anu says: September 13, 2014 at 3:08 am
assalam o alaiykum 2 all..i m vry devastd..m a muslim grl..m dating a hndu guy since 2.5 yr..bt sudnly I got 2 knw he is cheatn me..our is a long dstnc rltnshp..i lovd him madly..n he2..i usd 2 fast 4 karva chauth..n vl eat veg on strdy 4 him..cz he used 2sy 2 do so.n he used 2 fast on rmzn..v wr madly in lov wd ech other..
i dnt knw wt hpn dt sudnly he cheatd me..wn I confrntd he gve me lame xcuses..n said if I wn2 blve I cn blve..if nt toh he cnt do nythn..m dvstd..he used 2 abusd me also. bt dn2 I usd 2 lov him..bt on day wn he cheatd me n I cnfrntd him he strtd abusng my parnts also. he strtd clng me slut, prostitute, dwn mrkt grl n aldt..m scatrd. my lyf z brokn..i cnt 4gv him by wt he did 2me.plz hlp me..m d verge of cmitng suicde. m flng so lonely..plz hlp me.. -Anu
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M hindu girl.but Religious koi v ho Hindu muslim sikh etccc.hume kisi v ladki ki jajbaton se uski feelings k Sath khelne ki izzajat NaHi hAiN.agar o pyar nhi karta tumse usne flrt dhoka Kya to usko saja milna chahiye chahe o PM ka beta hi kiu n.a. ho .kisi ko Ye izajat nhi h .i know that hindu muslimuslim its big issue but agar ladka sahi h to usse izzat k sath saadi karta agar ladka galat h to use punishment milna chahiye.thank u nd don’t feel ammbeires .nd m also love muslim boy he loves me more agar usne v khina khi mujhse dhoka kia to use v jarur milegi saja. Achai k Sath acha burai k Sath bura
Hi.. am Hindu my wife is Muslim.. V both in luv past 7 yrs. Nw c use to avoid me fr her family… ND am ready to convert as Muslim .. But c never wanna listen MA words.. cz f her fake luv.. Am worried y I didn’t born as Muslim.. I spared MA carrier, lyf nd family fr her but still c cheating me in name f luv
Rajes,
How did you got married? You did not had nikaah? How does she cheating you? Explain.
anu,
firsh of oll change ur name to real name which u have grownup with. . .
Thank to Allah(s.w.t.) that he has gven punishment in this world itself otherwise think about akhirah. . .how we r gng to hell and burn there for like these mistakes. . .
restart ur life like before in the childhood days. .think of ur parents what they feel about you that u have done a great mistake. . ask to forgiveness and restart ur life. . .
I am sorry, but what rubbish you are talking ? How is marrying a non-muslim a mistake or sin ? Are you in your senses ?
You have been brainwashed into believing improper things in the name of religion.
i think love of any kind is beyond god. the love of mother,love of father, love of nature. do not think a 1sec. we all will come to particle(soil) state. if u cannot be with someone you loved most. u will never enjoy your place in heaven if it exists. and more the difficulties more there is love. bless u all..
ram ram.
khuda hafis
dhan dhan satguru
n my fav. jesus. ?
Best wishes. Come guide other
youths here.
Dear sister anu, first of all, you did a mistake as per islam, but you are lucky that allah gave you punishment in this life, now pray to allah and ask forgiveness, and don`t ever think of commiting suicide, i think you should report in police, coz if anything hapens to hindu girl then they file FIR, then whole media raise up and on the other hand muslim girls and family keep silent, i am tellling you, that you have right to file fir, also bcoz of muslim community and fear of disrespect muslim girls and family don`t go for FIR, i am asking you, why you submitted your will to the will of a mushrik(worst creature), your will must be submitted to the will of god,allah not a mushrik.
Anyway, contact me , like my page and i will help you, i helped many muslim non muslim boys and girls through my fb account, now i have Facebook page mac is here
I am sorry, but what rubbish you are talking ? How is marrying a non-muslim a mistake or sin ? Are you in your senses ?
You have been brainwashed into believing improper things in the name of religion.
Sourabh, is eating of cow meat allowed or not
Life is greatest gift one can have , don’t waste it on a cheater and looser .Every one suffers from pain and sorrows in their life . Give a another chance to your life and make something positive out of it .
Just get seperated , time will eventually heal you
Fully agree. Life should not be spent on a cheater.
Anu,
Life is too precious, don’t commit suicide for sake of a cheater. Abuse is not acceptable, he should not be using such wrong words in any circumstance. If there is any physical abuse, call local police immediately. If the man has such personality, how can you think of spending whole life with him? How can you trust him in the future? As hard it may be, try to get over this and forget him.
Which country are you from? Hindu-Muslim relationships are not easy, not in any country. How your parents will react when they find out that their Muslim daughter is in love with a Hindu? If all works out, how are you planning to get married, Islamic Nikaah or Hindu wedding? Keep in touch!
admin v bth r 4rm india..my parnts dnt knw abt our rltnshp..bt my bf told me dt his mom knws abt us.frst she ws vry angry n blckmaild my bf dt if evr he marid me she vl cmit suicide.bt dn slwly she is xcptng our rltnshp.bt I dnt knw eithr dz is true or my bf ws jst playng wd my flngs..n wnevr he usd 2 abuse me he usd 2sy dt he is realsng his angr..i knw dz iz stupid xcuses..i dnt knw hw 2 heal dz wound…i knw it vl tke tym bt r8 nw its kilng me..i dnt knw wt 2do..
Anu,
Marriage is a life long commitment and it takes a lot to make it work. Divorce rates, especially in the West, are lots more than 50%. For these reasons, don’t make life decisions out of emotions but be rational.
It is critical to know what type of person he is. Look for any negative signs in his personality. If he is not trust worthy and not honest, that should be warning signs. It is only you who will know if he is a perfect match for you or not.
Now come to religion. Are you a practicing Muslim? Are you okay marrying to a kafir-Hindu? What Islam, Koran and Muhammad’s messages mean to you? Are you expecting him to convert to Islam for Nikaah?