Uzma says: December 14, 2012 at 9:22 am
Hi Abida and Fauzia,
Gone through your problems. Glad to see that in the modern age, our muslim girls are attempting to brake the shackles of islamic religion and lead a blissful and graceful rather than soccumbing to pressure and get tortured throughout life.
I am from Adelaid, South Australia, migrated from Indonesia, working in Beach Petroleum, oil and gas exploration and production company, as chemist. My job mainly relates to chemical analysis of mud core samples, and drilling fluid testing. My boss is an Indian, who is from Gujarat State of India, earlier worked in ONGC, India. I am deeply attracted towards him for his leadership qualities, way of working, and personality traits. He is equally interested in me. I have no problem, from my parents, being independent and born and brought up in a liberal environment.
Requesting Admn. and Satyen to guide me. -Uzma
Uzma added: December 15, 2012 at 4:57 am
Many many thanks to Admn. and Satyen,
I have no problem with vegetarian foods, which my would be soulmate prefers. We are working together for the last 2 years and understand each others nature and life styles. I shall definitely visit Gujarat with him. I do not like to read teachings of Quran which treat female as a sex toy and degraded human being and males allowed to enjoy all sorts of freedoms.
Just guide me and inspire from time to time. I am reading hindu religious books too. Kids, hahhahaa…………when born, will be adopting Hindu religion only.
With deep regards. -Uzma
Uzma says: January 11, 2013 at 8:35 am
Hello Admin/Satyen,
I would like to share with you that on 14th Jan 2013, Makarsakranti, as per Hindu festivals, I shall be marrying my Hindu BF. The wedding will take place as per Hindu rituals and thereafter registration of marriage.
Wising good wishes from well wishers. -Uzma
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lots of useful information, thanks for providing such statistics.
Hi,
Hello sisters, now Zahid appearing as Samir, trying to mislead muslim females from realities of their lives.
Samir, Zahid, Aamir are all one and same.
They are real enemy of muslim females on the earth.
Hi, Muslim readers these all the ID under Muslims names are fake..they are Islam nd Muslim haters please do not believe them. All the Muslims proud on themselves as Muslims..because they knows wha’s the truth. All Mushriks will be in the hell forever.
Princess Sultana is said to be a real Saudi princess from one of the highest royal families in Saudi Arabia. This Arabian princess kept diaries detailing the gut-wrenching treatment of Saudi women and passed her story on to an author named Jean P. Sasson. Sasson then wrote a book from the provided diaries, allowing the world to get a glimpse of the oppressed and often horrific lives of Saudi Arabian women.
Princess Sultana’s story is not for the faint of heart, as it includes tales of the torment, rape, and murder of Saudi Arabian women. While her story has not been proven 100-percent factual, many assert that there is enough evidence to suggest that Saudi women do lack even the most basic of human rights and are treated, in some circles, as less than animals.
Princess Sultana is not the princess’ real name; Sasson changed her name in Princess: A True Story of Life Behind the Veil in Saudi Arabia to protect her from the harm that would likely befall her if her identity was revealed. Public acknowledgment might also lead to the harm of Sultana’s children. From her veil of secrecy, Sultana reveals a place in which males take up certain and unrelenting dominance over their female counterparts. She does not stop with merely showing how male dominates female in adult relationships. She also shows how the oppression begins with children, offering details of a time when she was severely punished as a child for eating an apple that was hers, but was desired by her brother.
Princess Sultana describes ways in which Muslim women are denied human rights. For example, she discusses how they are often undereducated or refused education altogether. She tells tales of women who are starved or locked in rooms for what most would consider minor infractions. She details how they are tormented and, in some cases, stoned to death, all within the confines of the laws of the land. She even gives accounts of women being raped, and then executed as punishment for their supposed seduction of their rapists.
For many, the horror of Princess Sultana’s story stems from the accounts she gives of the lives of other women. However, many find the personal history of her childhood, marriage, and motherhood equally, if not more, alarming. The tales of her brother’s life serve as a vivid reminder of the differences between men and women in some Islamic countries. It is important to note that some people believe the stories of Princess Sultana to be fully contrived or merely based on extreme and rare situations. Others, however, believe her stories to be true.
Thank you respected Satyen,
So nice of you to hear appreciation and good wishes.
I see God in you always inspiring under previleged and depression
muslim girls.
God helps those who help themselves. Muslim girls have to fight for
their noble cause.
with deep regards,
Uzma
Hi Admn./Satyen,
By the grace of almighty I have married my BF as per Hindu traiditions on 14th Jan.2013 and subsequently marriage also got legally registered. Very happy we are together in all situations of life and grow old together including raising our own family.
Thanks a lot for your good wishes.
Congratulations and well wishes for your prosperous and blissful life here and hereafter.
Please help other women to get out of the enslaving ideology of Muhammad so that they can also breath in open air instead of the suffocating burqa.
Hi every body
Muslim countries in the Middle East and north-central Africa lead the world in human trafficking, according to a new U.S. State Department report. Of the 17 countries that were given the “Tier 3″ listing reserved for the worst offenders, nine were Muslim countries or countries with a large Muslim population from these two regions. Tier 3 countries are defined as those “whose governments do not fully comply with the minimum standards” of the Trafficking Victims Protection Reauthorization Act of 2008 and “are not making significant efforts to do so.”
The Middle Eastern countries with Tier 3 status are Iran, Kuwait, Saudi Arabia and Syria. The north-central African countries are Mauritania, Chad, Sudan, Niger and Eritrea, all of which have very large Muslim populations.
Algeria, Libya, Tunisia, Egypt, Iraq, Yemen, Bahrain, Qatar, the UAE and Lebanon are on the Tier 2 Watchlist – one step above Tier 3.
Shyima Hall, 19, was photographed for the State Department report in the windowless garage where she was kept for two years. Shyima was 10 when a wealthy Egyptian couple brought her from a poor village in northern Egypt to work in their home in California. She used to wake before dawn and often worked past midnight ironing clothes, mopping the marble floors and dusting the family’s crystal. She sometimes worked up to 20 hours a day and earned $45 a month. (Photo: Traffic in Persons Report 2009).
The data in the report indicates that Muslim countries in the Middle East and Africa are continuing their centuries-old practice of human trafficking. Historians estimate that between 9 and 14 million black Africans were brought to the Americas in the Atlantic slave trade and between 11 and 18 million black African slaves crossed the Red Sea, Indian Ocean, and Sahara Desert between the Muslim conquests in the 7th century and 1900.
Iran: The report says that “Iran is a source, transit, and destination for men, women, and children trafficked for the purposes of sexual exploitation and involuntary servitude. Iranian women are trafficked internally for the purpose of forced prostitution and forced marriage. Iranian and Afghan children living in Iran are trafficked internally for the purpose of forced marriage, commercial sexual exploitation, and involuntary servitude as beggars or laborers to pay debts, provide income, or support drug addiction of their families. Iranian women and girls are also trafficked to Pakistan, Turkey, Qatar, Kuwait, the United Arab Emirates, Iraq, France, Germany, and the United Kingdom for commercial sexual exploitation.”
The State Department report noted that “the Government of Iran does not fully comply with the minimum standards for the elimination of trafficking, and is not making significant efforts to do so. Lack of access to Iran by U.S. Government officials impedes the collection of information on the country’s human trafficking problem and the government’s efforts to curb it.”
North Africa and Middle East: Tier 3 countries are shaded maroon. (Traffic in Persons Report 2009).
Saudi Arabia, the report says, “is a destination country for men and women trafficked for the purposes of involuntary servitude and, to a lesser extent, commercial sexual exploitation. Men and women from Bangladesh, India, Sri Lanka, Nepal, Pakistan, the Philippines, Indonesia, Sudan, Ethiopia, and many other countries voluntarily travel to Saudi Arabia as domestic servants or other low-skilled laborers, but some subsequently face conditions indicative of involuntary servitude, including restrictions on movement, withholding of passports, threats, physical or sexual abuse, and non-payment of wages.
“Some Saudi men have also used legally contracted ‘temporary marriages’ in countries such as Mauritania, Yemen, and Indonesia as a means by which to sexually exploit migrant workers. Females as young as seven years old are led to believe they are being wed in earnest, but upon arrival in Saudi Arabia subsequently become their husbands’ sexual slaves, are forced into domestic labor and, in some cases, prostitution. The Government of Saudi Arabia does not fully comply with the minimum standards for the elimination of trafficking and is not making discernible efforts to do so.”
Syria is “principally a destination country for women and children trafficked for the purposes of domestic servitude and commercial sexual exploitation. Women from Iraq, Eastern Europe, former Soviet states, Somalia, and Morocco are recruited as cabaret dancers and subsequently forced into prostitution after their employers confiscate their passports and confine them to their work premises. A significant number of women and children in the large Iraqi refugee community in Syria are forced into sexual exploitation by criminal gangs or, in some cases, their families. Some desperate Iraqi families reportedly abandon their girls at the border with the expectation that traffickers on the Syrian side would arrange forged documents for the children and ‘work’ in a nightclub or brothel. Iraqi families arrange for young girls to work in clubs and to be “married,” often multiple times, to men for the sole purpose of prostitution.”
In Kuwait, the majority of trafficking victims are from among the over 500,000 foreign women recruited for domestic service work. “Men and women migrate from Nepal, India, Sri Lanka, the Philippines, Indonesia, Pakistan, and Bangladesh in search of work in the domestic and sanitation industries. Although they migrate willingly to Kuwait, upon arrival some are subjected to conditions of forced labor from their ‘sponsors’ and labor agents, such as withholding of passports, confinement, physical sexual abuse and threats of such abuse or other serious harm, and non-payment of wages with the intent of compelling their continued service.”
“Adult female migrant workers are particularly vulnerable, and consequently are often victims of sexual exploitation and forced prostitution. There have been instances of domestic workers who have fled from their employers, lured by the promise of well-paying service industry jobs, and being coerced into prostitution. In other cases, the terms of employment in Kuwait are wholly different from those agreed to in their home countries. The Government of Kuwait does not fully comply with the minimum standards for the elimination of trafficking and is not making sufficient efforts to do so
Hello Zahid,
Females are not disobeying Allah. It is only Imam, mullas, maulvies are disobeying him by committing attrocities on the females through various inhuman and barbaric treatments. So all such persons should go to hell, including Prophet, a murder and rapist.
All those who disobey allah will go to hell wheather it is male or famele. To learn more about islam vist http://www.usislam.org if you are muslims
Hi,
I am Aafrah from an Arabian country, studying in Sao paulo, Brazil and also working here for the last 7 months. I am in love with a Christian boy and like their life style and freedom to the women and therefore wish to marry him. We both work in the same company. My parents wants to marry a muslim guy from Saudi Arabia, which I dont like due to so many evils against females. I have met his parents and they are ready to accept me as their daughterin law. I like libral environment and a working women too and dont like restrictions like in Arabian country, not to get identity card, no driving vehilces, sex with dead wife, domestic violence, talak any moment and so on. Though I shall not be chaning my religion, accepting genuine rules of the islam but kids shall be grownup in christian teachings and religious parameters.;
Please guide, whether I am correct? I have read here from some muslim males, that marrying a non muslim shall lead to a hell fire. I dont believe such stupid arguments?
Reply to Aafrah at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=4099
All the stories are fake under muslim names and do not belive to them as they are antiislamic.lf you marry non muslim if i t is true then you and your parents will go to hell for forever life after death. learn about islam from http://www.usislam.org to know about islam
Suhail,
Dont talk about hell. Where is the hell for muslim males, who are marrying 4 women, giving them divorce, using them only for sex,
raping them, mutiliating genital system of females, where are is hell for terrorists, who have murdered thousands of innocents, where is the hell for prophet, who raped grand daughter like child, where is the hell for those beating their wives? The person like you definitely one day will go to hell or become a buffalo to pul the loaded cart in 50 deg. cel. temp.
VM, excellent point!
Hello Admn/Satyen,
I would like to share with you that on 14th Jan.2013, Makarsakranti,as per Hindu festivals, I shall be marrying my Hindu BF. The wedding will take place as per Hindu rituals and thereafter registration of marriage.
Wising good wishes from well wishers.
uzma
Uzma,
This is certainly great news. Considering you are raised in a liberal environment, you are going to adjust very well in new environment. Please keep us posted for development in life over years. Also please come back to this site to guide other youths. Best wishes.
Satyen will certainly ask you for sweets for this great news!! Enjoy.
Uzma,
Great news that you are going to ties the knot on the auspicious occasion of Makarsankranti to start off a new liberal life to help others liberating. As per Hindus, the wife and the husband have one soul residing in two physical bodies! That’s why the wife is called the Ardhangini (half body) of her spouse! Try to make it reality with your husband’s help.
Hope to hear from you soon with long awaited news.
Hi Uzma,
Nice to see your comments. Please try to understand your Hindu BF fully, and then take a decision. In fact, if you find him suitable in all respects dont get presurrized from muslim mullas and malvies. They will always discourage in the name of Islam and Hell fire.They have to face Hell fire, never, as they are expert in distorting and misinterpretation of the Koran excepts against women.
Hi every body,
Gone through this blog incidentally and found very educative too.
I am Shahin from Hamilton Newzealand, working in a renowed shopping mall THE BASE since 2006, on a payment counter. I was originally from Pakistani Gujarati. In this mall many Indians from Gujarat(Hindu) are also working. One of the guy, Ashish Patel has attracted me, who is a soft ware engineer on sprial process model for our mall.
My parents wants to marry a muslim guy from Bangladesh, who runs small catering business of sea food items. I do not prefer his business. 2/3 times he came to see me but on conversation, I found him very rude and uncultured and poor knowledge of day to day matters.
Ashish is also interested in me being he Gujarati also. I think he is suitable for everlasting relations. We have discussed the issue but not disclosed to any one.
May please advise us.
Reply to Shahin at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3743
Shahin,
Most of the suggestions give to Uzma and others also apply to you. Take time to understand your friend more closely and let him know more about you. It’s a life time decision and hence be careful. As it involves Islam, take care of your safety and don’t disclose it to others for your and your friend’s safety. Don’t marry with an incompatibility person to make your life miserable. It’s your responsibility to make your life a happy one.
Meanwhile go through as many comments on this site as you can to familiarize yourself with the various issues, problems and solutions.
We only want to see you happy for the whole of your life. The God may show you the right path.
Many many thanks to Admn. and Satyen,
I have no problem with vegetarian foods, which my would be soulmate prefers. We are working together for the last 2 years and understand each others nature and life styles. I shall definitely visit Gujarat with him. I do not like to read teachings of Quran which treat female as a sex toy and degraded human being and males allowed to enjoy all sorts of freedoms.
Just guide me and inspire from time to time. I am reading hindu religious books too. Kids, hahhahaa…………when born, will be adopting Hindu religion only.
With deep regards,
Uzma,
If your parents are liberal and you are educated and self dependent, it will be lots easy for you. However, first you have to decide what Islam means to you.
Islam is an exclusivist, supremacist and monotheist religion, and there is no room left for pluralism or tolerating an idol-worshipper (like your Gujarati boy friend). If you believe in One God Allah and Koran, please do not get into this relationship since you will always fear of the Judgement Day and AFTER life.
In general, Gujaratis are progressive, street-smart, business minded and proud Hindus. Even he may say he is not religious, don’t get into a wrong impression that you could raise Muslim children. One day, you may end up going and living in Gujarat and you will have to adjust there too.
So, first tell us what Islam means to you? What Koran says for your Hindu boss?