DHARA says: August 1, 2020
Hey Hi
I am Jain girl. I love a Muslim man. We want to get married but he says I will need to convert. I feel it’s not necessary to convert but he says it is. What can we do? And also how do we convince our parents for our marriage? -Dhara
Admin says:
Dear Dhara,
You have reached to the right source. Over last 12 years, we have guided 1200 youths, just like you. We will tell you all about scriptures, social practices, parents’ thinking process, interfaith laws and more. Consider this as your one-stop guidance place.
Interfaith marriages are like walking on fire. Don’t get scared, we will walk with you. If you manage it well, you can have a very happy everlasting married life, even that is interfaith. It is critical that you be open to us and provide necessary details before we can be effective in guiding you.
Please tell us:
1) How long have you been in this love relationship?
2) Did the religious issues came up in your early relationship? What was your understanding in early days?
3) Since how long he has been talking about Islam and the conversion?
4) On “…not necessary to convert but he says it is”, what is his logic that you have to convert to Islam? Explain what he said in the past, if he has a reason. We agree with you that it is not necessary to convert as per Indian Laws.
5) What is he implying–after the conversion, can you still be Jain 50% or you must be 100% Muslim only? What does the “conversion” means to him?
6) Was he religious? Is he religious?
7) Is he telling all these just to please his parents or he truly believes in conversion (and rest to follow)?
8) We assume you both are well educated. Are you working? Will he (and his parents) allow you to continue to work in the future?
9) Will you (after the marriage) be living with his parents as a joint family or living independently?
10) Have you discussed about the religion of your children? How important it is for you to teach Jain Dharma to your children (along with Islam)?
11) Are your parents aware of your relationship?
12) If there is no other option left, would you consider conversion for your love (conversion just as a ritual, as far Islam is not to be strictly followed)?
Here, we asked you too many questions. You do not have to answer all now. Tell us more about your relationship ASAP and we will continue to guide you based on what you want to know.
We are not here to decide for you but just to guide you. In the end, it will be only your decision and wishes that should be followed. We hope to hear from you today. Thank you.
-Admin
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you idiot/blind in love girls don’t understand even a common basic wrong intention of a guy…..u people are in love but he wants u to convert why don’t u want him to convert to jainism thats bcz u both have different idea of religion. It shows openness and how problematic a muslim/islam can be. Believe me if he says its okay for many years later he will convert u by any means available….conversion is basic to islam…they convert ppl by all means available—love marraige direct conversion forceful as per need.
Remember India is under attack of Love Jihad, Muslim population is increasing at a very fast pace……their aim to establish Islamic Caliphate in India ( Ghazwa e Hind ).
And whosoever this Admin is, this guy is also here with a motive of converting Hindu girls to Islam.
Also observe we would have seen many hindu girls marrying muslim Boys but i haven’t seen any Muslim girl marry a Hindu Boy.
Dear sir, you are very much mistaken. The Admin is not a Muslim; if anything he has tried very hard to convince non-Muslims to NOT marry Muslims in the past (I have been in thisforum on and off for many years)
Admin is totally against fake conversions or conversions in general; he always says that you should let a rose be a rose and a carnation be a carnation. This is why he doesn’t encourage anyone to convert to Islam or Christianity just for love.
He is against love jihad and fake conversions so please don’t misunderstand him.
And there are Muslim girls married to Hindus, converted Hindus who became Muslims, or just irreligious agnostic/atheist Hindus who occasionally come to this forum. Older posts will reveal this to you.
Rabia, welcome back after a while.
How is your book–An Infidel’s Diary: Memoirs of a Muslim Girl–going? We hope you had good progress. How is your Hindu-Muslim married life going (https://interfaithshaadi.org/muslim-girl-married-hindu/)? Any update to it? Any expansion of your family?
To clarify to all, I believe in “Share and Respect with Equality” and that is the title of my book. You may see all my views at https://www.youtube.com/user/InterfaithShaadi/videos . Let me know if you find any objectionable point in my views.
Kaun sa love jihad. Hindu ladke ka muslim ladki ke saath shaadi karna bhi toh love jihad hi h. Aakhir kaun hindu ladka apni biwi ko muslim bnaye rakhega.
There are several reasons you should be taking your life deciding decision very very carefully after you and only you would be responsible solely for whatever happens in your life. Lemme list down a few scenarios for you.
1. If you agree now to convert then after your marriage you will have to agree to many many more things that you would have never dreamt of.
2. Why you want to marry a Muslim?? Are you a victim of Love Jihad……A disease eating away the lives of innocent Hindu girls. young Hindu girls are trapped by Muslim men, then converted to Islam and then the girls is just treated like a Baby making machine…you will have to or forced to give birth to 5-6 or may be more kids.
3. What if that muslim guy say talaq talaq talaq then your so called love marriage is over?
4. What if he Brings in a second or third wife after you?
5. What if at some point of time he asks you to do Nikah Halala?
6. What if your in laws also start making physical advances on you as thats very normal in their culture?
7. If you give birth to a girl child then even before she could utter a word she would have to face Female genitial mutilation would be done to her.
8. You will have to spend all your life wearing Burkha
9. Most Importantly your parents will have no respect. They will be dejected every where.
10. You will always br a kaffir to your inlaws even after you convert.