Rahul says: April 24, 2013 at 9:58 pm
Kartar, congratulations for choosing a truly loveable person, I would only pray for your marriage with that girl. You can however ask her to remain Muslim or if she is ready to convert, its her wish, but not matter what….marry her and keep her happy.
I had many Muslim friends (girls), the only thing I have noticed is that they are very good in nature, but almost all of them are afraid of there parents, they feel the father will disown them if they marry any one other than their parents wish. In my opinion, in this situations its the girls right to marry whom she loves.
Muslims girls are very courageous, I had a girlfriend who was a Sunni Muslim, she was in my colleges, she was like a proper Muslim girl, in burka and nakab, many boys were after her, but I got her. We were very close, once her dad saw us and I was introduced to him by that girl. Next day she told me what her father (who met me with a smile) told her that I’m not good person, she should be away from me blah…blah blah… The reason he gave was that I was a Hindu. I mean what the hell is this logic, being a Hindu means bad? Who told her father that I was like that?
….so point is that girl was sensible, she had more friends than me, there were less Muslim friends of her than Hindus, so she knew her father was not right. For some other reason we had to leave each other, but we are still friends, we meet etc…but reading your story I understand how you are feeling now, so all my best wishes for you.
By the way this site is quite interesting, I can see some Muslims fundamentalists vs secular people war going on, I never thought Muslims can be so fundamentalists and illogical, if most of the Muslims think like those Muslims who comment against any religion, then why did they not go to Pakistan? India was a secular country, will be secular. Strange world with Muslims they are always wrong, yet shout for un necessary things, as if Christians, Hindus are eating them. -Rahul
Admin says:
Rahul,
You have made many excellent points. These Muslim youths know all issues with Islam. They love Hindu’s pluralistic teachings (Isvar Allah hero nam) and that is why they get attracted to Hindus. Further, they know that in married life, almost most all Hindus will allow them to remain “who they are” without much restrictions. But in spite of all these good gestures by the Hindu counter part, ultimately these so called educated Muslims youths play an unfair and unjust game, and will ask the Hindu to convert to Islam. What a shame!
What an irony, they loved the pluralistic Hindu but ultimately they will wish them to convert to be an exclusivist! If ultimately they wish the Hindu bf/gf to convert to Islam, why they did not date a pure Muslim to start with? Are they love-proselytizers? This is certainly a dirty game being played all over and must end. -Admin.
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Excellent observations expressed by the Admin above. It’s the panacea for all the interfaith marriages. It’s the one every Muslim girl/boy should think over and over again.
Thanks.
Islam is a religion of various evils against humanity, like Terror, Jihad, Mutta marriages, Halala, Female genital mutiliation, stoning to death, blasphemy attrocities, concept of keeping 4 wives, tempting youth to have 72 virgins for sex in heaven for killing innocents, burka for women, proving virginity by bleeding on wedding night and display of bloody bed sheets, treating women just a sex toy, no identity cards, sex with dead wife, rapist being glorified as messanger of God?
Is it a religion? certainly an ideology of all sorts of evils?