Amit says: February 5, 2016 at 1:26 pm
hey gaes .
I m amit .i love a girl .her name is XXXX .she is muslim n i m hindu.kio nhi chahta ki hamara pyar bna rhe sab kehte h ki bhul jao ek dusre ko .i say that i can not forget her n she can not forget me .
use father bhut hi gusse vale h ve hamari sadi kabhi nhi hone denge .or hame marenge bhi..so please tell me what to do we. -Amit
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I am Muslim and Love a Nepali Girl
Amit this is sad man. Very similar happened to me and the girl wanted me to convert but I said no then told her take me as me else no. So she decided to move on. So if conversion is required then walk. It’s not love if there is a gi to your head about religion. If not then if she still wants to be with you then move forward. But one thing you should keep in mind is security. If you stay Hindu and she stay Muslim then people who learn this may cause you problems as Muslims throw fatwas all the time on stuff like this so stay safe. Else both just become atheist and live by a Hindu name or both live as Hindus and she can still practice her faith at home live with a Hindu name else learn to keep a secret. This stuff can get very dangerous depending on how her family takes all this.
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Dear Amit,
If her father is a violent man who may threaten your life if you two get married, you have only a few options:
1) Convert to Islam & her father will agree for her to marry you. But do remember that this is a major lifestyle commitment, and if you live close to your in-laws, you cannot just “fake convert” as they will find out sooner or later. Plus your parents may be very very angry for a long time with you for this. And they may torture the girl as they will see HER as the reason for how you have changed.
2) Get good jobs & move away to another city or country where people cannot interfere in your lives. This is extra difficult because nobody wants to be away from their parents, but if your love is so strong & impossible to give up, this is one of the only options left for you two.
3) The best option is to forget each other & marry within your own community.
PS: Very few guys in/from India & Pakistan have what it takes to fight for their girl who is from another culture or cast. Trust me, it is a difficult journey until they approve the marriage. But I have seen that after marriage things just fall into place & its actually much easier, if both husband and wife are on the same page about raising kids, how to adjust etc. But it’s so rare that it’s not possible in most cases. So unless u are convinced she is THE one, your soulmate, the one you cannot live without, think hard before you go ahead with this.
Great keep going.
At first find a job that can fulfill ur requirements.
Later you can marry her. Once u have money nobody will dare to touch you.
Brother Amrit, only way to convince her father is by reverting(converting) to islam. I too was in similar situation when my muslim gf wanted to marry me but her father refused, then i converted to islam and we are now happily married, though i faced problems from my mother but now everything is fine. Thanks to Allah.
For all those guys ready to judge me, let me tell you i converted to islam from heart not just for my wife`s sake
As i know …Love has 2 meanings :
1- you love someone to get him/her for yourself (selfish type of love )
and this type is very common and is the main reason of all mixed relation between muslim and hindu ..and all problems coming after that
2- to love someone and wish all good and happiness for him /her and never causing any problem to him /her ..so any one refuses islam (he/she) no need for going on this relation ..
Amit,
Hindu Muslim marriage are very complex and there is no end to problems in such marriages. However, if you both are highly educated and financially independent, then it is easy to go against wishes of parents. Assume her and your parents will not give you permission for marriage, what are you going to do with your love? Do you have daring to go against both sets of parents?
Which country are you from?