Geet says: April 30, 2014 at 8:45 am
Thanks loving admin.
I hve one ques i came to know dat if we do marriage under special marriage act, then there would be no forcible conversion, after marriage , is that true? And wat are the benefits i ll get if we do mrge under special act??? Pls throw some light… -Geet
Admin says:
Geet,
You have raised a great question, why the Special marriage act 1954 (or civil court wedding) and not the Islamic Nikaah wedding?
Nikaah cannot be of an interfaith couple; both MUST be Muslims only. For this reason the Hindu will be asked to have a Shahadah conversion to Islam before the Nikaah. After conversion you will be 100% Muslim and ZERO percent Hindu.
As per Indian laws for a Muslim couple (after Nikaah), most Sharia laws apply. That means, the Muslim guy could have up to 4 wives and could divorce any one of four by simply saying talaak, talaak, talaak; simple! Further, it is very difficult for a Muslim wife to initiate a divorce proceeding. After talaak, as per Islam, you (now Muslim) MUST marry another Muslim only. In addition, after divorce, most probably the Muslim husband will get child custody, and not you. Also know that the Muslim guy could have, morally acceptable by Islam, several Mutta marriages (read Mr. Haque). Are these terms acceptable to you?
If you marry by the Special Marriage Act or the Hindu ceremony, then there is no need for conversion to Islam or to Hinduism, the Hindu wife has 100% rights as that of the Muslim husband, divorce is not easy deal and most probably after the divorce the judge will give custody to the mother and not to the father. If your Muslim guy agrees for the Hindu wedding that will prove that he is not a religious fanatic. For all these reasons, insist on the Hindu wedding only.
To your second question, “then there would be no forcible conversion, after marriage”, if you are going to live with his parents or close to his Muslim community, conversion to Islam is a MUST. Convert, convert, convert, you do not have another option. If you have any doubt, read Akansha and see Gadar movie. Still if you are not convinced, go ask his parents (not him!).
Bottom line, before going for a date with a Muslim boy, the Hindu must first decide if Islam is acceptable to you. So, now spend good time learning about Islam. Read Koran. Go to a local Mosque and learn more from the imam.
Geet, why are you scared of converting to Islam? You are willing to sleep with a Muslim husband, eat, live and breath in Muslim’s home, raise Muslim children, then why you don’t want to be a Muslim? They will convince you that Islam is only true religion while Christianity and Hinduism are not. Further, if you convert to Islam, you will go to heaven while as a Hindu you will only get Hell Fire (including Mahatma Gandhi). As a Muslim, even you have hell in THIS life but you are guaranteed heaven in AFTER life. It’s your life and your choice. -Admin
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Hindu: I have agreed for conversion to Christianity
Hi All,
Am a muslim and in love with a Muslim girl. But our parents are against our marriage. We wanted to get married without knowing our parents. Is there any way to get marry without knowing parents?
Though we feel that anything might happen in future, we wanted to safeguard ourself by registering our marriage. Please do help me. Thanks in advance.
Reply at https://interfaithshaadi.org/?p=13669
What happens if I convert for Nikaah only for nameshake and continue to live as it is afterwards? Is there any legal significance of such conversions?
Reply at https://interfaithshaadi.org/?p=12239
Kumar, which country do you live in?
I don’t know about India but if you were living in the West, I don’t think any religious conversion matters in terms of living your life. People convert in church or mosque for weddings all the time and continue their lives as they wish.
In other sharia-run countries, things may be different.
Admin usually says that if someone marries by nikkah in India, then, Islamic family laws would apply to them, but in terms of living your life, I don’t think it should affect you. India is, after all, a free and secular country.
Socially, Muslims community may apply pressure for you to follow a way of life if you are living in a Muslim mohalla.
Reply at https://interfaithshaadi.org/?p=12239
Geet is rightly not wanting to convert to Islam because she must be aware of the torture a muslim wife has to accept from a muslim husband because of threat of 3 talaq
So if a muslim/hindu women wishes to marry a muslim man she must marry under special marriage act & get legal protection & not suffer torture & abuse by husband or be thrown on road by3 talaq & also not be subjected to injustice by mullahs
no a muslim man cannot marry four women, it is not compulsary , and it allowed only when present wife give permission beside it halal only when he has the capacity of taking care both of wives(may b four wives) equally if not then taking more than one wife is haram and do u know what haram means in islam and to muslims. so my dear admin, why didn`t u mentioned that. also in islam it is the lowest form of halal thing to divorce wife just above is soft beating of wife(when in extreme cases if needed). so out of thousands of halal works divorcing is the last one. also in india hindu couple(young,modern,urban) divorce rate is more than muslims.
Pakhi Begum you are trying as if you are a goddess and others are demon.
Dont blame others for your evil deeds. You are a blot in the society.
Pakhu Begum,
You remember that dreadful day,after marriage in muslim community how cruelly your clitoris was removed, as FMG and how badly you were bleeding for months? Still you appreciate eveil customs of islam?
You are not a Muslim but have taken the name of a Muslim. What you have stated is hundred percent fictitious, false, concocted imaginary and made up stories by Hindu community. I am happy after my reversion from Hinduism to Islam. Because of essence of Islamic Religion not only my hindu mother but also my Brahmin Freedom Fighter father was reverted to Islam the religion of peace. Can you please tell me the names of the wives of Panch Pandava?
Pakhi Begum (Formally Mitali Mukherji)
Muslims believe that Islam was spread peacefully by Muslims traveling from country to country, city to city, door to door preaching the teachings of Peace and Love and Goodness from Allah and His Messenger.
This is not what happened.
Obeying the teachings of Islam – Muslims fell upon the infidel civilizations and peoples with unimaginable savagery and rivers of blood flowed across the pages of human history.
Islam is coated in blood of the innocents. In the past 1400 years, Islam has murdered 270,000,000 nonbelievers.
80 million Hindus killed.
60 million Christians were slaughtered
10 million Buddhists died.
120 million Africans butchered
As stated countless times already – ALL Muslims MUST believe the Koran is the divine word of God – the Laws of God. All Muslims MUST believe that God authored the Koran and a copy of the Koran is in heaven. The Koran remains for all Muslims, not just “fundamentalists,” the uncreated word of God Himself. It is valid for all times and places forever; its ideas are absolutely true and beyond all criticism. To question it is to question the very word of God, and hence blasphemous. A Muslim’s duty is to believe it and obey its divine commands without question.
Please refrain from personal attacks.
Massey the son or descendant of the india christian,
Where from you got the statistics? You know what had happened 1400 yrs ago so you must be knowing what had in India for the last two hundred yrs. How many freedom fighters were tortured to death by christian britishers? Why those Indian christians had opposed India’s Independence? Whether your fathers and/or forefathers had participated India’s independence
Md.Zia-ul-Haque
LITTLE CORRECTION
Massey,
Why your father and forefathers did not take part or participate in the Freedom struggle/ movement of India’s independence.
Pakhi Begum,(Previously Mitali Mukherji D/O, Avijit Mukherji,Freedom Fighter)
Dear readers,
Islam is a declaration of war against infidels. Islam is an ideology of WAR. The Koran is a BOOK OF WAR. Allah is a GOD OF WAR. This war is permanent until all the infidels have converted, or paid a submission tax or have been murdered. These are the ETERNAL LAWS OF ALLAH AS SET DOWN IN THE KORAN
Infidels can be murdered by Muslims as an ETERNAL LAW OF ALLAH. Not only can they all be murdered but the wives and daughters of the murdered infidels can be taken as booty, raped, and then sold as slaves. Their sons can be sold into slavery. If there is any doubt as to the boy’s age of puberty – Muslims can pull down their pants and inspect their genital area for hairs. Even the slightest sign of hair growth means that these young men can be taken and beheaded. As an ETERNAL LAW OF ALLAH, Muslims can then loot and pillage the property of the murdered infidels, and must share the booty obtained from the sale of boys and women and the proceeds of looting with ALLAH. Muslims can own slaves as an ETERNAL LAW OF ALLAH. Slavery has been a central part of Islam since it’s creation by Muhammad. ALL THIS EVIL ARE THE ETERNAL LAWS OF ALLAH AS SET DOWN IN THE KORAN. THESE LAWS OF ALLAH ARE FOREVER. Not only that but righteous Muslims who slay and are slain murdering infidels can ascend as martyrs to the evil, sexually degenerate, depraved Islamic Paradise of eternal erections and virgins who re – generate as virgins after each sex act. THIS IS THEIR ETERNAL REWARD FOR OBEYING THESE EVIL LAWS OF ALLAH.
Gulnar,
I think you are a non Muslim. I was born in Hindu Brahmin family. Subsequently all my family members were reverted to Islam. I don’t know your educational qualification but I request you kindly think as to why Islam is the fastest growing religion in the world today. Why do people from all walks of life throughout the world are reverting to Islam every minute, every hour, every day, every week, every month and every year. Record says that even after unfortunate 9/11 attack people in USA are reverting to Islam every day in large number. No sword no application of force. No compulsion at all.
I know you can not give any satisfactory answer.
Pakhi Bebum (Previously Mitali Mukherji)
Dear Massey,
As far as I remember, Haque once told through this blog that he had several mutta marriages and gave birth to various kids like Pakhi.
I know the entire family of Haque, he is bastard, he was sodomized by Imam in the madarasa during his childhood when he used to go there to learn teachings of Koran. He learnt various practices of sodomy and te mporary marriages with poor girs in association with notorious maulvies and imams. Now he must be using Pakhi for sexual purpose practically through various poses being her mentor. Koran is a evil book openly preaching sexual practices against females, even 9 year old girl is married to 59 year old male.
Pakhi can you marry your own sister or daughter of 9 year old to male of 59 year as per ideals of rapist Mohamad.
Both the bastards winston & massey
You bastards how can you compare yourselves with my mentor Mr.Haque whose monthly income by the Grace of Allah is now more than 15 lakhs Rupees which he earns through legal practice. I think he can buy entire family of both of you. I have the permission to use his computer whenever I come to Calcutta but he does not have any time to go through this blog. Mr.Haque was hundred percent right when he said these bastard Indian christians had opposed Indian’s Independence as their forefathers converted to christianity out of greed.
Pakhi Begum (Hater of christians specially Indian christians)
Pakhi,
Either Mr. Haque is posing as Pakhi or Pakhi is an innocent girl lured to convert to Islam for some free legal advise. Mr. Haque has lured many girls for uncountable muta marriages with the pretense of helping them. Mr. Haque is not a saint. Saints don’t self-praise. Mr. Haque has been the biggest bragger all along he has came to this site, … I am this and … I am that. Now he is telling us “more than 15 lakhs Rupees … “.
Mr. Haque, SHALLOW WATER MAKES MOST NOISE!
Mr. Haque, shame on you for your muta practices.
Admin
You don’t have the qualification or quality to run this blog. I had already stated in this blog that I was born in a brahmin family and got married with the brother of my sister in law(my brother’s wife). Your assumption is wrong.Now it is crystal clear that you are massey and you are winston and you are pseudo Muslim girls who are abusing Muslim boys. This is 100% hindu blog.
Mr.Haque had given his postal address but those bastards “massey” “winston” and other ante Mr.Haque persons have no courage to give their respective addresses. In fact they don’t exit. It is you who are posing as massey and winston.
Admin, shallow water does not make a noise. It is shallow water fish that makes noise. Mr.Haque is such a broad minded person that he is like a sea and sea water makes much noise. Have you heard the name of Casius Clay who was reverted to Islam and taken the name Muhammed Ali and used to say “I am the greatest”. Whole world except people like you “massey” and “winston” had recognized him as the greatest boxer of all time. You are at the helm of affairs. Please be neutral and not communal.
Pakhi Begum (Previously Mitali Mukherji)
You bastards winston and massey and all Indian christians
Just go through what Hinu said in ” I have agreed for conversion to christianity”. I know you bastards will avoid to react.
Pakhi Begum
winston
Is it a fact that your prostitute hindu mother had deserted you and you were grown up in an orphanage where christian nuns had baptized you?
Pakhi Begum (Previously Mitali Mukherji)
Pakhi
You are no doubt that you are hiding your identity and you are 100% Haque, so called islamic self praiser, a mutta product. The language used here is the same that bastard Haque used.
Your mother was a prostitute in Sonagachi area of Kolkatta.
Massey the Christian,
I am not Mr.Haque but he is my mentor. No doubt he is far superior than a bastard like you. I am a reverted Muslim but not a chrisrian. Mr.Haque has gone Mumbai in connection with a legal case. You can have it confirmed by giving a ring at Inter Continental Hotel.I know him through this website only as admin had given his address. I am even allowed to use his computer in his absence also.
Pakhi Begum (Allergic to present day bastard Christians)
You bastards massey and winston
Give your reaction to I have said above as I will go to my native village day after tomorrow.
Pakhi Begum (Previously Mitali Mukherji)
Pakhi,
Even if you are female married in muslim family, your clitoris must have been removed, being FMG an essential practice, forced to eat beef, on wedding night must have managed bleeding by using artificial kit.
Soon you will be handed over to terrorists to satisfy their sexual needs.
Massey
You are nothing but an idiot and illiterate. Once you have said I am a male and associated with a terrorist organization but again you have said I would be handed over to the terrorist. Note that I was born in a Hindu brahmin family and got married with a Muslim. I am a beef eater. I am happy with my Muslim husband whose sister got married with my own brother. I hate christians. These bastards including your swine forefathers opposed India’s independence. I HATE CHRISTIANS.
Pakhi Begum
Pakhu,
Why you hate Christians? Do you mean any and all Christians? What you have to say for Jesus, the Son of God?
Admin’
I hate christians like massey,william and world number terrorist, ante Islam and ante Muslims george bush whose daughter has been reverted to Islam like me.
Pakhi Begum (Previous (Mitali)
Pakhu,
Do you mean you hate any and all Christians? How about Barak Obama (father was Muslim but he decided to be a Christian as an adult), Mother Teresa, Catholic Sonya Gandhi, baptized Priyanka Gandhi, … do you hate all of them?
Admin
No doubt I respect and regard Mother Teresa but hate all those people who revert to Christianity for money or power.
Pakhi Begum
Barak Obama reverted when he was in college, and it was not for money or power. He extensively studies all his options and made a fully informed decision.
Are you hating Christians because Koran said, “Believers, take neither Jews nor the Christians for your friends.” (5:51)? This is intolerant teachings. If you are a true Muslim, how can you say “I respect and regard (Christian nun) Mother Teresa”?
Admin
Obama had superior vision from his child hood and he knew that it would be not easy for a Muslim to be prominent in any christian dominated country and therefore he had converted to christianity. About Mother Teresa: My Religion teaches to respect person who helps other persons. Who does not know the charity work undertaken by Mother Teresa whom we all love and respect whereas we will try keep anti Indian christians like massey,winston and other under our feet. Admin, unless these bastards satisfy you that they don’t have the blood of those hogget christians who opposed Indian independence, you debar them in this blog. India’s enemy means enemy of all indians.
Pakhi Begum (Previously Mitali Mukherji)
I am sure Pakhi is a male and definitely associated with some terrorist organisation.Intentionally an attempt of female has been described to make fool of innocent people.
Every body knows that terrorists are 99% islamic people all over the world. They have not spared their own community innocents from Afganistan, Syria, Libya, Jordan, Iraq, Pakistan. Koran is responsible for all such henious crimes against humanity being full of evil teachings against females and non islamic persons.
Geet,dont get trapped. Save yourselves from landing in a trouble for ever. If ever you wanted to come back, you will not be allowed to do so, making you liable for stonning to death.
Right now your all terms and doubts will be cleared but once you are married, your bad days shall begin in various forms of restrictions, abuses, domestic violence, threatening and finally kicking out as soon as another wife/wives are brought.
Shagufta
You bad and worst to worst days have already began and will end at hell.
Please advise your husband to follow Lord Krishna in the matter of marriage.
Pakhi Begum (Previously Mitali )
He had 16,000 wives for purely symbolic reasons. They were not sex slaves. In fact, he restored their honour and dignity as women by “marrying” them.
The 16,000 wives idea is purely symbolic. We do not even know if it is true, and we don’t care. What we care about is the message it conveys in its symbolism: women deserve respect.
Ravi,
Are you ready to send your wife or daughter or sister to my mentor purely on symbolical basis.
Pakhi Begum
Lol. Your mentor? Never! So they should turn out like you?
Shagufta
You bad and worst to worst days have already began and will end at hell.
Please advise your husband to follow Lord Krishna in the matter of marriage.
Pakhi Begum (Previously Mitali )
It is not a duplicate comment
Dont know wat to do
Geet,
I am a reverted Muslim. I having wonderful life. Islam is the most disciplined Religion. Please don’t be in two minds. Come and join the World Islamic family. Lord Krishna had more than 16000 wives. Just imagine what will happen to a Hindu girl if his Hindu husband acquires just 16 wives.
Pakhi Begum
No i ll nvr do conversion.
I am born hindu and i ll die hindu.if he truly loves me, he must accept me as i am. Evn when i ask my guy stop doing conversations with me, cos i cant accept any other religion (not because it s good or bad) but jst because acc to me wat s the problem in leading a life as a hindu muslim couple, at that time, his reply was i onli love u, as u are, even now he also starts talking about my customs, like sandhya aarti, and morning prayers, my fasting, my temple visits and now it seems all hese things hve been gotta part of his life too. He s ready to become hindu, but my viewpt is if u truly love someone accept him or her with his or her bad as well as good qualities plus religion ( now).
even after we met now i daily remind him to do namaaz because he dont believe in god. Things are going right and smoothly.
Ques s onli about his family. I hve decided to do intellect with his family,.
And pls stop making issue of lord krishna’s 16000 wives. It was jst a prabhu leela. I think on this site u ll came to know about the whole story.
And if u onli once follow any ‘shobha yatra of lord krishna” splly jagannath rath yatra , u ll find evn some men, having belief dat lord krishna is his husband. Thakurji had 16000 wives, at that time there were more than 16000 men who hve made thakurji as there husband, it was jst a prabhu leela, we can never came to know exact information.
No religion is good or bad , as a human, all of us have same destinty to meet our real partner, our god. It doesnt matter wat s the way, or which way we are going through , the thing onli matter s our destination God.
He had 16,000 wives for purely symbolic reasons. They were not sex slaves. In fact, he restored their honour and dignity as women by “marrying” them.
The 16,000 wives idea is purely symbolic. We do not even know if it is true, and we don’t care. What we care about is the message it conveys in its symbolism: women deserve respect.
Thanks for ur respond ravi. U cleared my pt.
Geet,
After marriage you have to prove your virginity on the wedding by bleeding during first intercourse and the bed sheet will be shown to all family members next morning, as a symbol of pride and honour. Husband need not be virgin but wife has to be virgin.
There after another process of female genital mutiliation,removal of clitors is necessary under islamic practices?
Sense of insecurity of tripple oral talak will prevail on the wife and husband enjoy liberty to have 4 wives at a time and giving talak to one of them and bringing another 4th wive?
After talak, wife has to marry with some one and have sex and the guy will give talak, then exhusband could marry again. This is called halala.
ARE YOU READY FOR THESE PRACTICES AND KEEP YOURSELVES IN VEIL?
Geet,
These are true in some communities but not in all. Talaak, 4 wives and halala are as per Sharia laws. Do not believe what others says, instead, go meet that Muslim family several times and try to find out facts indirectly on your own. Fair?
Admin ! U r ryttt, coz in my guy family, tgey are allowed to hve seven wives. And he used to say that i ll do seven different marriages with you in seven styles .
Dont know wat s happening admin, i m feeling so much laugh doing again same discussion again people are start discriminating religions here.
Heena
Being a reverted Muslim I an quite confidant that no boy/groom is required to show bed sheet with blood to the family members. It is a matter of shame and does not prevail in Muslim society/ family.
Pakhi Begum