the wholesome view of ‘Vasudaiva Kudumbagam’- will now fit himself in your crippling cult, which discriminates humans solely on the basis of belief and whose entire philosophy is built only on hate.
‘I think they are paid workers to spread false information about Islam and divert minds of muslims’: Ma’am, I’ve not surrendered my conscience to achieve the delusional heaven. The only reward I get is the contentment that I’ve a platform to fight for the nation and for that, whole-hearted thanks to the admin.
Special thanks to admin for letting me share my story in your website but i found this website only against islam, people have writen so much against islam, i want to know why they only target islam. I think they are paid workers to spread false information about islam and divert minds of muslims
As long as Muslims hold on to the supremacist view, “Only my God is true”- there is no salvation. Dr. Shaikh, Islam is a totalitarianism faith which squeezes morality, humanity and dignity. To say all religions are equal is a politically correct statement but the naked truth is all religions are equal but Islam is not- it’s a spirit-destroying cult. If the Hindu guy is good, change your religion and marry him. This is the best opportunity for you to escape the cult.
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10357
//it’s a spirit-destroying cult. If the Hindu guy isgood, change your religion and marry him. This is the best opportunity for you to escape thecult.//
you cant prove it !! 😀
Admin can i post their (Rifa’s and rajaths) pics here.
I can’t find any option for posting pics. How do i post on this blog?
It is Rifa’s and rajaths has to decide. If they approach us, we will be glad to post their photos. If those photos are on any public forum or facebook (even your own FB), you may post that URL link here. We need to preserve their identity and privacy but you may have liberty (to post URLs).
Admin, previously i had told u about my friends Rifa Ali and Rajath,hope u remember. They got married today in Arya samaj.
Hi Kumar-S, Can you find out one point, do the girl must convert to Hinduism for this Hindu-Muslim marriage? If not, how can they file under Hindu marriage Act? Are they in India or abroad? Do the girl don’t have any problem converting? If Rifa Ali wishes to teach Islam to her children, will Rajath have any problem? Can you ask and let us know at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10332
dear admin, for marriage purpose she has become a hindu. Later i donno whether she’ll follow Hinduism or islam.
Why can’t you have the Special Marriage Act 1954? Let her be what she wants to and share two faiths for your children. What is wrong with it?
Now admin, why you are not shouting like love jihad?
Dr.Shaikh,
Mac like person who has a negative mentality against females, will always do their level best to discourage muslim girls to marry outside their faith.Such persons do not like muslim girls to live blissfully.They do not want females to take their life decision and enjoy pleasure of life like males. That is the main problem with islamic males. They can keep 4 wives, give them talak orally,put them under restrictions,rape victims has to prove it by 4 eye witnesses, halala, taqiyya are all evil practices against females.
Nice to find that you are doctor,there will not be any problem for you to marry your BF. Me too a muslim girl, faced a lot of problems and ultimately thank God I got a life partner from Hindu religion, who pursuaded me to acquire qualificayion in computer science with specialisation in cyber crimes and forensic matters. Now I am a software engineer with one son.My Hindu husband never hurt my feelings, honoured always my sentiments and I too take part in Hindu religous rituals.
Be bold, take your own decision of life. Never trust on Mullas, Maulvies or Mac like persons,they are greatest enemy of muslim girls.
May almighty bless you always.
dear chand osmani, with all due respect i disagree with you, i don`t think mac is evil minded person against muslim girls, what he stated were words of quran and i thank him and others for letting me know about my religion and why i cannot marry a hindu guy under normal circumstances. I have read all the comments of mac in the forum made for jainab and found nothing against muslim girl, while i found plenty of hateful comments from your side against islam.
I want to know how you got married with your hindu lover and how you managed your parents and interfaith marriage life.
thanks.
Jainab,
Stop saying you are not educated, you are more educated than most here. You have superb expression power than touch every one’s heart. You should plan to be a writer and thus you could serve this world. We need more people like you. Best wishes.
Dr. Sheikh, we have removed your first name from all over for your protection. On any public forum, it is not a good idea to go with too much personal details (name, city, etc). Mac will come back and will teach you what you should do. Actually he was also in love relationship with a Hindu girl and his father married a Hindu girl. Lets see what he has to say to you, wait!