sumit says: May 20, 2013 at 6:05 am
I met a paki girl some yrs bk on net n we chatted ever since.she fell in love with me which she admits all the time.I left for US for job n soon she told me about her forced marriage to her czn who os 12 yrs older than her.I wished her happy marrid life but now she has started to contact me n wants me to take her away from ther in l@ws house as she is very un happy.But i am happily married myself which i told her but she doesnt care n wants me to marry her n provide her seperate accomodation as its alowd in her relign .i am in a fix.She doesnt have any kids yet.I hav soft corner for hrr n cant ignore her .wat to do ?
Admin says:
Grass is greener on the other side, why? Because one does not see weeds from at a distance.
It is okay to fantasize life and dream of things that is not real. However, if you dreamt of kicking your wife out of your happy married life, upset all your friends and relatives, try to run away with a married Muslim women in India and marry her without her talaak; …..you are truly a good dreamer. Even you be fully successful doing all these, later you may realize that your current wife was better in many respects compared to your new Muslim wife. Then you would dream of kicking this Muslim out of your life. Are you out buying potato, Wake up!
You said you are happily married, and still keep chatting with your old girl friend. This is sin. You are not only cheating your wife, but you are also giving that Paki girl a wrong message. Because of your lies, she cannot focus on her own married life. So you are out ruining two married lives.
You said, “marry her n provide her seperate accomodation as its alowd in her relign”, that is not possible legally in Hinduism i India nor for any faith in the USA. So move to India and convert to Islam. For now, your wife will not stay with you for one extra day when she will find out all these.
If her husband and community find out that you came to India to run away with this married woman, they will kill you right there. If not the Muslim community, Indian police will put you in prison, till you get your senses back.
You are not helping the gf by keeping in contact; you are actually hurting her. You are only fulfilling your sexual fantasy, that’s all. If you really want to help her, stop chatting with her. It will be very hard for her, but you are truly helping her.
sumit says: May 22, 2013 at 4:35 am
she says she can come to dubai or singapore on her own and wants me to meet up there.she plans to go in june.I tried to persuade her not to take a harsh step and reconcile with her husbnd but she is very adamant n free spirited girl.since she studied in a convent she is more liberal but i think her husband is very orthodox n they fight a lot.I told her that i can get her a accomodated in US as my guest or friend but i am afraid my wife wl find out her reality.I told her to find some other guy n marry him but she wants me to marry her.She says she wl convert to hinduism if i want.She is saying tat i wl be responsible if she killed herself coz i didnt help her.Thing is even her frnds in pak wont help her in this situation i think.I feel very bad if i dont help her out ,
as being a devout hindu i believe in good karma .Its a very difficult situation for me .I think i wl tell my wife tat i am goin to help her but wl not reveal her intentions.Atleast bring her to US n then think abt the rest as it happens.
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Hello GIG,
it is upto you to adopt any religion. Can you tell, following Muhammad,s teachings, will you marry your 6 years old daugther to a 59 years old man? and send her to a maulvi for learning teachings of Koran, no matter she is sexually abused?
Hello readers,
There is no hitch
Zahid son of a bitch,
She got 9 mutta marriages,
had 115 illegal miscarriages,
Zahid habitual of sodomyzing,
to get asshole maximizing,
Madharchod,
Kutte ki aulad
Sumit Bhai,
Please go ahead with your good karma and don’t be trapped in a whirlpool of transitory emotions. Sometimes, it’s hard to differentiate between good and bad karma. Stick to your vow taken while marrying your present wife who is part of your body. At the same time, you cannot neglect this woman as well because she seems to depend on you for her guidance. So, you must go an extra mile to help her out of embroglio. My suggestions are as follows:
1. Tell her in no uncertain words that you cannot marry her in this life but have love for her well-being.
2. Find a good unmarried friend who can marry her.
3. Propose her to be with your friend if she likes.
4. Again make it clear to her that it’s the only solution you have for her.
This way you can help her without antagonising your better half and heaping up bad karmas.
Summit,
When you met her in Delhi, did she discussed relations with your forever?
Can she disown her parents? I apprehend that she might prove a problematic issue for you in future.
Stop all sorts of interaction with her.
Zahid son of a bitch,
you are here also?
Madharchod
mugay lagta hain ki aap kay brothers madarchood aur kutay ki awlad hain
Hi Sumit,
Have you ever met her?
Is she in touch with you before your marriage?
What is her interest in your particularly, could you ever guessed?
We knw each other long b4 she got married.Sabah is from sialkot n her family came to visit some relatives in delhi n we met then.
have you converted to christianity
Also remember brother that a girl who can bully u at this point will churn u emotionally and mentally in future. Those who use suicide as a wepon to get something are the last ones who kill themselves. Honestly, they just love themselves. She has a tinch of psychotic disorder within her personality. If u do not end all communications with her u will be responsible for spoiling your life, your wifes life and ruine your family. I myself have been thru hell with a muslim. Trust me if u can, she will say a yes to everything right now. But believe me time will prove how wrong you have been. May lord shiva bestow u with th power of deciding appropriately!
Dear brother, iv I have heard that life gives us challenges but here I see that you are challenging life. Firstly, I agree with admin when he says that you are a good dreamer…u certainly r! U r short sighted. U are not able to imagine what all you will face if u actually turn your dream into reality. Are you ok giving up you religion, identity, family, friends and everything that you have made over the years? U r concerned bout this woman, but what bout the woman who is your “ardhangini”? You have forgoten tht you took vows with her. She gave up her family to make ur family….is it not your duty to be loyal, loving and honest to her? Forget bout what we all tell u and suggest. You just close your eyes and ask god for guidence….the first voice that comes from your conscience will be the answer. If u really wanna help someone then go and help a needy kid..who dznt have parents, help an injured animal..whoz soul will bless u immensly, help old people..who have been deserted. But don’t try to fool yourself by believeing that you are helping this woman…u are only giving wings to your fantasies at the cost of all the beautiful reality that you have before u. May Lord Shiva bless u and show you the right path and may you understand how pious “marriage” is. OM NAMAH SHIVAYE!!!
she says she can come to dubai or singapore on her own and wants me to meet up there.she plans to go in june.I tried to persuade her not to take a harsh step and reconcile with her husbnd but she is very adamant n free spirited girl.since she studied in a convent she is more liberal but i think her husband is very orthodox n they fight a lot.I told her that i can get her a accomodated in US as my guest or friend but i am afraid my wife wl find out her reality.I told her to find some other guy n marry him but she wants me to marry her.She says she wl convert to hinduism if i want.She is saying tat i wl be responsible if she killed herself coz i didnt help her.Thing is even her frnds in pak wont help her in this situation i think.I feel very bad if i dont help her out ,as being a devout hindu i believe in good karma .Its a very difficult situation for me .I think i wl tell my wife tat i am goin to help her but wl not reveal her intentions.Atleast bring her to US n then think abt the rest as it happens.
Sumit,
– You are continuing a relationship outside marriage even after your marriage with another girl. I am not sure which religion or ethics you follow. This is unethical.
– She is only trying to take advantage of your friendship. She knows very well that you are married and she is also married. If she is not happy with her marriage, she could have asked you as a friend ( not by marrying ). As a friend, you can provide directions or guidance.
– If she is blackmailing that you are responsible for not helping her, that shows her mindset. If your wife cannot tolerate this relation and some thing happens ( god forbid ), who is going to be responsible?
My advice is FORGET HER. You have never met her in person and she is only an acquaintance over net. If you continue this relationship any further, you will be responsible for making your ( as well as your near & dear ) life miserable.
Tenali,
Excellent advise.
To have a secret affair with another girl is not good karma. This is not what any religion is teaching. Go tell your wife every thing, honestly. What ever you help your gf, do it with support of your wife only. Do not ruin two family lives.
Dear Sumit,
Man, you are talking about good karma.
I don’t see any here. You met that girl over internet and now suddenly you are all set to spoil the life of your wife(is this the good karma you’re talking about?), as far as helping her, i guess if you continue to chat with her, you won’t help her. So I advise you to forget her and look about the problems that you might have with your wife cuz thats the only reason you are fantasizing about some other girl.
May god help you!!
Is that married girl GIG who is not happy at all?
Zahida, really how old are you? 10? You make very retarded comments
Sumit,
You will land in deep trouble. Forget her, you will not stand any where in the world.
How can you keep her in a separate house?
Get rid of her ASAP.
God bless you.