Could not pull with Muslim due to maltreatment

Yasmeen says: April 24, 2013 at 12:18 pm

Hello readers,
I am Yasmeen aged 29 years old from an Asian Muslim country working in a New Zealand Shipping company, as Cargo assistant. I am deeply associated in love with an Indian Hindu boy from North India.

Earlier I was married with a Muslim guy but could not pull on with him due to maltreatment and rough behaviour and ultimately divorced.

This Hindu boy is about 39 years old, his wife died about 6 years back in an accident.
He is in the same company as Cargo Manager and we both want to marry and raise our family. I have read so many evils on this site about miserable condition of women in Islam and males enjoy all types of freedom. In New Zealand Muslims are seen as suspected terrorists and therefore I have decided to leave the Islam and adopt Hinduism after marriage.

Any suggestion? Please. Those propagating Islamic practices need not to give their comments. –Yasmeen

Admin says:

Yasmeen,
You are on a right track for haven in THIS life, except two points:

1) Do not adopt Hinduism just because “In New Zealand Muslims are seen as suspected terrorists”. Let people say what ever for you or your beliefs; but you have to do that is right to do. Just remain free spirited. Do not get locked into some odd shaped box named “religion”. Religious institutions for their benefit and survival have created these religions. Go to all religious institutions, read the Geeta, Koran, Bible, Torah, etc as a self improvement guide. Take the best from them and leave the rest for religious fanatic. Respect all, love all and enjoy this beautiful world. You are already in heaven, just recognize it and enjoy it.

2) Do not say, “Those propagating Islamic practices need not to give their comments”. Instead, let them write what ever. It will give you an opportunity to think of the other side that you may have missed. You are educated and smart and thus could make fully “informed” decision that is right for you.

You have already read all that we have said, so we just wish you the best. Please keep us posted for development in your life over years. -Admin

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5 Comments

  • April 25, 2013 9:38 am

    Thank you Mr.Admn.

    So grateful for the moral support.

    Here I would like to add that in the Muslim community, the holy war is a religious duty, because of the universalism of the Muslim mission and the obligation to convert everybody to Islam either by persuasion or by force. The other religious groups did not have a universal mission, and the holy war was not a religious duty for them, save only for purposes of defense… Islam is under obligation to gain power over other nations.

    Muslims have to realize that half a Muslim is worse than a kafir. Only a true Muslim can be a terrorist and can terrorize the world. The litmus test is the five times prayers in a mosque where they can be seen and counted. Muhammad thought of an ingenious way to correct this situation. When Muhammad noticed some Muslims missing congregational prayers in mosque regularly, he wanted to set an example for others; he had the vermin’s burnt alive along with their houses and the families.

    “The Prophet said, “burn all those who had not left their houses for the prayer, burning them alive inside their homes.” Bukhari: 1.11.626

    In another verse Allah said about apostates “they shall be killed or crucified or their hands and feet be cut off from the opposite sides, or exiled from the land. That is their disgrace in this world; and a great torment is theirs in the hereafter.” (Surah al Maidah:Verse 33).

    The Prophet said, ‘If a Muslim discards his religion, kill him. Bukhari: 4.52.260

  • April 25, 2013 3:37 am

    Hello Admn.sir,

    I am from Liverpool, UK, working in a mall presently aged 24 years.
    When I was 17years old, my cousins raped me on a night turn by turn and fearing my life I could not speak against. It became a matter of routine
    for them observing my silence. When it became beyond tolerance I disclosed to my mother, who banged me and asked one of them to marry me. No one was prepared to marry me since I cannot bleed on wedding night.
    Since then I became a sore of eye to my parents and they wanted to get rid of me. With a great difficulty I could get a job in this mall and started living separately.

    Now I am in relationship with a sikh boy aged 25 years old, name Harnam and he wants to marry me, knowing every thing about me. Though I also love him too much and wish to marry him only, but due to guilty sense, I feel that will it not be a sin? I am prepared to leave the Islam a dirty religion and enemy of women.

    Seeking your wonderful advices please.

  • April 25, 2013 3:18 am

    Zahid amd Zunaid same person with jealous and terrorist mind set.
    I have read your reality posted by some of our learned sisters.
    Your mother is already victim of Halala and Mutta marriage.

  • zahid
    April 25, 2013 12:14 am

    A hindu using muslim name says she will convert to hinduism good joke ha ha ha
    To know position of women in islam vist
    http://www.alsiraj.net/English/misc/women/html/page01.html

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