raju says: December 25, 2017 at 8:42 am
Hello sir
Meri gf hm dono ek dusre se bhut pyar krte h ek dusre ke bina nhi rh skte but problem ye he ki meri gf Muslim he or ME hindu ye smaj hme accept kbhi nhi krega hum dono ek dusre se sadi krna chate he sir pr meri gf bol rhi h mujhe islam religion ko kabul krna pdega sbke samne bhle aap Uandr se jo Hindu ho jinko mante ho unko mano Sir ME bhut depression ME aagya hu kyoki ME uske bina nhi rh skta OR ME hindu tha hu OR rhna chahunga ME kya kru Sir kbhi to lgta he me susite kr lu kosis bhi kiya pr fir meri family ka OR meri hoNE wali life patnar yane meri gf ka face samne aajata he sir plz plz plz kuch solution dijiye kya kru –Raju
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Hi admin, i did not find how to post any query section. Here is my issue and badly i want some help.
I am from Gujarat, a Hindu guy and my gf is muslim. I have been in relationship in more than 2 years. We want to get married but not without parents permission. I told everything to my parents. They said either choos girl or us. I want both. What can I do. We love eachother so much. Please help
If the girl had loved Raju from her heart, she would not have asked for religious conversion. In this case, i think religion is more superior to the girl which overrides the love she has for Raju. She is demanding for religious conversion which is not right. If no islamic wedding it would mean no marriage.I would suggest Raju to stay away from this girl for few months with a change in daily routine and see how it goes. If she changes her attitude, so be it. Otherwise move on.
Also Calm down and spend more time with your family and share your thoughts with close family and friends. Do not hide this depression within yourself. Depression can make you do harm to yourself.
bhag jaiye nahi to bhul jaiye.lakin bhag kar kaha tak jayenge?
hamari samaj manne ke liye taiyar hi nahi hai aise rishte ko,agar ap convert bhi ho jao to bhi khatra lagi rahegi o bhi jaan ki.
sal tak ek sath rehne ke bad chorni padi meri boyfriend ko,agar un logon ka baat nehi mani to mujhe janse mar degi,thik hai mar do,lekin is mai khatam nehi,jisko ap piyar karte hai usko bhi nehi chorenge,kiyun ki hamari samaj ko sirf muslim hindu najar ate hai,du insaan ke bich mai piyar ke bade mai unko koi fadak nehi padti hai.aur suicide itna ashan hoti to mai kab kar chuki hoti.lakin life barbad karne mai kiya faida?agar aise hoti ap suicide karne ke bad un logo ko daya hoga ap par to bhi ek baat thi,ye samaj dharm ki bare mai itni andhe hai suicide kiya,agar ap aag me khud ke jan de do sabke akhon ke samne to bhi unko koi fadak nehi padegi,kiyun ki iye ritirevaj ke khelaf hai,pyar bade nehi hai,sirf ritirevaj aur dharm bade hoti hai.
Life is precious, do not talk of suicide. That is not an option. Think rationally and keep all practical points in mind and take a rational decision.
Preeti ji koi ni maarega … kisi ki itni himmat nahi hai.. bhag ke kisi ache shaher mein aa jaye koi kuch nahi ukhaad payega… kisi ache lawyer se sampark kare.. jinse dar hai apko unke khilaf police staion me ek notice de doge to koi kuch nhi kr payega.. saari karwaayi kaanooni tarike se kare shadi bhi.. sab thik hoga kisi ki himmat ni hogi
Hi Raju,
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What does your gf said when you said “ME hindu tha hu OR rhna chahunga.” Is she out to convert you? If she wanted a Muslim boy, why she fall in love with you? After marriage, where are you planning to live; with her parents, your parents or on your own place? Let us know, thanks.
There is no reason to be depressed. You love her as much as she loves you. There is no reason to ask any one to convert, unless she is a love-Jihadi.
Raju ji agar convert ho gaye us ladki ke liye to maa kasam insaan ke naam pe dhabba ban jaoge usi din… mai islye nahi keh raha kyuki mai khud ek hindu hu.. mai bss insaaniyat ke naate keh raha hu.. i am sorry to say that agr vo ladki kehti hai k muslim ban jao to shadi kruga ..
agar mai hota to kehta aap hi nikal lo yaha se.. sir pyar me kbhi condition nahi hoti sirf pyar hota hai.. or wse bhi agar conversion ki hi baat hai to use hona chahye aapko nahi kyuki shadi ke baad ladki ko ghar aana hota hai vo aapke ghar aayegi aap uske ghar nahi jaoge sir… or ek baat meri bhi gf ek muslim hai meri bhi shadi nahi ho paa rhi h hmare relation ko 8 year ho gye hai.. family khilaf hai samaaj khilaf hai koi maanne ko tyar nahi hai but still we are trying… lekin humne kbi ek dusre koi convert hone ko nahi kaha or naahi koi conditions rakhi.. kyuki conditions pe rishte nahi banaye jaate sir… or agr bane to sab khrab hoga fir aap kuch badal nahi paoge… islye pareshan mat ho thode hard decision lene ka time aa gya hai.. nahi maan rhe to bhaag jao… bhaag nahi sakte to chod do.. your wellwisher mai samajh sakta hu ap kis situation se guzar rhe ho..god bless you