Flora says: August 17, 2012 at 11:00 pm
Admin says:
Hi Flora,
Do not rush to make any decision. Take a year or two to make up your mind. Can you tell us answers to these thirteen questions and let us know if your marriage will be (this) or [that]?
You mentioned, “his family knows about me and they have accepted me even his relatives know about me and have accepted me.” Is this a conditional love? Meaning they accepted you assuming me you will convert to Islam? It is highly likely this will change as soon as you tell them “I am a Sikh and will die as a Sikh”. If they cannot tolerate a “Sikh” in their life, why will you want to associate with them. On the other hand, go with that Muslim guy if he truly loves you for what you are, that is a Sikh (read Salman&Amrita).
We will talk more after we hear from you. Get back to us soon.
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I can't prefer my love over my (Islam) religion
I found this site very late I guess, I’m 27 years old Sikh Amrithdhari man, my height is 6ft, I do workout, my skin color is white I’m not bragging about my body but if outside appearance only does matter then there’s nothing wrong with my body. However, according to this question it is obvious that Sikh girls don’t like Sikh boys and I’m saying this from my experience. In Sikhism same teaching given to men and women, there is no gender differences but Sikh girls have nothing to do with religion, culture and Sikh principles, they just want to go with the flow and concern only to fulfil their sxual desires….. Before 1984 mostly Sikh girls prefer Sikh boys only because Sikhs were far ahead from other communities in terms of religion, money, culture, tradition they were in majority Therefore Indian government (Hindu government) has always been jealous of Sikh community that’s why they did everything to put us down, they used their mind games, political power and finally used their arm forces. They killed lakhs of Sikhs, looted Punjab, raped women, even evil himself sank through the floor watching that inhumanity against Sikhs… However, you can see the transformation of these so called “Sikh Girls” gradually they started to abandon Sikhi they are getting married to Hindus, Muslims and they prefer clean shaven punjabi munde. Now they don’t want anyone with turban and beard and Amritdhari Sikhs are forbidden for them. So woman has nothing to do with religion, the purpose of women on this earth only having sex and sex goes there where is money and power. So those Sikhs who are whining like me then you should have your own country to keep your women in your hand, but you lost your opportunity and now we will continue pay the price.
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Because Sikh boys v change ho Gaye… Oh drugs krn lag Gaye, dowery demand krn lag Gaye, job krn wali working girl di search ch rehnde aa… Bohat sare amritdari boys v nam de amritdari ban gaye… Amrit chak k v ego rakhde aa, Dil ch kuch, upro kuch hunde aa… So aj kal de amritdari nu dekh k, gals confuse ho jandiyea, ki trust kita jave ya na kita jave… Pehla apniyea kmiyea dekho.. fer Sikh gals nu Galt bolo… Islam ch Alha wale true Muslims mil jande aa, hindu ch Ram wale suche hindu mil jande aa, sikha ch waheguru nal dilo krn wale young Munde Ni milde… Jo brave hon… party pub te club ch drink karde aa, drink krn ch apni izat samjde aa, Sikh brave hona chahida jo Guru Gobind Singh ji ne bnayea c…aj kal de munde umeed Jada rakhde aa, kudi job v kre, ghar Da Kam v kre, bache v sambe, os de parents v sambe, te raat nu gala v sune, ki tu kardi ki aa…. is lai sikhi khatre ch h, kyuki gals di Izat nehi karde… Bohat kt ne, jo true sikh aa, jo gals nu love te respect dinde aa… boys girl friend or drugs ch fasse chuke aa, sikhi bhul chuke aa… Guru Gobind Singh ji ne Sanu sher bnayea c… te asi ghidha wali life spend kar rhe aa, kise dusre ch sikh kom kmi na dekhe… Kmi Sade ch aa gai aa, kise dusre di galti nehi, sadi kom di galti aa… Ashiqi te Nashe cho nikLo… Guru de Singh bno pehla… Fer gals v proud feel kardi yea, ki Sara viha kise guru de sher puter nal hoyea… Apni ch talent create kro… Gal turban di nehi.. gal nature di aa… Kudi os nal pyar kardi aa, jo os nu respect love or time deve… Sikha ch ini ego aa… Ki Apne AAP te negetive proud Jada feel karde aa, guru de dse tarike nal life spend nehi karde… Dil ch gussa, hankar… te upro upro ram… EY problem aa kom di… Sada Guru Granth Sahib mahan hai… But sadi soch Guru Granth Sahib vargi nehi… Muslim bohat sare mil Jan ge jo Quran de according life spend krde aa, charistian v mil jan ge, jo Bible de according rehnde aa… Sikh koi virla hovega… Jo guru Granth Sahib de according Chalde aa… Amrit chak k koi guru wala nehi ban janda… Amrit chak k, os nu follow krn wala Guru wala hunda…
Mai janda tennu ki chaida, tennu bs katta hu lunn chaida or tu jandi aa teri hawas koi mulla hi utaar sakuga gashtiye
get married dnt change the religion
I and my love (sikh girl) met in our school and now i’m in college and we’re still together unfortunatel her family don’t like and i feel really bad about it ? . We want to marry but we are too young to marry each other #19 and 18 . His father warns me many time but its not my fault that i love her and she love me too . We’re together since 2015 it alomost going to be 3rd year after 1/4 yr . I am not really religious i’m an open minded boy i don’t think these days religion is not for peace and love according to our country peeps religion is used for beat someone up like everyone is doing nowdays ah so irritating . If i and my love success in our marriage dream i’m not going live in this country . Coz country is heaven but people is like hell #remain peaceful
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I have a sikh girlfriend she is married shebis only 26
And husband is 52 she realy hates him cause he is fat
And dirty and lazy and cant satisfy her needs she frll in
Love with me and we are now together since 4 years
And i am banging her 3 or 4 times a weeks
I also tell u sikhs if u become fat hairy and smelly
And small lulis
Your womens will run and prefer muslim boys
Coz they treat them with respect and satisfy their sexual
Needs
Which u sikh cant do
Heaven‐Goer!!!
This shows you are not a Muslim, I am surprise of your cheap mentality.
Respect each religion
it is not true that Muslim boys cannot love sikh girls just an example of poonch Muslim boys do everything for his love because poonch boys are brave and true lovers
Sikh girls are not able to marry Muslim boy because sikh cannot keep themselv clean cannot cut hairs but in Islam Muslim boys and girls cut hairs if a sikh girl want to marry Muslim guy she have to follow all the rules of Islam why why Jammu Kashmir sikh girls run away with Muslim boys because they are clean dashing handsome and true lovers ! Poonch
Are you mad manpreet?????????????????????????
How you can take the side of muslims who r liers
Plz kaur stop this type of activities because sikh beleives to help others not to marry others or change religion .
I am a sikh boy there are many girls who are my close friends when i ask her who is ur dream boy she tell he should not to be a sikh my ques. Why? she tells jst bcoz of there personality, they have attitude ……..
Brother then avoid such girls, if men make such comments on women then they will be labelled misogynist, etc etc but why no tag for women/girls who judge men on their faith/look?
i am a muslim and i married a sikh girl . her parents did not accept us but mine parents agree wid dat. but now even their parents accepted our marriage v both r very happy and even our parents to. afterall parents do love their children …
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Kuli nafsin zaiqa tul moot
In duniya you may be escape
But in grave and aakhirat
You will suffer
i am sikh guy today i think i world sikh girls seems to dont like sikh boys bcs may be our turban or beard look bad ,,,this is feel some time bad to me ,,,,, if somebody like someone it is personal choise upon that person,,,i have a beard and turban and some times i think girls dont like it bcs of my look,,,but i have strong feelings about my gurus hukam so some times i feel proud but some times it feel pain that sikh girls are leaving sikh boys ,,,i dont know what will future of sikhi ,,,today most girls leaving sikh boys ,,,but what we can do about it if someone love whatever is belongs to other faith,,everybody has the right to chose a good person for them …but some time we conflict between relegion and relation
Excellent points. There is always conflict between religion and love relationship.
Best for your would be to be proud of what you are. If you try to be someone who you are not, you are not going to be happy with it. We are sure there is a girl who is waiting for you somewhere. Trust yourself and stay on course. After you marry her, make her the most happy wife ever. Good luck.
Jaswinder ji sabto phla tann satsriakal ji…tussi sari sikh glz nunu blame nhi kr skde…glz like krdiya ne apni sikhhi nu..apne relgn hu..evn i olso love mah relgn..n trbun boyz..bcz aah sadda astitv saddi phchaan h…
But dear sikh girl only money or smartness actually every girl ……but dear hun assi v k kreye assi tain beard te turbun de nall he rehna ha …..like as fakeer …sikh girl shoul follow sikhi plzz …its really girl doesnt follow then none in sikhism …warning
But dear sikh girl only money or smartness actually every girl ……but dear hun assi v k kreye assi tain beard te turbun de nall he rehna ha …..like as fakeer …sikh girl shoul follow sikhi plzz …its true today girl doesnt follow sikhi if eda he chlda reha then none in sikhism …warning
…agr asii ajhe v stand ni hoye te sikhism khtm
…………ajhe v time ha ……i know a story of sikh girl in ma collage she even not know sikhi still say i m sikh queen etc …she have many relatnship with muslim then again ……her name also manpreet …
That’s the harsh truth miss.Sikh Girls hardly like sardar turbaned guys these days. Most of the beautiful Sikh girls( atleast30-40%) r running away with Hindu, Muslim guys and so we r left with arrange marraiges with average looking girls who didn’t have courage to run away. I m not saying that turbaned guys r not good looking but how many?? No body is going for ur heart these days. We Sikh guys r suffering just becos we have to take care of all the religious things and sikh girl have freedom to have sex with any clean shaven guy and then marry him or come back and marry a sardar….I have seen this bullshit a lot and now know if u r sardar then just stop thinking about gf’s and live a sadhu life by Jaap , meditation etc….
Ladies like u r rare but we can’t deny the fact that it’s truth. I have seen Numerous cases where Sikh girls r getting married to non Sikh clean shaven guys and her parents r okay with it too but then se turbaned guys feel alone and sadly dependent on our parents to get us good looking Sikh girls. We r expected to follow sikhi but girls go out, have sex with non Sikhs and marry him..hadd aa
Islam Is The Only Truth, People Who are calling it lies, just suffer from inferior complex….u people are born into and to lies.
I have been in love with a Muslim guy. We dated for a year and we didn’t really think of the consequences. I became worried that the relationship would end badly and whole family would find out and I’d bring shame on the family. When I ended it I would tell myself I didn’t need him anymore and that I would stop loving him. I always think about being with him and I never thought that he would want to stop loving me I always thought that I would end up marrying him and live with him happily ever after. He’s never made me feel like Iv’e been used or that he just wants one thing. I have always felt loved and wanted by him. I pushed him away because I was scared that it would never work out. he believes in his religion but I don’t follow a religion because I was abused in a place of worship. I feel that he has always been there for me whenever I would think about the past. He has been there for me more than my family ever have. I’m so scared of losing him forever.
Ever since he came back from Hajj I feels like he’s realized that it will never work and that he can’t be with anymore. I don’t know what to do I love him so much I don’t want to marry anyone else but I don’t want to lose my family.
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hell wid evry1 hea……
I luv a sikh girl
so wat…
Can you give more details? When are you going to get married? Is she willing to convert to Islam for your Nikaah?
Hey Guys,
İ respect the religions but please not all muslims are same and not all sikh people neither.
So, please do not generalize the situation.
İf an educated couple wants to get married they can get married, religion should not be matter.
Just respect and love eachother. People think all muslim people are very sitric and dont respect women.
No, it is not except Arab countries. There are many modern muslim contries and they mostly accept other people from other contries and to get married dont even ask them to convert their religions.The muslim people can convert their religions if they want and if they are not religious.
On the other hand, if other person wants can convert their religion to islam . The situation all up to the person.
But, if you believe the person is with you in all condition and if he/ she loves you, respects you, makes you happy, understand you, still accept you even if you hurt her/him.
These people can make you happy forever and can handle the marriage.
All muslim and sikh people love their parents, they have a good and close relation with them. But, sikh guys extremelly depents their mothers.
Please, everybody love their mother but it is your life, do not be too much mum boy, try to focus your relation.
There is a beautiful lady is waitting for you to give you all her love till forever.
Just, try to understand and give your love. Be man and do not run away.
All these thinks same for all women too.
Life is beautiful with love and respect.
If a Muslim asks for a fake-conversion for Islamic wedding, should the Sikh guy accept it (and accept a new Muslim name and have circumcision)?
How did yo managed in your life?
What are (or will be) names of children,… Arabic or Sikh-related? Will kids have circumcision? Will kids taught from Koran as well as from Guru Granth Sahib?
First of all, no one should interpret of what I have said.. (as someone has already done that) Let the girl make sense out of it herself. And I hope she is that wise..
I’m a Muslim and turned to Islam due to persuasion and not due to any ”forced conversion.”(see my second name) It is a great faith – an appealing one.. Hey girl, if you have any intrest in this faith, try to understand what the actual faith is rather than how Muslims do with this faith.. And by this I never mean other faiths are in any way shabby.. Islam says, ”show respect to other faiths.” It is more a matter one’s choice than anything. If only you find this faith appealing, it is only then you should practice it..
It is that simple.
And I feel you should not worry. You seem to be a brave girl.. I hope you believe in one God. Ask your God to help you.. I assure, God won’t disappoint you..
And last thing, please try to simplify everything.. And of your children, I hope you will have many, a daughter first hopefully — your children will come decide their faith by themselves.. I have decided it by myself – and that is not a question for now but for later.. Cheer up. And pray to God to guide you.
I send you love!
Best of Luck.
Best wishes!
Sister read this, this is from a muslim site, where they say the truth, here you will see double standard muslims telling you someting else. Never trust them, as did our forefathers
http://www.zawaj.com/askbilqis/muslim-girl-hindu-boy/
Sister its very simple, just ask him to convert to Hinduism and then marry him. You can ask him to go to any arya samaj temple. As a muslim he cannot marry you, he can only marry you if he becomes hindu.
Plus is any women in his family married to a hindu? If not then its not advisable to marry him, as he will ask you to convert, and you will lose your parents, you mom and dad who did ultimate sacrifice to make you what you are. It better if he converts to Hinduism ! the best friend of a girl child is her dad, as your dad he will never lie, your dad has seen more life than you have! Ask his he will give best advice, dont listen to those who say listen to parents, they are fool and want you to go far away from your parents.
Bye sister
you un bleaver shree nivas you are bline minde . you have a eye but you cant see ,you have a ear but cant hear. you will soon know al
Umar bhat bro,
What are you spreading, being a Muslim you know allah has ordered not to marry a kafir and specially hindu, then why are you promoting wrong islam. The muslim boy did wrong he is not following Islam, how could he even talk to Hindu? Would you marry your sister to a Hindu? Why are you promoting zina and haram for muslim boy. You are disgrace to Islam or you must be a non muslim trying to misguide people of truth.
Please stop this. This poor girl wants to marry a muslim guy, so what is wrong in it.. Hey Girl, You are in love wth this guy and like him for the way he is.. Try to take your parents in confidence.. It wld be better for you.. And if that doesn’t happen and if only you are sure that the guy will love you, all your life, respect you for whatever you are then ‘GO FOR HIM’.. If you believe he is good and nice guy, go for marriage.. You know that guy more than anyone here, on this website.. Don’t take any decision under compulsion frm your family or being blind in love.. Try to balance.. And yes, a little risk is important.. I’m sure you will not regret, provided, he loves you and you love him bck.. He will value you hopefully if he loves you.. Speak to him all fears, you have.. And you will come to know what reality is.. Take some time and pray God to show you right way..
TC.
Hello Umar,
Will you let you sister marry a Hindu boy? Is any of the women married a hindu?
Thanks
Hello brother Ajit
What’s wrong in marrying a hindu? Will you give me resons….plz friend.
Great advise, especially some of these points:
respect you for whatever you (we hope this covers no religious conversion, hope he is not trying to convert a rose to carnation)
Don’t take any decision under compulsion frm your family or being blind in love.. (yes open eyes)
Speak to him all fears, you have.. And you will come to know what reality is.. (ask him all questions about how you will marry and what will be the religion of your children)
Miss kaur Islam is not lies. What is written on anti islamic site(s)is one sided affair. All the allegations and whatever negativity is well answered by muslim scholars when they confront christian scholars or any other religions scholor. If you want the proof go and watch a debate between Dr william campbell & Dr zakir naik. Dr william is the only person in the world who being a medical doctor studied islam negatively and wrote against islam for which he got a Phd in united states. The doubts raised by all the sites and the religion is well answered by him. Even some sardars accepted islam on his hand.Go che k it fast.
Ok Mr Atish
Please explain –
1- Daniel pearl was beheaded by muslims as per quran verses, what steps did Muslims do for his safety?
2- Muslim girls getting killed frequently as per quran law, example here http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-202_162-57486298/u.k-court-finds-parents-guilty-in-honor-killing
3- explain why hindus girls are kidnapped and raped converted sold etc by muslims, in Pakistan and india.
4- explain muslims terrorist bombing uk tube train, all those were true muslims, plus same thing done in mumbai, india and other states all muslims were involved, all following quran verses.
5- explain WTC attack by muslims,
do you have any scholar now to justify these Quran approved thing?
In Muslim community there are goood muslims and bad muslims. Also, Islam and Muslim are 2 different things. You can not comment on Islam based on acts of few black sheep Muslims. They are sometimes funded by anti-muslim agencies to defame Islam. Islam is for peace and it gives immense respect to woman. for example; The hounor of mother is 3 times more than father, Islam stops woman being toy and sex, entertainment object (fashion models) by keeping them in Hijab and loyal to Husband so tht she is nt mishandeled by strange man etc… Just 15 years back Islam was not an issue for any one, but suddenly it had started by anti-Islamic consipiracy in a way by extremely highlighting few bad Muslims’s anti-social activities (which u had mentioned in question)….If you talk about Islamic terrorism, i regret it because it is anti-Humanity (anti-Islamic)…but can u answer me who had killed thousands of innoscent muslims in afghanistan, Iraq, more than 5000 muslims in Gujrat (more than WTC killing tht is 3000), who slaved 80,000 africans and 80 % were killed, who put bombs on Hiroshma, nagasaki, who started 1st nd 2ns world wars, who killed 5 million jews??..so many horrible terror attacks were done not by Muslims but won’t ask abt them because Media hd highlighted Muslims and put in ur mind. Also, WTC attack is still a mystery if was done by Muslims or Laden (65 professors from U.S. universities have proven it)…see few you tube videos…so learn to look for facts and justify it…study Islam urself and justify urself..u willget answer urself..good nd bad (muslims) are eveywhere bt Islam is different from Muslims..
The standard procedure of all Muslims is to make tall claims with out any proofs, to present most inhuman concepts as humane by giving absurd reasons – only Muslims are capable of giving those reasons, believe in conspiracy theories and make false cases to justify terrorist attacks.
You write: “The honor of mother is 3 times more than father,…..”
> I ask you where does Koran say this? If so, regarding divorce, why Islam gives custody of children to fathers instead of mothers? What is that triple talaq? More basic thing is why honor of a woman should be 3 times more than that of men? Is it to enslave women forever?
You write: “Islam stops woman being toy and sex, entertainment object (fashion models) by keeping them in Hijab and loyal to Husband so tht she is nt mishandeled by strange man etc”
> This is how Koranic verse reads (taken from Noble Koran of Hilali):
2:223 > Your wives are a tilth for you, so go to your tilth (have sexual relations with your wives in any manner as long as it is in the vagina and not in the anus), when or how you will, and send (good deeds, or ask Allah to bestow upon you pious offspring) before you for your ownselves…..
Is it the precise reason that Allah gives men the right to have 4 wives and also maintain sex slaves with out any upper limit? Look at this verse:
4:24 > Also (forbidden are) women already married, except those (captives and slaves) whom your right hands possess…..
This is what Maududi writes with respect to this verse: “Women who come as captives of war, leaving their husbands behind in Dar al-Harb (Domain of War), are not prohibited, for their marriage is nullified by virtue of their entry into Dar al-Islam (Domain of Islam)…….if they happen to be his slave-girls, he may have sexual relations with them.”
According to Koran, Muslim male is a d**k on two legs.
For escaping rape, if veil is necessary then why not cut one hand of all men so that women would be very safe. Why only this restriction of veiling on women?
Always control the externalities !
The following saying of Prophet Mohammad explains entire spectrum of Islamic terrorism:
Volume 1, Book 2, Number 25: (Bukhari)
Allah’s Apostle said: “I have been ordered (by Allah) to fight against the people until they testify that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah and that Muhammad is Allah’s Apostle, and offer the prayers perfectly and give the obligatory charity, so if they perform that, then they save their lives and property from me except for Islamic laws and then their reckoning (accounts) will be done by Allah.”
You never stop doing propaganda against Muslims. It is like their prime purpose in life and Muslims don’t even know about it. So lies so much hate preached in your faith you can’t stop the venom and hate and bile against muslims it like a drug to them.
@Kaif- do you have any single proof of whatever you write. What ever you wrote is just a propaganda( or false claims ,mis information) that you are spreading.
Your quran says who ever is following quran is called muslim, so we will look at what muslims do to determine how god or bad a religion is.
similarly if is say dont compare hindus action but study Hinduism, you won’t do that- you wont use your own medicine.
Supreme court of india says muslims did killing first, riots were retaliation, govt did what it could, so you now have a problem with that?
We non muslim do not run any organization that is anti muslim, its in your head, rss bjp bajrang dal helped several muslims in them, you won’t tell that, hypocrisy is visible Mr.
what ever us, isreal and other countries do…did you see Why they did that? Muslims started it first all others are just self protecting their countries. And do you have any trusted proof and not from fake YouTube vidoes, 90% of time its muslims who MAKE conspiracy theory.
Hi Flora
I also in same situation.i don’t know wht to do i am staying with him since 5yrs. u can realize how much i habitual for him he love me more than his family.i didn’t tell anything to my family abt him and my family re looking for guy for my marriage.i am totally blank seriously why this situation is come across me only
He loves you, it is good.
But you should not marry. Leave him.
you can however be good to each other, but no affair like relation at all.
Be friendly, take care of each other.
you will get a good boy to marry.
Hello brother Amir
How can you simply say that forget the person whom you loved very much?
Does marriages are made for the sake of religion and states or for the sake of two hearts with which you are making a very very happy life?…..Don’t feel this in a wrong way brother…i just want to make sure about your opinion…..think it twice before your reply…..sorry if I make you angry
why not marry him, just ensure he Does lovea you, and secondly how much musim he is currently, if he is moderate and will remain the same ita great, his family must be moderate and liberal too- if you want your marriage to work. Majority problem arises when the guy or the girl become suddenly strict muslim followers. If he married you without asking you to convert then he will later, then you would be mom and will have no choice. best is to ask him if its ok that his sister ia marrying a sikh, would that be ok for him-judge in his response, that’s answer is yours.
If he IS a devoted or WILL BE a devoted Muslim- leave him immediately. Its against their quran to have ANY relationship with kafir girls, even then if he wants relation, its purely because he has intention to convert you, may be by persuasive or manipulation ( talking evangelical talk about how good Islam is etc, and/or manipulate – will say no need to convert, but after marriages, he will ask you too convert this ia most trick. Many girls have lost there everything .
Be intelligent and always spend time with your parent, family, they are your best guide, they have unconditional love for you.
Rani,
You are not alone, there are many many (millions?) women like you. Do you have to change your religion to marry him? If you do convert, be sincere to Islam, do not FAKE-convert.
We recommend you read Hindu Girl and ask him to read Muslim Boy. Get back to us with what you wish to do. Best wishes.
hi,
girl must read sukhmani sahib. she will know everything. she will not marry with any muslim. pls read sukhmani sahib
The media and the community put me right off Islam. All muslims were labelled as bad in my community and as much as sikhi teaches love not hate, more sikhs hate muslims than vice versa. This led me on to the best journey of discovering the truth. The foundations of sikhi actually comes from Islam, yet sikhs criticise the islamic faith, yes muslims also criticise the sikh faith, but let’s be realistic, don’t judge any faith by observing a group from within a community, read the sources, Quran and GGS, infact the GGS has many hymns from muslims within it? So should these hymns be scrapped? Guru Nanak went to mecca as a sign of respect to muslims, does this mean that Islam should be insulted by sikhs? No one should insult any religion. We all live in the same world, let’s tolerate each other and live for the cause of peace.
JC- your are a correct and truthful guy. But believe that fire does not starts by itself. Did you ever dig deep why Sikhs hate, Muslims more- simple -if I am a thief and i rob you everyday, and when you come to ask your things back i stab you,And you cant take that violent road because you are peaceful, and have a family and have better life. Tell me would you hate them more or will they hate you more?
Second – take this to next level, imagine this is happening and the govt is favoring them- who is really pissed? You or thief?
worldly politics is too complex for a common man.
@jc,
I am looking at certain things you said. If you care to, please answer some of my queries ! Would you?
“The media and the community put me right off Islam.”
Please tell me how media put you right off Islam? Most of the time, media conceals violent Jihad of Muslims.Can you tell me why media, which ridicules all Non-Islamic faiths in one or the other way, literally stay away from criticizing Islam?
“All muslims were labelled as bad in my community and as much as sikhi teaches love not hate, more sikhs hate muslims than vice versa.”
Is it the reason that Sikhs completely disappeared from Pakistan?
Do you know that hating Non-Muslims and their faiths is mandatory for all Muslims, according to Koran and words and deeds of Mohammad?
“This led me on to the best journey of discovering the truth.”
Where did that journey began and ended?
“The foundations of sikhi actually comes from Islam, yet sikhs criticise the islamic faith, yes muslims also criticise the sikh faith,…”
How does that alter reality? Sikhs are still kafirs. How come criticizing Islam be a criminal activity that too when Islam commands Muslims to fight and subjugate all Non-Muslims?
“……but let’s be realistic, don’t judge any faith by observing a group from within a community,…..”
But, you already judged the community of Sikhs based on what few Sikhs said about Islam….OR…is it that you asked each and every Sikh in person before coming to your views !
How large any group be to make a judgment? Do you know that Muslim terrorists, the group of Muslims – you are asking not to refer to, quote verses from Koran and sayings of Mohammad in justification of their abominable crimes?
If you are so insistent on the sizes of groups, then how about this: Consistent opinion polls by Pew have shown that 90% of Muslims in Pakistan support death penalty for apostates i.e. Muslims leaving Islam should be killed.
I can even put the whole thing in another angle: How many times you have seen so called peaceful Muslims holding rallies condemning murderous activities of Muslim terrorists or most importantly speaking against all that discrimination and dehumanization Non-Muslims suffer at the hands of Muslims and Islamic nations in their constitutions?
“…..read the sources, Quran ….”
This is what I always say and ask people to do: Learn through their own eyes by reading Koran.
Did you read Koran?
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“…..Guru Nanak went to mecca as a sign of respect to muslims,….”
I can equally say that Guru Nanak did not convert to Islam.
“……….No one should insult any religion. We all live in the same world, let’s tolerate each other and live for the cause of peace.”
Please do not confuse the words. Criticizing Islam is not same as insulting Islam and Muslims.
Saying the truth about teachings of Koran is not insulting. If I quote verses from Koran, how could this be considered as insulting Koran and Islam? If I quote what Muslims are saying how could that be considered as insulting?
Do you know how Koran and Islam understand the word tolerance?
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I know that you will not answer any of questions. You will simply come around the real issue by saying I am communal and hatemonger…… blah blah blah….
I’m a Muslim girl married to a Sikh boy, we’ve been happily married for ten years now, and have two beautiful kids.
Neither of us converted, and none of our parents have disowned us. They may not have been happy at the beginning, but are very accepting on both sides.
The only thing I would recommend u not to go ahead with it and so would my husband is, the religious differences in religion and faith with ur children. But in saying so, Muslim and Sikh fundamentals have more similarities, than that with Hinduism.
Mariam,
Can you elaborate on why “not to go with it”?
What do you teach to your children about -who is the God? Who is Allah? Who is Muhammod and Guru Nanak? Do you take them to gurudwaras and to dargas?
Come back to guide others. Best wishes.
i like sikh girl..
i want marry with sikh girl..
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just One question – is it fine for him and his family to marry their daughter to a Hindu guy? Did any of his family girl married a hindu boy? Just ask him and meet her, you will know the truth. Your parents can accept him if he converts to shikh religion, cant he do thus much for you mom dads happiness ? If he cant, my friend you are in a very big problem-dump him and move on.
hey, u just making her confused. she needs ur help for getting her love not for breaking up her relation.
so dont give this type of comment.
We are helping her by opening her eye and ears to the evil of that muslim boy. I have seen how you guys help muslim girls when they want to marry a hindu guy. Compare your help and ours, ours does not involve killing the girl. Alright… so think before you write smarty!
You sound deluded. They’ve accepted you because by converting you, they get a free ticket to heaven and money. Has he ever been to a gurdwara with you, or for that matter when was the last time you went?
I think they are afraid of this happening, if you can’t open the link go to “Love Jihad Sikh Meat” on youtube… http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=U3pdKsVI4CY
Sikhs never stop doing propaganda against Muslims. It is like their prime purpose in life and Muslims don’t even know about it. So lies so much hate preached in Sikhism and half of the faith Muslim but they can’t stop it like a drug to them.
Hi Flora,
1. Since you have good relation with his family; ask them if they respect your father/mother with Shikh Faith?
2. Do they think your family is living in Hell becouse they have not excepted Islam?
3. Will they ever have problem with your father/mothers’s Shikh faith.
4. Do they consider your father/mother Kafirs (useless humans)?
5. Would they ever have desire to have your family to do Namaz (Islamic preyer) with them?
5. Are they going to accept $20000 from their special community funds which is aworded to muslim boy for bringing a non-musilm girl into Islam?
Mr. Deelipkumar
1. Islam says respect every people irrespective of their faith.
However respect people and not their faith. Not all faith with different principles can be same or equal. right?
So respecting people does not mean, say everything they do or believe is right. explore what is correct by study of different religion and find out truth.
2. The people who reject faith for them this life has made as heaven. but after they die they won’t enter into paradise and put into fire of Hell, which is everlasting . So it becomes duty of every muslim to help everyone save from fire. If they don’t understand , muslims will not be considered accountable for it, as they did what was ordered fulfilled thier responsibility.
3. Muslims never have problem with other faiths, but they know others are living in darkness so they try help them come out.
4. Kafir is a person who rejects truth. You have wrongly written it as “useless person”.
5. Namaz is obligatory for every muslim but not to others. First learn Islam then offer Namaz. If you don’t believe in Oneness of God and Messanger of Islam then your Namaz has no worth.
6. There is no such fund. It is all crap. Faith can only be obtained by learning, reading,feeling and observing.
No person can be made accept any faith by use of power. It is prohibited in Islam.
All lies, go read answeringislam.com
Gud kaur ..u r realy kaur