Shafiya (former Purina) says: August 21, 2017 at 5:24 am
i came to know about this forum through a friend of mine. i saw here many boys and girls are on the same page where i was three year ago. i met my husband during the summer camp and fall in love with him. it was typical hindu-muslim story. i had to convert so as to marry him. and yes islam only accept the nikah, not the special act. its been good so far , there will be some instances where you will uneasy but eventually everything will get settled. dong get blind in love, see if partner truely loves you or not and then decide. -Purnima
Shafiya says: August 26, 2017 at 1:26 am
we do celebrate diwali, i visit my parents during festivals but its just that i dont pray to shiva as an idol.i do read Qura-e-sharif and follow many things. what i see in islam are the rules were made in different time period. may be during that time all the things mentioned might be correct , now time has changed and i follow those things which i feel should be followed. i dont support polygamy either my husband or in laws do. if my daughter want to marry a non muslim its ok with me, if the partner she choose loves her and support her. -Purnima
Its been seven years so just revisiting here. So far life is good I have three kids alhamdulillah. I am enjoying my motherhood and family. I follow the islamic customs and now have got used to it. my advice to girls who want to get married to muslim boy is check everything about the boy and family and dont just love blindly. -Shafiya
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Its been seven years so just revisiting here. So far life is good I have three kids alhamdulillah. I am enjoying my motherhood and family. I follow the islamic customs and now have got used to it. my advice to girls who want to get married to muslim boy is check everything about the boy and family and dont just love blindly .
Hello Shafia, we are glad things are going well for you. You said, “if my daughter wants to marry a non muslim its ok with me”, does it mean the non-Muslim will have to convert to Islam before marriage? If that is the case, this statement is incorrect, “want to marry a non muslim” since she will be marrying to a non Muslim, but a Muslim only. Is this not correct?
Why you said, “i dont pray to shiva as an idol.” Shiv murti and Caaba are focus points, they are not gods. As you know, Hindus believe in one Ultimate, but have liberty to practice their faith as it works for one, for one it could be Shiv murti (Saguna) and for the other meditation without any form (Nirguna). As a Muslim, you glorify (idolize) Muhammad at every step of life (Saguna), some may see it as an idolizing a person, but you know God is Nirguna. Read more here… https://interfaithshaadi.org/gruelling-questions-on-hinduism-in-hostile-environment/
if my daughter wants to marry a non muslim its ok with me- As I said, whom she marries is her choice, if she wants to marry muslim then ok if she wants to marry non muslim its ok.
We follow steps of Proph. Md as he is final messanger of god , we dont call him god. so saguna or nrguna has nothing to do with it.
Idol worship is not mandatory in Hinduism there are many sect in Hinduism who are strictly against idol worship so if a Hindu don’t like to worship God through idols he or she can go to Arya Samaj or he/she can worship Nirakar Iswar(Nirguna Brahma).As lord Krishna says in Bhagavad Gita chapter 12 (bhakti Yoga) when Arjuna asked him ,
Which are considered to be more perfect,those who are always properly engaged in your devotional service or those who worship the impersonal Brahma the unmanifested?
The supreme personality of Godhead sri Krishna said: those who fix their minds on My personal form and always engaged in worshipping me with great and transcendental faith are considered by me to be most perfect.
But those who fully worship the unmanifested,that which lies beyond the perception of the senses the all pervading, inconceivable, unchanging, fixed and immovable-the impersonal conception of the Absolute Truth-by controlling the various senses and being equally disposed to everyone, such persons,engaged in the welfare of all,at last achieve me.
I am a white man from Australia and in your eyes I am a bad and evil person. BUT I would say if your Religion does not allow you to love a human, especially your SPOUSE, what is the point of the religion?
Brendan,
Why you said you are an evil person? We are sure you are a decent human being. Let us know why you said so.
So called tolerant people are exhibiting their tolerance. If a girl change her religion then their religion and nation is under threat as per them, then better don’t be part of such weak religion and culture.
Fact: Hindus are naturally inclined towards Islam, most of today’s Muslims are convert from Hinduism because most of world Muslim comes form these five countries namely Indonesia, Pakistan,India, Bangladesh and Malaysia where people have changed from Hinduism to Islam, if Hindus are to change, their chance of picking Islam over other religion is most high no matter how much people try to prove that Islam and Hinduism has no common ground.
I’ll add the fact which has been missed:
Suicidal #BlueWhaleChallenge, is only the cyber-version of Islam‒ once you enter it, exit is possible one and only by death!
Mac
Our religion Sanatan dharma is eternal if it is weak how it is survived so long(from the beginning of creation) and yes it is not man made religion, it is directly by our creater so brother no matter how many Hindus convert to other religions Sanatan dharma will always here because God is always there
Sanatan dharma is God’s religion bro who has power to defeat God?
Your fact Mac ,joke for me
Look it is Kaliyuga means yuga in which adharma (Evils) will increase and dharma (religion) will decrease.
There are many so called religious people ( any religion) who aren’t following their religion as it is.
I believed that all religions are same preaches love but after reading verses of Quran about how to treat non Muslims,idolers and all non Muslims with burn in hell eternally my believe broken
Sanatan dharma is best thanks God for making me Hindu and give me consciousness to read Bhagavad Gita thanks God thanks God……..
You will allow your daughter to leave Islam and marry a non Muslim really you converted to Islam because Islam allow only nikah so why didn’t your husband convert because obstacle in your love marriage is your lover’s religion not yours?
Islam allows to leave Islam?
Islam allows a girl to marry a non Muslim?
A person who didn’t leave his religion for her lover but her lover changed her religion to marry him will allow his daughter to leave Islam and marry non Muslim?
I am not against or in favor of you but your decision and your thinking about your daughter’s future don’t seem logical to me.
God bless you my dear Ex Hindu.
Sofiya. what is your current situation. How you enjoy your first Eid (a festival which sacrifice animals with bloodshed brutally).
who is sofiya ?
we assume he meant shafiya.
admin you can use my name instead of purnima if you want, not a problem for me with either.
It’s your choice, we will change it now.
Shafiya/purnima.. are you still following evil and a curse for earth religion that is islam..
This is all about dedicated to shophia.
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Admin,
There are some converted Mulsim women and secretely encouraging innocent Hindu girls and trying to convert them.. You can check in Qura.com, these bastard converted jehadi lady like (REEMA CHHABRA, ZARA RAZAQ, NIKITA TRIVENI, and many more, please search in QUORA.COM) are actively doing their conversion activity, so called lovejihad. Dont believe shafiya once she is converted.
Brother krish Reema Chabbra now a non Muslim she leaves Islam
In quora Search why you stop following Islam there are many answers many from Islamic countries and there is one honest answer with Reema Chhabra
Dear Mira,
Yes I know REEMA CHHABRA she stops following ISLAM now she is against islam and Quran. She hates Quran. Personally I know her and she is working in a top MNC company in Hyderabad. Now she is not wearing veil or Bukha and living happily. She was running with bipolar depression and attempted suicide many times after marriage. She stops because Quran is based on Arabic language. Reeema also done great knowledge on Arab language. She frightened when she translated QURAN into English and she came to know that Quran is not a religion book. It is full of war muslim and non muslim and conquer of land and spread the population (abortion is prohibited in Quran etc). She divorced when she argued with her husband about Quran.
Dear Mira.. can we discuss and protect our Hindu girls who are lured muslims? we can talk abt future course of action. We need to stop them from hell fire.
pls do let me know.
now what is your mulsim name?. By the way muslim destroyed India and you are joined to destroy again mother India. when are you planning to move Syria??
Hey,
We have changed your name for your privacy. Why are you using your Hindu name? Do you consider yourself a Hindu or Muslim (don’t say both)?
ok that is fine with me Admin. using the same name that you gave to me. well Mr. krish all muslims are not bad ! my muslim name is shafiya. we have a family member who is currently serving in Indian army so you better take your words back. Admin , i am using my old name because my family members are fine with the usage of it, its just on official documents my name has been changed. As i said i did undergo the conversion process so i am muslim now.
Are you Muslim in faith or only on paper? Do you still visit your temple when with your parents? Do you still believe Lord Krishna and Ram are holy? Do you still celebrate Holi and Diwali? Read what is said in Koran here for Hindus, do you believe these are Allah’s true statement and to be followed? Allah said okay for polygamy, are you endorsing such belief? One day, you sons and daughters will date other Hindus, are you going to ask all of them to convert to Islam (till no more Hindus left to convert)? We are trying to understand what conversion means to you?
we do celebrate diwali, i visit my parents during festivals but its just that i dont pray to shiva as an idol.i do read Qura-e-sharif and follow many things. what i see in islam are the rules were made in different time period. may be during that time all the things mentioned might be correct , now time has changed and i follow those things which i feel should be followed. i dont support polygamy either my husband or in laws do. if my daughter want to marry a non muslim its ok with me, if the partner she choose loves her and support her.
On “if my daughter want to marry a non muslim its ok with me” do you mean without converting the Hindu? Did you talk to your in-laws and community if okay for your daughter to marry a “Hindu”? How many such marriages do you know in your close family?
Did you had a Hindu wedding too?
On idol worship, read our article here and lets discuss in details.
If your time permits, read out book. At least read first 40 pages for free now! We hope to hear what you have to say.
Admin, no i only had nikah, we if my daughter want to marry a hindu and want to accept hinduism i am totally fine with that. its her choice which faith she wants to continue. all i want my children to be happy and live peacefully. and yes i have seen a muslim women married to hindu and following all the hindu rituals , she is mutual friend.
Lady, you show all the signs of a fresh cult-entrant!
You’ll let your daughter to marry a nonMuslim? Really??!! Your husbnd and his community will give you that much freedom….
Continue to hallucinate!
Admin,
It is strictly prohibited to worship an Idol or Lord Krishna/Lord RAM or Lod SHiv Ji.
My point is if a person is nor reliable/believe in his/her own religion (specially in HINDU religion), then he/she cant be a person in other religion. They simply dont know the definition of religion, they mad for love and physical relationship.
shafiya,
Call you muslim name rather than HINDU name because of an insult to my nation and my Hindu religion. I hate those cheap lady whose love is bigger than nation and religion. Really I am saying is that more muslim population is more threat to the eaarth and ISLAM IS CURSE for EARTH.
I dont care and will not revert my word. What I say is as per the situation and violation not only in India, but in entire world. Only MUSLIMS, YES I SAID ONLY MUSLIM and terrorist MAHAMMAD QURAN is responsible. Now you said your family memeber are defect personnel, but I am saying that 96% and above muslims are violent. Who is suffering in India, only Hindu are sufferin because of a tolerant Religion.
Recently an muslim army jawan left with gun and joined in terror, so believe to an muslim is foolishness.
It is your chioce, but all I ca say is that QURAN is not a spiritual book rather than it is RULE BOOK with lot of Hypnotism. It is a good book to DO and NOT to DO. Thats it.You lost your identity.
You said your children will give freedom, Madam it is not possible, gradually they learn all muslim religious things and they definitely incline towards islam..
Thanks and best of luck. Hope no triple talaq and NO HALALA.
shafiya,
You are curse for the nation and our religion. Islam is a most hatred religion in the world. A fake religion which aim is to convert and spread hatred and population.. Read all ex-muslim site to know better than me..