Mumtaz says: on October 8, 2012 at 9:30 am
Hello, every one. I have been reading this site, various comments far and against religions of different communities..Several times thought to write, but today ultimately attempting to give some insights of my life, passed through various ups and downs, since childhood.
Amir and others, supporting Islam and its rules as enumerated in Quran, repeatedly indicating equal rights, respects, honour, claims, regards etc. to all muslim women. But the reality is total against those rules. There are millions of untold and unfold stories of attrocities, cruelty against females, never treated them human, just for sex requiremnt, discriminatory behaviour, putting all sorts of restrictions on those who were financially good enough, independent and leaving them in lurch ultimately to prostitutions/ hell during life time itself.
I was born in a poor muslim family, mother was treated very badly beaten, humiliated by my father, he was really inhuman. He was not happy with my birth as first child, mother had to face inhuman treatment, abusive comments.
I remember those days when I was about 4 years or so, mother working as a maid in a Hindu rich family, also taking with me there. I used to see children of that family playing with toys, getting well treatment, whereas I was treated as unwanted child and always frightened to see my father. Soon growing, also started working with mother in that family, small jobs, like dusting, cleaning, watering plants and our land lord kind hearted used to give me clothes, food, and old books to see. There was an another servant family, working as driver with wife and son, living in their servant quarter.
One day my father married his cousin sister and brought her in the house. From that day our miseries started manifold and one horrible night mother was beaten badly, bleeding from legs and hands, I cried for help, I was also slapped many times and pushed on the ground and then both us thrown outside the home and door was shut. No body helded us and we passed whole night outside the house and in the morning we went to the land lord house for work.
Seeing our miserable condition, our landlord and his wife gave, first aid treatment to the injuries we had suffered, and gave food and said that they should live in another servant qurter, in fact it was garrage. We started living there, mother working whole day in that house and I also supporting her as per my capability and knowledge.
Slowly due to good bahaviour and our sincereity, the family of the driver mixed up with us, and our land lord was happy. One day he said that I should also go to a near by school with driver,s son. Seeing all misfortunes with my mother, I determined that I should study and should become independent in my young age.The land lady, also encouraged me. Slowly time passed, I forgot my father, which later was known to be blessed with son from his new wife but all sorts of cruelty about him still continuing with her also.
Mother was continously working in the house since morning, though I was helping her. Due to growing age and closeness with the driver son in study matters, we got attracted towards each other. He was also brillant, hardworker, sincere, sober and in the 10th exam. He secured about 90% marks and myself secured 80% in the following year, as I was one year junior to him. Time passed further, in the meantime we had cleared computer certificate course of 6 months.
One day, we heard that a talent search examination was being conducted, based on general knowledge, mathematical back ground and reasoning tests of Xth level by a NGO. We applied for the same and luckily we both (myself and drivers son Mahesh) got prize leading to scholarship for our education. By scholarship, we both cleared our 12th Standard Phy. Chem. and Math. with computer science. One day Mahesh told me that we can do part time computer typing job, which gave us additional boost to our morale, confidence and public relations and monetary gains first time.
Time passed mother suffered one day heart attack and died. I was now alone. Mahesh and his family helped me. By now we had decided to become life partner. One day, we found that on contract basis a merchant shipping company needed computer savy employees for their data base entry for their shore base office. Since we were already doing similar job, we did not find any difficulty to establish our merit against other counter parts and we were first two selected out of 8 hired by them. Soon we became good performers of the company and company hired us as a regular employee after one year and soon by distance mode, we completed our graduation in computer application, proficient as data base administrator.
Now our landlord/land lady were like parents, since day one of our earning, we used to handover our salary to them first, as deep regards to them.They used to return the same to us with their blessings. Vow, what a graceful, heavenly pleasure of moments for us. They knew every thing about our relations (mine and Mahesh) sincerity and my mother’s last wish about my marriage as part of settlement of life.
On an auspicious day I married with Mahesh, as per Hindu rituals. Mahesh said that I should not change my religion. Both shall be respecting religious rituals of both communities.
As the change is a law of nature. Our land lord shifted to Detroite USA and myself and Mahesh now working in the same company, foreign branch in Hongkong. The horrors of attrocities, abusive words against my mother still make my body shivering? One day, myself and Mahesh went around that locality but no trace of my cruel father.
Still I am unable to find out, why so cruel, barbaric and inhuman treatment is resorted against women in Islam? That dark night, when we were thrown out, bleeding, still haunts me? But all these events gave strength to me, and put me on right direction of life irrespective of hardships and inconvenience for years. God is great, I am thankful to him. I see his presence in all living and nonliving things. For me the God is our landlord, who gave us shelter, brought up to this position. I bow my head with deep sincerety to that family and shall not be able to repay his debt of generosity, kindness and humanitarian treatment to an unfortunate muslim maid and her child.
Whenever, I meet my landlord and land lady, I kiss his foot, place my head on it, getting filled my eyes with tears. I have deep faith on Hindu Gods and Allah too. He is one, known by different names by different people.
Amir and others, will say it is a fake story again, as I have seen his comments on earlier. For him it will be a fake story always, either his mother and other females perhaps have not been passed through such a dark time, full of horror and miseries or he delibrately attempting to hide evils of islam against women folk.
Always in pray. May almighty bless all unfortunate women to lead a happy life, atleast once in their lives. -Mumtaz.
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Mumtaz says: October 9, 2012 at 5:57 am
Many many thanks to Mr. Admin.
Though I have not seen God, but I have experienced his presence around me always. Whenever, I have been in trouble, in whatever form I remembered him, he helped me a lot to this position of today. I have seen his presence in the form of my land lord, land lady, my husband Mahesh, my computer teachers, my employer, who came to my rescue from time to time and at the right point of time.It was God only that good sense prevailed to me, he inspired me, he made me determined to study,come with flying colour in the competitive environement.
When my mother was breathing her last, I was not there, It was Mahesh, who was holding her. My mother was crying with severe pain, repeatedly saying what will happen to Mumtaz now? Mahesh promising her he shall take her responsbility, and immediately thereafter her head rolled down. I dont know about writing a booking on my life, but the hard and tough days I have passed, cannot be forgotten. This site is a forum of my book where I have attempted to describe my life story. I pray God that such tough time no female should suffer. Had land lord not given us shelter, what would have been to me? thinking even this, I feel shivering?
I am thankful to Mahesh also, guiding me since my childhood in education, computer learning, computer job, talent search competion and finally in the job. He is so nice, and gentle, pleasing personality,becomes restless whenever I have a slight ailment.We never felt that we are from different religions, but always feel that we have been made for each other.It was his idea only that we should give our first salary to the landlord and land lady. His father was also from a poor family but from different city was working as a driver with our landlord.LAND LORD AND LAND LADY ARE OUR GOD, NO DOUBT.
I had just narrated my life story, but did not think that Admin. will take it exclusive chapter here. I dont want to answer query of Amir, he will not realize the actual pitiful and miserable condition of muslim women in the name of Islam.
Millions of thanks. -Mumtaz
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Admin replied:
You must write a book! -Admin
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Mahesh says: October 15, 2012 at 5:47 am
Dear Admin sir,
I have read whole comments above, life story narrated by Mumtaz, my wife, my soulmate. Really we both of us have experienced presence of almighty from time to time during tough time we encountered. Now we see his presence in you also, providing a forum to educate depressed, underprivileged muslim women, who have been victim of discrimination, cruelty for thousand of years.
I personally feel, since my child hood, the critical and painful life Mumtaz and her mother faced and how happy she would have been to see us both. My father and dead are also happy with our unique relation of true love.
I cannot explain how painfully and tears rolling from her eyes, Mumtaz first time wrote her life story here.
Really sir, it was a great time, when we both appeared in the TALENT SEARCH EXAMINATION, in just 10 days practice, God created so much attention, concentration and memory power, that we both read competitive books and grasped the concepts very quickly and got the merit awards both, what a wonder? we cannot do, unless almighty desired so us?
Thanking you sir a lot. Another good news that Mumtaz is pregant now? How happy we both are? Our kid will never face tough time, we faced.
God is great, He is every where, every time. – Mahesh
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Mumtaz says: May 4, 2013 at 12:11 pm
Dear Admn./Satyen sirs,
I am back here after a gap of more than 3 months now. Another update that I would like to share with you that about a fortnight back, we have been blessed with sons(twin). Every thing ok with me. Had my mother been alive, how happy she would have been? May be her soul hovering around us and blessing us too.
Occasionally I see the various texts and glad to see that site has opened new dimension of awareness and clarity among muslim girls and women to protect them from the vicious circle of islamic practices.
Seeking your good wishes and blessings always. -Mumtaz
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Dear Admn./Satyen sirs,
I am back here after a gap of more than 3 months now.
Another update that I would like to share with you that about a fortnight back, we have been blessed with sons(twin). Every thing ok with me. Had my mother been alive, how happy she would have been?
May be her soul hovering around us and blessing us too.
Occasionally I see the various texts and glad to see that site has opened new dimension of awareness and clarity among muslim girls and women to protect them from the vicious circle of islamic practices.
Seeking your good wishes and blessings always.
Mumtaz,
This is superb news! We are very happy for you and Mahesh. Satyen will surely demand for sweets for this great news!! Best wishes.
We agree, “Had my mother been alive, how happy she would have been?” Well, lets assume she is still around you and is being happy to see you happy. Now, when ever time permits from your family responsibilities, you must take up responsibility to make sure no girl/women end up in a situation live your mother’s. All your efforts will certainly give peace to your mother’s soul.
MUBARAKA ! MUBARAKA !!
Hearty CONGRATULATION To MUMTAZ & MAHESH for their PARENTHOOD.
Sorry ! I’m late to congratulate you.But I believe in “Der Aayad Durust
Aayad”.
I’m sure your mother’s Soul is hovering around your whole family &
blessing You,Mahesh & her Grand Sons.
GOD bless your whole family A Happy & Prosperous Life.Specially your
Lovely Twin Sons 🙂 🙂 .
Dear Mumtaz !
I’m 50+ old man. I have 3 young sons. They don’t have any sister. Will you want to be their sister?
It will be great pleasure for me & my sons.
Thanks.
GOD blessyou.
Dear Ayesha !
Are you same Aesha Khan, who married with a Hindu boy Rakesh Chattopadhyay in Kolkata, India ?
All stories fake under muslim names and Those who marry non muslims did not remain muslims and will go to hell forever life after death tell them you are not muslims. To learn about islam vist http://www.usislam.org for more ioformation about islam.do not belive these posts as they lie about islam.learn truth about islam from website.
Hello Admn/Satyen Sirs,
I am back after 3 months or so here. How are you sirs?
I have been looking various updates and texts, suggestions/advices etc. to the muslim and Hindu girls from time to time.
By all your good wishes, every thing is going well with us.
I am in a family way after 3 months from now. Both we are excited to see that moment of life.
Always under your good wishes and blessings sirs
Mumtaz
Thank Allah(not Muhammad)/Isvara for your good life. We are glad to hear from you of your happy life. Best wishes.
Hi Mumtaz,
Read your life story and deeply got touched. I am divorcee from a Pakistani muslim guy, whom I maried due to my parents pressure, though I was born and brought up in Spain. After 6 years, I was divorced and left alone.
Presently in Madrid and in touch with a Nepali Hindu, who promises to keep me happy and cheerful.
Should I go ahead with him and start life again?
Reply to Razia at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3773
All the women,
I bow my head to you all women (Hindu, Muslima, Christian etc. whoever you may be) as the manifestation of the Durga/Allah/God during this auspicious period of Navratri. You are the true deity of prosperity, power and intellect. That nation will always be blissful where the women are respected and they have smile on their faces. I wish each couple must have at least one girl child as a symbol of Lakshmi (happiness).
Again, my all respects to you. May, Durga/Allah bestow all the happiness and prosperity on you all, only smiles, no tears ever.
HI Every one,
Just used common sense to move away from religion. I was born in a Muslim family, hence I was a Muslim till I became an adult. Had I been born under any other religion, I would’ve been a follower of the same. And all my life I heard that Muslims would have the first right to heaven. That sounded very absurd to me and as my brain opened up i realized it was not my achievement of being born in a Muslim family that I had a birth right to heaven. Surely God cannot be so unfair. Furthermore, the history of Islam is full of bloodshed and war, and the Quran clearly allows jihad on one side and then says all humans are equal. Surely God could not reveal such hypocritical statements and I openly challenge the validity of the book. I am a God fearing human who believes every human is equal, be he/she from any religion, caste or creed. I freely choose not to follow Islam anymore as the concept is against my altruistic views on life, where a persons life and faith should be governed by his/her own free mind and logical reasoning. Not by the way of birth or what the ancestors have always believed in.
Arsalan Chatha, 24, Pakistan, now an agnostic
I left Islam. I always thought that Muhammad can not be God’s messenger or a holy man! By looking at his personal affairs, especially with women, I can not follow a man who marries each woman he meets! Also the contradictions in the Quran and the way it was written – in a way that is so difficult to understand, made me believe that this is a man made religion . Also, Islam has NO tolerance for other belief systems, and the argument that Muslims are very lucky that they were born in Muslim countries got me convinced that Muslims are so closed-minded and forgot that there are many wonderful people on this planet who are not Muslims. I think Islam is the worst thing that happened to humanity. It pushes Muslim’s backwards and that is why there is no single Muslim country is advanced or even civilized! Also on the question of prayer, they say if you do not pray 5 times a day you will be burned in hell for ever! I tried prayer of course when I was a Muslim, but I did not feel anything, I felt I am just exercising or in the Gym, I felt I am like a robot. No feeling at all. This is pure brainwashing. Now I am not sure if there is God or Not, the theory of evolution blew my mind and the fact that there are so many religions in the world and so many problems in the world made me believe that Man created God not the other way around.
Hussein, Egypt, now an agnostic
9/11 probably opened my eyes. I realized that Islam at its best couldn’t re-invent itself or adapt to the changing world. I realized also, its the reason for all failures of Arabs and Muslims. Yet Islam is apologetic to every medieval notion, the way it treats women, other non-believers and religions, solving simple problems of life other than Halal/Haraam and just branding others as blasphemous. This religion goes against my mind and values, that is why I left it.
Ahmed BenKerishan, United Arab Emirates,,
How idot is Ansur? Here muslim girls have shared their life experiences based on cruelty and attrocities in the muslim community by males in the name of Islam and also pointed out evil thereof.
This filthy mind person blaming Indians? No doubt, he is talibani mentality hard core terrorist? Every body is fake for him, except himself? Infact fake is his own identity and fake muslim, just treating females subject to all cruelties. Indian muslims are better than any other muslims of different countries. India is a second largest muslim populated country.Bastard hold your toungue?
Stop writing all non sense here.
Amazed at the PROPAGANDA against Islam and Muslim.
Shows how much of a coward you Idnians really are and your hidden agenda to defame Islam.
The best and most amusing is how you Indians take on Muslim names to posts to give more weight to your response.
Very shallow and deceitful people and a reflection that something is missing in your petty life.
Why Islam will always prevail, what you do today and how you defame Islam and Muslims is no diffrent to the idol worshipping pagan Arabs.
They got no where and people realised the truth.
When they do they will appreciate Islam.
You people are sad, cowardly, deceitful and shameful.
Its a prize for you to post a Hindu boy marries a Muslim in India because thats the extent of hate you have towards Muslims and based on centuries and centuries of inveriority complex.
I pity you people truly do.
Hi every body
Pakistan airlifted Malala wounded teenage activist shot by the Taliban to the United Kingdom on Monday for more specialized medical care and to protect her from follow-up attacks threatened by the militants.
The attack on 14-year-old Malala Yousufzai as she was returning home from school in Pakistan’s northwest a week ago has horrified people across the country and abroad. It has also sparked hope the government would respond by intensifying its fight against the Taliban and their allies.
Hello Admn.sir,
Thanks a lot for encouraging to write a book of my personal life experience. I dont dare now to write any more since I become emotional. Had I my mom would have been alive, really she would have been excited to see all kinds of happiness and prosperity, I am enjoying with Mahesh. I am thankful to the almighty that he ended my tough time during this life time only.The other unfortunate girls and their generations could not come out of this vicious circle of islamic evils so far.
As a Database Administrater our assignments involves from Installing, Configuring and Maintaining databases to the tasks of managing, organizing, storing, and retrieving stored data efficiently, and providing databases with high security etc. and so it is difficult to devote in writing. Shall be giving update as and when time permits.
Mahesh has already disclosed good news about him becoming father in a few months from now, which I could not disclosed. It is about 5 years of our working career and 2-1/2 years married life. We are under great umrella of mercy and grace of almighty in the form of our beloved landlord and land lady.
With regards,
Mumtaz
Why one gets emotional?
Because there is so much pain in your mind that you cannot channelized in a small thought or talk. Instead of telling every thing at one time, break in small pieces. Take one step at a time towards the book and in 5 years you will have full story. You are not ordinary, you are an extra-ordinary, otherwise you would not have come up like this.
Remember, the book is not for you. You are writing for the benefit of the Mumtaz at age 4. Now you are being a landlady of many many Mumtazs in this World. Your landlady only helped one Mumtaz and Mahesh, you should to 10,000 of Mumtazs and Maheshes.
Dear Admn. sir,
I have read whole comments above, life story narrated by Mumtaz, my wife, my soulmate. Really we both of us have experienced presence of almighty from time to time during tough time we encountered.. Now we see his presence in you also, providing a forum to educate depressed, underprivileged muslim women, who have been victim of discrimination, cruelty for thousand of years.
I personally feel, since my child hood, the critical and painful life Mumtaz and her mother faced and how happy she would have been to see us both.My father and dead are also happy with our unique relation of true love.
I cannot explain how painfully and tears rolling from her eyes, Mumtaz first time wrote her life story here. Really sir, it was a great time, when we both appeared in the TALENT SEARCH EXAMINATION, in just 10 days practice, God created so much attention, concentration and memory power, that we both read competitive books and grasped the concepts very quickly and got the merit awards both, what a wonder? we cannot do, unless almighty desired so us?
Thanking you sir a lot. Another good news that Mumtaz is pregant now? How happy we both are? Our kid will never face tough time, we faced.
God is great, He is every where, every time.
Regards.
Mahesh.
Hello every body.
According to latest reports, the condition of Malala is satisfactory, her all vital parts are functioning perfectly well, but another 12 hours or so, are critical. It appears that in case she is needed to be flown to abroad, Govt. is ready to do so.
Its a great satisfaction. She is an asset for female community.
May God bless her speedy recovery.
Dear Satyen,
Very good suggestion,but how to break this nexus which is predominantly existing in countries like Pakistan, Afganistan, where terrorists have a strong hold.
Only Amir like person shall be accepting grooms like Muhammad for their daughters, sisters, otherwise no sensible person would like his name on their lips.
One good thing is that due to IT revolution, muslim sisters are awakening through various awareness programmes and cultural activities. Isolated incidents may happen any where in the world, but preaching, 72 virgins, two witnesses needed to seek justice, domestic violence, sexual assault, 4 wives concepts as almighty,s message, they are henious crimes against mankind.
All enlightened Muslim women and Men,
Though you might have got your love, your responsibility is not yet over. In fact it has increased many fold as you are the only hope for those remaining Muslim girls who have not yet seen the light of this freedom, passing their life behind the burqa/Naqab and are forced to live a miserable life. Will you all leave them in this condition which you all know how pathetic it is? Please raise your voice where ever you see injustice against them around your family, relatives or friends. Charity begins at home and the best place to do is the people around you who you can influence for the betterment. My suggestion is as follows:
1. Education must be allowed to them freely
2. No circumcision to any girl/boy child until maturity (age 18/21).
3. No Naqab/Burka
4. No marriage to Muhammad like husbands (aged,polygamist etc.)
Nothing against Islam but how many sensible people today would
chose Muhammad to be the groom of their daughters/sisters. Now it’s time to discard hypocracy and come to the open. Utmost respect to Allah but no to Muhammad (La ilaha Allalaha – Shahada should stop here).
To summarize: Utmost respect to Allah but no slavery to Muhammad.
A great point, “how many sensible people today would
chose Muhammad to be the groom of their daughters/sisters?”
Likewise, go for Jesus but not the Church!
A Wakeup Call to Muslim Arab Women Living in the West, Part 1
Mirza Ghalib
Arab women! It’s time to stop cursing your fate! Enough is enough! It is a pity to be born as women in Muhammadan society in general, and in the Arabian Muhammadan society in particular. It’s a 14-century-old curse upon you. Let us not lose hope. Instead of resigning to your fate, as you have been forced to for centuries, it is time to stand up to reverse the fate of your daughters and granddaughters.
You Arab women are the direct descendents of the deprived and oppressed Safiyah, Jwairiyah, Raihaana, Umm Qirfa, Asma Bint Marwaan and thousands of others. It is the time to bring back the freedom, which your foremothers enjoyed in the pre-Islamic period, as well as the women of other parts of the present world.
Having worked in Saudi Arabia for many years, I have known about the pain of Arab Muslim women, which people of other parts of the world do not know. It is nearly impossible for you to think, demonstrate or protest openly for your rights in Arab countries. It is the responsibility of those Arab women, who have managed to “escape” from Arab countries to the other parts of the world, to raise their voice in support of the Arab women sufferers.
Niqa’b: Uniform of the Female Prisoners of Islam
Instead, it is amazing and unfortunate to watch pro-Islamic demonstrations ‘against freedom’ in the USA and UK, organized by Hijaab or Niqab wearing Arab women, with hateful banners. This proves the extent of centuries-old oppression, which enslaved the minds of Arab women, making it difficult for them to realize their rights and dignity and stand up for them.
Those women, who wear Niqab in the free western world, actually commit crime against all women living in Arab countries. It is an insult to all brave women in the Muslim countries, who sacrificed their lives against this ridiculous, barbaric nonsense.
Even after “escaping” to the free world, their slavery to Islam continues and most of those Arab women are forced to wear the symbol of this slavery, namely the Niqaab. They are forced to fight and agitate “against freedom” in western countries. This may be due to commands of their male masters or that the Arab women themselves have become too habitual to the centuries-old symbol of suppression that they feel suffocated or unease to breathe in free atmosphere.
It is unimaginable for those Arab Muslim women living under Sharia law to raise their voice against such oppression. But for those, who have managed to escape from Arab countries, continuing the symbol of shame is unforgivable. The law of the free country you are residing is on your side. All you need is “guts” to throw the black tarpaulin from your society.
You are not alone in this fight. Already there are many freedom fighters in the battlefield. Especially, I feel proud to name some of the women freedom fighters, like Wafa Sultan, Nonie Darwish, Ayaan Hishri Ali, Taslima Nasreen and so on.
Try to study and know about the freedom that your foremothers enjoyed, before the introduction of hateful and oppressive Islam. You are the daughters of the suppressed women like Safiyyah, Juwairiyah, Umm Qirfa, Asma Bint Marwaan, Raihaana and thousands of others, whose tragic history has been buried unrecorded in the sand of the Arabian desert.
You are the educated, intellectual daughters of today’s free world. It is your responsibility to put an end to the centuries old suppression. Your inner conscious will never forgive you, if you still continue surrendering to the slavery of Islam out of fear. It is the responsibility of each Arab woman living in the free world to stand against this slavery and raise your voice against this medieval nonsense. Only your voices will free the women, whom you left behind in your Arab Nations as well as it will determine the fate of your daughters and granddaughters.
Burying the Female Children Alive during Jahiliyah — A Myth
Arab women! Try to study and analyze facts from Islamic sources about the freedom enjoyed by Arab women prior to the arrival of Muhammadan cult. Oppression of women is one of the worst things psychopathic Muhammad imposed upon his society. Yet Muslim clerics – all males – boast that Islam freed the women from the shackles of pre-Islamic barbaric customs and has given them equal rights. Anyone, who read Islamic sources, will realize the facts that women in the pre-Islamic Arab world enjoyed much better status and dignity. The concept of burying the female child alive in the period of JAHILIYA, the so-called period of IGNORANCE, is largely a lie. There might have been isolated incidents due to famine. In contrast, killing of young girls has taken place in recent years for silly reasons.
Statistics Shows Men vs Women Ratio 1:1 across the World
According to Wikipedia, statistics of gender ratio among Men vs. Women across is about 1:1 ratio. On what logic the all-knowing Allah ordered His Muslim men to marry 4 wives? According to Islamic sources, pre-Islamic Arabs buried their female-children, because they had considered them as a symbol of shame. If this is the case, given above statistics of male-female ration across the world, each Arab man of pre-Islamic times could not have even one woman to marry.
But the Islamic books states otherwise. Arab men during Muhammad’s time and also in the pre-Islamic period had several wives. It was their culture and practice to have several wives. Here is the list of wives of Muhammad and his forefathers according to Islamic sources.
Statistics of Wives Owned by Males of Muhammad’s Family
Muhammad’s father Abdullah died during his honeymoon period. Otherwise he could have married as many as his son Muhammad.
Abd al-Muthalib, Muhammad’s grandfather, had 5 wives (officially).
Hashim Ibn Abd Manaaf, Muhammad’s Great Grandfather, had “at least” 5 wives.
Muhammad’s Great Great Grandfather had 4 wives.
Abu Bakr, Muhammad’s friend, father-in-law and successor ruler, had married 4 wives.
Umar Ibn al-Khattaab, Muhammad’s another father-in-law and the 3rd king of Islam, had 9 wives.
Uthmaan bin Afwaan, Muhammad’s son-in-law and the 4th king of Islam, had married 9 wives.
Muhammad’s cousin, son-in-law and the 5th king of Islam, Ali have got 7 wives.
Abu Sufiyaan — Muhammad’s cousin, enemy due to his custodianship of the Kaaba, Muhammad’s father-in-law, and later ruler of Najraan appointed by Muhammad — had 4 wives.
Muhammad, the Prophet of Allah and the 1st king of Islam, had 11 official, 6 semi-official, and countless un-official, wives.
Muhammad’s Grandson Husain had married 5 wives.
Muhammad’s another Grandson Hassan, proved he to be the real descended of Muhammad, by marrying more than 70 wives. Some records say Hassan had even more.
The above statistics denotes only their official wives. Apart from these wives the Arabs used to have sex with their number of slave-girls too. Still, they are continuing this practice with their housemaids.
If the Arabs of Jahiliya had killed their female-children, then how could Muhammad, his companions and his forefathers had so many wives? If this information, from the Islamic sources is authentic, then which information is wrong? Either they killed their female children and couldn’t leave a single woman to get married or their entire information is fabricated? It is Muhammad and his followers, the victors, who informed us, of the alleged depravity of the Jahiliya Arabs.
CONCLUSION: The above statistics are not restricted to Muhammad’s family alone. It prevailed among the entire Arab societies. So, Muhammad brought nothing new.
The aim of formation of Islam by Muhammad is not for spiritual purpose, but for political purpose to snatch the custodianship from his cousins and subsequently to establish his supremacy in the entire Arab peninsula.
Hi every one. This is an another method of torturing female in muslim country.
Female genital mutilation (FGM) comprises all procedures that involve partial or total removal of the external female genitalia, or other injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons.
The practice is mostly carried out by traditional circumcisers, who often play other central roles in communities, such as attending childbirths. However, more than 18% of all FGM is performed by health care providers, and this trend is increasing.
FGM is recognized internationally as a violation of the human rights of girls and women. It reflects deep-rooted inequality between the sexes, and constitutes an extreme form of discrimination against women. It is nearly always carried out on minors and is a violation of the rights of children. The practice also violates a person’s rights to health, security and physical integrity, the right to be free from torture and cruel, inhuman or degrading treatment, and the right to life when the procedure results in death.
dear Nigar,thanks to you and all other muslim girls on this site to bring out the different faces of a religion.i really doubt know whether its actually written by so called God.God can never be so inhuman.we all r his creation.why would he deny justice to women folk in his name?all these things are man made.believe in Allah.no doubt in that.but dont follow the so called religious book which stresses on such inhumanity.
Amir,
According to Islam, women must provide at least two male witnesses if they are to take any case to court. Should a woman in the Muslim countries which judge according to Sharia thus have the guts to report a rape, it would be impossible to win the case, as any possible male witnesses to the rape would most likely have been involved in the assault themselves.
In reality, a large part of the world’s almost 700 million Muslim women are thus without any real source of protection against sexual assaults by family members or other men in the surrounding environment. Only too often, this is exploited by Muslim men. When it comes to considering the actual wishes and desires of the women, the fact that a woman has any desire at all is frowned upon in many Muslim countries, even to the point of cutting off the erogenous parts of the female genitals preferably before puberty is reached. The New York Times thus related in the article ‘A cutting Tradition’ on the 20th of January, that 96 percent of all girls in the world’s most heavily populated Muslim country, Indonesia, are circumcised before they turn 14. Disgusting!
So much cruelty with facts have been described, still you favour the evils of Prophet,a rapist, murderer,who did not spare 9year old innocent girl.Really your close female relatives of 9 years need to meet same sexual assault.
Hi every one,
How male culprits are defened in the name of religion?
In New Jersey, a 17 year-old girl had an arranged marriage with an accountant whom she had never met before the wedding. There was no factual dispute that he repeatedly raped and beat her. His defense was that he was simply acting out his rights as an Islamic husband.
The trial court judge asked the husband’s Imam some questions, and “the Imam testified regarding Islamic Law as it relates to sexual behavior. The Imam confirmed that a wife must comply with her husband’s sexual demands,” said the appellate court opinion in S.D. v. M.J.R., 2 A.3d 412 (N.J. Super., 2010). On that cultural basis, “the judge determined to except defendant from the operation of the State’s statutes as the result of his religious beliefs”, even though the girl testified extensively about her abuse and “Four of the photographs of plaintiff’s body, introduced as exhibits at trial… depict bruising to both of plaintiff’s breasts and to both of her thighs, as well as her swollen, bruised and abraded lips.”
Fortunately, the New Superior Court reversed the trial court, and said that the trial court should not have made an exception to criminal law based on Islamic religious creeds, “In doing so, the judge was mistaken.”
In Nebraska, a 13 year-old girl was given in marriage by her father to 34 year-old Al-Hussaini. They had an Islamic wedding ceremony and, says the appellate court opinion: “After the ceremony, the victim was taken to her new home with Al-Hussaini where intercourse immediately took place. The victim stated she did not consent to intercourse with Al-Hussaini. The victim’s sister, age 14, was also ‘married’ on the same day to another Iraqi man…. Al-Hussaini stated that he is not angry at the girl and feels that he did not do anything wrong, as arranged marriages with young girls are customary in his religion.”
The Nebraska Court of Appeals rejected Al-Hussaini’s culturally-based explanation for the crime and upheld his conviction for first degree sexual assault on a child. (State v. Al-Hussaini, 579 N.W.2d 561, (Neb. App., 1998))
Respond
Women are considered whores if they dress even nicely.
According to Islam a whore asks to be raped, abused, tortured beaten and turned into sex slaves.
Since it’s the women’s fault for tempting the man, men are not liable.
The Muslim rapists are even using this as their defense if caught.
It is an epidemic that is even more profound than we know because:
Muslim women don’t report rape because it brings shame on their family and they can be stoned for adultery.
Non-Muslim women have their families threatened or are kidnapped into forced marriage (sex slavery).
Can somebody tell us what the women will get in Jannat (paradise) if ever they happen to get access in it. I am really curious about it as no body has come up with this information on this site yet. Specially, I request the scholars of Islam such as Indian or Amir to enlighten us on this issue for the Muslim women folks.
It is good that u r interested in knowledge.
First thing, I m not scholar but just learning through different sources.
Your question is what women get in paradise?
Imam Al-Ghazali says, to give some indication of the pleasures of paradise by talking about something that human beings know about, which is that experience, because the majority of human beings do not have intense mystical experiences in their life. There are mystics who do have these experiences that are very profound and intense, but most people do not. The most intense experience that they will have of pleasure in sex, and when Allah describes the pleasures of paradise, He uses those examples because they are close to people’s understandings.
So, agreeing upon scholar like above mentioned, i say women will be made like queen in paradise. They will surely get partners. And the real pleasure that people of paradise will get will be mystical which would be far more than sexual pleasure.
@ Amir,
Thanks for giving the informations about what the people will get in the Jannat. Now, I have some idea about the status of women in Jannat where they will also get partners as the male counterparts. Is there any number of partners given as in the case of Males (which is 72)? Also who will be the parners will they be some angels or the ones who have died in some holy wars etc.? Will the partners be obedient to the wishes of the women as is the case with partners of the males?
I would like to know your response as per Quraan/Hadiths.
Quran (55:72) – “Companions ( Hoor ) restrained (as to their glances), in (goodly) pavilions”.
World Hoor ( having big eyes, indicating beauty ) is used which is plural for partners for men as well as women.
they will be obedient to women and men.
Ok,
Now let me know your concept of heaven and hell, if you believe.
Amir,
These footnotes cannot quench my thirst. Sooner or later, I will have to go through Quraan and Sahih Hadith. A little knowledge is a dangerous thing.
But thanks for letting me know whatever you could get.
Thanks again and let’s make everybody happy irrespective of their belief system. As there is only one God, he has made all of us. So he loves all of us without any discrimination. It’s the so called restrictive religious groups have given rise to vampires. Just shun them and mingle yourself to the ocean of humanity. This is the God’s religion that I have fallen in love with and want to smear everyone I come across (including you). Will I go to heaven (of course I don’t need any hoors though)?
first try to create paradise for women on earth.then think about whats written in so called book from god(lie).what about the dangerous life created by your muslim brothers for women on earth?they all are mentally sick.they behave like pyschos.72 virgins?thats also sick.none god promises to give virgins etc bullshit.god just asks for the purity of your soul.so that ur soul can rest eternally.i am hearing this first time that god will give virgins.that is a real sic thought.and u havent specified clearly what women will get.queen treatment.thats it?why wont she get virgins?she also has right for it isnt it?more than virgins she needs pure souls who r free from devil minds like their husbands in islamic countries.whats the thing that terrorists get from the so called holy book which leads them to such inhumanity?break ur honkers mr Amir.then u will realise the truth.better have a look at what Shri Ram,Mahavir.Buddha,Jesus were as compared to Muhammad.u will see the purity of their souls.Compassion was their aim.and not mass murder or raping or keeping sex slaves.
Her husband at the time of her death.
Mohammed, the prophet of the Islamic world, married his last bride Aisha when she was just six years old, and the consummated the marriage with her when she was just nine years old. In Islamic states, partly because of this precedent, this practice still happens in fundamentalist countries like Afghanistan. Muslims will say that a child of six or seven is almost certain to be a virgin. Mohammed was at least 50 when he married Aisha.
The practice of forced marriages (as opposed to arranged marriages) in some Muslim states such as Afghanistan is very common. Some reports claim that somewhere between 60-80 percent of marriages in Afghanistan are forced upon the girls involved or without the consent of the girls. These marriages are seen as a way to resolve conflicts between families, or as a way to absolve someone of a wrongdoing. The girls are treated as they would treat cattle, and are given to these men as offerings.
Some reports also estimate that 57 percent of Afghani girls are married before the age of 16, and it is unusual to find an unmarried girl older than 18 years of age. The practice is justified twofold; that the girls are helping to keep the peace between families, and that the Islamic prophet Mohammed had set this precedent.
In Afghanistan the legal age to be married is 16, but many people ignore this law or claim they were unaware of it. The children in this situation are robbed of childhood, and as you will see, many are robbed of their life. This practice is abhorrent, and any civilised culture will see it as such.
In Nigeria, a 49-year-old Muslim Senator has reportedly married a 13-year-old girl, and has allegedly previously married a 15-year-old in 2006, citing that he paid a dowry of $100,000 to the parents for her. Although looked down upon by other ministers in Nigeria it is still happening.
Women in Islam have no rights, especially if they are non-Muslim, and these men get away with their evils because people are too afraid to stand up against the barbarity of the culture which the religion they follow has instilled in them. Threats of death are imposed upon those who would stand up against this. In Lahore, a man and his entourage of Muslim lawyers has threatened to “burn alive” anyone who will come to the defence of a 12-year-old servant of his, whom he raped and murdered.
Many girls will find themselves in a marriage with a man much older than they are, and will be given the sole duties of looking after the household and giving offspring to the man. Some men have multiple wives, and the women become a harem for that man. The men are often abusive to these girls, sometimes to the point where the girl should be hospitalised, but often is not. The beating of wives is seen as the “honourable thing to do”, for the wife must be kept in line with the wishings of the man and of Allah.
Often these girls will find themselves in these abusive relationships, and will seek a way out. But the way out is a problem in itself; if the girl were to leave she would bring shame upon her own family and her husband’s, and would be hunted down and possibly stoned to death or just beaten withing an inch of her life; if she stays, she may be beaten thus anyhow. Sometimes out of pure desperation, a girl seeking to be free from the bonds of this abusive relationship will choose self-harm rather than bringing shame upon her people.
In Afghanistan, it is believe that more than 10 women and girls choose self-immolation (warning very graphic content) as the escape from their bondage. Around the web there are numerous stories of women who, feeling there was no better way, have chosen to set themselves on fire rather than continue living in such conditions. Some girls die from their injuries. Some do not but are so badly scarred so as to lose their legs, or are severely disfigured by these burns. Those that live may wind up on the streets, homeless.
The culture in Afghanistan is such that women are treated as slaves, and in some cases, worse than dogs. Not only do they wear the burqa in public at all times, they are not allowed to leave the home alone, not allowed to speak to anyone they don’t know, and not allowed to make their identity known nor engage with any of their husband’s friends they may meet in the street. They are not treated as second-class citizens, rather as livestock that can produce more sons for the family.
People blame Islam for these practices. And yet, there are many more Islamic people who don’t practice this than do. Islam itself is not to blame wholly for these atrocities, rather the culture that bases itself upon Islam, then justifies these stone-aged practices based on the words of the Koran or the Hadeeth, saying it is God’s will that this be done. When a culture is poor and has little or no access to education, these kinds of barbaric practices continue to happen.
The culture in Afghanistan is sick. The barbarism and sheer disrespect for human rights that occurs there is all so often backed up by the perverse and outmoded words of their holy books. This illness in the Afghan culture continues, even after the ousting of the Taliban, who were ultra conservative and would set upon women with batons for showing ANY skin, but it is not much better now.
While this culture is deeply ingrained in their societies, these practices in the name of Islam shows it toi be, in its extreme, nothing more than an ultra-conservative ultra-violent “boy’s club” where it members all look after each other. And as sickening as all this is, nothing seems to be getting better.
These girls stories are the same story I have heard again and again of extreme desperation, of girls who see their only escape from forced marriage as being self harm. It is gut-wrenchingly sad to see such lives destroyed by the greed and stupidity of men. Here is an example of one girl’s account of the horrors she has faced at the brutal hands of an extreme Islamic patriarchy.
Muslim culture is a paradise for horny men
According to the Quran, Muslim men who die for Islam in battle will be rewarded 72 virgins, who are seemingly restored to virginity every time a martyr has penetrated her. Seen from the perspective of Western psychology, it is quite embarrassing and immature that a world religion promises sex – fair and square – and this, in addition, with sexually un-experienced women, as the highest prize. Most people who have already grown out of the hormonal waves of the teenage years, and have gained just a pinch of human maturity, will probably agree that such a goal is built on, and directed at, a very crude type of man.
This is not to say that the Islamic paradise is first and foremost meant for horny and callous men, who are too insecure to deal with experienced women’s free view on sexuality. However, the widespread glorification of this paradise within the Islamic environment indicates that the Muslim culture has succeeded in producing not so few of this type of man.
This sexual paradise, where one can just take a woman and do with her what one wants without asking, is unfortunately also existent among living Muslim men who have not martyred themselves for their religion. In many cases, Muslim men can rape Muslim women without consequences, because the women do not dare tell the family or the police. In fact, the view on women in the Muslim culture is often that it is the women themselves, who are to blame for the rape.
Hello Amir,
You are absolutely wrong to say that no dowry in muslim, no anti women environment now in arab countries, after advent of islam there, is baseless, false and illmotivated. Wherever are the hardliner of islamic preacher, most attrocities are committed on women.
In 1971 Bangladesh , more than 1 million women/girls were raped/murdered/ by Pakistani forces,During Col. Gaddafi,s regims more than 2 millions women, were raped/murdered, and equal number of women were raped in Afganistan during Taliban regime. Even in Iran,Saudi Arabia, Yemen and Swat valley of Taliban occupied part of Pakistan, thousands of girls and women are kidnapped, raped and murdered.Even in Syria, molestation and rape victims are highly on rise. Women are soft targets by male community in the islamic countries, irrespective of claiming fundamental rights of women and welfare by the rulers Sex with dead wife, no identification documents, no driving permission, no right to vote, no right to education for higher studies etc.
What is this? These attrocities are not visual to you.
Hello,
Following few lines are reproduced depicting picture of islamic countries.
The problem with Saudi Arabia, as well as other Muslim countries, is not just the governments that are all corrupt, but also the people. People commit unthinkable atrocities to each other with clarity of conscience and gleefully. Muslims are not underdeveloped technologically, but morally, ethically and spiritually. What is wrong with them is their ethos, their mindset, the way they think and perceive the world. They have values that are inconceivable in civilized societies. The problem with them is their religion. People are born innocent everywhere; it is the way they are raised and educated that makes them different. Islamic teachings reduce humans into beasts. In the name of Islam, Muslims commit atrocities that curl the blood. The stories narrated by Alrabaa are factual. They are real stories that happened to real people. And yet they are more incredible than fiction.
Islamic societies are ruled by insanity. There is no polite way to describe it. Islam is insanity. The more a country follows Islam the more draconian become its laws, the more tyrannous become its rulers and the more barbarous become its people. Saudi Arabia, being the heart of Islamic faith, is also the most evil country in the world.
Only one thing can help these people and that is to help them get rid of Islam. It is Islam that is the cause of their incivility, wickedness and intellectual torpor. People are the same everywhere. It is their beliefs that make them act differently. Islam cannot be reformed, but it can be demolished. Once it is demolished, civility will be restored in Islamic countries and terrifying stories such as these will be history.
We owe it to them; we owe it to their children and to mankind to rescue Muslims from the yoke of Islam and set them free. This is doable if people talk, if they tell the truth and let the world know what is happening in the name of Islam in Muslim countries. Truth will set them free. Alrabaa has done his part in spreading the truth; the rest is up to us. Within these stories lies the horrifying truth about Islam.
Hello Mumtaz, Read your life story repeatedly, really you are an example. I have also married with Hindu boy and today, as a software engineer today, credit goes to my husband, who taught me basics of mathematics. I have also almost similar story of life but not so dreadful. It is great without any extra coaching, you could pass out with Physics, Chemistry and Mathematics subjects and that is through Govt. schools, where standard is not so high.
Dear you should not have replied queries of Amir like person. Even he did not learn any lesson from the comments of Gulnar, pointing him directly.I also feel almighty around us while sitting with husband, worshiping Hindu methods and also namaz performance. Both are same, my mind set is always towards supreme power of the universe, known by different names in different sects, community, religion. But I feel very bad, when attrocities are patronise and propagated in the name of religion.
How so called prophet could be messenger of almighty, who raped innocent girls, murdered thousands, molestated thousand of females? Can almighty be so cruel to nominate him his messenger?
Hello Amir,
I know you will never realize the cruelty against females in Islam, because your mindset is like that. I am answering your all the 4 questions, (i) My father was not in favour of having a female child, he wanted a son and so he was angry with me and my mother, i.e what I came to know from my mother (ii) It was due to poverty and the anti female environment he was involved, and brought up since child hood.(iii) My mother did try to get separation from but no body helped her. He had no regular income to feed us, just doing some part time jobs and once getting money, not going for work nextm till exhausted.(iv),we were not helped by any one because he was a notorious person, using abusive languages and so no body wanted to get involved in it. Even the nearby Mullah was afraid of him. Once they were caught by the police in eve teasing of girls.
Why dont you read books of Wafa Sultan and Taslima Nasreen?
Are you aware when Islam came to Arabs, Anti-female environment was prevailing there. Baby girls were buried alive. Prostitution was common. No inheritance for women. No education for them.
But after Islam came to life of Arabs, all these evils perished.
In our country we see such environment. Abortion rate is very high. Prostitution is growing. No inheritance for women. Dowry is common making poor people cry on birth of baby girl.
Suppression of brides for bringing money.
Sati/Jouhar were part of society however some thinkers did great work to abolish it and now this extinct.
In Islam there is no dowry, and even it is obligatory for boy to gift his bride.
What is the worst part is we are influenced by society around us and forgotten our religion and your father is true example of it.
Hi,
Every educated muslim women should read the books written by
Wafa sultan, Taslima nasreen, Nonie darwish, Ayaan Hirsi Ali and should work hard for the upliftment and welfare of muslim female community from the clutches of Mullahs, Maulivies and Imams, who sees them only a sex fulfilling toys.
Hello,
I request you to read thoroughly Book of Wafa Sultana,A God who hates?
Hope you will understand the miseries and calamities of women folk of muslim society critically.
My sincere thanks to all my muslim sisters contributing so much on this blog to create awareness among them, who have subject to humiliation, discrimination for thousands of years.
God bless you all.
Birth-cycle? Please clarify with reference to the books.
If you respect All, you should respect me as well.
But it doesn’t seem so.
Use good language to convey your message, don’t be angry or abusive or ill-mannered.
God did not came to my dream, neither God need to come in your or mine dream. His status is much high , higher than our apprehension.
Many many thanks to Mr. Admn.
Though I have not seen God, but I have experienced his presence around me always. Whenever, I have been in trouble, in whatever form I remembered him, he helped me a lot to this position of today. I have seen his presence in the form of my land lord, land lady, my husband Mahesh, my computer teachers, my employer, who came to my rescue from time to time and at the right point of time.It was God only that good sense prevailed to me, he inspired me, he made me determined to study,come with flying colour in the competitive environement.
When my mother was breathing her last, I was not there, It was Mahesh, who was holding her. My mother was crying with severe pain, repeatedly saying what will happen to Mumtaz now? Mahesh promising her he shall take her responsbility, and immediately thereafter her head rolled down. I dont know about writing a booking on my life, but the hard and tough days I have passed, cannot be forgotten. This site is a forum of my book where I have attempted to describe my life story. I pray God that such tough time no female should suffer. Had land lord not given us shelter, what would have been to me? thinking even this, I feel shivering?
I am thankful to Mahesh also, guiding me since my childhood in education, computer learning, computer job, talent search competion and finally in the job. He is so nice, and gentle, pleasing personality,becomes restless whenever I have a slight ailment.We never felt that we are from different religions, but always feel that we have been made for each other.It was his idea only that we should give our first salary to the landlord and land lady. His father was also from a poor family but from different city was working as a driver with our landlord.LAND LORD AND LAND LADY ARE OUR GOD, NO DOUBT.
I had just narrated my life story, but did not think that Admn. will take it exclusive chapter here. I dont want to answer query of Amir, he will not realize the actual pitiful and miserable condition of muslim women in the name of Islam.
Millions of thanks.
Mumtaz
It is not surprise that you did not answer. There are many others who put blames but when question is sought from them , they don’t answer.
Dear Mumtaz,
Your story is an inspirational one. Your humility and humbleness and the gratitude towards your landlord (foster father) display of your beautiful mind and heart. It’s the epitome of religion to see the God in everyone and everywhere irrespective of religions/cults. No one should restrict the sense of brotherhood restricted to a certain community simply because somebody in the past has said. One should always apply one’s mind and heart logically with compassion because mind and heart are the computer chips of religion and the God has given it to every body to live accordingly. Just help for the good of downtrodden (especially the frmale). I have highest regards for the Allah but not for Muhammad as many of his acts are abominable. Whosoever justifies him as the role model, is either a traitor of mankind or is a foolish. The books can be consulted as guidelines, not for slavery. I love the Geeta to read because it nowhere restricts my sense of brotherhood to any certain community. On the contrary, it has broaden it to beyond the humanity. I recommend everyone to reatd the Geeta from cover to cover with open mind critically for guidance. However, unlike Amir, I don’t ask anybody to follow it blindly. Interprete it with logic and reasoning and you will not be thrown into the hellfire for ever by merely asking. If asking some questions makes somebody commiting sin, curiosity would have been considered a vice and the humanity wouldn’t have seen the ray of modern developments/knowledge as curiosity is the seed of knowledge/inventions.
I end my comment with the quotation of one of the oldest books(about 3000years old)which many people narrate every day in Sanskrit:
May everybody (irrespective of gender, religion etc.) be happy, healthy and capable of seeing good without any malice in others, …… Brihadaranyak Upanishad
Mumtaz,
You must write a book. You are a good writer. If from dirt, you have reached to this level today, why not to think one step further? You could and will do it, go for it…..a book then a move on that book!
Start writing a chapter (2-3 pages) on each of paragraph above on your original story. Also give complete details of your father’s and mother’s and Mahesh’s father’s life. Also give your philosophical thoughts on today’s women, Islam, One God-Allah theory, Hinduism, what is humanity, how hindu-muslim marriages should be like, and more. Start with one story a week. In a year, you will have about 100 pages worth of your book. We will figure it out to publish it, may be electronic.
Best wishes for helping other deprived in this World.
If shaitan is there in this world, it is Amir like person who commit curelty against women in the name of Islam. Amir would have realized the actual tragedy of cruelty, had his own daughter or sister would have been raped at the age of 9 years by a 56 years old claiming to be prophet before him only and he would have been helplessly watching all this. Can a God appoint his messenger, cruel, murderer and rapist?
If you think marriage is rape then you must never marry.
However my prophet is my ideal and no person could be even equal to the bit of him.
Wow!! You have come a long way.
Mumtaz, we are very proud of you. You are a role model for millions of suffering women in this world. You must write a book on your life. It is a super story for a movie.
For Amir, he knows all these, only he is in denial.
Please plan to come to this site to guide other young adults in love relationship. This is one way you could pay back to women who are still suffering today.
Please help redefine who is the God and what is a real religion. We hope to hear from you again and again!
Dear mumtaz.
First thing, God has provided due respect to women from men, if they don’t do so, it doesn’t mean, religion is wrong.
Study religion and books before reprimanding any religion and find out orders of God in it.
I see cases where women are badly treated ( more than your case ) in other religion, burnt and beaten, but i feel it is because people have forgotten religion and act as per their will.
If you are badly treated, then what you do is more bad ? Accusing particular religion. Did you find out orders of God in your religion?
Answer me following –
1. Your father was unhappy with your birth, did u find out why?
Is it because of fear of dowry and poverty?
2. Why your aunty married to your father?
3. Why not your mother went for Khula ( separation ) from your father?
4. Was there nobody to help you in your relation?
You repaid what you got from your landlord, but you did not repay what you got from God, and what God say is just obey him, be situation good or worst.
Yesterday, I was reading about ‘Hazrat Owais Karni R.A.’, and believe me he was treated worstly by non-believers despite he was firm in faith. But important is how you hold your faith in good as well as bad conditions.
If you are happy that is good but you seem to be fail in God’s test.
Education, Job, respect to others are not prohibited, but marry a non-believer and associating others with God is prohibited.
aamir
once again madarssah bullshit , go and check the internet about truth of muslim woman see the truth of woman in saudi arabia by ur bedouin masters
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fR-BdMeAvzE
basically Amir ur sick.God never said to partition on basis of religion.It is u muslims who have started this bullshit since 1000 years and are still goin with it.go and bury urself.real sick.who the hell are u to say who is god.did he cum in ur dreams to say ‘beta main tuje agle janam me aag me nai daluga’.bullshit thots.remember one things.the oldest form of religion is Hinduism.whether ur break ur head or do any shit it wont change.n yes respect every creation of god.who knows u will be born as a goat in next birth to be killed for flesh.the birth cycle will go on.u can be born as an ant also.to be stamped off in a second.show dont show who is god and what he can do.better be a good human being and respect all.