ishi says: September 30, 2014 at 11:49 pm
Hi.. I am also having boyfriend from past 2 years.. he is Muslim and I m Hindu..we started our relationship with a known fact that we will not be having future but as time passed we came so close both emotionally and physically..
But now after two years he is getting engaged to someone else and he is saying that he is doing that for sake of his family.. he don’t want to hurt them as they wont accept be coz I m non Muslim.. I m very stressed now.. I dnt understand what shall I do now… I can not forget him. -Ishi
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I am a Malaysian Hindu girl and my boyfriend Bangladeshi Muslim
Hi.. I am also having boyfriend
from past 1 years.. he is Muslim
and I m Hindu..we started our
relationship with a known fact
that we will not be having
future but as time passed we
came so close both emotionally
and physically.. now we want to marry each other but pretty scared to convince parents…how cud I even tell them that I want to marry with 1 Muslim boy…they will kill us…help me!!
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=9632
It does not matter…..love just happens, beyond our control…
So take this as a lesson…dont regret it..nd move on. Cuz lyf gives 2 things either experience or relationship….this guy who dint hv the courage to accept you ws never worth u in his lyf… such cowards r mny….bt remember one thing there is tht one person made exclusively for u dea……wish u lots of luck for ur beaitiful future ahead.
ishi forget him..life is much better this side of life wat u r living.islam is very strict n most hindu girls or christian girls regret marryn muslim guys…so be happy n find a good guy.muslim girls r treated badly.first step conversion n then all rules follow..hindus cant survive such life…saying from observations of near ones
k, can you elaborate more on “saying from observations of near ones”?
someone close to me warned me as that person regreted having married a muslim.that person dint want me to fall into the same pitch.life is difficult for hindu girls in muslim families..muslims r very restrictive.and i have heard many cases where poor girls r trapped and then after having a kid they are kicked out.though mine boyfriend is realy trustworthy but i accepted the fact of difrnce in cultures and what if i wud be unable to adjust later???all doors would have closed for me..with mutual understanding i have broke off..the freedom that girls enjoy in hindu families cant be given in muslim families..so regret now than later..
Dear K,
Can you get more information about “that person regreted having married a muslim”?
Can you tell us about your former bf? How was he during your first year of dating to last 6 month?
Did he asked you to convert to Islam?
What did he said about the God? Did he said “there is ONE God” and indicated if Hindus are praying to idols?
You deserve shraddha like fridge treatment.
At young age, you should be building career and making parents, proud. You are wasting money on a mulla whose intention was to use you, anyway.
What a dumb generation of girls. You should be grateful that you are not in suitcase or fridge.
Ishi
Do u think he was emotional with u.ur mistaken.hes emotional for his parents reason he does not want to
Break their heart. Time will heal and reveal everything in life. Have faith
in lord.love shud be unconditional like the way ur parents god love u.
same case here https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=5419#comment-329382 where a hindu guy left a muslim girl for his family but your advise was different, you are infact a dual standard person promoting hinduism in a strange manner
admin, are you blind, ishi celarly said that she strated relation knowing they will not get married, and what fact, you again lied ” In college, if he started loving a Muslim girl, immediately that discussion turns into marriage in a few weeks. For that reason, he know it well it is safe to go fool around with Hindu girls. There is no risk, what so ever. In the end, he could ask you to convert to Islam or simply walk away.”
I ask you who told you this, you are again imaginig and labelling it , many muslim girls alos suffers and that time also you blame one side that is muslim side, what about this, https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8484 here you never said anu that she is victimised etc etc
So what is your guidance to Ishi?
the question is not about my suggestion, it is about your one sided attitute, tell me onething, why you are so onesided, is this characteristics of a good admin.
Ishi,
We are very sad to hear of your story. Thank you for speaking out, this will help us educate others. Please come on this site to educate other innocent girls.
Unfortunately on this site, there is nothing new in your experience since there are almost 300 other girls in your situation. This is the fact of life.
As a true Muslim, he is not suppose to look at other girl with romantic intentions. In college, if he started loving a Muslim girl, immediately that discussion turns into marriage in a few weeks. For that reason, he know it well it is safe to go fool around with Hindu girls. There is no risk, what so ever. In the end, he could ask you to convert to Islam or simply walk away.
Now this is a fact of your life that he is no more for you. Also you have to realize that his intention was clear from the first day. Unfortunately you are a victim.
What ever happened, happened for good in your life. If you married him, even bigger 10X trouble would be on your way.
Now you have to remember him as not your “lover” but a “con-artist cheater”. He got what he wanted. You have to just forget him and start you brand new life from onwards.
We wish we could say something better, but unfortunately this is truth that we have seen on this site all along.
A good life is waiting for you, don’t look back at your dark past.