Raihana says: March 6, 2013 at 12:53 pm
I am a muslim girl, now Iam 24 year old. My boy friend is hindu. now I am doing my post graduation. My parents doesnt like my affair, they want me to marry a muslim guy and lot of proposals are coming now.
At a point they were about to stop my studies, so i had to lie that i broke up with my boy friend to complete my studies. now they think that i broke up with him, but i told them that i cant marry anyone else. now they are saying i have to get engaged if i want to work after the post graduation. but i cant marry anyone else, and i dont want to run away with my boyfriend.
i want my marriage to happen with both our parents. my mom is all against hinduism, she doesn’t know much about them, she believes that they idol worshipers only, islam cant adjust, you will go to hell fire. she is saying that they should have gotten me married much earlier, shouldn’t have let me study.
i was a always good girl in my family, was the studious kid in the entire family, but i don’t know with this single thing they forgot all my achievements in life, i dont know how will i convince my parents.
my dad is very quiet now, he doesnt talk to me much. all these are killing me but i cant leave my boyfriend also. i dont know what to do? –Raihana
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Admin says:
Raihana,
We feel your pain. This is happening all over and it will go even more in the future.
You will have to make tough decisions for your life. Milk and yogurt can’t mix. You cannot say you want to be a Muslim and be a part of a Hindu family; you will ruin lives of both. Islam is absolutely an exclusivist religion (and nothing wrong with it) and there is no (zero) tolerance for a Hindu into it. Read Koran if you have not yet. You cannot please your parents and keep your love. You can’t be both, a good and a bad girl.
Your mom is right by saying “they (Hindus) idol worshipers only, Islam can’t adjust, you will go to hell fire”. This is what Muhammad wants all Muslims to think. Do you want a short-term happiness in THIS life and get hell fire in the AFTER life?
By the way, tell your mom that she committed sin by educating you. The real problem is – now you could think!
This is our recommendation: You are Muslim, only 24 and not financially independent. For these reasons, marry someone within your own faith, this is an easier option. Give it a try for next two years, or so. You will get over your Hindu lover if you find a competent match in your community. Your life will remain lots simple. Your parents will be happy. You will be able to raise wonderful “Muslim” children (but make a point of not educating your daughters!).
The other option is very hard. If you wish to marry that Hindu guy, first you have to agree that Allah has many names like, the Father God, LORD God, Isvar, etc. Further, you will have to believe that Muhammad, Jesus, Buddha, Krishna and many more are Allah’s messengers. On top, you will have to accept that Koran, Bible, Geeta, Torah and many more are all wonderful scriptures written by men, inspired by Allah. Basically, you will have to be a pluralist. Unfortunately, if you are a pluralist, you are no more a Muslim.
Read all that is written on this web site about God and religion. If possible, line up a job outside your town and be financially independent. When you will be 26+ you will have more strength to fight for what you think is right. If your bf is still available, line up with him again.
Sorry, ultimately it is YOU who have to decide what is right for you. Keep all options open. Come back again to update us for how it goes. Good luck! –Admin.
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Rihana ,
You say you follow Islam and want to continue following it but how you will follow when your other partner will be doing all worshipping which is against Islam ?
1)As per Islam your marriage with non muslim will not valid and it will be Adultery for whole of your life .
2)Islam doesn’t allow worshipping of idols and imagine your man is worshipping idols and others which are all against islamic principles .
3)Life is a short and it will got over . Allah has given you the true religion Islam and don’t deviate .Despite knowing all these if you go and marry definetly you are preparing yourself to burn in hell after death .
Fear Allah and build relationship with Allah than any one else .Life is temporay ..
A great message.
All boys and girls in love with a Muslim, you should understand this clearly. There is not going to be any buts and ifs, but to convert to Islam (today or 5 years later). Are you ready to be 100% Muslim and 0% Hindu?
admin says:
December 7, 2014 at 3:22 pm
mac, it sounds like you are saying “My God is better than all others Gods!!! My Islam is only a true faith, rest should be trashed. I am only smart and knows every thing, rest are fool.” LOL.
yes, i am saying this coz my religion don`t teach me to kill widows, lie is public forum(like you and others are doing), my religion don`t teach partiality(like you did by making quran,bible on hindus but didn`t make vedas,gita on muslims,christians) , my religion doesn`t teach me women are born from sinful wombs,etc..list is long..
if you sell lies then someone will confront you and you will look like a fool, what can i do?
For us, it does not matter what you say or what others say for us. All that matters for us is how much “informed” decision an interfaith lover makes. We feel your message of “100% Islam, 0% Hinduism” after Nikaah wedding is tremendously helping youths. If we tell them, they may not believe us, but you are certainly helping them. Thank you.
there i was talking abt 50-50 equality in marriage (prateek) but you didn`t interfere there, okay tell me what is your view on eid-ul-azha, where goes the equality in case of Muslim girls
We know this is truth and a Muslim will not rest till the Hindu spouse convert to Islam.
We do not have any problem with Muslim’s belief, however only point bothering us is why Muslim youths are not disclosing that fact on the first date? Why they keep fooling around with Hindus for years and only 6 months before the wedding time, they will start talking about conversion, like they did not knew?
This is cheating.
This is love-proselytism.
This is LOVE-JIHAD
This is LOVE-JIHAD
This is LOVE-JIHAD
there is nothing like love jihad, its a made up thing by fascist RSS,VHP, there r muslim who marry in court too, and why don`t hindu boys tell their gf that i will not allow you to celebrate id ul azha
You said “there r muslim who marry in court too”, is that okay for you and for Islam?
Yes, agree. Both Hindu and Muslim youths should get into discussion on critical points very early in their dating period, and not AFTER getting into love.
admin says:
December 5, 2014 at 7:32 am
9.6: If they repent and take to prayer and render the alms levy, allow them to go their way.
Why non-believer have to join praising Muhammad in the prayer? If they don’t, then 9:5 apply?
Quran 9:6 And if any one of the polytheists seeks your protection, then grant him protection so that he may hear the words of Allah. Then deliver him to his place of safety. That is because they are a people who do not know.
http://corpus.quran.com/translation.jsp?chapter=9&verse=6
it seems like you people tried to brain wash her, but failed coz she was educated and had enough knowledge about islam to point out your lies, only fools,stupid,uneducated(in islam) muslim girls elope with hindu biys without understanding anything, i have seen many muslim girls who are intelluctally so lower….but i have also seen muslim girls who are doctors,enginners who marry hindu boys but they convert their bf into islam, i have one example in my family circle too coz educated muslim girls know what really islam is.
Thanks
For you and most Muslims, convert a Hindu to Islam is every thing.
How about a Muslim Seema Maheshwari?
Seema Maheswari, Osmam bin laden don`t know much about islam.
One could say only mac and Osama Bin Laden know about Islam!
mac, you are expressing very close minded intolerant version of Islam. We trust that as you age, you will be more open minded. Meantime, please do not get in hands of some religious radicals.
hi,
Now i am back at home, after my pg, i have to join my job on 8th july, but my family is not agreeing. they are saying first marriage and then job. for them marriage is everything. I am really stuck at home. 🙁
First, congratulations. Jobs are difficult to come by and if you got a job offer, you must be good.
Parents know that once you get wings, you will fly away. But you have to know also that after marriage to someone you don’t approve, you will be stuck for life.
So, somehow start the job.
dear rihana,
A sab log non muslims haan, all fake muslim girls names agar tume islam ku follow kartin tho tume non muslim say shaddi ya pyar nahi karo gai.
If u need more advice go to islam pages .
Idar sab islam ku kharab karnai wale log is website ku banaya huwa hai.
Tum mere sister jaise hoon samjo baat ku.
Sab non muslim ka khel hai a sab
Sex and sexuality in Islam
Go ahead and enjoy a female body
In Islam, sex means the enjoyment of a female body. The notion that sex could be an exceedingly joyful experience for both male and female is sadly lacking in the Islamic concept of it. It is the man who is the actor and the decision maker in this matter and not both the partners. A woman does not actively take part or act in sexual copulation. She is merely a passive receiver of male action, simply an instrument for providing carnal pleasure to the man. At least, this is what I understood after doing a comprehensive research of the foundations of Islamic laws, that is Qur’an and ahadith.
The method of securing such sexual/physical pleasure, as per Islam, is very similar to a commercial/business transaction. In Islam, a woman has no right to get married on her own accord if she has a guardian. In all cases of marriage and sex she is treated merely as a sexual object, much like the provider of a service for which she must be paid some compensation. In Islamic parlance, this compensation for sexual service is known as mahr or dower. All Muslim men must agree to pay an amount of money before marrying a woman. This payment can be immediate or it can be deferred to a future date. Now you know what a mahr is. No Islamic marriage is valid without the agreement for a dower. In reality, however, this dower is nothing but the payment for the possession of a female body for sexual gratification by the male. It is a very blunt statement, I have made, you may think. To check the veracity of such a direct and outrageous statement, please open any Sha’ria book, such as reference 8. Here is an excerpt from this authentic Sha’ria (the divine law of Allah) book.
Ownership of a woman’s body to do as he likes including beating
m5.4 (ref: 8, p.526) husbands rights
A husband possesses full right to enjoy his wife’s person (A: from the top of her head to the bottoms of her feet, though anal intercourse (dis: p75.20) is absolutely unlawful) in what does not physically harm her.
He is entitled to take her with him when he travels.
Let us also look into a book of Islamic jurisprudence that was used (during the British Raj in India) as a textbook for Hanafi laws at Inns of Law (London). It is the book, (reference 11) which even the Sha’ria lawyers consult regularly in the interpretation of Islamic laws. In page 44 of this book, it is written:
Full dower is the payment for the delivery of woman’s person, Booza, meaning Genitalia arvum Mulieris.
The wife entitled to her whole dower upon the consummation of the marriage or the death of the husband.—If a person specify a dower of ten or more Dirms, and should afterwards consummate his marriage, or be removed by death, his wife, in either case, has a claim to the whole of the dower specified, because, by consummation, the delivery of the return for the dower, namely the Booza, or woman’s person,* is established, and therein is confirmed the right to the consideration, namely, the dower; and, on the other hand, by the decease of the husband the marriage is rendered complete by its completion, and consequently is so with respect to all its effects.
(* Literally, Genitale arvum Mulieris)
Yes, you read it correctly. The meaning of Genitalia arvum Mulieris is woman’s vagina. The above few sentences clearly meant that a woman sells her vagina in return for the mahr. It is a commercial transaction. Make no mistake about it! Period.
This is the real meaning of sex in Islam; that is, a man buys a woman’s sex organ for enjoyment through the payment of mahr, which is the Islamic dower. Whether a woman really enjoys this kind of ‘forced’ sex is completely irrelevant in Islamic concept of sex. A man’s orgasm becomes absolutely a necessity when a woman is contracted in marriage through the payment of Islamic mahr (or its deferment to a future date).
If you thought that I am exaggerating too much and speaking ‘out of context’ then there is more surprise for you. In the same book it is written that the possession of object of contract is the actual coitus or enjoyment and the right to dower is not confirmed without enjoyment. Enjoyment of what? Please read the full text for the answer.
Case of Khalwat-SAHEEH OR RETIREMENT.—IF a man retire with his wife, and there be no legal or natural obstruction to the commission of the carnal act, and he afterwards divorce her, the whole dower in this case goes to her.—Shafei maintains that she is here to receive no more than her half dower, because the husband cannot obtain possession of the object of the contract but by actual coition; and the right to the dower is not corroborated and confirmed without enjoyment.—The argument of our doctors is, that the woman has completed her part of the contract, by delivering up her person, and by removing all obstructions, which is the extent of her ability; her right to the recompense is therefore confirmed and corroborated; in the same manner as in a case of sale, where, if the seller have offered delivery of the goods sold, and there be nothing to obstruct seisin on the part of the purchaser, and the latter neglect to make seisin he is considered as having made seisin, and the purchase is afterwards as a trust in the hands of the seller, and the whole of the price is obligatory upon the purchase (ref: 11, pp. 45-46)
It is rather interesting to note that, in the legal procedure to obtain sexual gratification by a man, a woman (a wife or a slave-girl or a captive woman) is merely a servant whose job is only to satisfy her husband sexually. What? This can never be true you might say. In Islam, we can only find the ‘golden’ treatment of women, you contend. Perish the thought. Here is what is written in the same Islamic law book as the actual legal status of a female sex partner in Islam.
Woman is servant and the husband is the person served (ibid, p.47)
Case of marriage on a condition of service from the husband.— ……………it is not lawful that a woman should be in a situation to exact the service of her husband who is a freeman, as this would amount to a reversal of their appointed stations, for one of the requisites of marriage is, that the woman be as a servant, and the man as the person served; but if the service of a husband to wife were to constitute her dower, it would follow that the husband is the servant and the wife as the served: and this being a violation of the requisites of marriage, is therefore illegal; but it is otherwise with the service stipulated to be performed by another free person, with that person’s consent, as this offers no violence to the requisites of the contract; and so also in the case of service of a slave, because the service performed by a slave to his wife is, in fact, performed to his master, by whose consent it is that he undertakes it; and the same with the case of tending flocks, because this is a service of a permanent nature, and admitted to be performed for wives, and therefore, does not violate the requisites of marriage; for the service of the husband to his wife, as a dower, is prohibited only as it may be degrading to the former; but the tending of flocks is not a degrading office.
That’s right, folks! You got it correct. Sex in Islam is really a ‘master and servant’ relationship, a relationship to enjoy a female person that a man has bought with ‘mahr.’
If one still insists that the above Sha’ria rules are not reliable, then one must read the following ahadith that clearly show that a man must pay a woman to have sexual intercourse with her. Islamists often talk of the ‘prostitution’ and the sexual promiscuity in un-Islamic societies. I wonder what they have to say about the following hadith. Kindly note that in this hadith the reason for the payment of the dower money is clearly stated, without any confusion. Yes, a woman is paid for having sex with her. This is the Islamic rule. Full stop.
http://www.discoveringislam.org
http://nirmukta.com/2011/08/27/the-status-of-women-as-depicted-by-manu-in-the-manusmriti/
Raihana,
Here is a tentative pragmatic solution for you. You must not marry for at least one more year. Tell your family that you need to have a job before you can think of any marriage proposals. Be firm on it and your parents can accept it. Don’t see your boy friend for some time.
Once you land a job and have worked for a year or so, you will be a changed person, a stronger person. So, you must buy some more time to arrive at a more informed decision. This doesn’t mean that you have to marry your Hindu boy friend. However, it will give you more time to ponder over the best solution at your disposal.
Said this, it’s not a very good idea to still be a good Muslim. If you are, you will still believe that the prophet is the best person ever walked on the face of the earth and will like your boy friend to be a follower of Muhammad. If the love bitten Hindu naive boy converts to Islam, he will sooner or latter start imbibing the horrible vices of Sharia laws That may ruin you life a horrible one. Why do’t you go through the life story of Muhammad? If your father loves your mother, it’s due to the Hindu cultural heritage. If you don’t believe it, do some research on the Muslim women’s status in the Muslim countries where Muslims live the life according to Islam.
Any way, it’s your life and decide what is good for you but don’t make the life of the Hindu boy friend a nightmare for him by converting him or his children if married to him. I am pretty sure, he is no knowledge of Islam especially of Muhammad as I didn’t have when I passed my Engineering degree.
Pray Allah to give you strength and to get rid of this cobweb woven by Muhammad who used Allah for his elevation to prophet-hood. He painted all powerful and all merciful Allah as a demon who is cruel and gives a permanent hell fire to those who don’t believe in Muhammad even though they have full faith in Allah!
Hi Raihana,
My sincere advice to you, that no body can persuade your parents, it is you only who has to handle the situation very tactfully, as suggested by other muslim sisters.Due to religious pressures, parents will take time to understand your mental agony.
God helps those who help themselves.
Good luck.
Hi Raihana,
Rokhsana has already replied the way I wished to suggest you.It would be better if you could meet your BF,s parents and take them also in to confidence. There is no hell fire, for true love. If it is so it should be for Mullas, and Imams who teach evil practices against females such as :-
i) prove virginity for females,
ii) provision of 4 wives for males, all virgin,
iii)treating females sex toys,
iv)female genital mutiliations,
v) sex with dead wife in some islamic countries,
vi) domestic violence against females, if they refuse sex,
vii)keep females in burqa,
viii) restricting movement and jobs for females,
ix) in some islamic countries females are not allowed higher education,
driving vehilces and no identity cards,
So in order to avoid all such evil customs you go for marrying your BF,
under Special Marriage Act, with the help of a lawyer.
Best of luck
thank you sister, can anyone of you talk to my parents, like a counselling? because everything is clear between both of us, only problem is the family
No one could talk to your family. Unfortunately you are alone. Only “time” is a therapy, it will be slow and painful period.
Khurshida,
You lied
i) prove virginity for females,
—-no, its not required
ii) provision of 4 wives for males, all virgin,
—-no,its not required https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=juBkiCeklnA
iii)treating females sex toys,
—-no, not so, it protects women from being judged by sexuality
iv)female genital mutiliations,
—no,its not required
v) sex with dead wife in some islamic countries,
—i don`t knw abt some islamic counries, bt in islam, it is nt permitted
vi) domestic violence against females, if they refuse sex,
—uuhh, who said this, i think its in hinduism
vii)keep females in burqa,
—to protect them from evil eyes, still it is nt compulsory
viii) restricting movement and jobs for females,
—-no, not so
ix) in some islamic countries females are not allowed higher education,
driving vehilces and no identity cards,
—-what some islamic coutry got to do with india, is saudi arabia they can`t drive , but in all other muslim countries they can drive,hahah u said not allowed from higher education, don`t crack jokes yaar!!!
Hi Raihana,
Read your life story. Your BF is earning and you both have attained age of maturity. In India, no problem for you, you can marry him under Special Marriage Act. Before doing so, get fully convinced about his commitment and loyality for everlasting relations in all phases of life. Your parents cannot force legally to marry some one against your wishes. Be bold and tactful, as one of our sisters has suggested.Get a job and handle the situation very tactfully.
God bless.
Go for your love this is what I have decided in my life as I am going through the same situation 99.9% same situation. I can not express how i felt while I was reading your details. i was thinking as if someone has shared my story. Dear Sis! as i have decided to be with my love, u too do it. After death we will see what happens. Religions are made by human beings, not God. God is with you.
Hi sis,
there are lot of people like us, i would like to know how are you gonna face the situation. right now i am going through really bad time. i have no support in my family, and hesitate to meet all my relatives because they all are eagerly waiting to see my marriage with a muslim guy. people who were supporting me earlier are also now against, so its really tough
Earlier, you were their puppet and they loved it. Now you are raising your head.
However, given your situation, we highly recommend you do consider Muslim boys. If you do come across a decent educated working Muslim guy, go for it. If not, wait for a right guy (or go back to that Hindu guy).
Be mindful of Islamic practice of honor killing. They will love and respect you as far as you are in their fold; as soon as you are not like them, they have approval from god to eliminate unbelievers.
but i have already told you that i cant leave my boy friend..its not a decision that i can take alone, both of us should be fine with that, right now we both are in very good terms and can’t think of separation.
Jamila,
Can you share more details of your love and situation?
You are absolutely right “Religions are made by human beings, not God”. Do not think any other way.
Further on, “After death we will see what happens”, know that his is all scary techniques that works with undedicated or people with bilnd-faith. Believe in THIS life. No one knows about the AFTER life, so any one could make up anything.
Religions may be man made, but there r certain rules which r not men made, like death,even no doctor can save u, and it is abt whther u beileve in god or not,and u r marrying a guy who associate patners with god, don`t give respect to god in its original form, call a ling a god, how can u believe that true god will allow u to get awat with this….
Good that you agree that religions are/may be man made.
yes religions are man made, like hinduism,christianity,judaism,christiniry, islam is not a relgion like others, its meaning is submitting to god
mac, it sounds like you are saying “My God is better than all others Gods!!! My Islam is only a true faith, rest should be trashed. I am only smart and knows every thing, rest are fool.” LOL.
hi,
i would like to ask the admin one thing, you think educating a girl is a bad thing to do? i have seen uneducated muslim girls running away with auto drivers, ‘culies’ etc, (muslims or non muslims) in that case is it because they are educated? only because I am a muslim girl i don’t have the right to be educated? and yes, i am not financially independent now, but with in two months i will start working. i understood that the easiest solution is to forget my love. but i tried a lot for that, it is not happening. so can you suggest me some ways to convince my parents?
EDUCATION AND WOMEN
We highly encourage ALL women to get educated and be financially independent. This way you could demand respect and equality. With it, you are not at mercy of someone. Without it, society may not let you live with dignity.
What is education?
Two types of education:
1) Education as knowledge: You came to this site to educate yourself and we hope you learned something. You talk to others, Google for information, read books, advise others, etc will make you more knowledgable (for money, life matters, religion, politics, sports or what ever field you wish to get educated).
2) Education as a degree from college or university.
Both these educations go hand in hand, People like you who knows, go for good formal college education. Those who have degrees are generally trained in colleges to gain knowledge in what ever field they desires.
Formal education help in landing your first paid job. Knowledge in general help to excel in career.
If you have a choice between a wealthy but uneducated man verse a poor but a man with good formal education and having a decent job, go for the educated one. Always think of making your own money rather than looking at in-laws’ money.
Educated people are also train to be CRITICAL THINKERS. They will not do somethings because someone said so, instead they will raise a question, “why?”.
Now back to religion, educated people will question the religion and religion books. They will not blindly follow some religious leader’s preaching.
If your mom wants you to be a good Muslim girl and start believing that Hindus will get Hell Fire, but now you will not believe her because you are now a critical thinker. You know it very well that she (and Koran) is irrational by telling that non-Muslims are sinners.
Once Muslim women get education and be financially independent, they will start talking about equality and that Muslim guys will not wish. That is why, Telibanis are smart and do not believe in women education.
We are glad and proud of you that you got great education. Now you must demand for equality and 100% dignity in life, nothing less. We hope you will find a great guy (Muslim or non-Muslim) who is willing to treat you with love and care. Best wishes.
To your question, “can you suggest me some ways to convince my parents?” this will be hard. Rome was not built in a day. It may take 2-3 years of struggle to come to terms with them.
It is not only Muslim parents, ALL parents get shocked when they learn of interfaith relationships for their children. Some fight back hard, while others give in soon. In your case, expect the worst.
Hi Raihana,
Understanding your problem, I feel that you have to be tactful and bold.
If your BF is earning and independent, like minded, you should marry him ony. Hindu guys are liberal, educative, intelligent, kind, caring and very adjusting, as compared to muslim guys, who are in search of 3/4 wives as per Koran texts and treating wife such a sex doll.
hi,
i can understand all these things related to religion. but i am not here to question that, in fact i believe in islam. but isn’t it telling to respect others? my dad gives all respect to my mom, but there are bad people in all communities. but fell in love with hindu guy not because i wanted freedom, it just happened and now it is very difficult to forget, and i will regret through out my life for giving away my love
Raihana,
To your question, ” ..islam. but isn’t it telling to respect others?”, answer is… Koran teaches to respect only believers. To “unbelievers” and to those who pray to other gods….well, read it your self here.
Please correct us if we misinterpreted Koran.
yes, you mis interpreted it, coz u wrote abt quran 9:5 which actually talks abt non-muslim bt quran 9:6 also talks abt non-muslim, bt why u omitted it, WHY?
9.6: If they repent and take to prayer and render the alms levy, allow them to go their way.
Why non-believer have to join praising Muhammad in the prayer? If they don’t, then 9:5 apply?
good point, u seems to b a smart girl (y) and if u fully beileve in islam marry him only if he really converts to islam
Convert, convert, convert. Is that Muslims all about?
admin, islam doesn`t allow a muslim women or men marrying a polyhtiest, so if she really believes in islam then she must convert him to islam
We know this is truth and a Muslim will not rest till the Hindu spouse convert to Islam.
We do not have any problem with Muslim’s belief, however only point bothering us is why Muslim youths are not disclosing that fact on the first date? Why they keep fooling around with Hindus for years and only 6 months before the wedding time, they will start talking about conversion, like they did not knew?
This is cheating.
This is love-proselytism.
This is LOVE-JIHAD
This is LOVE-JIHAD
This is LOVE-JIHAD
Hi Raihana,
Can you tell me, which country are you staying and what your BF is doing? Is he working? Do you find him compatible for everlasting relationship?
In muslim community, the fear of hell fire is propagated so that females do not leave islam. In fact, islam is the only religion where females are tortured, insulted and males are allowed all sorts of privileges.
If you could anwer my queries, I could be helpful to you.
God bless.
hi,
I am studying in India, and my boy friend is working, he is an architect. he is a very open person. i know him for past 7 years. he wont force me to follow hinduism. he respects me and my religions in all manner and sensible.
Wow! Architect, that nice.
Why Muslim girls keep writing with surprise that “he wont force me to follow hinduism”? This conversion (BBS) business is only Abrahamic thing, there is no concept of not tolerating others in Dharmic faiths (at least in religious books). God is there every where and in everybody, so there is no question of converting one to another. It is hoped that one day Christians and Muslims will learn that.
He will not force you to follow hinduism because(of this ) hinduism is completly against women, how will he force.