rohanmona says: October 12, 2012 at 4:42 pm
i am by birth human and my parents had forced me into hinduism but now i an atheist and happy. I got in a relationship with a muslim girl and i loved her a lot and she also shares the mutual feeling. She once said to me if I covert to muslim she can marry me or else not. I told if was hindu there was a very rare probability of me getting converted. But i am just a human with morals, so what to convert from a good human being. Well so is it worth to keep relationship with her as for her as I see religion seem higher than true love. Or is there a way her eyes could be open and rational thinking can be induced to her?
Thanks in advance. -Rohanmona
Admin says:
Rohanmona,
We are not surprised by this request of religious conversion. This “fake” conversion virus is all over. If you “fake” convert and tell her that you will remain what ever you are, still she will marry you. Basically, in most cases, the Muslim don’t give a damn if you are a Muslim or not, but they are requesting conversion just to please their parents and imam’s requirements. This is so sad because these so called theist are out lying and fooling their parents, imams, Islamic institutions and Allah by this “fake” conversions. Compared to these so called theist, we respect “a human with morals” like you, even atheist.
What do other readers think of this “FAKE” conversion business?
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i am a Hindu boy and i am dating a girl who is muslim. i love her a lot and want to spend my whole life with her.it is possible.????if i convert our religion from hindu to islam then can i merry with her….
plzzzzz suggest me;i lover her alot
Hi Vijay,
We can help. Yes, you can marry her by many ways: 1) She convert to Hindu, 2) You convert to Islam, 3) both convert to each other’s faith, 4) no one convert and still marry. Let us know which of these options will work best for you? Later, we will help you to educate her to accept you. Get back, thanks.
Before their wedding ceremony begins in rural Afghanistan, a 40-year-old man sits to be photographed with his 11-year-old bride. The girl tells the photographer that she is sad to be engaged because she had hoped to become a teacher. Her favorite class was Dari, the local language, before she had to leave her studies to get married.
She is one of the 51 million child brides around the world today. And it’s not just Muslims; it happens across many cultures and regions.
Photographer Stephanie Sinclair has traveled the world taking pictures, like the one of the Afghan couple, to document the phenomenon. Christiane Amanpour spoke with Sinclair about a book which features her photographs called, “Questions without Answers: The World in Pictures by the Photographers of VII.”
Faiz, 40, and Ghulam, 11, sit in her home prior to their wedding in rural Afghanistan in 2005.
Amanpour asked Sinclair if the 11-year-old Afghan girl married in 2005, and others like her, consummate their marriages at such an early age. Sinclair says while many Afghans told her the men would wait until puberty, women pulled her aside to tell her that indeed the men do have sex with the prepubescent brides.
Sinclair has been working on the project for nearly a decade. She goes into the areas with help from people in these communities who want the practice to stop, because they see the harmful repercussions.
“Whenever I saw him, I hid. I hated to see him,” Tehani (in pink) recalls of the early days of her marriage to Majed, when she was 6 and he was 25. The young wife posed for this portrait with former classmate Ghada, also a child bride, outside their mountain home in Yemen.
In Yemen, a similar picture. Tehani and Ghada are sisters-in-law photographed with their husbands, who are both members of the military. Like most of the girls, Tehani didn’t even know she was getting married, until the wedding night. She was six years old.
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Yubee,
Many thinkers have reached to the same conclusion as you have reached. Even Vivekananda had same observations regarding Jesus and Muhammad as you have discovered.
Thanks for sharing your views to the benefit of those who are looking for interfaith marriages.
I have read about the lives of Sikh Gurus and other enightened saints of other religions after giving a deep thought I came to the following conclusion sh ree Ram chander, shre krishna,Guru Nanak and Jesus were born enlightened and were truley the messangers of God Lord Budha, Kabeer jee, Fareed jee, Ravidaas jee and many more became enlightened through their devotion, bhagti etc.
Mohammad on the other hand seems to have some spiritual experiences like he talked to angels etc and angels gave him the knowledge of God but he never became one with the God, or in other words he never achieved the stage of brahm gyan, A brahm gyani’s attitude in life is different from Mohammad, brahm gyani has universal approach towards mankind, so it seems to me kuran was given to him by angels etc it can’t be God’s word.
Yubee,
A good observation.
There is a fundamental difference between Dharmic and Abrahamic faiths. Dharmics faiths recommend to look within and improve. The God is within, every where and is present with us even today as we talk. One will be enlightened when one achieves the ultimate knowledge.
Abrahamics (Christians, Jew and Muslims) have messages from the LORD god, who is somewhere away, and not with humans today (thought the God is watching). Their God has already communicated to people through apostles like Muhammod and Moses and have given “books” but their God don’t communicate directly with common people. Their God is a Jealous God and one MUST follow His (not Her) commandments literally otherwise the God will punish on the Judgment Day, when ever that will be.
A take home message for any Dharmic-Abrahamic dating couple is their God cannot tolerate other religious practices (even within Abrahamics) and thus they will ask for religious conversion (read BBS). A Catholic will not tolerate a Mormon, a Jew will not tolerate a Muslim and will ask for Bris/Barmitzvah for children by this marriage, Suni will not tolerate a Shia, and so on.
Bottom line message for ALL interfaith couples (including within Abrahamic), ask if the BBS labeling is important? If yes, walk away from this Telibani intolerant Abrahamic.
“The God is within, every where and is present with us even today as we talk. ” – that means you are saying god can lie, god is partial, kia baat he ji, man gaye!
hey rohan dont ever leave ur faith.i can say its the best in the world.Muslims try to convert everyone who comes in their way.all dis conversion business was started by them only.tell them to prove Sri Ram never existed.or to Prove Sri Krishna never existed.or even the lord tirthankars or lord Buddha never existed.prove that all these never had supreme powers.thats a slap on their face.can they prove their Muhamad had some great powers?in the name of love they ‘believers’just fool people and play with their sentiments.Earth is becoming hell just because of them.except a few of them who r good humans.what is the quality of God according to them?let them reply.God teaches to kill,hurt,commit all sorts of crimes right mr Amir and Ansur?cheap thinking.Rohan ur lucky to be born a Hindu.so preserve ur identity and culture.
Hello Rohan,
Here Admin. is absolutely right. Perhaps there is gap of understanding, mutual love, sharing whole life, as soul mates. More mutual understanding, affection and commitment is needed for whole life relationship. True love does not put any restriction.