akash says: January 7, 2015 at 12:40 am
Mijin, I am in same situation, only way to knot tie with her PEACEFULLY is to convert to islam, my muslim lovers family is not at all in agreement with their daughter marrying a hindu, she told me they will only accept me if i convert to islam, they will give their daughter with a unemployed muslim man rather than a hindu employed man, for them religion first then everything -Akash
Admin says:
Dear Akash,
She does not love you but loves expanding Islam, that’s all. NEVER FAKE-CONVERT. You will regret it for your life. Read all that we have written and get back to tell one good reason why should you fake-convert to Islam. -Admin
Mujin says: January 7, 2015 at 8:36 am
That is the way, if you want to do by the book. Hindus have no rules about and and Muslims have strict rules—> hence this is always used as a point of leverage.
My suggestion would be, to first look at the laws and look for middle ground. Don’t ‘fake-convert’ if you are not willing to be muslim, you will repent internally and marriage won’t work out.
If you really want to be a mulsim, without thinking about the girl, then you convert. Or else, please don’t.
Anyone who says, “If he/she loves you so much why can’t she/he convert?”, is never to be believed.
Islam itself says, “Do not think of allah for the sake of your parter” (Mac would quote you better on this), so, if you fake-convert, you will not/never do justice to Allah, your parter and yourself.
You’ll only make a lot of un-involved muslims for feeling happy about: “+1!”
You need to ask yourself, “It is my life, what would make me happy really? Or what would make me less miserable?” -Mujin.
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i am hindu am plan to marry a muslima cos of ther way of living they are simply in hijab not getting a Hindu girl how to approach advice
I feel people here are spreading more of hatred rather than love. We are continuously one after the other posting unnecessary bad comments about Islam and Hinduism.A couple is asking solutions from us, rather than giving them a helping hand,all here are using this platform to use abusive words/language against each other.
I want to say comm-on guyz, please stop spreading bullshit in the name of religion. Stop spreading hatred for each other.
I sincerely request the admin of this site to stop posting useless comments of the people. If they are not ready to give an advise genuinely to the person who is discussing/sharing the problem, then they have got no right to comment.If the trend goes on like this then genuine people will stop posting on this site and it will just become a platform for cats and dogs fight.
Dear Saba,
This is certainly a concern. Thanks for your views, we value it.
There are two ways to look at it:
1) One suggestion is… to make comments uniform and appropriate, and should someone start deleting irrational irrelevant comments. But who that neutral person be? In the end, the site may end up being one person’s personal views. This defeats the purpose of giving fair information from both or all sides. or…
2) An interfaith couple may be having heavenly time in college, however, as soon as they come back to their society, they will face issues from parents, relatives, religions leaders and both sides of communities. All issues discussed on this site will be thrown at you, at one or the other time. As much as you do not like abusive words about two faiths, after marriage, especially after childbirth, you will have to face them. We hope this site is preparing you for the reality of life. If a couple cannot face comments from strangers on this site, how they will manage when it comes from a mother-in-law?
We hope the interfaith couple would learn to take the best from all these discussions and ignore the rest.
Yes, agree and will try to minimize cats and dogs fight here. Thanks again for your very valuable input.
Dear saba, you are right, but this is the soul purpose of this site, to bash Islam and Muslims but as a matter of fact admin here is correct, you have to face this in real life, from your in-laws, are you Hindu or muslim BTW…i think you are Muslim thatswhy this site contents is hurting your sentiments…again this site deals with religion..for this reason it was created..to help interfaith couples, if you don`t like religious talk then how will you deal your interfaith marriage??
This site is not anti-Islam, however you have to realize that more you try to prove that Islam is 100% truth, more people will be compelled to write back to annoy you.
If Charlie Hebdo writes against Buddhism, there will not be any major backlash. That does not help Charlie Hebdo sell their papers. However when they wrote about Islam, now Charlie could sell 5M copies and become very popular.
We agree Palestinians are suffering but throwing stones or bombs is not a solution. Blacks also have suffered but how many planes were highjacked by blacks? Instead of killing whites, they peacefully asked for their rights. Whole world is sympathetic to black’s causes. Now they achieved equality it in America and South Africa, it is a win-win for all.
mac, God is not patented by Muhammad. Learn to respect others.
We strongly believe interfaith love relationships should not be used as a tool to promote one’s religion.
If this site is not anti-Islamic, then why so much comment against Islam.
You said if I try to prove Islam is 100% right then people will come and bash islam, no admin, this is not the case, i joined this website last year, where as anti-islamic comments are there from 2010-11.
Admin, people are writing against Islam, over 60 thousands books has been written against islam and Muhammad(peace be upon him), but did you see Muslim shooting anyone for that. This Charlie Hebdo drew nude picture of Muhammad(pbuh) but Muslim didn`t care, from no where to youth came and shot down 12 people and shouted Allah-akbar and left their identity card , i smell conspiracy here, because France was leaning towards Palestinian Muslim and Israel warned France that they will face the consequence..and MOSAD is expert in this type of attack.
Palestinian are suffering you agree, LOL, they are suffering from 1946 and every time they ask for justice US applies VETO, and Palestinian kid though stone at tanks which approach their home for destruction. You watch this video from a Jew who tells the truth about Israel https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=QXMG1tyJ-Uk
Black causes were not voted out by superpowers whereas when it comes to voting in favor of Palestinian Muslim, they use veto against it, watch the above video to know
God is not patented by Muhammad, if you observe in todays world, only islam is the religion which has formless,unseen god, now one knows the picture of even Muhammad(pbuh) forget about picture of Allah(SWT), have you seen the picture of god of Quran???
You and your group and other members first learn to speak honestly and then advice me, i know i respect every people but I don`t respect stupid belief system.
People have rights to believe what ever; be that atheism, following God in no form or in any numbers of forms. Obvious, what one is not following is “stupid belief system” for others. Islam has talaak, polygamy and superstition of the Judgement Day. Other faiths also have their own stupidities. No one is perfect. Don’t fight in the name of God. Don’t say there is only one God and that is mine!! Learn to live and let other live.
I think admin does not beliving on any faith… but he is advicing to other faiths. . he got brain washed. . .
He is not beliving on any religion
discusting …..
Would it be wrong if we say we are an atheist, Christian or Buddhist? Why people cannot have liberty to think or see God the way one desires? Why every one must think just like a Saudi Sunni Muslim?
what about lord krishna and 1600 wives?
what about idol worshiper which veda itself rejects?
what about sex before marriages in hinduism?
U guys didnt understand and follow ur religion properly how u would understands the holy quran
Idoits …….
How can Koran be words of God,propagating war,bomb blasts,discrimination, killing non believers, treating female sex toys, jihad, fatwa, and terrorists awarded with 72 virgins sexual pleasure?
How can God nominate rapist his messenger?
Mohammad,
There are so many muslim writers and poets who have praised Lord Krishna and wrote poems and also praised Guru Granth Sahib.
Dont try to mislead people by concealing evil nature of islam. Every where these islamist terrorists are posing threat to the innocents.
I also praise Guru Granth Saheeb. so
I also respect gita except the verses which tells women degrades womb.
Great.. Hindu Pandit belives in
islam. . check this out :
This is those who are always
against to islam must watch !!
http://www.youtube.com/
watch?v=7foUag40MgA
Great.. Pandit belives in islam. . check this out :
This is those who are always against to islam must watch !!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7foUag40MgA
Hi readers,
In the name of islam, how clerics work for self gains, the following is the text of news against poor laides:-
NDTV Newes :Faisalabad: For the poor in Pakistan, justice is hard to obtain. For a young woman scarred by the sex trade, it is even harder.
Zunaira Muhammad, 20, says she was trafficked back and forth through an Imam, along with other 23 other girls, between Pakistan and United Arab Emirates/ Kuwait for four years, sold for sex from a high-rise flat in Dubai by a gang from Faisalabad who duped them into thinking they would work in a beauty shop/ malls to finance their studies as a software engineer.
There story of violence and crushed dreams reached Pakistani Prime Minister Nawaz Sharif, whose office requested an investigation last April, and the Islamabad High Court ordered the arrest of the ringleaders.
But nine months later the gang is still operating with impunity of Maulvies and imams while Zunaira, barely able to stand because of the beatings she said the traffickers gave her, remains in hiding.
The police investigation has stalled, with the detective questioning Zunaira’s morals and saying she has to provide him with clues to enable him to arrest the traffickers, and her lawyer has abandoned her in face of threats and intimidation.There is no trace of other girls, how they are living and where are they?
Zunaira is desperate. “Is anyone there who could help me and my poor family so we could come out from this fire?” she said in an interview from her hiding place outside the industrial city of Faisalabad.
She is in pain from beatings and bullets – the gangsters shot her in the legs when she escaped in March 2013. She said she wants to resume her academic studies but is isolated and alone.
you haved to think this before you love…
From interfaithmarraiges like this problem will surerly appear
It is better that you want to research the religion before you love with interfaith…
but you guys didnt think like this..
after like this problem appear
simply you faulting to the shariaw(law) and go against the religion. why?
That is the way, if you want to do by the book. Hindus have no rules about and and Muslims have strict rules—> hence this is always used as a point of leverage.
My suggestion would be, to first look at the laws and look for middle ground. Don’t ‘fake-convert’ if you are not willing to be muslim, you will repent internally and marriage won’t work out.
If you really want to be a mulsim, without thinking about the girl, then you convert. Or else, please don’t.
Anyone who says, “If he/she loves you so much why can’t she/he convert?”, is never to be believed.
Islam itself says, “Do not think of allah for the sake of your parter” (Mac would quote you better on this), so, if you fake-convert, you will not/never do justice to Allah, your parter and yourself.
You’ll only make a lot of un-involved muslims for feeling happy about: “+1!”
You need to ask yourself, “It is my life, what would make me happy really? Or what would make me less miserable?”
” Hindus have no rules about and and
Muslims have strict rules—> hence this is always used as a point of leverage.”
I want to ask you something. .
what is religion?
what is the concept of religion?
what is the goal of religion?
why we are attached with religions?
what is the need/purpose of the religion?
answer this questions. .
then you will found out why rules are there in islam rather than hinduism. .
First of all, love before marraige is haram(not allowed) in islam. .
I accept that some muslim people are doing like this but they dont know they are going in the false way then after they will got like this problems
Islam itself says, “Do not think of allah for the sake of your parter”
where it says to convert. . first quote properly…