Jannat says: September 21, 2013 at 1:23 Pm
I am jannat from New Delhi,India.
I am Muslim and I love a girl she is Hindu… We love each other too much and we want to marry very soon.. We don’t have any type of distance in our relationship… But the problem is her parents will never accept me because I am Muslim and my girl friend told me that if my parents will not accept him than she cant marry me or she will kill her self.. Than I told my gf ok I am converting my religion and i will also change my name for you than she discussed with her parents again they told they will never accept me,
I am not a bad man but I am Muslim… Disha please please and please help me. I cant live without her I love her so much.. But she told me if my parents will not accept me than she will die… Is it solution????? No… Why we will die. We can marry.. But please please help me what should I do… Please give me a solution very soon… Its urgent…. -Jannat
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Hi Jannat,
There is no reason for any one to die for love. Instead one need to show true love and respect for each other. Ask your gf to come on this site.
You said you are willing to convert to Hinduism and change your name. Really, you mean it? Did you talk to your parents about your new idea? Have you talk to your relatives and friends? Do not say or do in love that is not realistic. There is no reason for any one to give up name and religion.
You said you are a Muslim. What does “Muslim” mean to you? Do you believe in Allah and Muhammad? Do you believe in the Koran? Do you believe that there is going to a Judgment Day where Allah will send all good Muslims to heaven and all non-believers to Hell Fire? Do you believe your girlfriend is a non-believer in Allah, Muhammad and Islam?
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My name is rehan and my girl friend is hindu We love each other too much and we want to marry very soon.. We don’t have any type of distance in our relationship… But the problem is her parents will never accept me because I am Muslim and my girl friend told me that if my parents will not accept him than she cant marry me or she will kill her self.. Than I told my gf ok I am converting my religion and i will also change my name for you than she discussed with her parents again they told they will never accept me,
I am not a bad man but I am Muslim… Disha please please and please help me. I cant live without her I love her so much.. But she told me if my parents will not accept me than she will die… Is it solution????? No… Why we will die. We can marry.. But please please help me what should I do… Please give me a solution very soon… Its urgent…. -Rehan
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Hi Rehan
If your love is true one and you are honest, something will work out ultimately.
Problem with most muslims is they will make the Hindu convert to Islam and demand that children MUST be Muslims ONLY. They never learned 50-50% deal (pluralism) but they want it all 100% Islam way and 0% Hindu way. However, you appears to be different than most other Muslims.
You said, “I am converting my religion (to Hinduism)”, are you saying just out of your blind love or you know what you are talking about? Do you know punishment for leaving Islam is stoned to death? Let us know that you have permission from your parents and imam to convert to Hinduism and then we will give you tips on how to talk to your girlfriend’s parents.
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8574
very diplomatic answer, ha
Hi jannat! U want to convert urself, first ask frm ur soul, do u really,? Above all religions, our first religion is that we r humans. Love has no religion. I think u must visit temple during morning or evening prayers before conversion. If u find it pleasure, or contended onli then u must convert. If god provided u the identity of muslim, it means he has some other purpose. But if u really wanna conversion then first try to be the part of hindus ceremonies. If u find comfortable, go ahead.
Despite of all this, love has no religion. If u r really in love, then i must say that, live ur own life in your own mood or manner. But with all this both of u jst need optimistic thinking, trust, respect, good education so that u can make choice between good or bad decisions and ur own identity in society. Love s life and life s love. Enjoy it!!! God bless uh 🙂
Assalamu Alaikum Dear Brother,
Bismillahi Rehmanir Raheem
I pray Allah to give your guidance, Please know one thing that this world is not everything for a Muslim. I can understand you love her very much, but do you want to leave the love of Allah who created you when you were nothing? Our Prophet said “The world is jail for Muslim and Heaven for a Disbeliever”. Never leave Islam this is the only true religion acceptable by Allah.
Certainly, the only acceptable way which Allah will accept is Islam). [Holy Quran 3:19]
I suggest you read Quran e Pak daily with meaning InshaAllah, Allah will give you the path. This is the link
http://beta.quranexplorer.com/#1/1/7/
Thanks
Md Azhar,
You said, “the only acceptable way which Allah will accept is Islam). [Holy Quran 3:19]”, then can Mahatma Gandhi and Mother Teresa have any chance to go to heaven on the Judgment Day?
Dear Jannat,
Now let me ask you a very basic question…who is god? and how all this religion conversion business comes between you and your partner. Brother you love her right?, go get her. Talk to her parents, tell them about your views. Its gonna take some time but will eventually be alright. Make them realise that how much you love their daughter. Next talk to your girlfriend and console her, say that loving means living each day to the fullest, not just dying in vain.
One more thing you being a Muslim having such liberal views is damn good.
Keep up the good work, Lord Ganesha and Allah both are with you.
Also keep us all updated, and any questions feel free to ask here, I am sure you will receive wise answers, also please beware of hypocrite people like truth4ever on the web as well as your locality.
All the best.
you cannot marry her unless she converts to islam. according to quran it is forbidden to muslim to marry polytheists. you will receive punishment of hell if you marry her and she donot convert to islam.
Then you have an easy option. Convert to some other faith and marry your love 🙂
hi mr truth,
mr jannat has decided to convert. so your quran will be not applicable for him. go ahead mr jannat. Lord bless u.
Jannat, It is nice that you have proposed to return back to your ancestor’s religion . First convert and then propose to her parents for marriage. I think, they wo’nt refuse you .