ezgi says: December 20, 2013 at 4:23 am
Why cant people get a bit familiarized with something before they come to judgments? I could not believe some of what I read. I am a Muslim girl and I am currently working on getting my PhD, after receiving 2 undergraduate educations in 2 countries, and a master’s degree as well. So it is not true that all muslims are against women’s rights and women’s education. I meet friends, I have dated 4 men so far (I am 27), I go dancing, I go to beaches wearing my bikini, I travel around the world when I find time.
People, please do understand that just like every religion, Islam has some perverted, un or under-educated fools who do not respect others. There are such people who make women’s lives a living hell, but please do not generalize. I am not sure what happened to the sister who originally posted the question, but all I can hope is that she is happy with whatever decision she had to make.
Different education level seemed to be the issue in her post. It can get really difficult when two people are not at the same intellectual level. This is an area to consider. Sure, some people get be very level-headed and have strong personalities even though they are not highly educated, but you just need to make sure you guys have that kind of compatibility.
The most important is; Get to know your partner. People tend to behave perfectly well until they get what they want and change afterwards – however, this is not related to the teachings of a religion, a country, or a philosophy. Some people are selfish. Please stop judging based on religion, nationality, or race. After all, we are all people living on the same Earth, breathing the same air, enjoying the same Sun, dreaming under the same Moon. Please dont refuse to come together and enjoy the life together. Please dont live in a shell and deny the happiness the mix of cultures often do bring. -Ezgi
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Dear Ezgi,
We are glad to hear from you. You are lucky to get such a top level education. Congratulations and best wishes for your thesis.
You have to understand that there are some people like Mr. Haque who defines Islam for the rest of Muslims. In response to that, moderates like you, do not speak out. We understood what Mr. Haque says. How would you define Islam (not exceptions but rules)?
Please come here to educate others.