Habiba says: March 20, 2013 at 8:35 am
Hello Admin,
I am 26 yrs. old muslim girl with two other sisters in a asian country. My mother had been victim of mutta marriage being my grand parents poor and trapped by muslim clerics. My mother had undergone thrice for mutta marriages and every time she got deceived. Some how with the help of others, she got low profile job and we could get some education. Observing the maltreatment and discriminatory behaviour of muslims against females, I decided not to marry any muslim guy. I used to work in a Sikh family, who treated me like their daughter and my other sisters also got support from them. The family was business house and they had other workers.
I learnt from them some accounts job and married with a worker of sikh religion. Very happy with that family and my other sisters too married with two workers who were Hindu by religion and my mother who had never seen hapiness in her married life, now very happy with us.
What I have found, that in muslim society, to be a girl of poor family is really curse and every body has evil eyes on the girls and attempt to trap parents. Even if some thing wrong happens to the girls, they are blamed only. Frankly speaking ISLAM IS AN EVIL FOR MUSLIM GIRLS IN THIS WORLD, WHO HAS NO SAY JUST LIKE A SEX OBJECT. -Habiba
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Very happy to hear of your success story, but you cannot forget other millions of poor Muslim girls. You must come on this site to guide other Muslim girls. Show them the path of love and respect to all. -Admin
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we r from sikh relious, but we are cousion ( maame di kudi )
can married her in court ?
if not than i how it will happend …
we love each other
There are two answers: One a legal one and the other is approval by your society. If you are 18/21, then you could marry in a court. Read details here. However, your two sets of parents may not approve it and may kick you out of homes, are you okay managing your married life on your own?
Sister habiba,your mother has fallen prey to mutta but how can you blame islam for this 90% of muslims refuse mutta this practise is only prevalent in shia muslims and according to your foolish thinking that poor muslim girls are curse in islamic society it is100% wrong because Prophet Muhammad(pbuh) was himself poor people like you don’t know that which place islam has given to a woman and people like you are evil for humanity that have misconceptions about islam and spread wrong rumours about islam don’t ever try to comment anything against islam without exact knowledge you are just a foolish,nonsence and judgemental girl that has very less knowledge about islam may Allah help you to follow the wright and prosperous path in your life
Dear habeeba islam is a religion of great principles if we talk about mutta it is a custom introducted by shia muslims
Zara wrote – “Dear tenali, Why at all are you concerned with what I do??? Are you so blind to see that there is no helping going on in here?? Or again selectively you are ignoring it so you can feed the HOLE in your biased mind??? Are you so foolish to believe that all these stories are real or even if they are real the crude bias is justified?? Oh right they must seem real to everyone here who hate Islam so much including you So seems like you are frustrated and tired of ignoring my numerous question thats why you are cooking up your own assumptions. No probs keep up with your tired replies till you come up with an answer”
I am a frustrated, confused, mentally ill, looser, low level guy who cooks up my own assumptions to hate Islam. Also, I don’t answer any questions that were never asked. If that makes you happy and if you feel you protected Islam from me, then be it!! Have a nice day..
LOL “never asked”??? You were asked questions in every comment but even after replying so many time didnt take the pains to answer them!! Also dont feel discouraged any person with the above traits can change if he takes it up on himself to do so lol, nor do I feel I have done much, like you said somewhere I have a lot of ground to cover
Nice day to you too!! 🙂
Zara wrote – “You are making it seem as if Islam teaches them to fall in love. You wont even care to know that dating is forbidden because it leads to pre marital sex then where is the question of making love to anyone before marriage muslim or non muslim. But you are only adamant and stuck with your tape to say islam teaches this and islam teaches that, its the weak, wrong prone humans who do this and that. Humans are weak so blame human desires dont blame the religion”
Though I don’t agree with your perception that dating leads to pre marital sex, I wouldn’t argue on it. You are entitled to your opinion.
If dating is forbidden and if you understand Islam correctly, where are your comments against dating?
Why are you concerned with my comments??? SO many things are forbidden, not everyone follows it and nor I am here to judge others and tell them what to do or what not to do, I am only concerned if I am following things properly because Islam is very close to my heart so it pains me to see ppl speak so ill wtout even knowing much, like you. If I am doing something wrong I am answerable only to Allah, and so are others.
I am here because the so called ppl guiding others again like you know nothing much abt Islam, and its natural I will defend something so close to my heart.
What ppl do in their lives is their affair but when you drag my religion in to it I will always question the basis of that
On one hand, You believe Islam is perfect and Muslims don’t follow it correctly. On the other hand, you don’t want to educate Muslims about what is right or wrong. But you will react if some one makes negative comments. Don’t you see a gap?
Your intention on this site is only to support Islam and protect it from abusers? Or do you also want to support the couples involved in love?
Better late than never you did learn that I am here to only protect and defend Islam from people like yourself and numerous others. And it would be foolish to really think that there is any helping going on here, I have followed this site since sometimes and seen that the advices are way biased and unreliable and there is no guidelines on commenting neither are abusers barred so you guessed it right.
I have also seen some muslims trying to explain the basics but they have been abused too, rather than being one of them I would question the self claimed intellectuals here about their own practices
There you are. So your motivation here is not to advise the couples what is right or what is wrong (from your perspective) but to protect religion from abuse. There are thousands of websites abusing Islam on the net. Do you also visit those sites and protect Islam from the abuses?
Dear tenali,
Why at all are you concerned with what I do??? Are you so blind to see that there is no helping going on in here?? Or again selectively you are ignoring it so you can feed the HOLE in your biased mind???
Are you so foolish to believe that all these stories are real or even if they are real the crude bias is justified?? Oh right they must seem real to everyone here who hate Islam so much including you
So seems like you are frustrated and tired of ignoring my numerous question thats why you are cooking up your own assumptions.
No probs keep up with your tired replies till you come up with an answer
Dear Tenali,
Again I ask you, enlighten us on what you learned abt hinduism, every one will do with making an informed choice by having whole information as this site has been claiming since ages but no one seems to have a clue on hinduism but have loads and loads to speak abt Islam.
Is there really so much space in their minds for something they hate so much but no space for something they are supposed to follow themselves.
@admin @tenali n @satyen I am waiting for your answers
oNE MORE POINT WHEN A HINDU DOES SOMETHING WRONG THEY GO LIKE “Oh thats just a coincidence, oh this is an isolated case” and so on
And if a muslim does something wrong, then they abuse everyone from the family of that person to the religion, their community and doesnot even stay back in speaking ill for God.
@Yassir do not think they are here to learn anything, if you see some of the recent posts you will know I have shut the mouths of ppl like tenali, satyen who are regular islamophobes here and they have no answers
Mr Satyen infact has been asked so many questions abt hinduism bt he has not answered one but graciously replied with more abusive questions against islam totally ignoring those raised points, same goes for admin.
And tenali is the biggest looser here, who has no problem against thousands of god being an atheist but amazingly arrogant to believe existence of One and Only, he has no problems with the personalised senseless rituals and superstitions of hinduism but has loads n loads of crap against islam,
they have no problem that each hindu follows his own desires and rituals(only god knows who gave each person that authority), or is it because they know zero about their own religion blindly following their forefathers??
Better follow own sense and be wrong then blindly follow someone n claim to be right.
Just ask any of these ppl questions abt hinduisma and they will run faster than light and come back with copy pastes which will be miles long and not read by themselves but expect us to read
“LOOSER TENALI” – Nice compliment. Go Zara Go! You have lot of ground to cover…
Tenali
Also now you are asking me to show you hindu teachings wi=hich support violence. You forgot caste bifurcation?? Or untouchability or child marriage or dowry? Are they supported by hindu teachings?? I am sure no but they still happened? Religion doesnot preach that but you seem stuck on blaming and blaming Islam.
When will you ever get the point behind my words? Neither religion teaches violence or evil but it still happens, I am ready to take that at face value but you seem adamant on blaming Islam for all the evils without even researching behind those extracted verses which ppl here again n again refer to.
I never said muslims are perfect muslims are the best muslims are the greatest muslims are the most moral. All I ever said was Islam doesnot teach all the wrongs that you blame it for, blame muslims as much as you want because evil has no religion but why blame a particular religion without even knowing the basics and then supporting hindu practices and later calling one self atheist
Atleast an atheist is equal to all religions by disregarding all unlike you who is lost on his own identity
Now atlast, you made some sense! As an atheist, I have certain beliefs and you are entitled to your beliefs. If you expect me to respect your beliefs, then you need to respect my beliefs too. It cannot be one way street!
I get irritated when people quote that this is allowed in their religion and this is not allowed in their religion ( particularly while marrying ). If they are so blinded by their religion, why don’t they keep their beliefs to themselves and follow them. Instead, they start making love to non-believers and display all these beliefs while marrying. This is what I am against! You either marry within your belief system or follow secular marriage where both the partners get equal rights.
Really tenali, its like making a kid understand a certain thing, are you so foolish to see the sense that not every muslim follows his religion that is why these misconceptions happen but what I am against is you abusing Islam for their behaviours. You are making it seem as if Islam teaches them to fall in love.
You wont even care to know that dating is forbidden because it leads to pre marital sex then where is the question of making love to anyone before marriage muslim or non muslim. But you are only adamant and stuck with your tape to say islam teaches this and islam teaches that, its the weak, wrong prone humans who do this and that. Humans are weak so blame human desires dont blame the religion
Dear Yasir Chahhaat and all the muslims here trying to clear conceptions of people here, let me give you a headstart with the kind of ppl this forum contains
Admin-This person is the most selectively blind, hypocrite and an ignorant by choice, who doesnot even know the basics of his own religion i.e hinduism. He has as much info abt islam it will make you think he is an illiterate bigot whose only business in life is spreading hatred. And Why? that is a funny story, any post you see here by a girl marrying a muslim guy will hv the same tint that he is frustrated that his religion is not exclusionist and all the others are, that hinduism is not the fastest growing in the world, that whole of the muslim community is bad if one muslim is bad but whole of the billion hindus are not bad even if there are so many evils still happening. And if a muslim girl is marrying a hindu, they dont care what kind of guy he is, by some of their assumption she will lead a better life with a labelled hindu even if he doesnot practice his religion n will ask her to leave islam
Satyen- This person has this sweet spiritual devotional facade around him that at first he will seem like a hindu baba to you but dont be fooled, if you read any of his comments you will know he is on a finger pointing, poison spewing spree on islam, this person knows nothing or ignores the bads of his own religion to take dig shots at islam. If asked abt any errors and explaination from him regarding hinduism he has no answers but instead will keep counter questioning untill the babaji facade goes poof!!!
Tenali-This person mentioned he is an antheist but YET has problems only against islam for some reason, explaination of every answer to his question, even if answered with proofs will not enter his carefully sheilded islamophobic brain, calling himself atheist but only asking questions abt islam, why?? doesnt hinduism teach that there is a god?? This person doesnot believe there is A GOD but has no questions for hinduism which claims existence of not one but CRORES OF GOD!!!!!
This site is a breeding ground for hatred. I have seen many muslims here before who have come and tried to explain their side but don’t for a second think they have anything to do with truth, all they are waiting is for a muslim to come here so they can abuse that person with points from their templated replies and paste extracted verses to show us the “real face” of Islam.
ITS REMARKABLE HOW PPL WITH LITTLE KNOWLEDGE OF THEIR OWN RELIGION EXPECT ANSWERS AND EXPLAINATIONS FROM OTHERS ABT OTHERS RELIGION AND CLAIM TO BE GUIDING PPL WITH EQUALITY??
JUST ONE QUESTION. THIS SITE MANIPIULATES HOW ANY KIND OF PEOPLE WILL BE HAPPY MARRYING A HINDU BUT ONLY A MUSLIM WILL BE LIVING A HELLISH LIFE.
ARE YOU SO SURE THAT HINDU HOUSEHOLDS HAVE NO PROBLEMS WHATSOEVER??????
WHAT ABT DOWRY, BURNING THE WIFE FOR NOT RECVING DOWRY, SUICIDE DUE TO HARRASSMENT FROM IN LAWS. HUSBANDS MARRYING KEEPING MORE THAN ONE WIFE, BUT IF A MUSLIM IS ALLOWED THAT THERE IS SUDDEN HULLABALLO
Oh yeah so they mean to say that all this is accepted, what is not accepted is praying five times, giving charity, living life morally. NO NO dont believe this is accepted in todays dismantled society.
i WONDER WHEN THEY WILL CHANGE THEIR SIX YEAR OLD TEMPLATES AND POSTS TO PASTE AGAINST ISLAM AND ANSWER THE MANY QUESTION RAISED TO THEM ABT THEIR OWN RELIGION
Zara – Thanks for nice introduction!! As you mentioned, I am an atheist. So I don’t believe in GOD. If that is the case, how does it matter to me whether there is one god or several gods.
Who told you that I don’t question Hindu’s? I question every thing. I got answers to many questions from Hinduism perspective since I live amongst the Hindus. Since Islam or Muslims claim that their religion is the only true religion and they resort to violence in the name of religion, I question them more on this site.
Tenali
Dear Tenali
Can you please enlighten me on the answers you got???
Seems like you are quite satisfied with those answers and have stopped questioning.
And how can you claim Islam and muslim the same?
Is hinduism and hindus same. So you mean to say what ever happens in our country is preached by hinduism? That Asaram Bapu’s crime is hindu teaching?? http://www.ndtv.com/article/india/asaram-bapu-threatened-me-says-teen-who-has-alleged-sexual-assault-410606
http://indiatoday.intoday.in/story/asaram-rape-case-bapu-asked-me-for-oral-sex-says-victim/1/301458.html
Or you mean to say shooting of Mr Dabholkar was justified???
Could you pls explain
Show me a Hindu religious teaching supporting these incidents? The very fact that these incidents are being reported and being investigated indicates lack of support for them among Hindus or Indians.
How did you assume that Mr Dabholkar was killed by Hindus? You seem to perceive things per your convenience and then argue on the basis of it.
Oh wow now you talk abt support. LOL, You mean to say terror attacks are supported by all 1.5 billion muslims. WOW some assumption that is. Great for you that you are showing your true colors. If you are a hindu then say so, why are you shying away from it. Mr Dabholkar had been accused numerous times by hindu organisations for targeting hindu community, do you know what he said?These are his words
“First I will start by cleaning my own house”
You need to take a lesson there, start by cleaning your own house rather than poking nose in others affairs. If you think hinduism is not perfect start by making it perfect than come to point fingers at others religion just bcos they say its perfect and can prove it and you can’t do anything abt your own religion
Islam teaches supremacy of the religion and Muslims believe it. In that respect, Islam and Muslims as same. Instead of focusing on semantics, why don’t you argue on the points raised?
Now from marrying non muslims you are jumping to the point of supremacy. Why are you monkeying aroung tenali?? For that matter even christianity claims supremacy but you don’t seem to have anything against that. Nor against the fact that even in hinduism brahmins claim supremacy, neither do you have a case against that?
And anyways you being a atheist shouldnt be concerned with ANY of the religions so that makes you more like an Islamophobe than an atheist.
You are allowed to raise points but I am not ha?? Why dont you answer those points if you are such at it? Give answers get answers. It goes two ways.
Truth is always supreme. To a proud soul that will seem arrogant so be it. Truth cannot change for a proud soul or anyone and it always prevails
And as for you madam shenaz get you facts right….. 98% of pakistani men are like that? Like what? Where did madam get her facts from? Was it from a survey which was done in Pakistan? Was it from you wondering around city to city in Pakistan? Dd 98% women come to your home and tell you that? Do tell us where you got these facts from…..aaaaah yes it was from your pea sized brain that rattles on the name of Hinduism…darling if one has such a low IQ they mustn’t use it for such complex issues that they have no evidence to support it….so shut the f… Up you
Morons,
I am a pakistani Muslim married to an afghan man, I have never been repressed or forced upon, my religion has taught me many good things and nothing of the sought that your rubbish applies. Yes there is poverty in our country but not as extreme as India, we don’t have a Mumbai in Pakistan where half the city sleeps on the road…we have forced marriages in Certain parts in Pakistan but not as much as India… We take dowry also but not to the extent that Indians do…..BUT WHAT COUNTRY IS PERFECT? Every country has poverty even places like America and uk where many people live below the poverty line…..so again ADMIN fool get your damn facts right and show the evidence before your filthy tongue speaks a word…and as for insulting our Prohet (pbuh) don’t admin…if you know nothing about our religion or the prophet then please don’t say anything….by the ways you speak such highly about Hinduism so admin without looking up n google tell me how many gods do you fools worship? How man gods are there? What are there names? Where did they live? Who were here parents or family? How did hey die? Wat did they eat? What did they wear? Etc etc you see fools ask these same questions to a Muslim and they will definately know about there religion. THERE IS ONE GOD….AND MUHAMMED(pbuh) IS THE FINAL MESSENGER….THE QURAN IS THE ONLY TRUE BOOK IN THE WORLD AND CAN NEVER BE CHANGED AND EACH QURAN WILL BE THE EXACT SAME WORD BY WORD…EVEN THOUGH MANY RELIGIONS HAVE TRIED TO FIND FAULT WITH IT ERRORS IN IT BUT ARE UNABLE TO……THE REASON BEING THAT ALLAH GAVE HIS WORD ON THIS BOOK THAT IT CAN AND NEVER WILL BE CHANGED..THAT THIS IS THE FINAL BOOK OF GOD AND HS WORDS……….a fools and delinquents if you don’t understand some thing then just shut up…and you veena your a disgrace to your family and your religion. And you nargis….honey get a life…..and yo Hindus n this damn forum how great are your bloody life’s? So run along to your idols and ask them something I’m sure they will speak or might drop a flower to you…lol lol lol
Dear Chahaat,
You made very passionate expression of your feelings. Since you can read/write English, I am assuming that you are educated to certain extent and can think logically.
1. You started with saying “Your beliefs are our own and ours are ours, so why insult us and try to demean our religion all the time”. In the very next comment, you exploded with your hatred towards Hinduism and Hindus. Why this hipocracy?
2. Forget abt Krishna having several wives or Mohammed having several wives. Per current Indian laws, Hindus are barred from having more than one wife. I believe this is followed world over. Can you confidently say that this is true for Muslims in your own country?
3. Did you ever visit India? How do you know the conditions of lower caste Hindus, women in India? I too belong to the so called lower caste Hindus in South India. I never faced any of the issues you mentioned. Most of my family members including women and friends are well educated. Pls enlighten us where you got your statistics so that we can also follow them 🙂
4. You talked about the blood of Indians. You forgot that your forefathers were also Hindus and were converted to Islam under sword. You are also part of the same blood. Why abuse your own blood line?
5. Of late, there are lots of rapes reported in India and Indian society is agitating against it. There is a widespread awareness about it since it is reported in the media. Are there less number of rapes in Pakistan or Afghanistan? Oh, I forgot that you need 4 witnesses to report a rape. Most of the time, women are punished under your sharia law for rape. So why would any sane woman report the rape?
6. Did you ever study the Hinduism? If you are a Pakistani, I am sure you have near zero probability of studying Hinduism. Instead of saying ‘my religion is the only true religion’, why don’t you study other religions also with an open mind and comment?
7. You are incorrect about fastest growing religion. Atheism is the fastest growing religion in the world today. Islam is also growing fast mainly because Muslims are not following the family planning. What has this got to do with interfaith marriages?
8. Pls don’t read only your Pakistani text books to know about the poverty in Pakistan, Afghanistan and India. Read some neutral sources too. India has more number of poor people but % wise, it has less number of poor when compared to Pakistan and Afghanistan.
9. Who the hell are you to suggest ‘Admin or Veena or Nargis or countless others’ what to do or what not to do? If you want to be in your own hole, be there. Don’t bother others with your beliefs. If you want to meaningfully debate or seek neutral opinion, then come here.
Tenali
Yes I have been to India…and yes I have worked there with the street children….I have seen many problems and abuse there….yes there are similar things in Pakistan but no to indias extent….honey. Don need to live n a hole….yes we will all be buried in a whole one day….and for us being Hindus before I don’t think so…. I know all worshipped idols before religion came n…so please stop insulting us and look at how great yo are first.
You are a Pakistani woman and worked with Street Children in India. Nice story! You should have forwarded it to Mahesh Bhatt for making a movie!!
When you said Pakistani, I was assuming that you & your ancestors are from this region. Islam came to this region in the 9th-10th century. Prior to that, your ancestors must have been either Hindus or Budhists or Jains or other local sects. If you donot believe in this, when will you go back to your ancestor’s place leaving it for native Indians ?
You keep insulting other religions and ask others not to offend Islam. Excellent! I never claimed that we are great. But we are making an effort to improve. Why don’t you do the same for your country? Given the current direction your country is taking, it may not take long for you guys to reach 7th century.
Clap clap….every religion is trying to tenali…..not just yours…I never insulted Hindus…I only replied when they have insulted our religion…it makes it ok to voice your opinions against Islam and your hatred…but when someone does that in return you find that offensive? I don’t study pakistani text books…I live there and like you Hindus I am also proud to be pakistani…why don’t you come o Pakistan for a visit and stay with me and see for your self the difference between the two countries? Yes we have flaws but we are also trying to over come them….we are trying to better our women through education….your country is not perfect it also has many flaws…we Muslims are not that bad as your Hindu forums make us to be…every religion disagrees on a lot of issues…yes our men are allowed to marry four times but there are certain rules behind that…if some people don’t want to follow them then not all Muslims can be held responsible or that…it’s not as disgusting as you people make it out to be. I come from a small village, from the highest caste in Islam, my parents and my relatives were not educated people…but I was fortunate to get an education and was sent abroad for that…today in my village most girls are educated and in the surrounding villages too….it took time for our families to understand that but eventually they did. I married an afghan man who was bought up in Afghanistan for most of his life…he is a wonderful man and a fantastic human being…not once has he ever suppressed me forced me in to anything…he was not highly educated….but his beliefs and his understanding of our religion has made him a good and kind husband. So it’s not all about education…you have to be a good human for that….so I invite you come and see our country and come and understand our religion with your own eyes and ears and not by hear and say….
Why can’t pakistani women work in India…..I actually worked with them in my gap year from university….I didn’t know that Pakistan women couldn’t work there for a charity….I’m sorry was that an insult for you? You seem offended that i worked with indian street children….
Who bhatt? No honey I don’t need to do that….so if someone does some good they have to go to India for a movie to be made about them? Lol that’s ludicrous….such small mentalities…..such small way of thinking….and I find it very humorous that you find it shocking that as a pakistani women i came to India on a charity bases…but never mind…what can one expect from someone as meagrely as your self…I actually enjoy my charity work not only in India but many other countries that I was fortunate enough to help out in….when you care so much about our suppressed women why don’t you come to Pakistan and help them out a bit ? ……..
And as for you admin, teach your Hindu women the right path and get them their freedom first then teach our Muslims after, get your Hindu women out of poverty, rape, burning, beatings, under age sex, mental abuse blah blah blah….look at you showing our women the path….show your own Hindus first that how can a statue hear you through his ears when they are made out of stone? You Hindus Are like your idols, made out of stone with no heart in it. Read the Quran, under stand Islam, pray five times, listen to the verses, go to a masjid, the tell me if you are still a Hindu after that. Islam is the fastest growing religion in the world, if it is so wrong then why isn’t Hinduism the fastest growing religion? Because you fool it’s a bloody statue you stand in front ofF……
Yes, we have read Koran https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=370
Two of most idolized human beings in this World’s history are Muhammad and Jesus. Why there is so much important to these two men?
Why Kaaba, stone structure, is given so much important? Allah is in all directions, why only pray in the direction of Saudi Arabia?
Are Kaaba and Muhammad not your idols? Remove both and follow Allah only.
They are not our idols fool, the Kaaba is a spiritual place and is one of our five pillars. Where have o ever seen a photo or a picture of our prophet? You will never see that because the reason being that if there was a picture of our prophet the yes Muslims would have ended up worshipping him and praying to him just like you fools do.
If o have read the Quran truly with good intent then you should know that not a single word against any religion is mentioned, not a sinle word shows you the wrong way, not a single word in here says that a women shoulda be treated badly, but yes it does say in the Quran that the heavens are beneath your mothers feet, Allah did not give that. He man, his given great importance to the women.. Allah has also said n the Quran that on he day of judgement you shall rise with your mothers name and not b the fathers name. So understand that fool even after death Allah has given a woman respect and to keep her dignity in front of millions.
And why d you give importance to your so called gods….Krishna, ram. Kaali, etc etc etc.then if you are so against religion give it up and become an atheist…oh sort but you already are that….you know what your real problem is your afraid of our religion and your afraid that if you end up believing the Quran you will become a Muslim, that is why people like your selves are sitting sadly in your sad little world with your sad little comments and insulting us. Ifs people like you that make are religion important, if it wasn’t important then you wouldn’t be discussing it….so either come and sit with us and have a real discussin about our religion or either just run along to our cave and sit there and relax…chill admin….there’s a difference between you and me…I’m a Muslim and god knows what yo are…I have hope…you have nothing…I can die for my religion…can you? I believe in my book only…you believe n many…so obviously you people are confused not us
Koran has many strong words against other faiths, including for Christians and Jews. Please read Koran again.
Like Hindus idolize many things, Muslims idolize Kaaba and Muhammad. Just follow allah, you do not need the middle man or the cube. If you still like to pray to kaaba and glorify Muhammad, nothing wrong with it but then don’t complain for what others do.
We know you will “I can die for my religion…can you?”, NO we will NOT. It is himsa. Instead of killings, we like to do karma of helping youths in love. I hope you will join us to guide them right on this site, every day.
You said, “sit with us and have a real discussin about our religion”, we love to. Lets hope you will hang on with us for next one year and lets discuss religion every day. CAN YOU? Bring your friends too.
Dear Admin,
Are you really in-search of the truth and reality or you just want to convince other to your points? Please Please Please reply whole heatedly.
I dont know that “Chaahat” can convince you, but if you really want to have discussion for the sake of finding the truth, i am ready for this.
Super Yasir,
Please enlighten us with truth. Please enlighten Non-Muslim to Muslim youths in love. Come back again and again. We love truth, we love to educate youths!
Your energy, creativity and love for Jesus is such a source for joy and instorapiin for me . You are using your God given talents to bring Him Glory. Rejoice!
I’m not easily impressed. . . but that’s impressing me! 🙂
You nargis marry who you want, but as you left Islam for your husband, did he leave sikkism for you? I don’t think so, please change your name to jasminder or harminder or what ever minder, but please don’t insult Islam, you are cursed and always will be…….you could have changed your religion in peace, I don’t have a problem with that, whether ou want to be Christian, Jewish, Hindu, but no need to insult Islam. Good luck with your new religion and your new people, I really do hope u r happy but don’t insult us in the process. What are your children? Hindus? Sikh? Jewish? Christian? When you know do tell us…
Please do not insult our religion, every one believes in something higher, why do you have to insult Islam and our beliefs? Your beliefs are our own and ours are ours, so why insult us and try to demean our religion all the time? And as for you ms veena malik, upon are a disgrace to our religion and our country, a women who has no respect for her parents can never have respect for her self, if you talk so much about the freedom of Muslim women, what are you showing them? Oh yes that wearing hot pants on national tv or trying to be a wannabe indian actress is the right path? And you mr or miss so called admin, who the hell are you? Your so called Indian women are more abused than ours, you have so much more poverty in your India than ours, your lower caste women are treated like animals, your under age rape is higher than in our country, you have the highest rate of un educated people, you have more people living in slums than ours, your women work like animals all their lives, your women are burned with petrol ove dowry more than ours, you people take more dowry from a women than an one else, etc etc etc etc. please reform your country and your religion first then tell us Muslims after. Oh yes didn’t your lord Krishna marry hundreds of women, w bore thousands of children? So aren’t ou all Indians his children and his blood line? Then why the caste system in your great Buddhist religion and why aren’t you all called children of Krishna? Just please admin shut up….
Wh don’t u come to our country and visit us so that we can show u our hospitality and gve you the proper facts of Islam. And you veena and nadia, just wear your hot pants and shut the hell up, naa shakal na akal , bewakoof aurat kis ka chaat rehi ho keh apne hi mulakh or apne hi mazab ke Kilaaf ho? Lannat hai tum dono par
Habiba dear I think no man dose any atrocity to woman man always love and respect woman it’s propaganda against man
Man loves wife sister mother etc
Woman is troubled by other woman not man in society you observe and decide who did to who woman vs woman only
One woman engAges man to creates malicious deeds then it s atrocity comes up always woman behind door woman is enemy to another woman
C and think I hope u will appreciate my view
Asad,
all you do is blabbering, without sense. Do you even understand anything she said. For the last time, for god sake, can you say what you Muslims do in real life. Not blabber about what you religion says, your religion says so many things, so do ours. But bad news Muslims are the most problematic religion, so normal humans who have studied Islam conclude its you- the Muslims who have problem. So why do you show Qur’an rules, show us one step you “peaceful” Muslims have taken to stop it.
all you propaganda maker do is blah blah blah…loudly.. Remember telling something 10 times does not makes it truth. I will give you a advice- come to Jesus or Buddha you will not regret it!
Islam is the best religion in this world. But if you or someone other dont want to know the truth, then no one can guide you.
I claim that every religion other than Islam (Christianity, Hinduism, etc) have errors and faults, But Islam is the religion without errors.
If you or someone want to know the reality, just give me a hint, i will Prove my words.
But it all depends if someone really wish to know the reality and true religion. Its very easy to give fake references and examples to misguide others and yourself too.
Hope to hear from you.
Any muslim if dose rubbish it dose not means Islam said to him to do like that Islam is peace school of thoughts
Second thing is mutta is temporary marriage it’s halal if some one dose mutta it’s man duties to support lady on conception mutta got haq mehr
It’s gift as in permanent marriage
So it’s not prostitution it’s only for widow or mattern to whom no one likes mutta it’s allowed at time of prophet
If any one likes further explanation do hesitate to call on my phone no
00447412528483
I can prove from Quran it’s allowed
Man, Mutta is Harraam (not allowed) in Islam.
It is contreversial, halal in shia islam and haram in sunni islam
Islam gots more rights for woman then man
Husband got to pay for wife and she also gets in rights from father
If she milks kids she can charge money to husband
Husband poor can’t say anything even she has no obligation for cooking or cleaning
These all responsibility of man from sheri
Dear Habiba !
TO be Happy is your & Your Sisters Birth Right.No body can snatch away this right from you.Remember, nowhere is any Hell,Heaven/Swarg,Narak/ Jannat,Jahannum in this Universe or any Galaxy.If you make Happy to every
member of your family,then your Home will be Heaven/Swarg/Jannat for you.
My all Well wishes,Respect are always with you.
Good Bye.
Hi Nargis,
I came to know that your full name is Nargis Fakhry, a Pakistani actress, now working in Indian films in Mumbai. I am sure, like Veena Malik, you have been fighting for liberation of woman from islamic evils.
In Pakistani,98% males are Zunaid like mentality and in the North Western part, due to talibani presence, women,s condition is worse.
Where is hell fire for them?
Zuniad Haram ki aulad,
So many writers have described your birth due to mutta marriage. Even your mother does not know exactly who is your exact biological father?
That is what has been described?
By your nature you are a person of filthy nature, destructive mind and greatest enemy of womanhood in the world. Your mother must be earning through prostitution, that is sure and you must be bringing customers for her.
Thanks a lot Admn.
Whenever, I have time to share, certainly It will be my pleasure.
I do not interact with any one through e mail due to obvious reasons.
My special regards to you for the noble cause of female community in islamic religion.
My whole hearted appreciation and gratitude you and interfaith family.
Regards
Dear Veena jee,
I work with the Admin as closely as you and other family members of interfaithshaadi work with him.
As I live in a small global village, it is very much possible to meet with a person like you. By the way, I am physically in North America but mentally in Bharat, known also as India (Jahan daal daal per sone ki chiriya karati hai basera, O Bharat desh hai mera..).
Definitely would like to see you and anybody with a noble mission in his/her life.
Song sung by great indian muslim singer muhammad rafi who was fallower prophet muhammad and was true muslim
So…? What’s the point? Do you mean he is better than Hindu kishor Kumar, lata mangeshkar ? Md rafi being a Muslim was a co incident, his fame had nothing to do with your Islam, as your Islam has termed singing haram, which means he was bad Muslim, as he did haram work ND ate haram money, so Mr idiot propagandist you loose again. Think something new where your true Islamic teaching is followed.
Dear Admn.
Vow great comments. I am not celebrity but a controversial girl as proclaimed by media. Due to certain reasons, I cannot mail to any one.
Whenever, I have time, I shall interact through this site.
My sincere regards to you for the great service done for the muslim female community.
God bless you always.
Great, welcome to “interfaith family”.
Hello Admn.
There will be no effect on Zunaid. Read from this site, that he is a product of MUTTA MARRIAGE and even then he is advocating legitimacy of Islam, probably expecting 72 virgins in heaven for sexual pleasures.
He does not feel pain how many times his mother undergone mutta marriages with different males and every time she was proving her virginity by showing blood stains on the beds sheets?
Perheps nargis’s mother had done thousands of mutta marriages. May be she is product of mutta marrige as nargis knows lot about mutta marriage as her mother told her that in order to earn money she did this type of contract marriage i.e why she is barking like foolishly againest me. Islam is winning fastest no of converts in west and if their are 4 converts 3 are women age between 28 to 33 years. If islam oppresses women then this type of results should not come.
Nargis jeeeeeeee, have some shame and please don’t speak about anyones mother like that, you have no right to insult ones mother, say what you like to him but don’t go to the elderly. Looking at your conversations you are obviously not a Muslim but someone pretending and using a Muslim name. Shame on you Hindus in this forum, why don’t you people discuss your own measly lives and your own religion….why do you people bring marriages into it and our Prophet? Read the Quran and it will explain why these marriages were put in place…so please read it and understand it and then pass a judgement. I have a Hindu friend who let her husband marry again for children and both these women are living in great harmony….her family are not Muslims but because they are Hindus it’s okay for them t marry more than once? There are many Hindus who have more than one wife and many Hindus who have treated heir wife’s badly, many who burn there wives, many who use them but won’t Marry them, many who are bad people, just like there are some bad Muslims doesn’t mean that we are all bad….most of us are hard working and honest people living in this world. So why put all Muslims in the same category? There are good Hindus and there are bad Hindus…so what ? The world isn’t perfect…every county has good and bad…not just Islam….so please just indulge in your own religions and then in others…if you chaps don understand your own religion how can you comment on our religion?
Great story rubina but fake. You are good writer like other writers using muslim names and posting fake stories like to spread hatred againest islam. Wikiislam a chrstian site that shows you a way that islam is not true religion but a false religion. ALL THE LIES POSTED BY THESE CHRISTIAN SITES(anti islamic sites) is exposed on http://www.answering-christianity.com
Junaid,
Do not be so close minded. There can not be a religion (or food, country, dress, look) who will please ALL. If you feel any one religion is absolutely perfect and there is no fault at all, then there has to be something wrong with such thinker. Please open your mind. Hang on her and get educated, over time you will see a difference. We love you!
Islam is perfect religion.
Hang on with us for a year. You are intelligent, do not believe what others wants you to (not even Muhammad), but question every one and any thing. This does not mean not to be respectful, but to question to get more answers. Hand on here, Junaid.
He is not muhammed…he is the prophet so use our prophets name respectfully….admin no one wants to hang out with a loser like your self…we don’t need a Hindu teaching us islam thank you very much….old chap read you own mantras first then teach us ours later…why do people like your self spread such hatred? Is it because you were born a racist? Is It because your parents never loved you? Is it because Muslims kept their distance from you? Is it because you have no life? That your silly fantasy is hatred agains Islam? Tut tut it’s sad really that people like you are so lowly and such a silly stupid immature twat
I was born and raise a Muslim. My father had no problem with delivering harsh beatings on me for making mistakes when he was teaching me the Quran. Naturally, I spent the first 14 years of my life thinking that this was the true religion, and that I would go to hell. I was always convinced that Islam was true due to the ‘Quran miracle claims’ which were all over the web, which satisfied me into thinking that I was definitely following the true religion, despite the fact that, being the fool I was at the time, I had not even bothered to READ the ‘miracle claims’.
Ironically, it was Wikiislam that caused me to have doubts about my faith. I stumbled upon it while searching for information about my religion, and decided to ‘have a look round’. I came across the page detailing scientific errors in the Quran. Being the naive person I was, I couldn’t believe that the ‘Holy’ Quran would have scientific errors. I began investigating further into these errors, and I soon found that these WERE genuine errors, meaning that the Quran was indeed false. Therefore, I secretly declared myself an apostate, and became a supporter of Ali Sina, Richard Dawkins and the Council of Ex Muslims.
Ultimately, I am glad that I have left Islam, and am happy at the freedom I now have since leaving this religion. I would like to thank Wikiislam for providing me with the turning point in my life, and giving me the information I needed to leave this awful Religion.
Subsequently I started doing job and one day married a black christian who was like minded and perfect match for my everlasting relations with him to raise my own family, without any coversion, just believing on humanity and moral values.
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=4864
Dear Rubina,
There are many website and book which shows errors in Quran. But these all are false. If you or someone else claims any type of error in Quran, just share with me, i will clear everything with proofs.
I am not convincing you to change your religon or lifestyle. But if you are blaming on Quran, then you must share the error with the person who claiming that he will proof the truth.
Thanks.
Yasir,
We needed an Islamic scholar to advise interfaith couples, please come back again and again to teach to youths.
Many many thanks Dear Satyen,
Are you and Admn. working together? Where is your main office of this site? I wish to see you both one day, if almighty permits.
My deep regards.
Dear Veena-Ji
Admin and Satyen have no relation or never bothered to ask each other which corner of the World the other is located. We are completely independent and have no common agenda. However, we value Satyen’s superb writing skills and balanced messages. He is certainly an intellectual, like you VeenaJi, that we love to communicate with.
Normally when a web site host sees a celebrity like you, the site will look to cash it on it. However, the InterfaithShaadi site has no intention of scoring points on cheap popularity. Considering the site has 7 million hits/year, we were offered to start advertising to make good money. In spite of cost of maintaining the site, we refrained from making money out of this site or asked any one for donation. We do not want money to influence the message.
Our only objective is to define interfaith marriages with equality (IM-WE). We want ALL interfaith youths to make a fully “informed” decision for their long lasting married life, even that is interfaith or within faith.
Instead of spending time into a synagogue, church, mosque or temple, we see God in all bloggers on this web site. This web site is a Shrine and to please our God (meaning you, readers) is our religion.
To remain balanced, we (admin) have decided to stay neutral from country, religion, gender, money or fame. We feel youths will gain most that way.
It is our honor that young celebrity like you have time to spend for other youths, thanks. We would love to meet you. Can you e-mail us at InterfaithShaadi@gmail.com?
Dear Veena jee,
I work with the Admin as closely as you and other family members of interfaithshaadi work with him.
As I live in a small global village, it is very much possible to meet with a person like you. By the way, I am physically in North America but mentally in Bharat, known also as India (Jahan daal daal per sone ki chiriya karati hai basera, Wah Bharat desh hai mera..).
Definitely would like to see you and anybody with a noble mission in his/her life. I still has to take seets from Shamimn and I will try to get it some day.
Dear Satyen,
Very good comments. Muslim girls should take note. Unless they fight against cruelties, no body is going to help them.
Regards, -VM
Dear Veena,
Thanks for the appreciation. I remember my days when I used to be a secondary school student and the motto of the school was, “Attadeepa Viharath” (Be your own light – originally instructed by Buddha to his favourite desciple Anand). Days passed by and I forgot those wordings went to my subconscious mind. Later, in course of time I faced the hard realities of my life. Subconsciously, this teaching guided my life and I see almost every succedssful person following this aphorism, knowingly or unknowingly. After a careful analysis, I came to the same conclusion and remembered those teachings over again, “Be your own light”.
Now I say, shine in your own light.
Learn from others but not without a careful analysis of his/her character. Allah is with every body, no matter what others say about Him. If a wordly mother cannot live away from her baby for a long time, how can the Allah mother of every body can stay away from Her creation?
Hi veena are u film character. ?
If I saw your dads interview u crushed ur dad he is a thorow gentleman
U working in films it’s too much revealing it’s not good wAy of earning IRS forbidden in islam
Dear Muslim women/girls,
Never live in a fool’s paradise that Mauliavis/Mullahs interprete the Quraan against the women/girls and are the main culprit for the atrocities on the women. So you think, otherwise the Quran is right if interpreted correctly? Wrong. The root cause of your problems is Muhammad and the Quran is revealed by him. The prophet is said to have lived in a perfect way as described by the Quraan. So, his life is the mirror of Quraan’s way of living. No one can interprete the Quraan as correctly as the prophet did. So, to understand the implications of life lived as per Quraan is to understand the life of Muhammad. In short, instead of reading Quraan, you should focus on the life of Muhammad as none can misinterprete it. If you feel that the Muhammad’s life was a blessings for the women and the husbands must follow him in a copy book style, Quraan can be considered good for you and the Mullahs/Maulavis must be blamed. But what if the Muhammad’s life itself turned out to be a bane for the women? Unfortunately, it is the case. Muhammad’s life itself is full of blemishes and full of attrocities against the women folk. Don’t believe me? You must not. Do in depth research about the marital life of Muhammad with open mind and to your surprise, you find this unfortunate fact.
So, the Mullahs/Maulavis are to blamed but not for misinterpretation of the Quraan. Of course they must be blamed for not rescuing the Muslim women and men from the slavery of Quraan because they know the fact how demoniacal was Muhammad. Read the Bhavishya puraan. Interestingly, prescribed by Dr. Zakir Nayak who is ironically the prophet of the prophet!
So, face the truth and say spade a spade after knowing the root cause i.e. Muhammad and his revealed words in the form of Quraan. One of the greatest myths ever spread by anyone that God speaks to his creation through a prophet whose character is reproachable! Shun him away to make your and your loved one’s life livable.
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=4621
Thanks a lot to Narendraji,
So grateful and good wishes conveyed to me.
I reciprocate with core of hearts to you and your family.
Please guide me with your valuable suggestions.
Congratulation! Habiba !!
Al Mighty GOD Bless You & your Sisters A Happy & blissful Married LIFE
Thnx Admn. My sincere regards to you.
My advice to the muslim girls is to become educated, form their social organization to share their views and emotions including seeking timely help against attrocities.
Muslim girls need to be united, they will have to oppose inhuman and indiscrimate treatments against them. They will have to make a habit of learning and acquiring knowledge. That is what I have experienced in life.
With gratitude to the almighty and Admn. too
Habiba
Oh please stop…..my heart is breaking….poor poor little Muslim girls….such torture and such atrocities befall them…my my its only Muslim women who are tortured and who are living in terrible conditions and who have so much injustice against them…..because all Hindu, Jewish, Christian, Buddhist, atheist women have no such luck…they all are treated with such respect and love like china dolls….poor little Muslim women……………………..We have nothing…no love….no money….no education…..no respect….we are all just un educated women with not much to live for…..such atrocities befall us…..my my…. I must be dillusional that I am educated, I must be living in la la land……that most Muslims I know have an education and a voice…