Noorjahan says: November 16, 2012 at 9:26 am
Vow Fauzia,
God bless you. I have read comments about you on this blog. Deeply impressed.
I am working in a latin american country as a instrumentation engineer and now in love with a Hindu boy who is my immediate boss in the same manufacturing company. We have a great responsibility to designing and developing new control systems. Since our company is facing tough competitition, so we have to manufacture quality products at competitive rates with customer satisfaction.
During performance of above multifaceted jobs, I was greatly impressed with my Hindu BF and discussed with him Hindu rituals. The way he described and respected my sentiments, I am deeply fascinated with his attitude and commitment. Very soon I shall marry him. I have met 3 times his parents too. -Noorjahan
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Noorjehan added: December 29, 2012 at 6:13 am
I wish to share that now all formalities to marry my Hindu BF have beenn finalized and next month marriage shall be solemnized as per Hindu traditions and later on registered legally.
Now we purchased a two bed room accommodation, furnishing is in progress. We are presently in Mexico. -Noorjehan
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you know guys I’m just enjoying frequently visiting this page where hindus girls/boys are pleasing their hindu brothers and sisters, sometimes by marrying hindu girls bearing muslim names and sometimes by telling concoqted stories about muslim ladies.
Keep it dears, islam and muslims damn care of it.
Hello Admn./Satyen sirs,
Nice to share with you that I have married with my Hindu BF(now husband) and have also seen comments on HRS by our sisters. No such things happened in my case, as the wedding happened through Hindu rituals and legal registration in Mexico.
God is great. Thanks all of you being my well wisher.
Congratulations for your marriage. Best wishes.
The dirty barbaric practice of “displaying bloody bed sheet after the honeymoon night” is almost non-excistent in most other World communities. Instead of doubting and looking for those bloody spots, we are glad your husband simply trusted you. We hope Muslim boys will learn something good from your Hindu husband.
I want to add that i read in numerous places on this site about muslim ladies having to display blood stained bedsheet the morning following their wedding night. But it is hardly practiced anywhere. Honestly, I have never seen such a thing happening to anyone I know.
Hello Shakeel,
Do you know that you are forcefully converrted muslim?Your forefathers were Hindu about 300 years ago, who were murdered by muslim under the name of islam.
Islam is a declaration of war against infidels. Islam is an ideology of WAR. The Koran is a BOOK OF WAR. Allah is a GOD OF WAR. This war is permanent until all the infidels have converted, or paid a submission tax or have been murdered. These are the ETERNAL LAWS OF ALLAH AS SET DOWN IN THE KORAN
Infidels can be murdered by Muslims as an ETERNAL LAW OF ALLAH. Not only can they all be murdered but the wives and daughters of the murdered infidels can be taken as booty, raped, and then sold as slaves. Their sons can be sold into slavery. If there is any doubt as to the boy’s age of puberty – Muslims can pull down their pants and inspect their genital area for hairs. Even the slightest sign of hair growth means that these young men can be taken and beheaded. As an ETERNAL LAW OF ALLAH, Muslims can then loot and pillage the property of the murdered infidels, and must share the booty obtained from the sale of boys and women and the proceeds of looting with ALLAH. Muslims can own slaves as an ETERNAL LAW OF ALLAH. Slavery has been a central part of Islam since it’s creation by Muhammad. ALL THIS EVIL ARE THE ETERNAL LAWS OF ALLAH AS SET DOWN IN THE KORAN. THESE LAWS OF ALLAH ARE FOREVER. Not only that but righteous Muslims who slay and are slain murdering infidels can ascend as martyrs to the evil, sexually degenerate, depraved Islamic Paradise of eternal erections and virgins who re – generate as virgins after each sex act. THIS IS THEIR ETERNAL REWARD FOR OBEYING THESE EVIL LAWS OF ALLAH.
Again, the above ETERNAL LAWS OF ALLAH allow murder, slavery, looting and pillaging and if you are killed in the process of obeying these Laws then you can ascend to a paradise of full breasted, lustrous eyed virgins to sexually molest for all eternity. ALLAH permits the raping of female slaves. As already shown in Islam – rape is not just a sexual weapon – it is a weapon of war. Having murdered the woman’s man, Muslims can now – sanctioned by ETERNAL LAWS OF ALLAH complete their final humiliation and domination of her body.
Unlimited sex and money were powerful motivations for Muslims to grab their swords, climb on their horses and ride off into the sunset to bring war, death and destruction to the infidels.
India paid an horrific price. The world famous historian, Will Durant has written in his Story of Civilization that “the Mohammedan conquest of India was probably the bloodiest story in history”.
Buddhism was devastated.
Persia’s civilization disappeared from history.
The holocaust of slavery was imposed on large parts of black Africa. Slavery has been an integral part of Islam since its creation by Muhammad. Islam institutionalized slavery and made its existence legal and an ETERNAL LAW of ALLAH (read articles relating to slavery further in this Website). Islam was a major player in the black African slave trade – an historical fact not well known today. Also not taught is the fact that 1.5 million Europeans were taken as slaves by Muslims.
The fact that throughout Islam’s history, this slaughter of the innocents in the worst ways imaginable, murdered in the name of and to the greater glory of God is an obscenity. The so called men of ALLAH responsible for this carnage who have – through the millenniums – for Power, Domination, and Control of society unleashed this evil deserve to be in Hell.
To take man’s natural Concept of God, a conception of Peace and Love and Goodness – an all Wise, all merciful, all Loving God for all mankind, and turn God – by bastardizing his teachings into a murderous ALLAH (the ANTI GOD) of hate, terror, intolerance, death and destruction is one of the greatest sins that can be committed against God. Islam will remain forever a black historical stain smearing all human history.
Hello Shakeel,
I know better than you about Hinduism now. Regarding caste system, islamic is equally detrimental to the common purpose. Islam is the relgion full of blood shed, jihad, cruelty, torture, attrocities, rape, murder, fatwa, inhuman treatrment, keeping 4 wives, domestic violence, prostitution, terrorism. Do you know due to islamic practices maximum muslim girls are going to hymen repair surgery to please their husbands. In Pakistan and other hard core muslim coutries such surgical centers are flourishing.
Can you marry your own daughter or sister of 6 years old only to an aged person of 56 years old?Can a God be so cruel to nominate such a rapist and murder like Prophet his messenger?
Hi
I wish to share that now all formalities to marry my Hindu BF have beenn finalized and next month marriage shall be solemnized as per Hindu traditions and later on registered legally.
Now we purchased a two bed room accommodation, furnishing is in progress. We are presently in Mexico.
Dear Noorjahan,
Thanks for sharing this long awaited good news. We wish you a memorable wedding that lead you to your dream marital life. At the same time we remind you not to forget the sisters in general and the Muslim sisters in particular who need guidance. As you are going to embrace the Hindu culture, you would love to familiarize yourself with the Hindu way of life. I recommend you the following excellent websites:
http://www.hinduwisdom.info
agniveer.com
Fouzia!!!
Fine if you are so upset with the islamic rules,which as per you, are anti woman and man favoured. what is your opinion about the barbaric rules of hinduism about women and cast system??
This will show all of us how sick, cheap and double minded you are when it comes to rights of women in hinduism!!!
Now Just go to your bedroom and manufacture forged justifications to support the cruelities and attrocities in hinduism which I listed below and then come here again to mislead others who,so far, did not become your affectees!!!
Dear Shakeel,
You are a good example of the victimes fighting for the cause of perpetrators. Your ancestors had to choose between death and Islam. So they chose the Islam. Now it’s time to come back to humanity if you are not in a Muslim country. But probably, Islamic advantages for male will not allow you to do so.
As far as the Hindus are concerned, they have women manifestations of the God shuch as Durga, Lakshmi and Saraswati worshipped by the male. The number of Hindu women going to the temples is much more than the males! There have been many women religious heads guiding the males in their spiritual quest. On the contrary, how many prophets and Khalifas have been women? How many women are leading the Eid prayers of the male Muslims. How many Muslim women are going to the mosques? So, please refrain from just copying and pasting.
All your questions are answered at the following site:
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Shakeel,
The persons like your mentality is favoured by Islam to enjoy all sorts of freedom of sexual enjoyment, domestic violence, 72 virgins pleasure in heaven for killing non muslim and innocent women, raping grand daughter like child by rapist Mohammad, degrading women,s integrity, even if nicely dressed, treating them whor, even if raped, for seeking justice, produce two eye witnesses, female genital mutiliation, are all sorts of evils that help criminals and horny males.
You are one of them, had you born as a girl and married to an old man of 60 years, when your age was 5 years, then would realize the torture of muslim community or your own sister faces such situation.
Well said Fatima !!!
The people who are reluctant to have a muslim maid, how can they tolerate to having a muslim daughter in law.
This must be the eye opening factor for muslim sisters.
Reshma !!!
Salma Agha !!!
You must have heard the very famous adage:”cheap things have so many buyers”.
Unfortunately this proverb fully fits to the sick situation of you two. You know what I just feel pity of you hindu duds. Your cheap ideas are well encouraging the anti Islam people and thats very good in your books. But remember one thing, lie can never become reality. So dears you are gonna have noting but your thumbs in mouth.
Good luck….
You can provoke and mis inform many girls, women etc by posting your poisonous comments here but truth is that hinduism is the most lethal , cruel and tyrant religion on earth.
How it treats women is the worst way compared to it’s counterparts.
Here is a glimpse of unhuman hindu laws regarding women.
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1) women should never be allowed by their guardians to act independently.
(Masusmriti ,ix:2 )
2)If a person of lower varna(caste) has sexual intercourse with a woman of higher varna,with or without her consent, he is to be killed.
(Manusmriti,viii:366)
3 If a woman should not grant her man his desire, he should bribe her. If she still does not grant him his desire, he should hit her with a stick or with his hand, and overcome her,saying,”with power, with glory, I take away your glory. Thus she becomes inglorious”.
(Brihadaranyaka Upanishad 6,4,7)
4)It is the highest duty of woman to burn herself after her husband(death).
(Brahma Purana 80,75)
5) when a woman, proud of her relations(abilities)deceives her husband(with other man), then the king should (ensure that)she be torn apart by dogs inplace much frequented by people and the evil man should be burnt in a bed of red hot irons.
(Manusmriti, viii, 317,372)
6)Offering presents (to a woman), romping (with her),touching her ornaments and dress, sitting with her on a bed, all these acts are considered adulterous acts.
(Manusmriti,viii,357)
If such teachings are women friendly then nothing is anti women in this world.
Again on misinformation spree. I along with all the 1 billion Hindus discard the myth spread by you and your version of Manusmriti! Can you say the same thing about Quran? Actual Manusmriti guides everyone to accept only what their heart accepts and to discard the rest! What’s about you now? This madarsa technique may not work here among the educated people. Enlighten before it becomes too late:
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Well guys I have got a simple advise for “Tabassum”,”salma agha”and many other so called muslim girls (actually hindus) to stop telling their fabricated family fables.
Belive me these are not gonna work to stop the spreading of islam.
If you are so disturbed from islam, simply leave it. Be a hindu, christian or whatever you want.
But please stop propagating misconceptions about any religion.
Thank you sisters.
Hello Fathima,
By virtue of your stay in India, you are safe and leading relatively a comfortable life. Had you been in Egypt, your genital system would have been mutiliated by removing your Clitoris, G spot, Labia Majora/Minora etc. and you would have lost all charms of womanhood.
Have you really attempted to realize the miserable conditions of our muslim sisters in Arab countries including Pakistan/Afganistan. Recently, how a 15 year old girl was beheaded in Aganistan, as she refused to marry with a older person.
Better you have been married at at the age 8 years with a 58 years of old Maulvi, then you would have felt real trauma of the muslim woman.
Taslima Nasreen who has been living in exile because of her anti-Islam statements is again in the thick of a controversy because of her vulgar remarks made recently. She has not studied Islam, the Quran and the Islamic history seriously and so most of her knowledge about Islam is based on the Western and Zionist propaganda. Her vulgar and immoral advice she has given to Muslim women is also based on her ignorance. She has advised Muslim women to establish sexual relationship with 72 men because they would not meet them in heaven. Her advice hints at the Hadiths that say that in heaven, Muslim men will get 72 houris. Taslima has accused Islam and the Quran of being partial against women earlier as well.
There are some Hadiths that speak of 72 houris for martyrs of Islam in the heaven. Similarly there are other Hadiths that speak of two houris for pious men. But the Hadiths that speak of 72 houris are used by the detractors of Islam to vilify it. They try to create the impression that Muslims do good deeds in the world only to get 72 houris in the heaven and so are ever ready to die or take the life of others for houris. It is said that while giving mental and physical training to the would be terrorists and suicide bombers, the Pakistan based terrorist organisations convince them into believing that they are not terrorists but the holy warriors ready to sacrifice their lives to protect Islam for which they would be rewarded with 72 houris in the heaven. Therefore, these gullible youth throw themselves into the fire of hell in the hope of meeting 72 houris. This myth has been so widely circulated in anti-Islam circles that it has become a means of vilifying Islam. The truth is that Muslims faced all the opposition and sufferings for establishing the system based on truth, demolishing idolatry, shirk and all the social, economic and ethical vices in the world. In return, God promised unlimited bounties for them in the heaven.
The Quran nowhere mentions a specific number of houris for a Muslim man. The Quran assures pious and righteous men and women of heaven and simultaneously warns sinner men and women of the fire of hell and in doing so it does not specify gender. Every man or woman who leads his life on the path assigned by God and his prophet will go to heaven where they will be blessed with unlimited bounties and luxuries while the men and women who indulge in idol worship or shirk and sins will be doomed to go to hell where they will live forever. The Quran narrates the story of the son of Prophet Noah who was washed away along with his nation by the floods as he was among the non-believers who earned the wrath of God. God did not even heed the prayer of Noah in favour of his son. Similarly, the Prophet Louth’s wife who was among the sinners of his nation was destroyed along with them. Similarly, Abu Lahab and his wife Umme Jamil who tortured the holy Prophet (PBUH) and his followers are doomed to go to hell. On the contrary, Hadhrat Fatima (R.A.) and Hadhrat Ali (R.A.) will be the heads of the women and men in the heaven respectively. Therefore, the Quran and Hadith testify to the fact that heaven will be populated by both righteous men and women while the hell will be fed with evil men and women.
Indeed God has promised fair complexioned doe-eyed houris for the righteous men but this will not be the only bounty for them in the heaven but one of the countless bounties and gifts that God will bestow on them as a reward for their good deed on earth since men and women are incomplete without each other. A man cannot be complete without a woman despite all the measure of physical bounties and luxuries. In the same way a woman cannot be complete without a woman despite all the bounties in her possession. And in the heaven, all the bounties will be at their disposal endlessly as the life in the heaven will be infinite. To God the place of martyrs of Islam is the highest among the believers and the hadiths that speak of 72 houris for martyrs are for a glorified group of the dearest slaves of God whereas the Quran speaks of bounties for general Muslims. That’s why it does not mention a number of houris for men. Men and women have different status in relation to their degree of piety, sacrifices and virtues and they will get their place in the heaven according to their devotion.
“Men have different places before God” (Al-e-Imran: 163)
Now, let’s come to the second point. Taslima and other detractors of Islam spread the propaganda that the Quran mentions houris for men but do not mention virgin men for women. It is wrong. As the Quran mentions houris, that is, extremely beautiful virgin women for men, it also mentions handsome virgin boys for the blessed women in heaven. Following is the verse about the houris:
“And fair complexioned women with wide eyes like hidden pearls, reward for the deeds they did.” (Al Waqiah: 22-24)
Another verse discusses the bounties of heaven in the following words:
“Those who fear are in the gardens and amidst bounties, enjoying fruits that have been given to them by God and saved them from hell, eat and drink to the heart’s content, reward for your deeds, sitting in a row on thrones with pillows, married to wide-eyed houris “ (Al Toor: 17-20)
In other words, as there would be all the means of comfort and luxury and fruits and the best quality of drinks for men in the heaven, there would also be doe-eyed women like hidden pearls.
Similarly, there will be young boys in the heaven spread everywhere. They will also look like pearls in their shells.
“And immortal young boys move around them, when you look at them it seems as if they are pearls scattered all over “ ( Al Dahr: 19)
Another verse of the same meaning is as follows:
“And there will go round boy-servants (Ghilman) of theirs, to serve them as if they were preserved pearls. “ (Al Toor: 24)
In the verse quoted above, ‘boy-servants (Ghilman) of theirs’ means boys meant for them. Another important point to be noted is that that the Quran uses two different words for the young boys in the heaven. In the Surah Waqiah (17-18) and Surah Al Dahr (19) they are referred to as Wildan while in Surah Al Toor (24) they have been called Ghilman. Does it mean that the young men in the heaven will be under two catergories? About Ghilman, the Quran says that they will be like pearls covered and protected in their shells in the same way as the houris are described as hidden pearls. The exegetes are of the opinion that by saying that houris will be like hidden pearls the Quran means that they will be virgins not consummated by men before. On the same lines, we can infer that Ghilman who also have been described as pearls in their shells will be virgins not consummated by women before. ‘Boys of theirs” also hints at that. In other words, Ghilman means the young men who will be specifically meant for women and Wildan will be the boys who will serve as attendants to men and women, serving them the holy drink called Sharab-e-Tahoora:
“They will be served by immortal boys,(Wildan) With cups, and jugs, and a glass from the flowing wine,”.” (Al Waqiah: 17-18)
Therefore it is clear from the verses in the Quran that Ghilman are the boys who are meant for the pious women in the heaven while Wildan are the boys who will serve as their attendants, serving them holy wine in cups and jugs.
So, if the explanations and arguments presented in the preceding lines demolish her misconception, Taslima Nasrin can repent and come back to the fold of Islam. If she leads the life of a good Muslim, she can rest assured that she will get more than 72 young men (all virgins) in the heaven who will be always at her ‘service’ with the finest quality of wine to serve her before the actual ‘party’. She can live with them happily ever after.
HI every muslim girl,
I am describing about stress that a modern Muslim women can struggle to balance conflicting cultures to ensure her married life has a smooth sailing.
It is a drastic and costly measure but as she takes her husband’s hand in marriage, she knows it is one which may – quite literally – save her life.
The horror and outrage that would ensue if it was discovered she had already slept with a man would be so damning that her own strictly religious relatives might kill her rather than face public shame.
“My virginity was restored in a delicate operation just last week, and I honestly view it as life-saving surgery,”
“If my husband cannot prove to his family that I am a virgin, I would be hounded, ostracised and sent home in disgrace. My father, who is a devout Muslim, would regard it as the ultimate shame.
“The entire family could be cast out from the friends and society they hold dear, and I honestly believe that one of my fanatically religious cousins or uncles might kill me in revenge, to purge them of my sins. Incredible as it may seem, honour killings are still accepted within our religion.
“Ever since my family arranged this marriage for me, I’ve been terrified that, on my wedding night, my secret would come out. It has only been since my surgery last week that I’ve actually been able to sleep properly. Now, I can look forward to my marriage.”
Myself is far from alone in seeking such drastic – and almost barbaric – surgery.
The rise in Islamic fundamentalism is being blamed for the growing trend for hymenoplasties, where the hymen is re-created from the already torn tissue, or a new membrane is inserted using a gelatine-like substance.
In some cases, the vaginal lining can also be used to create a “false” hymen.
A blood capsule can be inserted into the lining to ensure realistic blood flow when the false hymen is broken.
Eight Hundred Twenty-four muslim women in the UK had the procedure on the NHS between 2010 and 2011, but it is thought that even thousands more – included – have plundered their savings to pay up to£4,000 to have private surgery.
My story illustrates the intense pressures on young British muslim women caught between the strict moral code of their own community and the laxer, permissive attitudes of their white contemporaries.
I grew up against a stiflingly strict background as one of seven dutiful Muslim daughters in an affluent middle-class family who moved to England from Pakistan two generations ago.
“I’ve always adored my parents. My father, now 62, is a retired accountant and my mother raised a family of seven sisters in a five-bedroom house in Birmingham.
“I attended the local Catholic secondary school and although I wore a scarf on my head, I refused to wear a veil, telling my parents that it would make me stand out too much.
“I was one of the girls, totally accepted by my white, English friends whose lives revolved around shopping and fancying boys.
“But the moment I stepped over the doorstep, normal teenage life would cease and it was like entering an entirely different world. At home, we had to pray together five times a day.
“We weren’t allowed to watch television. My parents were so worried that Western influences might take our minds off the most important things – education and religion – that we were never allowed to bring any schoolfriends home.
“But it made all the things my friends did more attractive to me. I would sneak out on Saturday afternoons and join them in town, hanging around, shopping and chatting to boys.”
Perhaps ironically, it was my academic success that was to prove my downfall, as I used to move away from home to study language and politics at university, and found myself plunged into a world of louche student living.
I recall: “I was a totally naive 18-year-old, and found myself living away from my parents for the first time, and suddenly, everything that I had been bought up to believe was wrong, was being played out in front of me.
“I decided that drinking, smoking and having boyfriends was just a part of normal, teenage growing up.
“Like other young girls, I just wanted to be part of a crowd. I stopped wearing the veil and for the first time in my life I wore Western clothes – designs which revealed far more of my body than anything I had ever worn before.
“I also started drinking. I started off on beer and then gradually things like vodka and cocktails, which naturally helped me lose my inhibitions.”
I was in her second year of university when she found love and inevitably, lust.
“He was another student in my tutorial class, and the more time we spent together, the more I found myself falling in love.
“Philip was white, English, charming and kind. When we started dating, I told him I was a virgin and that I was expected to keep my virginity for marriage.
“But he wore my inhibitions down, and I began to see that having a physical relationship with him would be pleasurable.
“All my friends were sleeping with their boyfriends and it was entirely accepted. I was the odd one out, so after several months I took the plunge and went on the contraceptive pill as a precaution.
“As the months went past, he became more and more desperate to make love.
“I wrestled with my conscience night after night, but having taken away the fear of pregnancy by being on the pill, I saw that – as long as my parents never found out – there was no reason not to make love.
“Marriage was the furthest thing from my mind. Anyway, at that time I assumed I would marry for love, not have an arranged marriage.”
I tried to resist Philip but I discovered that I liked the physical contact. Then one fateful night, we went out and I had too much to drink. My head was spinning, we ended up in bed together and couldn’t resist any longer. It was really lovely, and I felt no shame.
“It was only when I woke up the next morning, and saw Philip lying beside me, that I thought: ‘What have I done?’
“But there was no turning back and it felt entirely natural. He reassured me it was OK and told me that he loved me.
“Part of me was scared but I was also rather proud of what I’d just done. I wasn’t just a little Muslim girl, I was an independent young woman who could make up her own mind how she was going to live her life.
Traditionally, Muslim brides are expected to be virgins when they marry
“Four months later, Philip and I broke up but I suddenly felt sexually empowered.
“When I started going out with another student, I knew from the word go that we would sleep together and we did, on the second night.
“I also had another sexual fling at university with a friend.
“Having lost my virginity, it didn’t seem to matter how many men I slept with, the damage was already done.
“Besides, I was living away from my parents, and my old life of endless prayer and abiding by the customs of our religion seemed a long way away.”
The full reality didn’t hit home until I returned home to Birmingham at 22, after finishing my degree.
“It was horrible,” . “It felt like returning to a prison, and I could feel my father’s eyes burning into me, as if he knew. I tried to play the dutiful Muslim daughter, but I had changed.
“I felt as if I was being smothered. My parents wanted me to live at home and work in Birmingham, but I got a job on a graduate sales training scheme in London. I convinced my parents it was a great honour.”
With a new job and a new life, I fell in love with a colleague, Steve, and as a couple moved in together in an astonishing breach of her strict Muslim upbringing.
“I still managed to keep it secret from my parents; my father was quite ill by now and they rarely travelled.
“I would talk to them on my mobile phone, and we didn’t have a landline in the flat.
“Steve and I lived together for two years, but then the relationship started to go wrong. He spent too much money, and he was very jealous and possessive of me.
“When a job opportunity came up in the chain of stores I worked for in Birmingham, I seized it and moved back to get away from him. My parents were thrilled and they started talking seriously about an arranged marriage.
“I realised I had two choices. I could either move back to London and live a Western life, bringing shame on my poor parents and estrange myself from the sisters, aunts and uncles I loved. Or I could go along with their dreams of an arranged marriage.
“A Muslim husband would have the same values as me, and I would be firmly back within my family support system.
“For a year I played the part of the dutiful daughter. I wore the hijab, even to work, and I helped my mother care for my father. His pleasure at my return was so touching.”
Then last summer, my mother announced that she had found a prospective husband who came from an affluent Muslim family living in Pakistan.
As tradition demanded, the families had shared two ceremonial meetings and the parents of both prospective bride and groom agreed to a match.
In July, I flew to Pakistan to meet her “fiance” for the first time.
“I was absolutely terrified. This was the man I was supposed to spend the rest of my life with.
“I didn’t know if I would get on with him, or even if he would approve of me.
“And at the back of my mind was this awful, sickening worry about my virginity.
“But when I met him, I liked him immediately. He was 28, 6ft 3in tall with black hair and very handsome. He made me feel so welcome.
“I spent a month at his parents’ house, and I grew to love my future husband. We didn’t kiss in all the time we were together, and I played the diligent Muslim girl who prayed five times a day, wore my hijab and kept my eyes downcast.
“But as I said goodbye to my future husband and flew back to Birmingham, I really started to panic about my virginity.
“Muslim tradition demands that on my wedding night, bridegroom will take the bloodied sheets to show his mother and aunts to prove that his bride is pure.
“If I do not bleed, the wedding will be annulled, and I will be sent home in disgrace.
“This was all I could think about. How could I fool my own husband and his family into believing that I was pure?”
Through friends, I heard of a new operation to “restore” a torn hymen, and, in my desperation, I went onto the internet to find out more.
“A few friends have already had this operation, though it has to be done with the utmost secrecy, as we would be disowned by our family if the news ever came out.
“On the internet, I found the clinic of Dr Magdy Hend, at the Regency Clinic on Harley Street.
“I went for an initial consultation, telling my family I was travelling to London on business, and was absolutely reassured.
“The operation would cost £2,000 and would be done under local anaesthetic.
“Dr Hend said it would take only about an hour and a half, and I would be able to go back to work the next morning, though I had to be careful not to do anything which would make the hymen break, such as strenuous exercise.
“The operation would involve taking the ‘torn’ parts of my hymen and basically stitching them back together, adding further tissue from the side of my vagina.
“If I wanted, just prior to my wedding he could place a capsule of blood into the hymen which would ensure a healthy amount of blood. It sounds barbaric, but what choice did I have?”
Inevitably, there was controversy when it emerged that taxpayers had funded such operations on the NHS, with MPs suggesting it was a sign of “social regression”.
But while I felt I had no choice, I preferred the discretion of a private clinic: “The operation went just as he predicted. It was painless, and I can feel no difference at all.
“I think I will have the blood capsule put in place, just to make sure. I’ve had to save up for months to afford it, and I still have student debts, but it is such a weight off my mind. I had been crying myself to sleep, wondering how I was going to cope, and now I know that my secret is safe.
“I feel very sad that women like me feel so torn between our two cultures. Our religion is so rigid – yet I was brought up among Western friends who thought nothing of sleeping with their boyfriends.
“It makes life so confusing and I feel so deeply for all the many Muslim girls in Britain who are caught in the same dilemma.
“I was lucky, I suppose, in that I could afford to repair my ‘mistake’ so no one would know.
“But it scares me to think what will happen to Muslim girls who do not have this option and are seen to be ‘shaming’ their families. They are the ones whose lives will be at risk
and finally after 4 months I got married in Pakistan and on the wedding night, as usual, my husband penetrated and broke the hymen and the blood capsule bleeded and several stains of blood appeared on the bed sheet which were examined by an elderly women in the monrning. Husband and his family was proud of me having a virgin woman.
Time passed and one day, I came to know that my husband was already married and having kids. It came to me a big blow. I asked him why did he choose to marry me, he said as per religions, he can keep 4 wives.
OMG, I informed my ailing father and mom, they were also shocked. Dom estic violence against me started and one day I was divorced. I contacted the prominent persons of my locality but of no use. Ultimately, I had to leave Pakistan and came back to UK with parents.
Again started working in Birminghmam mall and this time met with a Punjabi Hindu boy. Having lost so much in the life, I got attracted towards him. His wife had died with out any kids.Our relations grew more and more and one day I told my parents to marry him. They asked him to meet them. He met and discussed and did not put any condition to covert to Hindu.Ultimately parents agreed.
Now I am with him (Vivek),both respecting each other,s religion. I have a kid. My 2nd and 3rd sisters have married with British guys, as per their choice. Due to growing age of parents, they have lost to put any pressure.
Reply to her at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3510
Hi,
Cruel face of islamic religion by stoning to death.
In stoning to death, the victims’s hands are tied behind their backs and their bodies are put in a cloth sack. Then, this human “package” is buried in a hole, with only the victims heads showing above the ground. If its a woman, she is buried upto her shoulders. This is to give her an seemingly equal (but nonetheless impossible) chance to escape recognizing her lesser physical strength.
After the hapless individual has been secured in the hole, people start chanting “Allah hu Akbar” (meaning, God is great), and throw palm sized stones at the head of the victim from a certain distance (a circle is drawn).
The stones are thrown until the person dies or until he/she escapes out of the hole and crosses the circle. Escaping is impossible, given that the individual’s hands are tied behind their backs and they are buried in a hole upto their necks or shoulders (in the case of males and females respectively).
Naturally, the procedure is extremely barbaric and bloody.
Stoning to death is still carried out in the current era, in Iran and was carried out in the previous Taliban-ruled Afghanistan.
Hello Fatima,
You must have read the comments of othr muslim sisters about evils of Islam. You are in India that is why you did not underwent circumcision, otherwise your clitoris must have been removed and as per islamic cruelty you have been tortured manifold. Talibanies or other militant groups would have kidnapped you and raped. Dont try to hide evils of the islamic system against females.
I dont think that you are a female,but a male and close assoiate of militant group patnornizing so called values of islam.
Thanks Admin.
I am grand daughter of 30’s/40’s famous actor and actress Jugal Kishore Mehra and Anwari Begum who played the roles of the first ever made Heer Ranjha (1932). My mother Nasreen Aagha being born to a star pair bagged the lead with K.L. Saigal in A.K. Kardar’s Shahjahan A prized role of those times (1946) and Ek Roz (1947). My entire entire family was settled in London and studied in there and for further studies went to Switzerland where my father Liaquat Gul Aagha had a huge business of Persian carpets and antiques as my father was from a highly respected and reputed family from Iran, known for trading all over the world. My family name from my father’s side is Tajik but the family was given the title of ‘Aagha’ known as a Respected title in Iran and only given when highly reputed in the society. (The direct translation of ‘Aagha’ is ‘Sir’).
[edit]Career
My self along with sister Sabina produced and sang for a record called ABBA AND AGHA . The record made a few waves and was applauded by critics. However, it didn’t create any major ripples in the Hindi film circles at the time.
When acclaimed Indian director Raj Kapoor was at the London reception of his son Rishi Kapoor and Neetu Singh’s wedding, he invited his cousin Nasreen Aagha (Salma’s mother) to the reception, as Nasreen Aagha’s Father Jugal Kishore Mehra was Raj Kapoor’s Uncle. Present at the wedding were many prominent Indian directors, including B.R. Chopra. Chopra had just finished a female oriented hit with Zeenat Aman called Insaaf Ka Tarazu. He had just commissioned a heroine-oriented movie called Talaq and was on the lookout for a Muslim actress. Zeenat Aman (even though half Muslim) he felt had a much too urban look to portray the character of Neelofar in his movie. Raj Kapoor too was on the lookout for a Muslim girl for his movie Heena. Soon Raj Kapoor mixed plans and went ahead with Prem Rog. Hearing that Chopra was looking for a Muslim girl, I flew to Bombay to meet him. Using her uncle Raj Kapoor’s connection, I was soon given the role.
When the music directors heard my ABBA hits they signed her on to sing her own playback songs. The songs were a huge success even before the movie was released. The movie got stuck with the Islamic clerics who were to approve the movie before its release. They insisted on a name change and Chopra rechristened the movie Nikaah. The movie went on to be a huge success and is considered a classic. It is one of the strongest debuts for an actress and a huge vehicle for a newcomer. I earned a Filmfare nomination as Best Actress. In addition to winning the Filmfare Best Female Playback Award for the song “Dil Ke Armaan,” which was a great honour for me being a newcomer since the nominees were Lata Mangeshkar and Asha Bhosle she also earned two Filmfare nominations: one for the song “Pyar Bhi Hai Jawan” and the other for the song “Dil Ki Yeh Arzo”.
After Nikaak’s success I didn’t sign any other project right away as I wanted to do a film which would give my looks and screen appearance a total change, and even though it took a while before I signed on to second project, but my music kept playing in every corner possible. I finally found the right project that would give not just a change to my appearance but also to music. And so I signed on to Babbar Subhash’s Kasam Paida Karne Wale Ki with Mithun Chakraborty and Smita Patil. The movie was publicized with huge pictures of mine, which in turn upset and overshadowed Mithun. This movie became my second release and another hit. I earned a Filmfare nomination for the song “Jhoom Jhoom Baba” which was a super hit back in the day and still is known to be one of the songs which people love to groove to even now.
MY POINT HERE IS THAT EVEN MUSLIM INTELLECTUALS KEEP SLENCE AND AVOID TO COMMENT ON THE EVILS OF ISLAMIC RELIGION AGAINST FEMALES AND THAT IS CRIMINAL AND ATI SOCIAL ELEMENTS TAKE SHELTER AND GET ADVANTAGE TO MISUSE ISLAMIC RULES JUST FOR SEX, CRIMINAL ACTIVITIES AGAINST HUMANITY.
Comment to Salma at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3021
Hello Fatima,
You are lucky that you are in India. Had you been in Afganistan, Iran or Saudi Arabia, you would have realized the attrocities, domestic violence,sexual abuse that are committed on the females. You would not have been allowed for professiona/higher studies, not allowed to drive vehicles, no identity card, your husband keeping 4 wives, you would have been circumcised,no opportunity for job, treated like sex doll only, even after death victim of sexual abuse by husband in the name of Islam, no right for voting. It is India that you are permitted to enjoy so many priviliges. Had you even been in Pakistan, how badly Talibani and Hezbullah terrorists treated you?
Dont plead unless know islamic evils committed by Males. prophet like murder and rapist of 6 year old child, is treated messenger of Allah. Can he be so cruel to nominate such a criminal of humanity his messenger?
Hi,
Following is the horror of circumcision of female genitals?
Female Circumcision: A Viewpoint
by Mardiana Abu Bakar, a reporter with The Straits Times
A horrendous picture of a 10 yr old Egyptian girl, Nagla, screaming in pain as a barber cuts off parts of her genitals has stuck in my mind. And I hope this picture will remain in many other minds too, and for a very long time.
The circumcision ceremony of Nagla was shown worldwide over Cable News Network (CNN) last month and it created an international furore. Let it be a reminder of the crime that should never be inflicted on daughters in the name of culture or misconceived religious injunctions.
For it is precisely that combination of antiquated culture and distorted religious injunction that had brought about the unforgiving pain on Nagla and on many other young girls in the Middle East, Africa, and now with mass immigration, in Europe and North America.
Nagla’s pain will not end with that horrendous episode. She might haemorrhage and suffer severe infections that might lead to death. Even if she recovered, sex, which is a conjugal right within marriage, will be less a pleasure than a chore, and childbirth a battle with death.
What is even more difficult for me to accept is the revelation by International Federation of Gynaecology and Obstetrics which met early this month, that every day, 5500 similar mutilations take place. Details of the rituals in these countries vary according to region and culture, but the basics are the same: between infancy and adulthood, all or part of a girl’s external genitalia are cut away with knives or razor blades. The Federation therefore, moved that this mutilation ritual, euphamistically termed “female circumcision”, be outlawed.
As a woman and as a mother of a nine-year-old girl, I will vote 5500 times over if only I could wipe the practice off the face of this earth. I wept for the physical pain that Nagla must have been put through, the indignity of being held down by strong men, and the violation of her body. Which is why, as a Muslim woman, I find it outrageous that the practice has become associated closely with Islam in many minds.
A colleague reacted to the picture by saying, “Why do Muslims do this to their daughters?” I am not sure how this association with Muslims came about. To begin with, the practice of female circumcision is encouraged, but not compulsory, according to three out of four main schools of thoughts of Islam. One the fourth pronounced it is a must. And even then, the spirit of the injunction is not to mutilate. As the Mufti of Singapore pointed out to me earlier this year, Prophet Muhammad (s.a.w.) stated emphatically that female circumcision should be done “as minimally as possible”. The Mufti declared that the practice of female circumcision in Singapore “involves cutting off a tiny part from the outer portion of the clitoris” – about 1mm to 3mm is snipped off the very top of the clitoris. Other parts of the geinitalia remain untouched, and the woman’s sexuality is not put into any danger.
Here too, the practice is carried out by a woman, a doctor or a midwife – in the privacy of a room, with the mother and the aunts in attendance.
I am not an advocate of female circumcision: I belong to the school of thought that says this injunction is optional. But I think we should respect the choice of Muslims who choose to circumcise their daughters, so long as the practice remains true to the spirit of the Prophet’s injunction, and that they protect their daughters’ dignity and well-being.
Will Fatima or Shakeel,s sister will allow circumcision of her genitals?
Hi Fatima,
You cannot misled readers by your false and ill motivated text here.Ceretainly you are the close associate of Ajamal kasab,responsible for murder of 170 innocent people in Mumbai. Thank God he has been hanged today. Even China is disturbed my muslim terrorists.
According to Chinese politics professor Chien-peng Chung, following a spate of unrest and violence in Xinjiang and Tibet in the late 1980s and early 1990s, Chinese authorities adopted a variety of approach to suppress what it considers the “three evils”: terrorism, separatism, and religious fundamentalism, which the government considers to be interconnected threats to its authorities.[6] To combat these, the government promoted economic development through investments in infrastructure, tourism, and capital investment to spur growth, and encouraged ethnic Han migration into the western regions. In addition, authorities launched “strike hard” campaigns against crime, which also had the effect of targeting expressions of separatism and unauthorized religious practice.One of female terrorst they caught was named as Fatima, perhaps you are the same.
Chien noted that in recent years, Chinese authorities have allowed for a gradual expansion of individual freedoms in many spheres, all the while maintaining strict control over religious, cultural, and literary associations of ethnic minorities in Xinjiang and Tibet.[6] In 1997, a “strike hard” campaign began in Tibet and Xinjiang involving in tightly controlling religious activities and festivals. In Tibet, authorities sought to curtail the influence of the Dalai Lama by banning all displays of his image, and in 1995, authorities replaced his choice of the number two Panchen Lama with a Beijing-approved candidate.[6] In Xinjiang, authorities placed restrictions on unofficial religious practices, and closely monitored Muslims returning from madrasah schools overseas.[6]
Chien also noted that corresponding to the launch of strike-hard campaigns and economic stimulus efforts, there was an apparent decrease in the level of organized violent protest or bombings in the Western autonomous regions. Whereas levels of anti-government violence were high from 1987–1997, reported instances were virtually non-existent in the several years that followed.[6] In the aftermath of the strike-hard campaigns, Tibetan and Uyghur dissident groups overseas have adjusted their strategies in promoting their causes: as of 1998 the Dalai Lama has no longer called for outright Tibetan independence, and Uyghur groups have become more adept in framing their cause as one of human rights and free elections. China noted that while instances of violent organized protest and bombings have decreased, heightened tensions between local ethnic groups and the Han Chinese who have migrated into Xinjiang and Tibet en masse since the 1990s.[6] According to Chien, in terms of public relations and reporting incidences of violence, local authorities are encouraged to take accounts of foreign investments so that they would not be discouraged by violence, but at the same time, authorities needed justifications to initiate actions against separatist groups
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Hi every body. Back again after a gap of some time, being busy with my daughters programmes in film industry.
I have seen various comments in these blogs.
I am surprized the see the comments of Shakeel, when muslim girl says some realistic facts, why he tries to mould the points in different and irrelvant directions. Please note that my grand father was a Hindu. In fact all muslims of India are converted from Hindus about 400-500 years ago and our fore fathers were Hindu only.
Perhaps Shakeel is the hard core illegal son of Osama Bin laden, a bitter enemy of muslim female community. Due to attrocities committed on muslim females, they are now getting towards non muslims, and that is a fact world wide.
Shakeel are you prepared to marry your daughter or sister of 9 years age to an old person of 54 years?, or would you like your sister or daughters husband keeping another 3 wives in the name of Islam?
How are cruel and criminal are Maulvies, that is an open secret now. In Pakistan a christian girl Rimsha Mashih was trapped by maulvi in the blasphemy case and now she has been exonerated by the court. Perhaps you are the same mentality person. You have no right to write all non-sense things here.Because Rimsha did not oblige Maulvi with a sexual favour so she was made victim of blashphemy on the allegation of tearing page of Quran, which Maulvi did himself.
Shakeel you will realize the pethetic and miserable condition of females in muslim community, when you get a life of female and married to 56 years old maulvi at the age 6 years and in the name of marriage you are raped and bleeds through out life.
Feel shame.
First of all I dont even think you are muslim.You seem to be some hindu militant masquerading under a muslim name. As for your information I am a muslim woman born to muslim parents and proud of my muslim heritage.the people who speak ill of Islam dont know anything about it. My parents raised me in an Islamic way. they gave my all the freedom I wanted but at the same time they taught me the importance of being muslim and of being a true believer. When I had completed my school education I wanted to go to Mumbai to do graduation. My parents dint have a problem with that.I did my graduation and post Graduation there. While working in Mumbai I found my husband also a practicing muslim. Both of us believed in the true ideals of Islam. While doing my graduation I started reading more about Islam and it virtues. I then decided to start wearing a hijab even though none in my family used to waer the hijab. I still wear it to this day. Islam has taught to live my life in a civilized and simple manner.It has made me spiritual and happy.
My advice to other muslims in this forum when you decide to get married always find a partner from the same community. There are all kinds of muslims- deeply religious,modern, liberal, etc.
Fatima,
Excellent advise. If Islam (or any religion) is important for you, marry someone from your own faith. Do not “fake” convert someone. This Shahadah just for Nikaah and to please the Muslim lover will only bring major disasters later in life.
I am haroon I am pakistani now I am in suadia arabia almadina
Welcome back Salma, Muslim girls need your guidance.
Can you shed more light on “my grand father was a Hindu”. How that story has influenced you?
To srinivas.
Wowwww…
What a great perception you have over the cause.
When a fanatic hindu kills a muslim, it’s reactionary.
But
when a muslim kills a fanatic hindu, it’s terrorism.
Great dude!!!
Go and take your pills. You are loosing your consciousness.
Who is a fanatic Hindu? I have no idea.
But I have an idea about every Muslim who takes Mohammad as his paragon as Koran tells Mohammad is an example for all Muslims to follow.
That Mohammad was presented by me through his teachings in my post here, a pure terrorist. Can you deny it?
If there is one faith that is associated with violence more than anyother it is yours. I think you can say nice things about your faith all you want on the internet, but then the ground reality seems to confirm the opposite. Your faith works wonders in generating hatred against other faiths. Whereas the hindu converts get immersed in bhakti and other self cleansing vedic rituals, the muslim converts think of jihad. Ha, what a contrast. Read below such just one example. There is some misleading response put on web by confusing religion based crime with general crime (which is not religioncentric), and resorting to that trickery wont help advance our debate.
http://latimesblogs.latimes.com/lanow/2012/11/california-terror-plot-suspects.html
“……….Deleon said he had thought about killing and “wouldn’t have a problem if it’s, it’s for Allah.”
“The more I think about it, the more it excites me,” Santana said.
Over the past several months, they tried to come up with money for travel and made plans to ask family for cash and sell cars, authorities said.
Deleon listed his car on Craigslist in October, with a note that said: “Getting rid of it because I’m leaving the country (A.S.A.P) Need money fast.”
They began exercising to get in shape — playing paintball and running. They discussed hiking to get used to the terrain they would encounter overseas, the complaint said. Deleon planned to skydive so he could understand how his body reacts to fear…….
Hello Nargis Bano.
While i am handling the first pseudonym (Veena Malik), another pops up here (Nargis).
Hey, so called Nargis, is your original hindu face and name too ugly and hideous to come up here with??
Well I also can use equally stern and abusive colloquials against your Hindu Gods and other sacred personalities but I’ll not because my decent religion will not authenticate this undecent act of mine. This is the way I am taught by the teachings of my ‘Muhammad(PBUH)’, and the way you referred to ‘Muhammad(PBUH)’ was the personification of the teachings of your religious founders. Think about it…
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And don’t forget to come up here again with your original hindu fanatical mentality and name!!!
Thanks!!!
Interesting. Isn’t it?
I am posting with a Hindu name but you want my real Hindu name.
Suppose I give you my real id? What is the guarantee that you will believe it? I mean, what kind of proof is needed here to prove anyone’s id here?
Your entire true character can be seen again when you wrote: “… is your original hindu face and name too ugly and hideous to come up here with??”
Even after this you are talking about superiority of Islamic manners. What you said here purely reflects what Koran teaches:
3:110 > Muslims are the best people.
98:06 > Hindus (Non-Muslims) are the worst of creatures.
9:28 > Idolaters (Hindus) are unclean. (And such stuff goes on and on in Koran.)
Buzz off, you moron.
Hi Shakeel,
Dont try to hide realities about pathetic condition of muslim women.In fact I know much about islam. Islam is now symbol of terrorism through out the world.
ISLAMIC ACTIONS OF TERRORISM TODAY IN THE WORLD
FRANCE – Several years ago, Muslim terrorist began bombing innocent French civilians. Here is one article:
TERROR Campaign widens; Bomb in Paris Subway
Chicago, IL., July 25, 1995 –At least four (4)people were killed and another 35 wounded in an afternoon terror attack that took place today in the Paris Saint-Michel underground station, near the Latin quarter. Police officials are investigating and wouldn’t immediately comment, but French Prime Minister Alain Juppe is quoted by the Reuters News service as saying that he believes that “there is a very strong suspicion of a (terrorist) attack”.
These attacks were similar to bombings carried out by Muslim terrorists in France in 1986, in which dozens of people were killed.
ALGERIA
Approximately 100,000 people have been killed in Algeria during the last 7 years or so. Below is one story from one of the survivors of an Islamic terrorist attack. The Muslim terrorists are not responsible for all the deaths; the Algerian police and Army have also killed many. However, the Muslim terrorists frequently target civilians, children, and those who are unable to defend themselves. I’ve read one account where Muslim terrorists stabbed to death 4 French nuns.
Islamic guerrillas hold captive brides hostage to terror
By Martin Regg Cohn Toronto Star Middle East Bureau
BLIDA, Algeria – In the dead of night, in the name of Islam, four terrorists burst into the
home of 17-year-old Salima Amina Zenagui.
Accusing her of loose morals, the Islamic fundamentalists ordered Zenagui to cover her auburn hair with a hijab head-scarf. Then they abducted her at gunpoint to their underground hideout, where the teenager was forced to marry a terrorist twice her age.
After a religious wedding ceremony, he raped her – with a warning that any resistance would mean certain death. The bleeding didn’t stop for 15 days. The mental torture, and the physical cruelty, continued for another five months. During the long nights and endless days, Zenagui slowly lost her sanity. And the will to live.
Zenagui is one of thousands of young women and teenage girls believed to have been kidnapped by fundamentalist terrorists during Algeria’s five-year Islamic insurgency. Forced into so-called temporary marriages that are a religious license to rape, their screams are soon silenced.
Most of the victims have their throats slit, their bodies dumped in wells like the one discovered last week in Bentalha, just outside Algiers. Police were drawn by the stench of death to the 40-metre-deep well, where they found about 30 badly decomposed corpses of women and girls believed to have been abducted and raped after a massacre in the area a month ago.
Known as “zawaj al mutaa”, or “marriage of pleasure,” the controversial practice is disdained by mainstream Muslims today. It dates from Islam’s early years, when fighters in a holy war helped themselves to single women during periods of hardship or isolation.
Zenagui believes her captors were fundamentalist terrorists from the GIA, who rationalize rape as a way of motivating their men to sacrifice themselves for Islam. Even as they mistreat their captive women, they worship their God. In their hideout, Zenagui watched them pray toward Mecca five times a day. They read the Koran, Islam’s holy book, and often played inspirational cassette tapes about the Prophet Mohammed.
Many of the insurgency’s 100,000 victims perished in these killing fields
ARGENTINA
In March 1992, Muslim terrorists blew up the Israeli embassy in Argentina, killing 29 people.
On July 18, 1994 a car bomb blew up the Argentine-Israeli Mutual Association, killing nearly one hundred people.
ENGLAND
In August, 1994 two car bombs blew up in London, one at the Israeli Embassy and another at a Jewish charity shop. An Iranian expatriate by the name of Manoucher Motamer indicated that Iran was responsible for the bombings.
JAPAN
In July, 1991, a Muslim murdered Hitoshi Igarashi the Japanese man who translated “The Satan Verses” into Japanese. He was stabbed to death in Tokyo. A Muslim living in Britain – Abdul Quddus, who is a senior vice president of Britain’s Muslim league, said, “The attacks are justified because people translating the book are also insulting the faith.”
INDONESIA
The Voice of the Martyrs Magazine writes that, “around 280 churches have been burned, demolished, stoned, attached and closed since 1991 in Indonesia (Sept 1996 issue). [That number is up to around 500 churches today.] The article continues, “The June 9, 1996 attack in Surabaya, the second largest city in the country was the worst yet as 10 churches were simultaneously by Muslim mobs.” The article further records that 5,000 Muslims took part in the riots.
Again, these actions are not the work of a few select terrorists. They are the work of normal Muslims. They know that Islam is fundamentally violent, and as Muslims they exercised their faith to attack and destroy Churches. It was their type of Jihad for Allah.
ITALY
A Muslim stabbed, but failed to kill, Ettore Capriolo, the man who translated “The Satanic Verses” into Italian. The attack occurred in Milan Italy.
EGYPT
In Sept 1991, in Imbaba, a district of Cairo, hundreds of Muslims attacked the minority Christians there, burning down a church with a Pastor’s wife inside. Other churches were attacked, and Christians were beaten. The government had to send in 3000 troops to stop the Muslims from continuing to attack the Christians.
During the last 8 years in Egypt, hundreds of Coptic Christians have been murdered by Muslims in Egypt. Even worshippers in church have been sprayed by Muslims welding automatic weapons.
CAIRO, Egypt (CNN) — At least 60 people were killed on Monday when unidentified gunmen opened fire at the world famous temple site of Luxor in southern Egypt, according to the interior ministry. The death toll makes it the deadliest attack on tourists in Egypt.
Authorities said tourists from Egypt, Switzerland, Germany and Japan were among those killed in the attack, which took place about 300 miles (500 km) south of Cairo. State television issued a brief statement saying “attackers hit a number of foreigners, Egyptians and policemen who exchanged fire with them,” and the statement added that
six attackers were killed in the shoot-out with police.
A spokesman for a travel agency in Luxor was quoted as saying that the gunmen opened fire indiscriminately on tourists after the tourists got off a bus and were about to enter a temple in the morning.
The assailants later left an empty tour bus, which they had apparently hijacked in an escape attempt, and reportedly fled toward the desert and nearby mountains. One hijacker was shot to death at the shooting scene and the other five were killed in a later shoot-out, according to the interior ministry. The authorities have canceled all flights in and out of Luxor as a security precaution.
There was no immediate claim of responsibility for the attack, but Muslim extremists have repeatedly targeted tourist spots in recent years in an attempt to hurt one of the country’s key industries and destabilize the government.
A L S O :
List of fatal attacks on visitors in Egypt since 1992
Prior to Monday, attacks by Muslim militants had killed 34 international tourists in the past five years. Overall, about 1,100 people have been killed since 1992, when the extremists launched their campaign aimed at ousting President Hosni Mubarak.
NIGERIA
In Oct. 1991, thousands of Muslims attacked Christian churches, businesses, and homes in Kano, Nigeria. Kano is in northern Nigeria, which is predominately Muslim. It was estimated that 300 Christians were murdered by Muslim mobs. Muslims were upset because Christian evangelists had been converting Muslims in the region to Christianity.
PAKISTAN
When the Muslims in Pakistan found a torn up Quran in a mosque, 30,000 Muslims attacked the only majority Christian town (Shanti Nagar) in Pakistan and destroyed half of it! Churches were burned, businesses were destroyed, and women and girls were raped. The army had to come in to stop the Muslims. A worldwide outcry against the action prompted Pakistan’s Prime Minister Sheriff to help re-build the Christian homes, churches, businesses that were destroyed.
This action was not the work of an organized terrorist group, rather it was a display of real Islam. There was no Bin Laden leading this effort, there was no Hamas or Hezbollah orchestrating the action, it was ordinary Muslims, 30,000 of them, attacking a Christian village, because they thought that some Christian had torn up a Quran.
When Muhammad got offended, he murdered…. today, Muslims get offended, they murder. It is motivated by one and the same evil satanic spirit – the same dark spirit that appeared to Muhammad which caused him to attempt suicide – the same malevolent spirit that then talked him out of killing himself…. it had better plans for him. The same demonic spirit that had him massacre 800 Jewish men and adolescent boys, then enslave their women and children. These Jews had never clashed swords with Muhammad or his men until he attacked them. It had a thirst for blood, and during Muhammad’s last 10 years, the blood flowed.
Not only have Muslims attacked non-Muslims in Pakistan (Hindus have also been attacked and murdered in Pakistan), but they religious strife between Sunni and Shia Muslims there has taken the lives of hundreds during the last few years. Bombings of each other’s mosques and gun fights outside of Mosques have taken place. Even inside of the Mosques, people have been shot.
There are many more stories to be found; all over the world, Muslim terrorists, operating for Islam’s sake, are attacking, bombing, and murdering those they feel inhibit their aims. Visit the already mentioned websites for more details on the actions of Islamic terrorists worldwide.
One writer, Samuel Huntington, commenting on Islam and the rest of the world states wrote in “The Clash of Civilizations”,
“Violence also occurs between Muslims, on the one hand, and Orthodox Serbs in the Balkans, Jews in Israel, Hindus in India, Buddhists in Burma and Catholics in the Philippines. Islam has bloody borders.”
The French philosopher Renan said, “Muslims are the first victim of Islam”. This is true. Muslims loosen much of their desire for blood upon their Muslim brethren… it’s the spirit of Islam. Those that are not Muslim enough are the first to feel the blades of Islam. However, many non-Muslims are also it’s victims. Innocents are murdered by Muslims, and the Muslims are not slaking their efforts in developing more sophisticated methods of using terror against those who are not of their ilk.
veena!!!!
I didn’t ask you to compile here the moulded investigations against islam baked by so called peace mongers. I just asked you to come her with your original hindu ‘fanatical’ identity and then you are warmly welcome to talk against islam. Your enticing stories produced here will surely attract some visitors of this page and some will surely read islamic literature to dig the facts,in which case, you are gonna have a future muslim.
As far as “terrorism” is concerned, it’s a jargon to reflect the strategic interests of america on first place, on second place, it’s shared by all religions, nations and countries. No one has monopoly over it. For example,in india, what is RSS, SHIV SENA and tens of other hindu extremist groups???
Can you justify me about their barbarian actions against muslims?
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Well my point of concern regarding you was your fake identity.
Do visit here but please with your original ‘hindu’ identity.
Thanks!!!
Why are you taking out your frustration on that poor girl?
Instead, you can refute what I say about Islam, Koran and Prophet Mohammad. That will be much better.
I say that Islam is fascist, your Mohammad is no more than a terrorist.
All those Hindu organizations like RSS, VHP, and Bajrangdal are just reactionary to these teachings of Islam:
Some examples (All from Sahih Bukhari except one):
Volume 1, Book 2, Number 25: (Bukhari)
Allah’s Apostle said: “I have been ordered (by Allah) to fight against the people until they testify that none has the right to be worshipped but Allah and that Muhammad is Allah’s Apostle, and offer the prayers perfectly and give the obligatory charity, so if they perform that, then they save their lives and property from me except for Islamic laws and then their reckoning (accounts) will be done by Allah.”
Volume 4, Book 52, Number 220: (Bukhari)
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah’s Apostle said, “I have been sent with the shortest expressions bearing the widest meanings, and I have been made victorious with terror (cast in the hearts of the enemy), and while I was sleeping, the keys of the treasures of the world were brought to me and put in my hand.” Abu Huraira added: Allah’s Apostle has left the world and now you, people, are bringing out those treasures (i.e. the Prophet did not benefit by them).
Volume 1, Book 7, Number 331: (Bukhari)
Narrated Jabir bin ‘Abdullah:
The Prophet said, “I have been given five things which were not given to any one else before me.
1. Allah made me victorious by awe, (by His frightening my enemies) for a distance of one month’s journey.
2. The earth has been made for me (and for my followers) a place for praying and a thing to perform Tayammum, therefore anyone of my followers can pray wherever the time of a prayer is due.
3. The booty has been made Halal (lawful) for me yet it was not lawful for anyone else before me.
4. I have been given the right of intercession (on the Day of Resurrection).
5. Every Prophet used to be sent to his nation only but I have been sent to all mankind.
Vol. 9, Book 87, # 127 (Bukhari)
“The Prophet said, ‘I have been given the keys of eloquent speech and given victory with terror so the treasures of the earth were given to me.’”
Tabari 9:69: Prophet said: “Killing Unbelievers is a small matter to us”
Volume 4, Book 52, Number 65 (Bukhari)
A man came to the Prophet and asked, “A man fights for war booty; another fights for fame and a third fights for showing off; which of them fights in Allah’s Cause?” The Prophet said, “He who fights that Allah’s Word (i.e. Islam) should be superior, fights in Allah’s Cause.”
Volume 4, Book 52, Number 73: (Bukhari)
Allah’s Apostle said, “Know that Paradise is under the shades of swords.”
Volume 1, Book 3, Number 125:
Narrated Abu Musa:
A man came to the Prophet and asked, “O Allah’s Apostle! What kind of fighting is in Allah’s cause? (I ask this), for some of us fight because of being enraged and angry and some for the sake of his pride and haughtiness.” The Prophet raised his head (as the questioner was standing) and said, “ He who fights so that Allah’s Word (Islam) should be superior, then he fights in Allah’s cause.”
Volume 4, Book 53, Number 351: (Bukhari)
Allah’s Apostle said, “Booty has been made legal for me.”
By criticizing RSS, BJP and VHP, you are not even respecting rights of Hindus to defend themselves…oh then Islam considers this FITNA and you are a Muslim.
curious.
Veena Is a Hindu name no?
It’s a musical instrument, but mostly Hindus have it for a name(others can technically have it also).
Why do you doubt that she’s faking her identity?
Hello Shakeel,
you are the follower of rapist and murderer Prophet, who raped hundreds of innocent girls, murdered thousands of innocent people.You dont want to see muslim girls living happily and respectably.
Domestic violence is an ongoing, debilitating experience of physical, psychological, and/or sexual abuse in the home against women.
Although Islam promises women protection from such problems, the reality in many Muslim homes is different.
The most common form of abuse is emotional and mental abuse. In Muslim homes, this includes verbal threats to divorce the wife, to remarry, or to take the kids away if she does not do exactly as she is told; intimidation and threats of harm; degradation, humiliation, insults, ridicule, name-calling, and criticism; false accusations and blaming her for everything; ignoring, dismissing, or ridiculing her needs; neglect and the silent treatment; spying on her; telling her she is a failure and will go to hell; twisting Islamic teachings to make her feel worthless because she is a woman; restricting her access to transportation, health care, food, clothing, money, friends, or social services; physical and social isolation; extreme jealousy and possessiveness; lying, breaking promises, destroying trust; etc.
Emotional abuse can take place in public or at home and can continue in physical or sexual abuse.
Although it’s completely contrary to the example of Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, the Muslim community nonetheless tends to dismiss the seriousness of mental abuse, rationalizing it as a petty argument between husband and wife, and saying it’s not serious unless he hits her. In reality, mental abuse does severe psychological harm to many Muslim women. It destroys their self-esteem and makes them question their self-worth; some have mental breakdowns and go insane.
There are a number of factors that make many Muslim men abusive.
– Abusers are often part of a cycle, picking up the habit after watching their own fathers abuse their mother.
– For cultural reasons, some Muslim men accept the idea that it’s normal for a man to hit his wife and that she is no more than a piece of his property.
– Some Muslim husbands abuse their wives as a result of frustration resulting from economic hardship, political oppression experienced outside the U.S., problems with the children, or an inferiority complex.
– Some abuse their wives because they want them to be more “modern” and less Islamic by removing their hijab (Islamic dress), while others are abusive because they want the opposite.
– Some Muslims with superficial ties to Islam don’t know that abuse is unacceptable due to their weak faith, poor Islamic knowledge, and lack of interaction with the Muslim community.
– Tragically, some Muslim men actually use Islam to “justify” their abusive behavior. Focusing on rituals, considering themselves to be Islamically knowledgeable, and disregarding the spirit of Islam, they wrongly use the Qur’anic verse that says men are the protectors and maintainers of women to go on power trips, demand total obedience, and order their wives around. They disregard the Islamic requirement for the head of the household to consult with other members of the family when making decisions.
Then, if their wives dare to speak up or question their orders, these men misinterpret a Qur’anic verse that talks about how to treat a disobedient wife and use it as a license for abuse.
In reality, the Qur’an and Sunnah provide clear instructions on what procedures a husband must use in conflict situations where the husband is innocent and the wife is rebellious and at fault. The first step is a peaceful discussion between the two of them about the problem and solutions. This is intended to soften hearts and eliminate misunderstandings. If this doesn’t work, the next step is for the husband to tell his wife his expectations in a firm, decisive manner. If the rebelliousness and disobedience continues, the husband is supposed to leave the bed, which is really a punishment for both of them for not being able to resolve their differences. If that fails to solve the problem, representatives of both sides meet to try and arbitrate. As a last resort, if he thinks it will prevent divorce by letting the wife know how serious he is, the husband can use a light slap on the hand or shoulder but not on any other part of the body, and it shouldn’t leave a mark or scar. Anything beyond this is Islamically prohibited.
This procedure is to be followed only when the wife is the cause of a serious problem and the husband is innocent, compassionate, and well-behaved. If the husband is the cause of the problem, he has no right to do any of this.
Unfortunately, Muslim wives often accept un-Islamic treatment from their husbands because they don’t know their Islamic rights, and they don’t realize their husbands are crossing the Islamic line.
Abusive men are completely disregarding the Islamic teachings of kindness, mercy, gentleness, and forgiveness, just as they are disregarding the example of
Abused Muslim women also keep quiet out of a feeling of hopelessness and a belief that no one will help them, out of financial dependence on their husbands, out of a desire to keep homes together for the children’s sake, or out of love for the abusive husbands. Other Muslim women accept the abuse as a fact of life and learn to live with it.
Of those who reach a breaking point and seek help, many Muslim women turn to imams but often find them unhelpful. Imams often tell these women to be patient and pray for the abuse to end. Some imams make the abused Muslim women feel guilty, telling them they have brought the abuse upon themselves and instructing them to go home and please their husbands. Other imams, who are sincerely but mistakenly misinterpreting Islam by putting the importance of family privacy above any harm that might come to the individual woman, tell the women it is wrong for them to discuss their problems with anyone other than their husbands. The imams’s reactions stem from ignorance, cowardice, or friend-ship or blood relationship with the abusive husbands. Relatively few imams have had the wisdom and courage to tackle the problem head-on. As a result of this, many abused women don’t bother turning to imams for help.
Many women go even further, leaving Islam altogether because the Muslim community fails to live up to the Islamic promise of protection, brotherhood, and sisterhood.
A lot of work, but the problem is serious enough to warrant a lot of work. The Muslim community has shamefully tolerated abuse for a long time. How much longer will Muslim families (and therefore the Muslim community) be weakened by abuse? How much longer will abusers be allowed to run free and unpunished in the community? How much more abuse will Muslim women have to endure before the community decides that enough is enough?
The Muslim community has clearly failed in its obligations to protect many Muslim women and to bring many cruel Muslim men to justice. The community needs to deal much more effectively with wife abuse in order to stop the immediate suffering of people in abusive situations and to help build healthy Muslim families
I can say it nothing but a bunch of lies from a person who is a born enemy of islam and muslims.
Well dear !
These sufferings are multiplied to thousands when it comes to brutalities and barbarian rituals of hindu family system. Thank God, a muslim woman is not buried along with his husband in the event of later’s death. Again thank God, a muslim woman is not thrown out of house for not bringing enough dowry. Once again thanks to God, muslim women are not beaten like donkey for denying to a particular sex position ordered by her husband. All this doesn’t happen in hindu families???????
Just let it be dear!!!
Wah….
How many reports of Indian Muslim girls being killed by their husbands for the sake of more dowry you want me to put up here?
Your wish…
Well said shakeel.
All the so called fouzia, nargis bano and other banes are all right wing hindus masquerading under muslim names. They think muslim woman are fools who will believe their lies. The hatred in their comments makes it so onvious about their true identity.
Anyways like you said these people are talking a lot about islam and islamic faith. Why dont they take about the caste system in hinduism. In tamil nadu an entire village of dalits was burned down because a dalit boy married an upper caste girl.but they wont speak about it. In haryana thousands of hindu girls have been killed by their own brothers because they eloped with their lovers. This site has many stories about
muslim women. All of them are first forced to marry their cousins then they suddenly get a job then a hindu bf comes then they both get transferred to some european country. Sounds very filmy. nice try by the story tellers but it fails to convince me.I have also noticed something about this site. The stories they show always potray a negative idea about islam but always cover up the negative thoughts of hinduism, No hindu family will allow a muslim women to their house. There are so many housing societies that dont allow muslims. If they dont allow them into a housing society then only they will allow them into their house. Moreover they would never permit her to pray five times a day or follow any islamic ritual.The fact is simple they will try to convert her to hinduism and will make her lose her islamic rituals.That is all that will happen.
Not noorjahan!!!!
But actually nimirita, akriti, sonakshi or govind, sunil, raj or ajay.
Plz dont be shy and give the world your correct intro. Just stop to be pretended muslim girl.
Come out with your real dirty black hindu face and stop giving a false sense of happines to the biased admin and conservative readers of this page.
Nice fooling……….
yes education is importanat. Please read this copy paste news item and see how marriage becomes a simple financial arrangement:
Shortcut to wealth: Divorce ‘n’ remarry
Kerala,India – KOZHIKODE
17th November 2012 08:57 AM
Cashing in on the naivete of uneducated and conservative families, a shocking fraud where lakhs of rupees change hands with each ‘marriage transactions’ has been thriving in Kozhikode for the last few months. Legal experts and women NGOs like Anweshi and NISA are foxed by this alarming new trend in the ‘marriage trade’ where the bride-to-be is required to pay off her husband’s current wife.
They may call it alimony in the civilised world but this is a crude version where the first wife would be lucky to get off with the money her family had paid her husband many years ago. In many cases, these hapless women are coerced to sign for a larger amount while only a fraction of it is actually paid to her. What is more, her husband has no future responsibility to look after the children from the marriage that has thus been annulled.
This is how it operates. A youngster from a relatively poor family manages to find a bride with a substantial dowry, though the word dowry is rarely used. He opens a business or lands a job using this money – he might even manage to go abroad – the thought of acquiring a better social status and a new wife creeps in.
Ambika said that the agreement only serves the interest of the husband as he ensures his former wife does not drag him into trouble.
“What is shocking is the fact that the women come up with complaints not because their husbands divorce them without reason but because this so-called marriage contract has been violated. And, even after registering complaints both parties always try to make a settlement without our knowledge,” says Anitha, senior counsellor with Anweshi in Kozhikode.
Activist V P Suhara, who has been vocal against the misuse of Islamic marriage laws, said that the police cases are rarely registered since the girls are usually minors when they are married off. “If you really want to end the exploitation of Muslim women, make marriage registration mandatory. Now, marriages are properly registered only for official purposes like getting a passport,” she said.
Hi Admin and Satyen,
Thanks for the comments. In fact muslim religion since its inception has been a series of blood shed, cruelty, murder and rape of innocent males, females and children in the name of religion. Those girls who are not educated and below poverty line, still victim of such inhuman treatment worldwise. Those girls who are educated and independent, they do not much believe in the islamic attrocities and choose their own life styles.
The condition of muslim women is the worst through out the world, as compared to any community females. Women are treated sex dolls and in some countries sex is permitted with a dead wife, raping of small girls of 9 years or so, are permitted in the islam.
How an Almighty allow such cruelty against females. It is rightly said that Quran favours, rapist, murderers, criminals, like Talibani and Alquaida and other terrorists groups. Education is a must for women in muslim community and that is why the terrorists and Mullahs and Maulvies do not like education of females.
It feels good to hear from someone who has thought out their life objectively. And who is marrying after meeting and taking consent from family, without fake converting or running away 🙂
Congrats. Hope you too have an awesome life together !
NoorJahan,
It’s exhilarating to you that you have found your soul mate. However, as you are an well educated person, you must guide other gals who are not in so a good situation. Make this world a better place to live by guiding other gals in predicament.
Yes, NoorJahan, other youths would love to hear form you again and again. Please come to guide them.