Tajiddin says: Oct 31, 2012 at 11:51 am
mai muslim boy hu mai ek hindu girl se love karta hu. kya mai us se marrie kar santa hu. – Tajiddin
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Tejiddin,
The answer to your question “kya mai us se marrie kar santa hu” is YES and NO.
If you are a “Muslim” who fears Allah, believe in the Koran, the Judgment Day, Muhammad and ultimately wish to please your parents, the clear answer is NO, NO, NO. A true Muslim cannot marry a Hindu. Go ask 100 other Muslims and they will tell you the same.
If you believe in “humanity for all” and that “God has made us all same”, then the answer is YES. In this case, you and your gf are not Hindu or Muslim, but good God fearing human beings. You live in a free country and no one will stop you from doing what you wish to do. Go to a court and get married.
In case you decide to marry her, remember that no imam will perform Islamic Nikaah wihout Shahadah conversion of the Hindu gf. We strongly recommend not to “fake” convert her to Islam. This will bring major disaster in your later life. So now you have to decide if you are still ready to marry a “HINDU”?
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Hello every one.
Please go through following texts about so called Prophet?
This is from a book called “Kanz Al Umal” (The Treasure of the Workers), in the chapter of “The issues of women”, authored by Ali Ibn Husam Aldin, commonly known as Al-Mutaki Al-Hindi. He based his book on the hadiths and sayings listed in “Al-Jami Al-Saghir,” written by Jalal ul-Din Al-Suyuti.
Narrated by Ibn Abbas:
“I (Muhammad) put on her my shirt that she may wear the clothes of heaven, and I SLEPT with her in her coffin (grave) that I may lessen the pressure of the grave. She was the best of Allah’s creatures to me after Abu Talib”… The prophet was referring to Fatima , the mother of Ali.
The Arabic scholar Demetrius explains : “The Arabic word used here for “slept” is “Id’tajat,” and literally means “lay down” with her. It is often used to mean, “lay down to have sex.” Muhammad is understood as saying that because he slept with her she has become like a wife to him so she will be considered like a “mother of the believers.” This will supposedly prevent her from being tormented in the grave, since Muslims believed that as people wait for the Judgment Day they will be tormented in the grave. “Reduce the pressure” here means that the torment won’t be as much because she is now a “mother of the believers” after Muhammad slept with her and “consummated” the union.” ]
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Hello every one.
Please go through following texts about so called Prophet?
This is from a book called “Kanz Al Umal” (The Treasure of the Workers), in the chapter of “The issues of women”, authored by Ali Ibn Husam Aldin, commonly known as Al-Mutaki Al-Hindi. He based his book on the hadiths and sayings listed in “Al-Jami Al-Saghir,” written by Jalal ul-Din Al-Suyuti.
Narrated by Ibn Abbas:
“I (Muhammad) put on her my shirt that she may wear the clothes of heaven, and I SLEPT with her in her coffin (grave) that I may lessen the pressure of the grave. She was the best of Allah’s creatures to me after Abu Talib”… The prophet was referring to Fatima , the mother of Ali.
The Arabic scholar Demetrius explains : “The Arabic word used here for “slept” is “Id’tajat,” and literally means “lay down” with her. It is often used to mean, “lay down to have sex.” Muhammad is understood as saying that because he slept with her she has become like a wife to him so she will be considered like a “mother of the believers.” This will supposedly prevent her from being tormented in the grave, since Muslims believed that as people wait for the Judgment Day they will be tormented in the grave. “Reduce the pressure” here means that the torment won’t be as much because she is now a “mother of the believers” after Muhammad slept with her and “consummated” the union.” ]
Hi every body.
Having read so much about torture of women in Islam, I have been tempted present for all eudcated muslim girls to strive hard for the welfare of woman of muslim community:
Torture of Women in Islam
“I am joining a number of articles together here because all women in Islam are tortured to some point. Domination is mental torture so I am not concentrating solely of the physical forms pf torture. By the time I have strung these together and we have read them we will have a clear idea of just how violent the men of this peaceful religion are.” – Fitz G
Torture of women under the Islamic Republic regime
This picture was sent to Dr. Homa Darabi from a woman in Iran.This picture was taken 20 days after she was lashed fifty times for being present at a family gathering where men other than her father and brother were present. Her crime? She is a single woman. It is forbidden for women to be present under the same roof with men other than their close relatives (father, brother and son) without proper hijab.
Women and Islam
“I was standing at the edge of the fire (hell) and the majority of the people going in were women.” – Prophet Mohammed
Ever since I began my activities in exposing Islam and it’s oppression of women, I have been attacked by Muslims, mostly men, about my misconception and misinterpretation of Islamic laws regarding women. I have been told that Islam has placed a high regards for women and that Islamic laws have given women quite a bit of power.
In the back of the Koran translated into English by M.H. Shakir is stated that, “the Koran is a complete and original compilation of the Final Revelation from God to mankind through the last prophet of Islam, Mohammed. The Koran has essentially three qualities that make it universal. Firstly, in its original Arabic form, it is a masterpiece of immense literary value – fusing the style of presentation with the substance being presented in a blend of unique proportions. Secondly, though its message is a continuation of that contained in the earlier Revelations made to Abraham, David, Moses and Jesus, yet this message has a sense of fulfillment and originality that attracts toward it Jews, Christians and Muslims alike. Finally, it has a wealth information – which provides the code of life for mankind generally and Muslims in particular. Indeed, the Koran’s miracle lies in its ability to offer at least something to non-believers and everything to believers.”
In this article I would like to analyze some of these “immense literary values” presented in Koran regarding women and my understanding of them to perhaps find out where is it that Islam has placed women on a pedestal for men to worship? And how is it that if we, women were given so many rights by this book, then why we are not able to assert ourselves as human beings?
According to Islam, “a woman is the ward of her father as long as she is in his care and then becomes the ward of her husband when she marries and when her husband dies she becomes the ward of her son, grand son, and so on and if she has no male relatives she becomes the ward of her community.”
The Webster’s New Word Dictionary defines “ward” as a person under the care of a guardian or court. Therefore, according to Islam a woman never matures, and she must always be under the care of a male relative, a guardian or Islamic court. I don’t consider this respect for women but an insult to womanhood.
Once a Muslim explained to me that this is because women get pregnant and take care of their children therefore their men should take care of them. This is a wonderful idea for men to take care of their women while they are pregnant or have small children. However, why should a child girl, an unmarried woman or a woman who is not pregnant, a grandmother or an elderly woman be under the care of a guardian? In addition only people with mental disorder or the crazy ones are placed under the care of a court. Women are not crazy and immature therefore, they don’t need to be under court or guardian supervision.
Recently an Italian-woman’s request for visitation rights from her Saudi Arabian husband to see her little girl was denied by an Islamic court in Saudi Arabia. When the woman stated that, “when my daughter reaches the age of majority she will come to Italy to be with me.” The Islamic court responded, that “women never reach the age of majority, so she will never see her daughter.
That is why in Saudi Arabia women are not given a birth certificate or an identification card. Just recently the Islamic government of Saudi Arabia allowed women to carry an identification card only if their guardian would allow. Just the fact that women need guardians is an insult to motherhood and womanhood.
According to Ayatollah Khomeini, the leader of the Iranian Islamic revolution and the past leader of the Shiite Muslims, the Islamic requirement for a judge is that “the person have reached puberty, know Koranic laws, be just, not have amnesia, not be a bastard and not be of a female sex.”
Therefore, women are not considered mature enough to be able to judge others. This is the reason for not giving women the right to vote in many of the so-called Islamic democracies. What an oxymoron statement, half the population or perhaps in many of these countries more than half the population cannot get involved in the destiny of their nations and they consider themselves a democracy. As an example in Kuwait women are not allowed to participate in their democratic process and vote in their elections. However, a member of their parliament stated that women should be able to vote after they reach the age of menopause. His assertion was that only after menopause women will be mature enough to vote.
Koran 2:222. “And they ask you about menstruation. Say: It is a discomfort; therefore keep aloof from the women during the menstrual discharge and do not go near them until they have become clean; then when they have cleansed themselves, go in to them as Allah has commanded you; surely Allah loves those who turn much (to Him), and He loves those who purify themselves.”
This entire Ayeh does not make sense and states that women are dirty for a natural occurrence. Menstruation is part of the female anatomy. This is an important function for women to bear children. How can such a natural event be dirty? Muslims like other religions believe that God created men and women. Therefore, why should God tell his prophet Mohammed that men should avoid women during their menstruation period? Why would anyone consider their own creation bad and dirty? Even humans do not do that. God told Mohammed that his own creation, women are filthy and most be avoided seven to ten days a month during a good portion of their life. Frankly, I don’t understand what does women’s menstruation have to do with the last sentence “surely Allah loves those who turn much (to Him), and He loves those who purify themselves.” Does this mean that God loves women who clean themselves or men that go into women after they are cleaned? It is not clear.
Koran 2:223. “Your wives are a tilth for you, so go into your tilth when you like, and do good beforehand for yourselves; and be careful (of your duty) to Allah, and know that you will meet Him, and give good news to the believers.”
What is the “good news” Allah has to give the believers? Could it be the clause that “your wives are a tilth for you.” so men can abuse women as they want?
Koran 2:226. “Those who swear that they will not go in to their wives should wait four months; so if they go back, then Allah is surely Forgiving, Merciful.”
Does this mean that if a man got mad at his wife he should not sleep with her for four months and if he does sleep with her in those months then Allah will forgive him? For what? Why is it the business of Allah if a man and a woman sleep with each other or not?
Koran 2:227. And if they have resolved on a divorce, then Allah is surely Hearing, Knowing.
This one says if husbands and wives divorce each other Allah will know. So what, everyone else will know about it too.
Koran 4:34. Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great.
This Ayeh means that God made men in charge of women because men spend their money on women. Does this mean that if a woman spends her money on her man then she is in charge of him? Why would anyone tell a man or a woman to beat the other person? I have heard all kinds of explanations for the Arabic word “zaraba” or to beat. In my Persian translation of Koran, the translator felt so bad about the Arabic word “zaraba” that he added the clause “not too hard” in parenthesis. Many Muslims have tried to expand on this issue and add such things as beat her with a stick not larger than ones thumb or feathers or beat in a way that it does not injure. However, these are all appendages added to the saying in Koran. Again at the end of this Ayeh it says Allah is “High and Great”. How many times should God tell us that he is high and almighty?
We have a saying in Persian “You said it once I believed you. You said it again I doubted you, you mentioned it for the third time I knew that you were telling a lie.”
Ayeh 19:65 says, “The Lord of the heavens and the earth and what is between them, so serve Him and be patient in his service. Do you know anyone equal to Him?” Yes. I know some one, the Devil.
In Sura Light, 24:2 it says “(As for) the fornicatress and the fornicator, flog each of them, (giving) a hundred stripes, and let not pity for them detain you in the matter of obedience to Allah, if you believe in Allah and the last day, and let a party of believers witness their chastisement.”
Is this Allah a Merciful one? Not in my book. Why should people be flogged for having a little sex? The advise gets better as we go forward in this Sura. In 24:6 it states that “And (as for) those who accuse their wives and have no witnesses except themselves, the evidence of one of these (should be taken) for times, bearing Allah to witness that he is most surely of the truthful ones.”
So if a man does not have four witnesses to prove his wife has committed adultery he can just accuse her four times and that is fine and accepted. Such a just law?
Ayeh 24:31 “And say to the believing women that they cast down their looks and guard their private parts and do not display their ornaments except what appears thereof, and let them wear their head covering over their bosoms, and not display their ornaments except to their husbands, or their sons, or the sons of their husbands, or their brothers, or their brother’s sons, or their sister’s sons, or their women, or whom their right hand possess (slaves), or the male servants not having need (of women), or the children who have not attained knowledge of what is hidden of women; and let them not strike their feet so that what they hide of their ornaments may be known; and turn to Allah all of you, O believers! So that you may be successful.”
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SatShri Akal Every body.
Hi every one,
see following against women in islam:Muhammad’s Own Words
Prophet of Doom was written to expose what Islam’s founder had to say about himself, his ambition, religion, and god. Before you use or criticize these quotes, please read this overview from the author. For those who are serious about the study of Islam, be sure to read the source material appendix, entitled Islam’s Dark Past.
Women
Tabari IX:113 “Allah permits you to shut them in separate rooms and to beat them, but not severely. If they abstain, they have the right to food and clothing. Treat women well for they are like domestic animals and they possess nothing themselves. Allah has made the enjoyment of their bodies lawful in his Qur’an.”
Tabari I:280 “Allah said, ‘It is My obligation to make Eve bleed once every month as she made this tree bleed. I must also make Eve stupid, although I created her intelligent.’ Because Allah afflicted Eve, all of the women of this world menstruate and are stupid.”
Qur’an 4:3 “If you fear that you shall not be able to deal justly with orphans, marry women of your choice who seem good to you, two or three or four; but if you fear that you shall not be able to do justice (to so many), then only one, or (a slave) that you possess, that will be more suitable. And give the women their dower as a free gift; but if they, of their own good pleasure, remit any part of it to you, eat it with enjoyment, take it with right good cheer and absorb it (in your wealth).”
Qur’an 4:11 “Allah directs you in regard of your Children’s (inheritance): to the male, a portion equal to that of two females…. These are settled portions ordained by Allah.”
Bukhari:V1B22N28 “The Prophet said: ‘I was shown the Hell Fire and the majority of its dwellers were women who are disbelievers or ungrateful.’ When asked what they were ungrateful for, the Prophet answered, ‘All the favors done for them by their husbands.’”
Muslim:B1N142 “‘O womenfolk, you should ask for forgiveness for I saw you in bulk amongst the dwellers of Hell.’ A wise lady said: Why is it, Allah’s Apostle, that women comprise the bulk of the inhabitants of Hell? The Prophet observed: ‘You curse too much and are ungrateful to your spouses. You lack common sense, fail in religion and rob the wisdom of the wise.’ Upon this the woman remarked: What is wrong with our common sense? The Prophet replied, ‘Your lack of common sense can be determined from the fact that the evidence of two women is equal to one man. That is a proof.’”
Qur’an 2:282 “And get two witnesses out of your own men. And if there are not two men (available), then a man and two women [a man is worth two women, and one man is always needed], such as you agree for witnesses, so that if one of them (two women) errs, the other can remind her.”
Qur’an 4:43 “Believers, approach not prayers with a mind befogged or intoxicated until you understand what you utter. Nor when you are polluted, until after you have bathed. If you are ill, or on a journey, or come from answering the call of nature, or you have touched a woman, and you find no water, then take for yourselves clean dirt, and rub your faces and hands. Lo! Allah is Benign, Forgiving.” [The Qur’an claims women are unclean and polluted – worse than dirt.]
Bukhari:V4B55N547 “The Prophet said, ‘But for the Israelis, meat would not decay, and if it were not for Eve, wives would never betray their husbands.’”
Qur’an 33:59 “Prophet! Tell your wives and daughters and all Muslim women to draw cloaks and veils all over their bodies (screening themselves completely except for one or two eyes to see the way). That will be better.”
Qur’an 4:15 “If any of your women are guilty of lewdness, take the evidence of four witnesses from amongst you against them; if they testify, confine them to houses until death [by starvation] claims them.”
Bukhari:V4B52N143 V5B59N523 “When we reached Khaybar, Muhammad said that Allah had enabled him to conquer them. It was then that the beauty of Safiyah was described to him. Her husband had been killed, so Allah’s Apostle selected her for himself. He took her along with him till we reached a place called Sad where her menses were over and he took her for his wife, consummating his marriage to her, and forcing her to wear the veil.’”
Bukhari:V5B59N524 “The Muslims said among themselves, ‘Will Safiyah be one of the Prophet’s wives or just a lady captive and one of his possessions?’”
Ishaq:593 “From the captives of Hunayn, Allah’s Messenger gave [his son-in-law] Ali a slave girl called Baytab and he gave [future Caliph] Uthman a slave girl called Zaynab and [future Caliph] Umar another.”
Bukhari:V3B48N826 “The Prophet said, ‘Isn’t the witness of a woman equal to half of that of a man?’ The women said, ‘Yes.’ He said, ‘This is because of the deficiency of a woman’s mind.’”
Ishaq:584 “Tell the men with you who have wives: never trust a woman.”
Ishaq:185 “In hell I saw women hanging by their breasts. They had fathered bastards.”
Qur’an 24:31 “Say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty except what (must) appear; that they should draw their veils over their bosoms and not display them except to their husbands…”
Qur’an 24:34 “Force not your slave-girls to whoredom (prostitution) if they desire chastity, that you may seek enjoyment of this life. [And here’s the freedom-to-pimp card:] But if anyone forces them, then after such compulsion, Allah is oft-forgiving.”
Ishaq:469 “The Apostle said, ‘Every wailing woman lies except those who wept for Sa’d.’”
Tabari VIII:62
Ishaq:496 “Ali [Muhammad’s adopted son, son-in-law, and future Caliph] said, ‘Prophet, women are plentiful. You can get a replacement, easily changing one for another.’”
Ishaq:496 “Ask the slave girl; she will tell you the truth.’ So the Apostle called Burayra to ask her. Ali got up and gave her a violent beating first, saying, ‘Tell the Apostle the truth.’”
Qur’an 24:1 “(This is) a surah which We have revealed and made obligatory and in which We have revealed clear communications that you may be mindful. For the woman and the man guilty of adultery or fornication, flog each of them with a hundred stripes. Let not compassion move you in their case, in a matter prescribed by Allah. And let a party of the Believers witness their punishment.”
Qur’an 24:6 “And for those who launch a charge against their wives, accusing them, but have no witnesses or evidence, except themselves; let the testimony of one of them be four testimonies, (swearing four times) by Allah that he is the one speaking the truth.”
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best is to leave ur religion and convert to a hindu if u want to lead a happy life with ur gf.forget the sickness of ur religion.i m sure u will surely be happy after being a part of the most oldest religion.may lord vishnu save the girls from love jihadis.
You surely confuse me.
Hello
Read it carefully and analyse reality.
Mohammed, the prophet of the Islamic world, married his last bride Aisha when she was just six years old, and the consummated the marriage with her when she was just nine years old. In Islamic states, partly because of this precedent, this practice still happens in fundamentalist countries like Afghanistan. Muslims will say that a child of six or seven is almost certain to be a virgin. Mohammed was at least 50 when he married Aisha.
The practice of forced marriages (as opposed to arranged marriages) in some Muslim states such as Afghanistan is very common. Some reports claim that somewhere between 60-80 percent of marriages in Afghanistan are forced upon the girls involved or without the consent of the girls. These marriages are seen as a way to resolve conflicts between families, or as a way to absolve someone of a wrongdoing. The girls are treated as they would treat cattle, and are given to these men as offerings.
Some reports also estimate that 57 percent of Afghani girls are married before the age of 16, and it is unusual to find an unmarried girl older than 18 years of age. The practice is justified twofold; that the girls are helping to keep the peace between families, and that the Islamic prophet Mohammed had set this precedent.
In Afghanistan the legal age to be married is 16, but many people ignore this law or claim they were unaware of it. The children in this situation are robbed of childhood, and as you will see, many are robbed of their life. This practice is abhorrent, and any civilised culture will see it as such.
In Nigeria, a 49-year-old Muslim Senator has reportedly married a 13-year-old girl, and has allegedly previously married a 15-year-old in 2006, citing that he paid a dowry of $100,000 to the parents for her. Although looked down upon by other ministers in Nigeria it is still happening.
Women in Islam have no rights, especially if they are non-Muslim, and these men get away with their evils because people are too afraid to stand up against the barbarity of the culture which the religion they follow has instilled in them. Threats of death are imposed upon those who would stand up against this. In Lahore, a man and his entourage of Muslim lawyers has threatened to “burn alive” anyone who will come to the defence of a 12-year-old servant of his, whom he raped and murdered.
Many girls will find themselves in a marriage with a man much older than they are, and will be given the sole duties of looking after the household and giving offspring to the man. Some men have multiple wives, and the women become a harem for that man. The men are often abusive to these girls, sometimes to the point where the girl should be hospitalised, but often is not. The beating of wives is seen as the “honourable thing to do”, for the wife must be kept in line with the wishings of the man and of Allah.
Often these girls will find themselves in these abusive relationships, and will seek a way out. But the way out is a problem in itself; if the girl were to leave she would bring shame upon her own family and her husband’s, and would be hunted down and possibly stoned to death or just beaten withing an inch of her life; if she stays, she may be beaten thus anyhow. Sometimes out of pure desperation, a girl seeking to be free from the bonds of this abusive relationship will choose self-harm rather than bringing shame upon her people.
In Afghanistan, it is believe that more than 10 women and girls choose self-immolation (warning very graphic content) as the escape from their bondage. Around the web there are numerous stories of women who, feeling there was no better way, have chosen to set themselves on fire rather than continue living in such conditions. Some girls die from their injuries. Some do not but are so badly scarred so as to lose their legs, or are severely disfigured by these burns. Those that live may wind up on the streets, homeless.
The culture in Afghanistan is such that women are treated as slaves, and in some cases, worse than dogs. Not only do they wear the burqa in public at all times, they are not allowed to leave the home alone, not allowed to speak to anyone they don’t know, and not allowed to make their identity known nor engage with any of their husband’s friends they may meet in the street. They are not treated as second-class citizens, rather as livestock that can produce more sons for the family.
People blame Islam for these practices. And yet, there are many more Islamic people who don’t practice this than do. Islam itself is not to blame wholly for these atrocities, rather the culture that bases itself upon Islam, then justifies these stone-aged practices based on the words of the Koran or the Hadeeth, saying it is God’s will that this be done. When a culture is poor and has little or no access to education, these kinds of barbaric practices continue to happen.
The culture in Afghanistan is sick. The barbarism and sheer disrespect for human rights that occurs there is all so often backed up by the perverse and outmoded words of their holy books. This illness in the Afghan culture continues, even after the ousting of the Taliban, who were ultra conservative and would set upon women with batons for showing ANY skin, but it is not much better now.
While this culture is deeply ingrained in their societies, these practices in the name of Islam shows it toi be, in its extreme, nothing more than an ultra-conservative ultra-violent “boy’s club” where it members all look after each other. And as sickening as all this is, nothing seems to be getting better.
These girls stories are the same story I have heard again and again of extreme desperation, of girls who see their only escape from forced marriage as being self harm. It is gut-wrenchingly sad to see such lives destroyed by the greed and stupidity of men. Here is an example of one girl’s account of the horrors she has faced at the brutal hands of an extreme Islamic patriarchy.
Jo bole so nihal,sat sri akal,
I wish to share my life story also. I have business of packed food in Vancoouver, Canada. One muslim girl used to work us and soon I fell in love with her and ultimately married. Our age was 28/27 respectivelyl that time. Now we have twins male and both using turban. No problem with her. Our business flourishing.
My other Hindu friend, who has the business about 10 kms.away from our house, has also married her sister. Both are enjoying and next month expecting to become parents.
Satsri akal
Satinam wahe guru,
I am from Toronto and in love with a muslim girl. I am running agriculture business and dairy products. Almost same business her
parents are doing. She is Sabia Qureshi and ready to marry me even if my parents insist her to covert to sikhism.
She is very helpful in business and accommodative too.
Sat sri akal
Satinam wahe guru,
I am from Toronto and in love with a muslim girl. I am running agriculture business and dairy products. Almost same business her
parents are doing. She is Sabia Qureshi and ready to marry me even if my parents insist her to covert to sikhism.
She is very helpful in business and accommodative too.
Sat sri akal
This is a fake story fabricated by Amir like persons to cover up his mentality.
Bhai tumko hindu me convert hona padega, tabhi shadi ho sakti hai. Hindu convert ho jao zindagi sudhar jayegi.
Dear Brothers & Sisters,
I see everyone penned down their views of being spiritual, being modernistic…. Its nice to open up in such a way where i really felt for a while who ever the creator is – for sure will be lost in deep thoughts of creating this beautiful world. Whats there in the religion?? Its in the individual … Look for divinity not god… We can never witness it, if we all end up in debating on a issue like ALLAh is great… JESUS is great…
For me at the end what matters most is to know for ourself “Why we are born” ; “what difference we can bring in the life of others who rely on us (i don’t mean a spouse)”; …. at the end everyone dies & either reach Heaven or Hell (now, don’t start to think if there are discrimination based on religion that two different entities are being maintained like HINDUS Heaven / Islamic Heaven / Jewish Heaven…)
Being born in a family where the rituals of worship is followed based on Hindu patterns, i too did the same & who knows if my parents are inter religion for sure i would have been educated in both the religious frontiers . Despite just following Hinduism, i proudly say that my good friend is a Muslim girl (where we both give due respect to both religions) & i worship the DIVINE ALMIGHTY… who named it Allah, Jesus, Krishna….etc.,
A Muslim girl marrying a Non- Muslim will never render a GOD to Punish his own children. After all we are his children…
Mother is Mother for all.. Be it mine or be my neighbors mum… We respect… Even Nature is addressed as MOTHER Nature not as FATHER… The womanhood is the most divine. Be it Mother, Wife, Sister, Daughter…Women holds a EQUAL status as we do & when we have a right to choose a girl of our choice to live happily then they too equally do have it…. I don’t know about a HELL aftermath of our Life, but religious arguments when seen i really feel “ARE WE LIVING IN HELL”…. We are born to BUILD a HEAVENLY LIFE, but we end up ruining it to witness HELL.
GOD is one… CREATOR is one… How sure can i be that i will again take a birth in a HINDU SOUL?? GOD can even reincarnate me somewhere in Middle East… I have no issues as well, I would love to witness an other way of living (Being Islamic) for my next life… I am happy for what he decides upon me, i am not the decision maker & i just follow the driving force…. JUST FOLLOW THE PATH OF LOVE which leads everyone CLOSER TO HIM.