Farasha says: December 14, 2012 at 7:25 am (Edit)
Hi Husna,
nice to read your life story. Great achievement made by you. God is great.
I am a muslim girl (29 years) working as a sales executive in a Pharmaceutal company in Belgium. I have met with several guys and have been in close interaction with them due to operational requirement. They were from different faiths like islam, Christian, Jews, Buddhists and Hindu.
I am now in touch with a Hindu guy hailing from Malasiya, previusly his fore fathers from North India. I find him most compative person for me as a soulmate. Very smart, knowledgeable and liberal and helpful to me. Discussed with him about everlasting relations and almost finalzed. I have yet to discloe to my parents and hopefully they will agree as their attempts failed to find a suitable match for me in muslim community.
Please guide and advise. -Farasha
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All stories fake under muslim names and Those who marry non muslims did not remain muslims and will go to hell forever life after death tell them you are not muslims. To learn about islam vist http://www.usislam.org for more ioformation about islam.do not belive these posts as they lie about islam.learn truth about islam from website.
Some religions think the God with only virtuous attributes such as compassionate, omnipotent, omniscient, omnipresent and so forth. Other religious leaders attribute some negative characteristics to the God such as cruelty, jealousness, partiality, boastfulness, selfishness etc.
Now it depends on the the people today to what they think of the God as he/she is not visible. A vast majority of people believes in the God with only virtuous attributes and devoid of any vices associated with him/her. So, the God is invariably supposed to be considered as compassionate, impartial, omnipotent and omniscient and not as partial, selfish, cruel, jealous and helpless.
Once we have ascertained the virtuous attributes of the God who is always to guide all of us for our well being here and hereafter, we cannot accept anybody as religious leaders who says about the God otherwise. Similarly, with the same attributes, ascertain if we are following the religion or some irreligious cult in the name of religion spread by someone with vested interest. The acid test is what he thinks about the God. This is the simplest way of differentiating the real saints from the fake ones. The fake ones must be discarded because they are leading us to a miserable life in this world and to the worse hereafter.
I request all the girls/women of any religion to apply this criteria to all the preachers of various religions for your blissful life here and hereafter. Don’t be scared of the aura around them because the most powerful God is protecting you as long as you are not harming others as they are equally loving to the God.
Now, the decision is yours what you think of the God. Islam means submission to Allah and with this definition, I consider myself a proud follower of Islam. However, one must apply his/her rationality/reasoning to ascertain if he/she is submitting the Allah or to some one else. It’s a very very important issue as today the vast majority of Muslims are not submitting to Allah but are the slaves of Muhammad! The moof questin is “Why”. Answer is simple. Muhammad’s followers have been teaching the people to follow Muhammad blindly in the name of Allah! Today, we hear people saying Allah has ordered us to do this, that etc. but people don’t realise that it’s Muhammad who is commanding, not the Allah. The situation has worsened to so an extent that even the worst of Muhammad’s acts don’t deter the male Muslims from considering him the role model and are forcing the women a stifling life style. Not only this, worst part is even the Muslim women, the victims are hand in gloves with the ideology of Muhammad, bearing the miserable lifestyles and preparing their daughters to go through the same. Some educated Muslims are leading the better life and they showcase that they are leading so a good life but they don’t uderstand that their happy life is due to their partial discarding of Muhammad taught practices in the name of Islam.
To summarize, following Allah is not following Muhammad and most of the teachings in Quran today are to follow Muhammad, not the Allah. Even the Shahada is incomplete today without his mention! Height of hypocracy and selfishnesh on the part of Muhammad. Most of the time, the teachings take you far away from Allah to make your life a miserable, here and hereafter.
Islam devoid of Muhammad could be a great religion but unfortunately, Muslim males have seen their luxuries in the Muhammad’s teachings.
u do not know nothing about islam u just lying in ur comments
. Verily, We have sent down the Book to you (O Muhammad ) in truth: So worship Allah (Alone) by doing religious deeds sincerely for Allah’s sake only, (and not to show-off, and not to set up rivals with Him in worship).
so this says worship allah which are trying to say we worship muhammad(PBUH)
ur wrong how does that feel
greeting everyone, salaam to all Muslim brothers and sisters. interfaith shaadi become very common this days.few things i want to say about it. please do not take it personally or think I am a extremist.i have lot of non Muslim friends and have friends she is in love with Hindu boy.do not judge Islam by some Muslim guy and girls behavior get proper Islamic book,quran with translation read it. brothers and sisters before you ask someone else about what should you do it is better to find out the truth about it yourself. sometime its depend on are you a true believer or just name Muslim. if you believe in Allah almighty then you should find out what he said about interfaith marriage.there are lot of way books,net,proper Islamic websites, you can find out get proper hadith book read it find out.am sure you will get your answer. Allah says do not marry a non believer unless he become a believer. he or she should become Muslim for just to marry you,they should become Muslim as its a true religion. I ask everyone to think about after life when your are dead you go to grave on your own and you will have to answer.no one will be there to help you read about punishment in grave. please do not disobey Allah direct order.you may have lot of friends,community helping you.but no one will be in your grave to support you.i am not a narrow minded Muslim and i don not have any problem with non muslin i live in a country with majority christian and Jew. but if you love a non Muslim try to explain to him show him the true beautyfull site of islam. I have a English friend he become Muslim and when took his shaahada he said i become Muslim because I have read study Islam and Allah guided me to right path. if i dint study then seeing this days Muslim people behavior I would have never become Muslim. so please people do not judge or comment about Islam study yourself and find the truth.you how much time you spend watching movie,net,outing, shopping?? make little time to study and Allah almighty will guide you to right path. remember ONE DAY YOU HAVE FACE ALLAH WHAT YOU WILL ANSWER THEN?? WHO WILL HELP YOU WHEN EVERYONE LEAVE YOU ALONE IN YOUR DARK GRAVE? CLOSE YOUR EYE FOR A MINIT AND THINK HOW LONG YOU WILL LIVE HERE 80/90 YEARS THE FINISH YOU MUST DIE SO TRY TO DO GOOD BECAUSE ONLY YOUR GOOD DEED WILL GO WITH YOU AND HELP YOU IN YOUR DARK GRAVE.may be i didnt explain properly but i didnt mean to hurt anyone feeling. may allah guide everyone to right path.
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Hello Husna
Can you convince me about the Hindu boys? I have read your story and deeply influenced. Please guide me, whether I should proceed ahead with Hindu guy?
Reply to Razia at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3773
Hello Admin and Satyen,
Thanks for your valuable advice and suggestions.
Being in Belgium, no question of circumcision or halala like customs.In order to adjust, I have already left eating beef etc.
We respect each others sentiments and emotions, which is every essential for long term relations.
Shall be following yours gidance and suggestions very religiously.
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Farasha,
I can only think of how happy you would have been at finding the soulmate and getting him for your whole life. But to secure this happiness for the entire life must be planned right now. This planning means to have considered as many important issues as you can think of for the future so that you don’t have to face them when they arise. In other words, to nip as many acrimonious situations as possible. The Admin has pointed out the very important factors but you can think many others. Examples may include your wearing mangal sutra, Hindu or Muslim marriage, food habits (halal only, beef) etc.
So, I look foward to hearing updates from you on your progress.
Farasha,
Yes, Husna has come a long way and we are proud of her.
Farasha, you are also very educated, intelligent and successful. Being a sale executive in Belgium is not an ordinary matter. You must have come across all types of people around and thus must have good discriminatory power for what is good and what is not. Further, you are no more 21 years old who will think of only love and not much beyond, you are a mature person. So you have all that is needed to make a right decision, EXCEPT you are a Muslim and he is a Hindu.
Religion runs deep. You may not realize all issues when you are dating, but as soon as you give a birth of your first child, all of a sudden hell comes loose. Now you will go all over to make that child a Muslim and make him/her follow Islam, even you may not have follow Islam all along.
So, let us ask you a bottom line question….what if he declines you to have children’s names Muslim and say NO BBS?