Imrana says: July 13, 2013 at 2:27 am
Wonderful pieces of advice given by Patterson, Noorjehan and Satyen.
This is reality of islamic guys. They dont even spare their sisters for sexual abuse in the name of marriage and after some time get rid of them and look for another girl.
Kaveri I hope good sense will prevail on you.
I have real life experience of marrying my cousin at the age of 16 years who had left his wife after 3 years, doing small job in workshop but very tactful in trapping girls. Against my wishes I was married and within a year, I was victim of tripple talak and thrown out of my house.I took shelter at may mother’s house once again, father was no more and my brother was indulged in similar acts of sex within his own community. I had to earn through working as a maid in a Punjabi house, who were caring and rich family. They had a driver, who took interest on him and one day proposed me to marry. Seeing no future, I took the risk of marrying him. Beyond my expectation I got good treatment, respect and he allowed me to continue my job in that house for some time. He was pursuing graduation and passed and got a job as data operator and with his assistance I also learnt compouter and started some typing job in 3 years time.
By personal experience, there is a hell of difference towards treatment with wife between Hindu and Muslim families. I am happy that I took right decision. I left Islam and adopted Hinduism and read wonderful religious books. I read Koran also, which is full of hatred, crime and sex against females. -Imrana
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Dear readers
I am in love with a girl who is a Muslim. We started as friends a few months ago and right now the relationship has become so intense that we are now lovers. We have not played sex or had any physical contact like kissing because I usually refuse to go out with her.
The relationship grows more and more daily. Sometimes I even miss her when she is not around me. So we are meeting daily and making plans for future.
I do love her a lot the way she loves me. I have failed to decline her because whenever I try it, she cries like for a day.
I told her that am not muslim but she didn’t get me well and ready to run away from home and marry me. We both are working in the same company. I am little hesitant to face such a decision with my parents.
My mother may agree but father may oppose it.
Please guide.
Dear Deepak,
Please talk to her if she is ready to marry you by the Special Marriage Act 1954 and raise children secular (not Muslim only). We have provided many articles above for you to read and understand to know what you are getting into.
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Hindu fallowed his religion by raping his own daughters as hindu god brahma raped his own daughter sarşwati
http://m.ibnlive.com/news/india/64yearold-man-arrested-for-raping-daughters-granddaughter/407400-3.html
Truthforever,
Read this : Saudi preacher spared after raping, murdering 5-year-old daughter
http://digitaljournal.com/article/342697
You should be ashamed of what you say.
It is dark minded people like you, who make us muslims look intolerant, aggressive to others !!!!!
Respect others …. donot blame any group / ethnicity and religion.
SHAME on you and your intolerance.
Doesn’t any muslim.know that hindus are not allowe to worship Brahma
Hi readers,
I am submitting following news item in the context of India, where muslim women raised concern against this evil practice.
After studying repercussions of one-sided pronouncement of talaq by Muslim men for months, several Muslim women groups have demanded a ban on oral and unilateral talaq.
At a public hearing titled ‘Jiski Kahani Uski Zubani’, held as part of the national convention of Bhartiya Muslim Mahila Andolan (BMMA) at Marathi Patrakar Sangh on Monday, over a dozen women victims of one-sided talaq narrated their stories. Many broke down while sharing their experiences. “My husband was a drunkard. Whenever I asked him to stop drinking, he would beat me up. When I continued to protested his drinking habits, he divorced me. I have a son and I don’t know how I will bring him up,” said Saba from Madhya Pradesh.
Nikhat from UP, who was married in 2010 and has three children, said her husband has deserted her and she has not seen her kids in months.
“My husband told his relatives that he divorced me, but he has not told me,” she said.
“In most cases, qazis and muftis are on the side of the men. The women are not given alimony after divorce and the compensation, if given at all, is inadequate,” said BMMA’s founder-member Noorjahan Safia Niaz, who also protested the practice of halala. According to the halala practice, if a divorced woman wants to marry the same man again, she has to marry another man and it is up to him if he wants to divorce her.
Having received over 500 signatures against oral and unilateral talaq from across the country, women activists have demanded codification of the Muslim Family Law which will make registration of marriages mandatory, a divorce invalid without arbitration and prevent a man from remarrying another woman without the consent of his first wife. “Talaq and polygamy are used as weapons to threaten women. Unilateral divorce must be banned,” said Zakia Soman, another founder-member, BMMA. Women groups will soon send their findings to minorities commission, women rights panel, the Centre and state governments.
The follower and supporter of triple talaq system are pig and son of pig.
Hello sisters,
Hello Admn. thanks a lot for raising problem of muslim women against one sided talak. I would like to give instance of one such sister.
The courage of Shabana Bano from Pune India, has inspired a number of Muslim women, who are victims of oral one-sided divorce.
Some of the dejected women shared their stories at the Muslim women’s rights conference, organised by the Muslim Satyashodhak Mandal on Sunday. A resolution was also passed pressing for the rights of Muslim women. Earlier, Shabana Bano interacted with women. Her live interaction inspired the women to come forward and fight for their rights.
“Four years back, my husband deserted me by just saying ‘Talaq’ thrice and started living with another woman. Since then, I have been struggling for maintenance for me and my children. The case is pending with the High Court, and I will fight till the last moment,” said Nasrin Shaikh, one of the participants while sharing her experiences at ‘Meri Kahani, Meri Jubani’ session.
Apart from the victims of various customs in the Muslim community; activists, students and researchers also took part in the conference. Issues like problems faced by deserted Muslim women, society’s attitude towards them and solutions to all of them were discussed on the occasion. Around 50 representatives from Satara, Phaltan, Kolhapur, Pune and neighbourhood were present at the conference.
Incidentally, one of the participants, representing progressive younger generation rebelled and asked the audience, why should she marry a Muslim partner. “Despite being Muslim by birth, I never prayed Namaz and not read Quran. But if the situation of Muslim women is so pathetic that they get separated by oral Talaq, Muslim girls at my age will think twice before marrying a Muslim man,” she said.
A resolution on the rights of Muslim women was also passed at the conference. The demands raised in the resolution include ban on oral one-sided divorce, settlement of disputes regarding divorce through legal process only, Section 125 of CrPC should be applicable to Muslim divorcee as well, Muslim women should also get political reservations for their due representation and urgent and effective implementation of recommendations of Sachar Committee and Mishra Commission.
Shamsuddin Tamboli, the coordinator of the conference, said that the issue would be followed further. “A meeting of activists and organisations working in this field would be organised next month. We will then decide how to chase the matter by creating awareness, capacity building of women and forming a pressure group.” Working president of Muslim Satyashodhak Mandal Sayed Bhai, activists Bhai Vaidya and Baba Adhav, Shabana Bano’s advocate M S A Niqvi also spoke.
SEPARATE COMMISSION SOUGHT
Establishment of ‘Commission for Muslim Women’ at national and state level, is one of the major demands of Muslim Satyashodhak Mandal. The ‘National Commission for Women’ has earlier said that the issues of Muslim women would be thought separately, due to their varied and complicated nature. Accordingly, a separate commission should be formed, demands the resolution passed at the conference.
Vow great Imarana.
Ultimately almighty pave you a good way to settle your life gracefully.
Credit goes to you for your efforts and never lost courage and confidence.
My hearty congratulations and good wishes for your happy married life.
Thanks for sharing your life experience exposing islamic evils to guide similarly placed muslim girls.
God bless you.