If you are a Muslim guy in relationship with a Hindu, Sikh, Jain, or Buddhist, this is the site that has lots of information for you. [If you are not a Muslim boy, visit Hindu girl, Hindu boy, Muslim girl for more relevant message for you]
Right or wrong, but she and her family may be stereotyping you based on what they have learned from the media about Muslim boys. They have heard this enough times like advise given to Muslims by Amir, “Don’t believe in Kafir girls, Do whatever comes in your mind if she is with you, but always choose a Muslim girl for marriage.”
Not any two relationships are the same. It is possible that you may be dating her …..
1) (like Salman and SRK) after getting into love, you were sincere for your love and do not feel right to ask her for religious conversion,
2) you may have got attracted to her innocently and may continue the romantic relationship without thinking too seriously. But in the end, if she does not convert to Islam you will walk away from the relationship,
3) you may be Sikh-meat love-Jihadi out love-proselytizing, or
4) you have a clear intention of cheating her (read Dara), telling her what she wants to hear as far as she lets you milk her and later dump her. If you are a con-artist just out having fun with innocent girls, there is nothing much we could say. However, your actions do create a bad name for other good Muslim boys and Islam.
It is cool to act secular and non-religious in colleges. During your dating period, you may keep convincing the Hindu (or Christian, Jain, Sikh) that you don’t have to convert, you respect her religion, there is only one God so why to fight for it, I don’t give a damn what my Muslim society would say, I am tired of my own society, we are victim of the media but is not true, etc. You may be sincere saying all these at this stage, but did not realized reality of your life. So, after years of romantic relationship, under pressure from your parents and Islamic society, now you may change your tune …Sorry it is my dad…, I did not knew this is coming…, just do for heck of it, …shahadah does not mean anything,..everyone does that,…I will let you practice your religion even after conversion, I truly respect Hindus but you convert, why can’t you convert for our love?, you are creating problems by not converting,…if you convert I will marry you today, ……bottom line…..CONVERT, CONVERT, CONVERT or else I am walking away.
How about fake-conversion? Just to please imams and parents, why not Hindu fake-convert to Islam (but you will allow her to practice her faith behind doors)? Answer to that is…why to make lies and deception a foundation of your married life? If she doesn’t have intention of following Islam, why to fool Allah, Islamic institutions, imams, your Muslim relatives, and most important, to you? How could you trust someone who can give up her religion as easily as changing her hair colour (read Vikas)? You both will ultimately pay severe price for this fake-conversion. In the end, she will curse you for making her do that she had no intention of (read Nirmla, Madiha, Anita, Roma, Anita, Leona, Loving a Muslim, ).
Let us give you other similar examples. We know a (former) Hindu girl who performs Krishna pooja every day in her home, while her Paki in-laws think she is a Muslim and are very proud of her. Another Muslim guy, married to a Hindu, greets all Hindu relatives saying “Jay Shree Krishna”!! Salman (not Khan) said, “My own father, despite reading Quran everyday and praying 5 times, sits with my (Sikh) wife whom he loves as a daughter and even takes her to the Gurdwara.” Though these are very honorable thoughts, are you really a true pluralist and ready for it?
This World is for every one; be that Muslims, Hindus, Christians, Jews, Jains and atheists. However, every religious leaders tries to prove that only they have the true religion and others are wrong. Religious institutions have vested interest that division should continue among people, otherwise they will not have money to pay their utility bills. Don’t get trapped into religious leader’s problems, think what is right to do.
We are not here to tell you what you should and should not do. It is your life and your decision, make an “informed” decision. -Best wishes.
Read these guy’s posts and comments provided therein.
| Guy | Details | Conversion?* | Status?* |
|---|---|---|---|
| Dating time | Haider | How to convince my Muslim parents? | No? | ? | Imran Khan | I m a muslim in love with a Jain girl | No | ? | G | A Sikh girl who has converted | Yes | 🙁 | Tajiddin | Muslim: mai ek hindu girl se love kart a hu | ? | ? | Mohan | Muslim: Do I need to convert to Hinduism? | No | ? | Zain Khan | I denounced Islam | No | 🙂 | Alex | I am a Muslim and love Christian girl | No | 🙂 | Married | Salman | Sikh-Muslim marriage with equality | No | 🙂 | Divorced |
* These expectation of conversion and status of the blogger is arbitrary based on limited information provided. It is highly recommended to read individual full story to make your own assessment.
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In a Hindu-Muslim interfaith relationship, it is always the muslim guy or girl who needs to convert to Hinduism. Hindu girls must be very clear that unless the muslim guy wholeheartedly denounces islam and accepts Hinduism, she must not get into a relationship. Marriage must be performed only under provisions of The Hindu Marriage Act, 1955. Also, Hindu girls must make it very clear to the guy that their children shall only be following Hinduism. If the muslim guy cannot leave his religion then his love is fake and his intentions are not honourable.
On “it is always the muslim guy or girl who needs to convert to Hinduism” do you have any fact to support your claim?
Itni comments Mai koi bhi Muslim ladki ne ye nahi kaha Ki mai ek Hindu ladke se love karti hoo ya marriage karna chahti hoo. Hindu girls are Blind
I am a Hindu girl and want to get marry a Muslim guy we both love each other ….but my age is 17 and his 20..and our parents are also not agreed… I will cnvrt to Islam ….but we CNT wait to become my age 18 …so what should we do now….pls suggest us smith
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Deepika, wait until you are older and legally allowed to marry. What’s your hurry? Do you know this man and his family enough? Will your parents be OK with you being a Muslim? (I am a Muslim myself)
Just make sure you have thought a lot before entering into any marriage with any guy, Muslim or Hindu. You are very young.
My name is pri n m a Hindu girl..working in an mnc.der s dis guy named afzal ..after few daysof our training he proposed me in starting I said no den he started torturin me like say yes otherwise ill die ill jump from terrace of our offc building…dat was my first job n was in fear to lose it if my parents will get to know about that….so I said yes…than it was goin smooth we used to tk daily …he promised me he will b always there wid me …he promised me that watsoever happens ill marry u n i seriously love you …n he also told me a good story that his mother passed away n he lives with his aunt..i trusted him …n out of sympathy I was also attracted to him….after 4months of our relationship he got married to other Muslim girl n reason he gave that if I said no to maariagemy mother would have died …I left him I hate him .there s a good suggestion like no Hindu should fall in love with Muslim coz we can accept muskims bt no Muslim can accept us without conversion…there should b a law that no Hindu should fall in love with a Muslim or vice versa …coz everyone know where it leads to..thatsmy story.
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Raja,
Are you in an interfaith relationship? Can you give us more details so we could help you?
I m muslim in love with a hindu girl.Can you give us more details to help you?
You have already read above article, let us know if you wish her to convert to Islam? Why? Can you provide more details of your relationship?
I m muslim in love with a jain girl
Imran,
Can you give us more details to help you?
U CONVERT UR LOVER TO ISLAM
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Hi,
I have just told my aunt about my 34yr old muslim bf(as my parents passed away a few yrs ago), I am a 25yr old Hindu girl in a relationship with a turkish muslim boy. I have asked for her guidance whether me and him should even think of getting married. A little background: We have been good friends for 2yrs now, and live separate, he doesnt expect me to convert ever, and I have confirmed this with his parents. However he is economically and academically from a weaker background, so I understand that I too will be working and he is ok with that. I told my aunt truthfully that we are friends and as he has asked me I need her guidance on whether it will be good or not to go ahead with this relationship. I am scared to hurt anyone in my family and also dont want to make a decision that will hurt anyone. But I do know the issue about his economic and academic situation is going to be a big issue apart from the fact he is muslim (as he wont ask me to convert). I wanted some insight into this as I dont want to hurt anyone and also want some clearer perspective if its a good idea to take things forward. I have also requested my aunt to speak to him next week sometime when we both meet. She seemed a little apprehensive but was happy I shared this with her.
Reply to Shalz at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=2913