JIGAR says: May 22, 2021
I love one muslim girl. She also love me but whenever i am talking about our about marriage she refuses because for her i am Hindu. I love her lot, can’t leave her. I don’t know what to do? Please give me suggestions. -Jigar
JIGAR says: June 7, 2021
Yes, she says that if i accept islam we can easily get married. I don’t have any problem with that because i love her so much. But i don’t know what would be happened in future. My family is religious but i am not. Even i don’t know how to be a muslim and how’s the life of muslims. We can live together where she want i have no problem with that I want solution of my problem. –Jigar
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Dear Jigar, Congratulations for having a soul mate and wish you really happy life together. Your commitment to your soul mate to convert to her religion Islam is commendable sacrifice.
You are the best judge for your own situation and no one but yourself can make better decision for your future. Only you know how your family and your in-Laws family will remain connected with you or not.
I suggest that you also learn that in India, the court and justice system has no jurisdiction on marriage/divorce process for Muslims. Muslims have their own community Kazis, Mufties and Maulvies who run court cases pass on verdicts. Ref. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=avxdNK1c44k Muslim Nikah Laws
As converted Muslim, you should read Quran and learn how to pray.
I myself was surprised and amazed how ignorant I was about Islam until I recently learned about Islam from Ex-Muslim men and women on social media.
They make presentation of actual stories of their own Muslim life. This would give you enough knowledge to guide you to live happy Muslim life.Ex-Muslims are reading Quran as it is for the audience.
You will learn about your future life as Muslim.
You may yourself go to youtube.com, Then search for “Ex-Muslim” inside of Youtube.com website. You may also search “Amina Saedar”, “Heris Sultan”,
1. https://www.youtube.com/user/mahleejsarkari1
2. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCZQG9IlFyCv2xINrMaulw9g – Harris Sultan
3. https://www.youtube.com/channel/UC_Mg7qWwR5dWI3groLtttwg – amina sardar
4. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=n_hUrPxq-6Y – wonderful and peaceful Islam
5. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=tglQViO9Muc – Mohammed and Allah is of Islam.
The India laws on Islam are giving more rights to men in having up to 4 wives and divorcing wife by simply saying the words Tallaque. You will have more authority than your wife in all aspects of marriage life.
Congratulations and good luck.
..Dahyabhai Patel
Jigar you are in ONE way love. She wants you to disconnect from dharmic roots as a condition.
Now options
1. Tell her to change her name, adopt a Hindu name as a precondition for marriage.
Say Lakshmi, Parvati or Lalita..etc
2. Only Hindu marriage should be done…and kids will grow up as hindus..
Marry her only after 1,2….this not about you..it is for your kids.
Yes, she says that if i accept islam we can easily get married
I don’t have any problem with that because i love her so much
But i don’t know what would be happened in future.
My family is religious but i am not,
Even i don’t know how to be a muslim and how’s the life of muslims.
We can live together where she want i have no problem with that
I want solution of my problem.
Generally we recommend no fake-conversion. View more here… https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=v6Kargg-3CE . Let us know if it makes sense to lie?
Let’s assume you become a Muslim today, for your love. You got married with her and have 2 children. Ten years down the road, can you sit down with your children and teach them what Koran says about Hindus? (read https://interfaithshaadi.org/koran-on-hindus/) Let know which one of these statements in the Koran that you don’t agree to?
Jigar,
Did you ask her if she can convert to Hinduism? If not, then this marriage is unfortunately a reverse Love jihaad (where girls of Muslim religion marry other religions and dharma to increase their population). Please be cautious! Interfaith marriages can be for many reasons, conversion and increasing numbers is one of the topmost one because Quran says so.
If I were you, I would walk out of this interfaith tie up and rather marry one of our own.
Also, interfaith marriage isn’t easy as families can’t get together well. There will always be a ‘choosing a side’ with these kind of marriages. Also, after kids, it gets very different and difficult.
In your case, when girl already has a condition of your conversion to Islam, it’s clearly not out of love marriage.
Hi Jigar,
She has no problem dating you as a Hindu, why is she refusing marrying you because you are a Hindu? Is she giving you hint that you have to convert to Islam? Is she a love-jihadi type person? Is your parents and community okay with you converting? After marriage, are you planning to go live with her parents, is she planning to come and live with your parents or you both are planning to live separately from both parents? Let us know and we can guide you further. Thank you.