Poonam says: July 2, 2014 at 9:23 am
hi i am hindu girl getting marry to christen tamil boy . i dint want take baptisum coz i dont belive on castisum suggest me somepoints where i can make him understand that i dont want to fight -Poonam
Admin says:
Hi Poonam,
You made a good point, “i dont belive on castism”, however these Christians are doing exactly the same. They are labeling people for who is sinner and who is not based on their baptism.
You also said, “i dont want to fight” but that does not mean you should be submissive like Akansha. Tell him that you are what you are and that you will never get baptized.
Your best option is to marry by the Special Marriage Act. However, he will insist on your marriage in their church, meaning you have to convert to Christianity. If you remain firm, then later he will submit to your request. What your parents have to say for the marriage? Let us know what other help you need. -Admin
poonam says: July 2, 2014 at 9:19 pm
thank you very much for the help that you suggested the marriage act however the boy never wanted me to meet his parents now i told him we will have to complete formality by meeting Ur parents he took me to meet his parents now he is saying get baptism cause he was aggri for court marriage now hi is not aggri.
i told him human is more important than the cast for me and God is a positive energy it is not that you should compare i hate comparison too just for the seck of marriage you canot forse a person to get baptism .. hi said if we do court marriage my parents will not be treated in good way in church and the boy whom i am getting marry will not be allowed in other church … i askd him is your God says that if you love other cast person you are not allowed to come into church is your god says you have to get girl converted into christen the baptisum process will just give certificate that i am baptise who will change the Blood that is there in my body which is of brahamin family uska koi certificate doo jo ye bol iska khoon ab christen hogaya -Poonam
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Dear Admin,
Like Poonam, I’m a Hindu girl and my boy friend is a Mallyalam Protestant Christian. We’ve been dating for one and a half years now. We are madly in love and we get along really well. His parents are conservative and they like this girl for him and they want him to get married to her. Even the girls parents are happy with it. There are still 4-5 years until he gets married but they are pressurising him from right now. He tried telling his mother about getting married to a Hindu girl and she’s dead against it without even meeting me. I believe in God but not in religion. So I don’t mind being baptised if I have to. I really don’t know what to do. Should we fight for it (knowing his parents are dead against it) or let it fade away (which is extremely difficult). Please help.
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