mehar says: July 28, 2015 at 7:28 am
Dear Jainab , hi, your writings always touch my heart, you asked why i am interested in you, i did not replied you, because i was hesitating, that being a Muslim girl is it okay or not, but finally i decided to reply.
i am visitor of this blog since 7-8 months. I never commented but your story touched my mind and heart. When we go to see a movie, we all know that the story in movie is fabricated, but when a scene touches our heart, tears start flowing, but i found your story very heart touching and emotional, written truly by heart without teasing any one, i found myself in your place. That’s why i read regularly your posts.
Second thing is that i have also friendship with a Hindu boy, but it has not gone so far, i always feel very happy, when i meet him, that’s it, there is nothing more than it.
i am from a very educated family, both my parents are govt servants. They are very much moderate, money is not a matter for me. We are only two sisters, my elder sister is a dentist by profession. She is married a Hindu Cardiologist. They both live a very happy life in New Jersey, USA. On Eid my parents gone there to celebrate the holy festival, both follow their religions jointly. They got a son named Ayan.
These all are the reasons i found myself very much related with you, your way of describing, your honesty, your views about Muslims inspired me a lot.
I have heard so much about women’s abuse, but never thought that a Muslim girl can struggle in this way. You will be a pathfinder for many Muslim girls. Many many thanks for reading my comments, carryon. I am waiting for your further comments. Bye -Mehar
mehar says: 2015/07/19 at 3:15 am
DEAR jainab, Hi. AT FIRST I WILL LIKE TO GREET YOU FOR showing strength against our thousand years old rules, which does not relevant in this era, religion has its own place, but we also have our life and we also want to live freely, why our parents and preachers treat us like dumb-fools, I think their religious shopos should must be shut down. i am not against islam or Hinduism or Christianity, we should honour all of them, but religion is a very much personal issue. after a particular age and getting education we should be allowed to live our life freely as in Europe and us. pl don’t go from this page or give me yor id, I have to talk with you a lot. i read all of your conversation and it inspired me a lot. thanks and pl come back with new progress. -mehar
mehar says: August 15, 2015 at 3:29 am
Mr.Ahmed, 1st i will say that you don’t need to give me a certificate of my religion. I don’t require a suggestion or compliment from people like you. you told me a liar, who are you? to comment like this, I am with my family live a very happy and graceful life. we have our own status. we haven’t got it from religion, This All due to my parents education, there behavior with all their associates, their ambition to be a good officer, as well as their loyalty for our country. I am proud of them. So don’t try to trap me through your Islamic Quotes, we follow our religion according to today’s era. No thanks to people like you who always consider Muslim women as a private showpiece reserved, and statue, who don’t have life, who don’t have any life. who always live on mercy of gents, who don’t have any liberty, even she can’t breathe without men’s help. -Mehar
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Can a Muslim Man Marry Another Woman of His Choice When the Wife is Alive?
Dear admn,thanks, i have no problem with anybody, I only followed dear Jainab,I have nothing to say. I am not a coward. I don’t care for the people who has decided to keep Muslim girls in their harams. Thanks-see ya–Mehar
mehar
most of (muslims in name) never legalize their misbehavior with their islam
ie; i drink wine …try not to do it in public …if so ..i will never try to say wine is halal ..or say god rules are thousands years old ..so it is not valid nowadays ..i will simply say ..i can not leave wine ..
what is the meaning (live freely) ….
in passport name : muslim and atheist in reality …
not only that …legalizing his or her atheist behavior
not only that ..advising jainab to be a pathfinder for her muslim sisters ……………..after all these …ask us not to call him.. kafir
or hindu pretending islam
one more thing …mehar
you have made a deadly mistake and exposed your lie about your (so called sister) and her hindu hasband ..you say :both follow their religions
the question is what islamic rules left for your sister to follow …
i challenge you …to mention ..what rules they are…for a girl start her
life with haram relationship
mehar do you think ..we are so idiot to tell us such stories
Mr.Ahmed,ist i will say that you don’t need to give me a certificate of my religion.I don’t require a suggestion or compliment from people like you.you told me a liar,who are you? to comment like this,I with my family live a very happy and graceful life.we have our own status.we haven’t got it from religion,This All due to my parents education,there behavior with all their associates,their ambition to be a good officer,as well as their loyalty for our country.I am proud of them.So don’t try to trap me through your Islamic Quotes,we follow our religion according to today’s era.No thanks to people like you who always consider Muslim women as a private showpiece reserved,and statue,who don’t have life,who don’t have any life.who always live on mercy of gents,who don’t have any liberty,even she can’t breathe without men’s help.
Mehar, superb, thank you for sharing your views. People like yourself will bring India and this world to prosperity for all. While religious intolerance will ruin it. We are glad you are speaking out.
As a matter of fact, all Muslims friends we have are exactly like you. So are majority like you or majority of Muslims are like mac and Haque?
In April 2014, a 22-year-old Saudi student arrived at Montreal’s Mirabel Airport and requested asylum on the unprecedented grounds of gender persecution. The woman, who has asked that she be identified only as Nada, told authorities that if Canada forced her to return to Saudi Arabia her life would be in danger. Her crime, she said, was walking outside her home without being fully veiled—that is, enveloped from head to toe in a black chador. Initially, Nada’s request for asylum was rejected, Canadian officials being reluctant to believe that women in Saudi Arabia today live at best as second- or third-class citizens. They are not allowed to drive, to marry whom they want, or to travel without written permission from a male guardian, and they are the target of frequent and random searches by the mutawah, the dreaded religious police.
In January of this year, following an international outcry, Canadian immigration finally granted Nada’s petition. However, it was made thunderously clear that this was an “exception.” One Western official, who requested anonymity, put it this way: “Consider that there are one billion Muslims in the world, so we’re talking hypothetically about 500 million women who might want out.”
The burkha is an extreme practice. It is never right for a woman to hide behind a veil and shut herself off from people in the community. But it is particularly wrong in Britain, where it is alien to the mainstream culture for someone to walk around wearing a mask.
‘Nowhere in the Koran does it state that a woman’s face and body must be covered in a layer of heavy black cloth’
The veil restricts women. It stops them achieving their full potential in all areas of their life, and it stops them communicating. It sends out a clear message: ‘I do not want to be part of your society.’
Every time the burkha is debated, Muslim fundamentalists bring out all these women who say: ‘It’s my choice to wear this.’
Perhaps so – but what pressures have been brought to bear on them? The reality, surely, is that a lot of women are not free to choose.
Girls as young as four are wearing the hijab to school: that is not a freely made choice. It stops them taking part in education and reaching their potential, and the idea that tiny children need to protect their modesty is abhorrent.
And behind the closed doors of some Muslim houses, countless young women are told to wear the hijab and the veil. These are the girls who are hidden away, they are not allowed to go to university or choose who they marry. In many cases, they are kept down by the threat of violence.
The burkha is the ultimate visual symbol of female oppression. It is the weapon of radical Muslim men who want to see Sharia law on Britain’s streets, and would love women to be hidden, unseen and unheard. It is totally out of place in a civilised country.
Precisely because it is impossible to distinguish between the woman who is choosing to wear a burkha and the girl who has been forced to cover herself and live behind a veil, I believe it should be banned.
Nicolas Sarkozy
French President Sarkozy backed moves to outlaw burkhas in France
President Sarkozy is absolutely right to say: ‘If you want to live here, live like us.’
He went on to say that the burkha is not a religious sign, ‘it’s a sign of subservience, a sign of debasement… In our country, we cannot accept that women be prisoners behind a screen, cut off from all social life, deprived of all identity.’
So what should we do in Britain? For decades, Muslim fundamentalists, using the human rights laws, have been allowed to get their own way.
It is time for British Muslims to say, ‘Enough is enough’. For the sake of women and children, the Government must ban the wearing of the hijab in school and the burkha in public places.
You are absolutely right,once i saw a picture of Muslim child girls wearing hizab sitting on a small wall,but i surprised to see that they don’t wearing underwears.
Mehar are u in relationship with the hindu boy or is it just friendship?
Hi Kumar,its only a friendship,nothing else till today..Mehar.
But admin, you will not make blog of heena hussain, you hide posts of muslim girls who suffers in the hand of hindu boys…is this your way of dealing justly? You said she didn`t came back to this site, many , infact most of the people donot come back, Farheen also didn`t come back, but you immediately made her blog, i didn`t ask you to make my blog(Mac:my-mother-was-brahmin), but you have made it, admin, you have taken a nice way of hiding truth
A fair point and she deserves justice….
https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=10221
Thank you admin
The Muslim Response to Muslim Atrocities
I first noticed it with my parents. Though they are amongst the most caring and loving people that I have ever known, when it comes to atrocities supported by Islam, they abandon even their own loving nature in order to defend their religion.
It so happened that one afternoon my parents were trying to convince me of the beauty of Islam and therefore its divine origin. In frustration I responded “Muhammad allowed his warriors to rape their female captives. This is in Sahih Bukhari and in Sahih Muslim, and it explains verses in the Quran!”
In sharp response, my mother said “So what!? In the West you rape women with your eyes! You go to the beach, you see women walking around barely clothed, and you’re raping them with your eyes!”
Her response left me reeling. Not only was I bewildered by the utter inaccuracy of what she implied, as if looking at women is as violating as forcibly inserting one’s phallus into their bodies, but I was surprised that she did not even begin to denounce the practice of raping female captives!
After this incident, my eyes were more attuned to Muslim responses to Muslim atrocities. The more I observed, the more I realized that my mother was far from alone in her defense. Other Muslims similarly try to detract attention from Muslims’ horrible morality by pointing the finger elsewhere, saying “Look at that over there! It, too, is bad!”
The post immediately before this present post is a perfect example. Though rape is unfortunately prevalent throughout the world, it often comes with a religious twist when performed by Muslims. In this case, Christian girls were raped and forced to convert to Islam. When the women were finally rescued, a Muslim mob congregated to protest. Protest against the rapists? No! They came to protest their return to their father, who was a Christian, since they were now Muslims (a result of their forced conversions).
The mob was completely unmoved by the raping of two young girls, entirely ambivalent towards the Muslim rapists.
When David posted a blog about the incident, the Muslims who visit this blog reacted the same way! Instead of saying “This was bad and I condemn these Muslims!” here are the reactions we get:
Bassam: “What about the filthy Serbian Christians that raped tens of thousands of innocent Muslim women in Bosnia?”
Ibn: “There are verses in the corrupted bible that do permit rape in the logical sense.”
Sami: “How many ladies have been raped in the west since the posting of this article?”
To be fair, as an afterthought, one Muslim did post a rebuke of the rapes:
Yahya: “BTW Yes I condemn this horrific act”
It is shocking to see Muslims entirely unmoved by atrocities when committed by other Muslims. When the attention is drawn towards these crimes, they boil in anger, as if to say “How dare you accuse us, the people of God! Look at the rest of the world!”
Oh but the rest of the world is looking at you, dear Muslim friends. Your behavior is akin to that of a school boy caught breaking the rules. When confronted, he responds “Well other boys are doing it, too!” And yet, when the boy finds others breaking the same rules, he drags them to the teachers saying “This filth is breaking the rules and must be punished!
Dear Mehar,
Extremely delighted to read your text on this blog. Muslim girls are the most sufferers in the world due to evil teachings, practices, discriminatory attitude,insecurity due to oral tripple talaks, FMG, Halala, stonning to death only females( I have not seen or heard a single where male has been stonned to death). Even if the girl is forcibly raped, she is blamed and as honour she is killed. Older people marrying child brides, even in muslim countries, girls are not safe, whether it is Pakistan,Afghanistan, Iraq, Syria, Nigeria, Libya, Turkey,Yemen and so on,they are kidnapped, raped by terrorist grouups.
Islam does not give freedom of expression, movement, choice of life soul, even voting rights and driving permission, in some countries. They are just treated as sex objects. Males are allowed to keep 4 wives at a time, divorce them any time, testimony of females half of the males.
Wafa Sultan,Taslima Nasreen great and bold muslim ladies struggle hard against islamic evils but their efforts could not gain momentum to the extent possible. Any way it is found that more and more muslim girls are raising and educating their concern, as half of the population worldwide.
God bless you.
human
you said :god bless you
what god do you mean ?
are you bluffing us ??
is this the god that you deny his commandments ?
or the god whom you insult his prophet ?
or the god whom you call his islam
eithre you send a clear report about girls rape in muslim countries or you keep you mouth shut when- where and numbers or you are a big lier
there are fighting that is correct but this death is caused by your beloved shia and killing is every where
the rape is highly recroded in you modern counrties and societies us (india -hindu society) uk christian africa christian south america
yes we can marry 4 wives cz most of wold countries females have higher populations than males during the history god knows that …but you …no
we can not divorce wife with out a penalty put on us 1) postponed dowry
2) a regular income to divorced wife
so it is not easy to divorce
you do not know these details cz you are hidnu (claiming islam )
Mehar,
We are glad you are in touch with InterfaithShaadi for past 6 months. You know all we and others have to say for Hindu-Muslim relationships. We fully agree that women should have equal rights. Please express yourself fully here (like Jainab does).
We request that you keep your identity secret and do not disclose your city or other personal information. After that, feel 100% free on this site to empty your heart and minds. Go ahead and say what ever you wish to, that you cannot do other places. We hope to work with you, thanks.