Ryan says: December 31, 2014 at 6:04 pm
OMG same exact thing (like Rehan) happening with me. I am Muslim, however not religious whatsoever, dating a Hindu girl (who is very religious) for past 10 months. Half the relationship was long distance but didn’t affect us poorly in anyway. we made it work with no arguments/fights.
She was suppose to visit me recently but decided last minute not to. Now she says she wants to end it (even though she was very happy with me) bcuz her parents keep pressuring her about marriage and all of her friends are already married. She still wants to talk and be friends but idk how that will be possible. Is there anything i can even do?? -Ryan
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As the girl is a devout practicing Hindu and the boy is non religious one so making the marriage successful the boy should convert to Hinduism.
Excellent speach by a pandit about islam and the quran
I think it is needed for those people who are always going against islam
watch this
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7foUag40MgA&itct=CC8QpDAYBCITCOefpJHz_8ICFc6-qgodRzgAKFITaGluZHUgdnMgemFraXIgbmFpaw%3D%3D&client=mv-google&hl=en&gl=IN
Hi every one
I would like share with all readers about the islamic discriminatory attitude towards non believers.
On September 25, 2013, a group of armed Islamists in Karachi, Pakistan entered the office of a Christian charity, tied seven workers to chairs and then brutally murdered them. According to Muslim witnesses, the Muslims “showed no haste. They took a good 15 minutes in segregating the Christians and making sure that each one of their targets received the most horrific death.”
The killing of non-Muslim humanitarian workers by devout followers of Islam occurs quite often. While there is rarely any celebration on the part of other Muslims, neither is there much outrage expressed by a community renowned for its peevishness.
While rumors of a Quran desecration or a Muhammad cartoon bring out deadly protests, riots, arson and effigy-burnings, the mass murder of non-Muslims generally evokes yawns. In the eleven years following 9/11 nearly 20,000 acts of deadly Islamic terrorism were perpetrated, yet all of them together fail to provoke the sort of outrage on the part of most Muslims that the mere mention of Abu Ghraib or Guantanamo inspires.
This critical absence of moral perspective puzzles many Westerners, particularly those trying to reconcile this reality with the politically-correct assumption that Islam is like other religion. The Judeo-Christian tradition preaches universal love and unselfishness, so it is expected that the more devout Muslims would be the most peaceful and least dangerous… provided that Islam is based on the same principles.
But beneath the rosy assurances from Muslim apologists that Islam is about peace and tolerance lies a much darker reality that better explains the violence and deeply-rooted indifference. Quite simply, the Quran teaches supremacy, hatred and hostility.
Consider the elements that define hate speech:
Hi Ryan,
The age difference is an issue, if not for you, your parents may have.
Tell us what does “non-religious” means to you? Do you believe in Allah, Koran, Muhammad and the Judgment Day? Are your parents religious?
Let’s assume the girl and her parents are ready for the marriage. How would you like to get married… by Hindu wedding or Islamic Nikaah? Will your parents and community agree for the Hindu wedding?
Source
: Dont investigate into your husband’s or wife’s past..! ::
Many men and women insist upon knowing everything about their husband’s or wife’s past.
If a man or a woman was not always a practicing Muslim, then he or she might ask him/her about women/men he/she previously liked for example.
How do they look?? They will then insist to their spouses that whatever he/she says will not have any affect or him/her whatsoever!!!
When a man/woman answers questions about their past, he/she makes a huge mistake, one that he/she will pay a dear price for any acknowledgement of a past relationship will cause his/her married life to be poisoned..
By knowing about your spouse past completes the saying of Allah.
O you who believe! Ask not about things which, if made plain to you may cause you trouble(5:101)
and the Prophet S.A.W. Said: it is from the goodness of one’s Islam that he leaves alone that which does not concern him.
Instead of living in your spouses past and investigating its particulars. Enjoy the present life that you are sharing with your Husband or wife..
Well said.
Basically those muslims who claim to be non religious, are associate of different terrorist organisations, trapping innocent girls for sex exploitation.
Admn.
Why are you patronizing Mac as consultant ? He is hiding numerous evils of islam.
He is lying every where just to propagate islamic expansion against mankind.
Could you proof where he is lying. .
you are the liers who making a grab and making the fun of the religion. .
stupid admin still support you
Golnar, i like your frustration, i know when i quote from Qur’an and point finger on your lies, you don`t have anything to say…so after few days you come up with barking comment against me. LOL
Thank you got getting back to me do early. I’m a little confused on your advice. Also, sorry for sounding ignorant but I don’t know what “Mac” stands for. Also I’m 24 and she’s 30 which I think Is another large factor here. I wonder if it would be different if I converted to Hinduism? Any advice would be much appreciated.
Ryan,
The conversion for the sake of love is wrong. Mac is our Islamic consultant on this web site and he will guide you further. Meantime, read all what he believes in at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8129.
You are six years younger (just 24!, not like 30 and her 36).
Seriously, you are too young to be considering marriage. I am sorry mate, if she can wait till you have a stable job or something, that’d be good, but i doubt she can.
This really is not about religion. It is more about stability, security and maturity.
Even if you both love each other, you are young. I am sorry, I would ask both of you to reconsider.
Even if both of you were of the same religion, I would caution you against marriage.
Dear Ryan,
There is a lot you could do. We believe you are a victim of people stereotyping you. The media has created a phobia in society for Muslims and people will not easily buy your statements like “non-religious Muslim”, “tolerant Muslim” or a “pluralist Muslim”. When Hindu parents hear that their daughter is in love with a Muslim, they think of you as “mac“? What would you say to mac (probably of your age)?
Don’t give up, we will get back to you after you have interactions with mac. Stay tuned right here!
Will you make a blog what people said on mac…will you, let me see how much fair you are …afterall you are admin not a stupid(i mean hindu)
Let people say what ever behind you, why should it bother you? Are you not proud of your own beliefs and what you stand for?
Personal attack is not acceptable is any forum whether, when they criticize Islam i try to refute them … where as they only attack me personally..what kind of educated person are you that you couldn`t differentiate between personal attack and criticize of thoughts..
Secondly when people don`t have anything to argue with they resort to personal attack.
Agree 100%. We have removed objectionable text from Golnar’s comments above where there were wrong statements about your sister and mother. We have earlier removed many comments on muta product etc and that is not acceptable. If you find other personal attacks on your family, remind us and we will correct it. You are smart and honest and deserve all respects.