Heerat Fatima says (Jan 15, 2024):
I am a Muslim girl and I had a Hindu boyfriend . We were together for around 5 years. Recently, he left me because he thought he couldn’t convince his family for marriage. Earlier when we were together he asked me to convert to Hinduism to which I accepted. Basically I was so blind in love that I agreed to everything that was needed for the relationship to work. But even though after I agreed to do everything , practically begged him to stay with me he still left.
Earlier he said that he wished to just talk to me like friends to which I agreed because I loved him so much that I just wanted to keep him in my life anyway. He did love me dearly I know that. This happened a few months ago when he broke up forcibly with me. Since then I had beed trying to convince him somehow, cry, beg and do everything that I could to make him stay but in the last 15 days he had become very rude towards me.
I was hurt by his behaviour until one day he just blocked me from everywhere. Later he unblocked me but I was very very hurt by this behaviour. I never texted him after that. Can you advise me how should I deal with this situation? -Fatima
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Sister. I’m very sad to hear that . However you’re not the only muslim girls victim to these dharma following psycho paths.
In India and abroad these dharmist are actively participating and funding to trap muslim women from privileged family into the never ending torture of Muslim women.
You have no mistakes and you’re not fault of anything. You liked a guy and you loved him. Most of these guys love to talk about religion and argue how Muslims don’t accept them because they do idol worship which put you in a guilt as to how Allah would “forbade us in marrying polytheists” ? Aren’t they human? And then examples like Mahatma Gandhi would come and questions would arise like won’t be go to Jannah just because he was polytheists. However if you dig deeper most of these aryans look at muslims as “sexual objects” rather than a human. You’ll hear words like “halala” “mutah” and many such evil customs which completely forbidden but they will bring references from Indian hindu news papers as to how muslim woman are suffering at the hand of muslims much like America spread in their country whenever they wanna invade middle East.
Having said that ,80% of muslims women married to these polytheists are converted within just first 5 years. From asking them wearing sindoor as a cultural things to offering pujas as a family thing and you’ll suddenly see you’re no more a wife to a man who you loved but as someone whom he take pleasure in as triumph over muslim community.
As a fellow human, I’d say 5 years that you’ve spent with him is nothing like the years that will have come to you if you’re married. He’d not even asked him to convert in the first place. To these aryans religion isn’t spiritual things, but a patriarchal thing and their obsession with muslim women is arisen from the fictional revenge narrative as muslims have ruled them over 900 years..
So I’ll just ask you to don’t look back . I know it must be difficult. But it’s better for your spiritual and physical well being.
Dear Fatima, this is very sad. Inspite of you trying to do everything to accomodate him, he is not interested. Five years is a long time of your life to waste like this.
This is a common problem we have seen. The boys are like lion in front of his girl friend but is like a goat in front of his parents. They don’t have guts to speak out truth against their parents. We wish he talked to his parents first before falling in love with you.
If he is a mommy’s boy, why you want to marry such person? After marriage, your mother-in-law will rule over your life. He will not be there to defend you. It is dangerous to marry such a person anyways.
You should not have agreed to change your religion. You remain who you are. Ideally he should respect you for who you are and protect you from others your relationship. As sad it is, in a way, this is good that you are not getting stuck with a wrong guy.