Aman says: February 25, 2015 at 9:52 pm
I love a girl. Very much. She too is interested in me, but due to the communal barriers, she is not willing to be with me. She’s concerned if i had to bear the consequences for what she does by being in a relationship with me.
She is a Muslim. I have no issues regarding conversion. But, i am not at all religious. Converting myself to a Muslim will not help, coz I know that I will be a complete disgrace to the Muslim society as i do what I love and i love what i do. I do not follow the rules of my own religion. How can you expect I’m gonna do the same for any other. All i want is her the way she is.
I mean i don’t think conversion is the only option. We can be Indians, or better, humans. We all live on the same planet, made by the same god, share the same colored blood. Why should this barre anyone from being happy??? -Aman
Aman Gautam says: February 28, 2015 at 8:23 pm
I won’t fake conversion to Islam because I truly respect every religion and belief. Fake conversion would only make things worse for us in the near future. But my decision of not being religious would still be the same. God has created us the way he wanted us to be. I’m sure he wanted us to live in peace and harmony. But what are we giving him??? We are fighting over, killing people in the name of communities, god, and whatsoever. In simple words, i won’t convert or better if i say i wont come under any communities. It’s true that I love her, but I cannot accept myself disrespecting any belief, her or not loving what i am doing. I am ready to sacrifice my love. I already did.
Aman Gautam says: March 1, 2015 at 6:16 am
And, yea. I already did that a long time ago. I sacrificed my love for her. I still have feelings for her but i soon learnt to accept the truth. My family would accept her if that’s what i want. But her family won’t. I know they won’t even if i was a Muslim. They don’t believe in love marriages. It’s a kind of thing with the Indian families. So there’s no point in conversion.
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Dekh bhai…teri aur meri sitution bilkul same hai..bus farq itna hai ki I have not given up nor will I give up…the fact is that she loves me more than i can think of coz she even after knowing about all the problems we will face in the future is still with me and will be with me for sure…and i dont have problem getting reverted…ya to aap idhr raho yaa to udhar…beech me khade rahoge to aap bura fasoge…ab soch lo..
i am not beech me fasa. i know very well what i have to do. but first i think i need to get a life. an established person is better than an unemployed ass, such as myself. and furthermore, if she agrees to be with me, it would be great, but if something hinders us from doing so, i think hallucination is the best gift given by god. it would be a much better option to try and remove her from my head.
And, yea. I already did that a long time ago. I sacrificed my love for her. I still have feelings for her but i soon learnt to accept the truth. My family would accept her if that’s what i want. But her family won’t. I know they won’t even if i was a Muslim. They don’t believe in love marriages. It’s a kind of thing with the Indian families. So there’s no point in conversion.
Aman and all youths,
A love with Muslim means you MUST convert to Islam. After conversion, it has to be 100% Islam and 0% Hinduism (or Christianity). Have no confusion about this. All over the world, LOVE is being used to expand Islam. It’s your choice!
I won’t fake conversion to Islam because I truly respect every religion and belief. Fake conversion would only make things worse for us in the near future. But my decision of not being religious would still be the same. God has created us the way he wanted us to be. I’m sure he wanted us to live in peace and harmony. But what are we giving him??? We are fighting over, killing people in the name of communities, god, and whatsoever. In simple words, i won’t convert or better if i say i wont come under any communities. It’s true that I love her, but I cannot accept myself disrespecting any belief, her or not loving what i am doing. I am ready to sacrifice my love. I already did.
What do you mean by “I am ready to sacrifice my love. I already did”?
This is black and white, that a Hindu must convert to Islam for Islamic Nikaah wedding. After conversion, Hindu cannot pray to any other God but Allah and only in the direction of Saudi Arabia. Only what is said in the Koran is rational and truth, nothing else matter. Know this before getting too deep into your relationship.
That’s, the main thing. I love myself the way i am. I don’t want to get prohibited from doing what i like. And i definitely do not want to do something i don’t like. For instance, i do not pray. I believe in one god that’s present inside me, who protects me from any danger or embarrassment. I literally talk to it. I share my feelings, share my thoughts, share what i want. It’s the one that tells me what should i do and it doesn’t allow me to do so. I mean to pray, to betray, to sit in front of anything and worship it. It also teaches me to respect everyone and their beliefs. Everyone is faithful towards something. I am too, towards it. I hope you know what i mean.
Hi Aman,
We love this statement, “I do what I love and I love what I do”. Are you planning to do the same for marriage too? If the girl say fake-convert to Islam, would you? Will that fake-conversion be “I do what I love”? Did she hinted you to convert?
All what you mentioned, “better, humans. We all live on the same planet, made by the same god, share the same colored blood. Why should this barre anyone from being happy” does not apply when come to Islam. Are you willing to change your ideologies for life?