Prof. Sultana says: March 18, 2013 at 9:31 am
Hi Admn.
I wish to share my life story. I am Prof. and Head of the Department in an Paramedical college (age 36 yrs). Earlier married with a muslim guy but had to divorce him soon because of certain restrictions he wanted to impose. Now I am in love with a Hindu Prof. of the same college and also Head of the Dept. of another stream. We both are going to marry on Baishakhi day next month and thereafter shall register our marriage.
Your observations and suggestions are welcome please.
Regards. -Prof. Sultana
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Zunaid,
I am from Birmigham UK.In birmingham anImam was caught having sex with a minor in a mosque.Ppolice have arrested the imam and remanded him in custody.Investigations were made and later he confessed that he has raped so many girls in the mosque and also sodomized minor boys. He was later awarded rigorous imprisonment before that he made several statements that Kuran allows sexual relations with minor, which judged to accept.
Perhaps you need same treatment behind the bars.
Hi Zunaid,
you are talking about so many stern punishments for those who have prenatal and outside wedlock sex. If it is no, why Imams, Maulvies and Mullas indulge in such inhuman activities?
May be provision in the islamic relgion for such punishment, but reality is different totally. Misinterpretation of Kuran verses/texts are misused against females, as described by some writers against your own mother?
@all the muslim haters
sex outside marriage is haram in islam and thouse who do sex outside marriage will get 100 lashes as punishment if they are unmarried and if they are married and do sex outside wedlock their punishment is to stone to death. If someone cannot stand againest sexiual desires he should marry and prevent himself/herself from commiting this crime. It is foolishness of islamic haters they take hadiths againest islam as hadiths may be true or false as they are written centuries after prophet death . May be these hadiths are written so that it may help them for their cultural practice. If people want to know about islam they should go islamic site instead going antiislamic site like this
Hi Zunaid,
I read through one of the blogs that your mother was married several times on mutta marriages and you were born out of those sexual encounters.
I understand that bride has to prove virgiity on the wedding night. If you dont mind, how she managed to prove her virginity every time on the wedding night to show blood stains for display in the morning?
Is it not an evil practice in your religion? How do you comment being the son of a such victim of evils?
Mr.Zunaid,
Islam owns the sexual organs of every Muslim man and woman in this universe, all of it, including even the pubic hairs that grow there! Here is what the ahadith say about how to manage a woman’s pubic hair.
Wife must shave pubic hair if husband returns home at night after a long journey…7.62.173
Sahih Bukhari:Volume 7, Book 62, Number 173:
Narrated Jabir bin ‘Abdullah:
The Prophet said, “If you enter (your town) at night (after coming from a journey), do not enter upon your family till the woman whose husband was absent (from the house) shaves her pubic hair and the woman with unkempt hair, combs her hair” Allah’s Apostle further said, “(O Jabir!) Seek to have offspring, seek to have offspring!”
Five practices of fitra 1. Circumcision; 2. Shaving pubic region; 3. Clipping nails 4. Cutting mustache short; 5. Removal of arm pit hair…7.72.777
Sahih Bukhari: Volume 7, Book 72, Number 777:
Narrated Abu Huraira:
Allah’s Apostle said, “Five practices are characteristics of the Fitra: circumcision, shaving the pubic region, clipping the nails and cutting the moustaches short.”
One may wonder why Allah is so free to look into what a human possess between his/her two thighs. We always thought Allah has more important affairs to attend to!
If you ever thought that Allah gave you the sexual organ for your use as per your desire, then perish that thought. From birth to death, from adulthood to old age, from house to desert, every aspect of the use of your very own private part is controlled by innumerable, mindless, cruel and oftentimes utterly despicable Islamic rules as written in the Sha’ria, the so-called divine laws of Allah. One may legitimately ask why Sha’ria does not control the use of sexual organs of animals like cows, goats, horses, pigs, lions, tigers, birds, snakes, turtles and all other species that engage in copulation for fun and/or reproduction. It looks as if the animals have much more freedom on sexual activities than the human beings—the best creation of Allah! Please give a serious thought on this and you cannot but be amazed by the downright infringement by Islam on the very basic right of a human being which is his/her privacy. The extreme barbarism in Islam to control the innate, natural and instinctive sexual desire and its joy is particularly aimed at keeping the virginity of women intact at all cost even going to the extreme of execution of a woman who dare to express her sexual desire in an un-Islamic (read pre-marital or otherwise) way.
One may wonder why Islam is so utterly obsessed with the virginity of women. I often thought about this after I came to the infidel land. In this land of ‘sinners’ and ‘prostitutes’ and ‘sluts,’ sex between consenting adults is not viewed as a crime, although application of physical force for carnal gratification may constitute a serious act of violence, which may carry prison sentence. In an Islamic paradise, on the other hand, sex between two opposite partners (or same sex partners) is absolutely haram whether consensual or not. More importantly, sexual gratification by a woman outside the bond of marriage is completely forbidden. Many Muslims who come to live in a western society will have great difficulty in understanding the values and ethos upon which their (the so called infidel west) concept of sexuality of men and women are based upon. To these Muslim men, most women who indulge in sex before their marriage are prostitutes, harlots, and whores and are available for an easy lay. That is why a lot of devout Muslim men have a hard time to have easy and professional relations with the western/infidel women they meet. For a Muslim man, a non-virgin woman is totally unthinkable for his consideration of marriage. These infidel women are for having a good time and for ‘one-night stand’ only. According to Islam, an unmarried woman must keep her sexual and reproductive organ in complete lock under any and all circumstances till she gets married. I gave a deep pondering over this issue of blatant deprivation of sexual joy in the name of Allah and religion. Then, while examining the Sahi Bukhari and Sahi Muslim, the most authentic of all ahadith, I came across with the following gems of ahadith. I found the reason why Allah is so paranoid on keeping intact the virginity of women at all times before marriage. Let us read these ahadith.
Sahih Bukhari Volume 7, Book 62, Number 16:
Narrated Jabir bin Abdullah:
While we were returning from a Ghazwa (Holy Battle) with the Prophet, I started driving my camel fast, as it was a lazy camel A rider came behind me and pricked my camel with a spear he had with him, and then my camel started running as fast as the best camel you may see. Behold! The rider was the Prophet himself. He said, ‘What makes you in such a hurry?” I replied, I am newly married ” He said, “Did you marry a virgin or a matron? I replied, “A matron.” He said, “Why didn’t you marry a young girl so that you may play with her and she with you?” When we were about to enter (Medina), the Prophet said, “Wait so that you may enter (Medina) at night so that the lady of unkempt hair may comb her hair and the one whose husband has been absent may shave her pubic region.
Sahih Bukhari Volume 3, Book 38, Number 504:
Narrated Jabir bin ‘Abdullah:
I was accompanying the Prophet on a journey and was riding a slow camel that was lagging behind the others. […] When we approached Medina, I started going (towards my house). The Prophet said, “Where are you going?” I said, “I have married a widow.” He said, “Why have you not married a virgin to fondle with each other?”[…]
Sahih Muslim Book 008, Number 3459:
Jabir b. ‘Abdullah (Allah be pleased with them) reported: I married a woman, whereupon Allah’s Messenger (may peace be upon him) said to me: Have you married? I said: Yes. He said: Is it a virgin or a previously married one (widow or divorced)? I said: With a previously married one, whereupon he said: Where had you been (away) from the amusements of virgins? Shu’ba said: I made a mention of it to ‘Amr b. Dinar and he said: I too heard from Jabir making mention of that (that Allah’s Apostle) said: Why didn’t you marry a girl, so that you might sport with her and she might sport with you?
Please read those three ahadith once again. What picture do we get of a husband who is gracious enough in marrying a widow? Now contrast this with the recommendation of Muhammad (pbuh), the Prophet of Islam. What picture do we get of a husband who is obsessed in marrying a virgin possibly a very young virgin for that matter? Yes, it is the picture of a husband who is a molester, a sexual molester per se, if we say it bluntly. Remember, this is the recommendation from the messenger of Allah, who, himself had only one virgin girl in his harem. He must have found it exceedingly fun to be married with a very young virgin girl. This kind of child/female/sexual molestation must have the seal of approval of Allah, the almighty. Can this pleasure of sexual molestation be the real reason for Allah’s absolute obsession with the virginity of young women? Can it be that Allah, Himself loves to fondle the virgins, since we read in the Quran that He has an abundant supply of virgin houris for His followers of Islam? Here are a few samples of verses from the holy Qur’an to demonstrate Allah’s total fascination with the virginity of women.
044.051 As to the Righteous (they will be) in a position of Security,
044.052 Among Gardens and Springs;
044.053 Dressed in fine silk and in rich brocade, they will face each other;
044.054 So; and We shall join them to fair women with beautiful, big, and lustrous eyes.
055.056 In them will be (Maidens), chaste, restraining their glances, whom no man or Jinn before them has touched;-
055.057 Then which of the favours of your Lord will ye deny?-
055.058 Like unto Rubies and coral.
055.072 Companions restrained (as to their glances), in (goodly) pavilions;-
055.073 Then which of the favours of your Lord will ye deny?-
055.074 Whom no man or Jinn before them has touched;-
055.075 Then which of the favours of your Lord will ye deny?-
056.035: We have created (their Companions) of special creation.
056.036 And made them virgin – pure (and undefiled), –
056.037 Beloved (by nature), equal in age,-
056.038 For the Companions of the Right Hand.
078.031 Verily for the Righteous there will be a fulfilment of (the heart’s) desires;
078.032 Gardens enclosed, and grapevines;
078.033 And voluptuous women of equal age;
078.034 And a cup full (to the brim).
Now you know why one must marry a virgin and a very young woman, for that matter. Yes, it is for fun and pleasure, similar to the enjoyment that Allah enjoys and has reserved for the ‘true’ believers in His paradise.
One-night stand
Who needs sex in a hurry but does not want to go through the elaborate ritual of marriage and the payment of expensive dower? Of course, many people would love to have this kind of quickie sex without much obligations. No wonder that there are so many women engaged in the world’s oldest profession just to meet this demand from depraved men. In modern parlance, we call it ‘one-night’ stand. Believe it or not, Islam has its equivalence too!
The Islamic counterpart of one-night stand is known as the M’uta marriage. In this kind of contract marriage, a man simply contracts a woman to sleep with him for a brief period only. Although the Sunnis have banned the M’uta system, it is very much in practice among the Shiites. It is quite possible to have a M’uta marriage every night and kick the woman out next morning. There is no need of divorce in a M’uta marriage. This type of marriage is a contract to sleep together and that is all. Also, remember that though there is a restriction of up to four permanent wives at any time, there is no such restriction on the number of temporary wives that one can have at any given moment. In modern language, we call this ‘one night stand’. M’uta marriage has absolutely no time limit either. So, “one-night’s play” is perfectly Islamic. With M’uta system, it is possible to have unlimited, non-stop sex round the clock. It is stated that Imam Hasan, the grandson of Muhammad (pbuh) collected up to three hundred sex partners (the Islamic terminology is temporary wives) besides his regular wives, to have one-night stand with them. Imam Hasan was definitely an Islamic ‘Playboy’ of his time. No doubt about it! See, how clever of Islam to have solution even for the playboys of their Ummah.
Hello Admn.
What qualities you find in Zunaid for his excellent point? What point he has got to write, only against evil practices prevalent and forced to crush muslim females. I am sure he is criminal, terrorist, jihadi, murder and a blot in the name of mankind. He is really bastard, does not understand that despite so called good things, why women are tortured by mutta marriages, FGM, Halala,Burqa, no education, domestic violence no freedom of movement, virginity proof? His sisters and mother must have faced such situation and even then this bastard, madharchod, does not understand and accept.
There is no doubt now that sultana is not muslim and the story she posted is fake. She is herself educated and are saying that islam prevents women from education a great joke ha ha ha. Go to hell bastards idiots…..your place will be hell.
Hi Junaid,
Is your language Islamic? As you consider yourself a Muslim, I believe that your expression is guided by Islamic tenets. I am thankful to the God/Allah he has kept me aloof from Islam so that I may not use that type of language what you have lately using against the creation of Allah.
Allah/God/Ishwar and only He/She is supreme. No crutches of any so called prophets/middlemen is required for His blessings.
Well, we said, “Here Junaid made an excellent point and, if you are a true Muslim, you should be concerned about your AFTER life.”
It is up to you to decide what type of Muslim you are or even if you are a Muslim at all. If you are a TRUE Muslim, follower of the book, Muhammad, teachings in Hadith, Sharia laws and believer in the AFTER life, yes one has to be like Junaid. We are glad you are different.
First all the bastards(islamic haters) listen i had already givenexplanation that islam did not permit to beat wife. These bastards are using the quran passage that quran allows man to have 4 wives while not for women. Yes It is given bastards but it depends upon women whether she allows man to havefour wives or not. If a woman knows that a man is already married what is the reason she marries a man who is already married. Now who is responsiblefor polygamy of man it is only women who wants to become 2nd 3rd or 4th wife of a man who is already married.
These bastards are saying that islam encourages mutta marriage but these bastards do not know that this marriage is already banned in islam. Ok if mutta marriage is happned in some parts of islamic countries but who is responsible. If a women knows that this marriage will last for 4 months or more why she do this marriage and then start saying that islam oppress women. These bastards are saying that muslim girls are not allowed to get education. Bastards tell me where it is written in quran thatwomen should not get education. Instead of it it is given in hadith that it is duty of every muslims to get educated. Now if women are not allowed to get education why you bastards are blaming islam it is there culture not islam. Women do not get education in afghantstan due to terrorist organisation taliban which is creation of america.
Then start saying islam did not allow women to get educated.
Bastards are blaming islam that women is sexiual object and sheshould fill sexiual desire of husband at any condition while there is no need of husband to fill sexiual desires of wife but these bastards forget
…And Women Shall Have Rights Over MenSimilar To Those For Men Over Women.
( Surah 2: Ayah 228). If this is allowed what is the need of above ayah in quran. Above ayah of quran gives that rights of women to demand sex from husband as it is given to husband to demand sex from wife.
Bastards are blaming islam on FGM but these bastards did not that FGM IS NOT ISLAMIC CONCEPTBUT IT IS CULTURE vist
http://www.google.com/url?q=http://www.juragentium.org/topics/women/en/touzenis.htm&sa=U&ei=tYhJUf6KN6eniQK-v4C4Bw&ved=0CDEQFjAIOBQ&usg=AFQjCNF4hu2motoCbuX1tNUBmeTca11xYQ
this site will show that fgm is not islamic
What is in quran rules we have to follow not to argue those who do arguement and he/she become non Muslim mind it no one has rights to say anything about allah rules and almighty aallah is always right n no is perfect ain his judgement.learn n teach as per quran
PROSTITUTION BY ANY OTHER NAME: MUTA MARRIAGE
“Muta Marriage” is a short term contractual relationship, lasting hours or a few days, where the man gives something of value to a woman and they “marry” and engage in sex for an agreed length of time. Once the contractual time expires the marriage is over and they go their own ways. This is legalized Islamic prostitution. Men get satisfaction and women get something of value, be it money, or clothing, or even a Quranic recital.
Narrated Abdullah: We used to participate in the holy wars carried on by the Prophet and we had no women (wives) with us. So we said (to the Prophet ). “Shall we castrate ourselves?” But the Prophet forbade us to do that and thenceforth he allowed us to marry a woman (temporarily) by giving her even a garment, and then he recited: “O you who believe! Do not make unlawful the good things which Allah has made lawful for you.” Bukhari: Volume 6, Book 60, Number 139.
Temporary “Muta” marriage is practiced today and often arranged by Imams and other Islamic leaders in Europe (the city centre’s where Shia Muslims cluster), America (Shia parts of Dearborn, Michigan), and of course in the Mideast. The most common victims of Muta marriage are destitute widows and orphaned girls who are sold to old men. These females are driven to extreme means to pay rent and feed themselves and their children. These females are abused by both the men who purchase them and the Islamic leaders. Muhammad’s system allows them to be abandoned and then exploited rather than responding with charity and compassion.
Sunni Muslims do not normally practice Muta marriage. But many Sunni Muslims today are ashamed of what Muhammad did because they know that Muhammad allowed prostitution to satisfy his men’s wants. And that’s the same story with Muhammad again and again. Like Felix and his bag of tricks, Muhammad always managed to pull a “revelation” out of thin air and change the rules of the game. If one reads the “Sirat Rasulallah”, (“The Life of Muhammad”, by A. Guillaume), one will find that Muhammad allowed, then disallowed, then allowed, then disallowed Muta marriage, etc. several times. Muhammad’s rules and religion depended on circumstances, not on God’s will.
Thank you Admn.
It is a fact now that educated and independent women do not want to lead a restricted life in muslim community. If restrictions are women, why not for males. They enjoy all kids of liberty in sex, no virginity proof, no burqa etc. God is every where and he knows every thing who is criminal, who is cruel against mankind not to allow women to have basic freedoms of life.
Perhaps Zunaid is also Imam some where and using children and women for his selfish gains. Hell fire will burn to the persons like him.
Hell fire is meant for Zunaid, Suhail, Aamira and maulvies and imams, who are responsible for the pathetic positon of muslim women.
Every one is euqal in the eyes of Almighty and fear of Hell fire is created to dominate women.
Dear Rehana !
100% Agree With You.
GOD bless You. Be Happy. Keep Smile 🙂
You cannot marry if you belive in teaching of islam and want to remain muslim. As muslims cannot marry non muslims. If you as other fake muslims in this site do not believe in teaching of islam then you are not muslim and you can marry that hindu and you will both go to hell as all non muslims will go there where you and husbend will be firewood for hell
vist
http://womeninislam.ws
Professor Sultana,
Here Junaid made an excellent point and, if you are a true Muslim, you should be concerned about your AFTER life.
You should have realized that your former husband “Earlier married with a muslim guy but had to divorce him soon because of certain restrictions he wanted to impose” was guiding you so you go to heaven in your AFTER life. Apparently Muslim women should not worry about HELL in THIS life but here they should dream of wonderful AFTER life.
On one side is your “faith in book” and the other side Allah gave you “rational critical thinking” power. You decide.