tara says: October 1, 2016 at 2:56 pm
hi
i am an iranian girl..i fell in love with an indian guy on internet..both of us are muslim….for 3 years we are together…he lives nd works in dubai…1 month ago i went to dubai and i met him face to face….i believed him…he also loves me ..we like to marry but he s worry …he thinks he cant take me in india after marrige because the indian government dont allow to me stayu there more than 1 month….can u help me and guide me about indian gov’s rules? also do u think this kind of relation and marrige is true?
no, i didn’t talk and meet his parents yet, unfortunetly….
i am shia and he is sunny but we don’t have problem with this issue -tara
tara says: March 5, 2017 at 1:56 am
thanks a lot.your guidance was very helpful for me.your ideas are completely true.i don’t want to behave like a blind because of love.as u said there are many differences between me and him and i don’t think it can be a lucky marriage.i don’t think he is financially stable to support me, if necessary…anyway, thanks a million..now i can decide about my future… -Tara
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i love u too…i am so so so happy that i found u here…because u helped me a lot….God bless u…i wish best rewards from God for u…
thanks a lot.your guidance was very helpful for me.your ideas are completely true.i don’t want to behave like a blind because of love.as u said there are many differences between me and him and i don’t think it can be a lucky marriage.i don’t think he is financially stable to support me, if necessary…anyway, thanks a million..now i can decide about my future…
You know your situation best, we are hear to give guidance based on what we know in general about others. Let us know how else we can help.
May be take a year or more to think on it. Meantime, focus on educate and career. Something good will come out by then.
as u said it takes time to think about this issue and decide, 1 year or more….actually in these years i thought about this matter a lot and your guidance helped me to decide well….i am a well-educated girl, i like to continue my education but he doesn’t like..so he wont support me….u know,my family and i are in high level than him and his family, such as education, culture,financial,but because i love him, i didn’t care about them ……but i didn’t mention this at all because i didn’t like to make him sad, although he knows that…i am worry after marriage, all of them make many problems…i know there are many differences between he and me and our families, just i love him…
This is a sign of concern “continue my education but he doesn’t like..so he wont support me.” Does he wants you to cook chapati for him and do his laundry?
It sound bad to mention to you at this time but unfortunately the love is not ever lasting. Six months into your married life, there won’t be any original love left, only comparabilities will drive your married life. Go talk to 10 married people and ask how much of their todays’ life is running by dating time “love.”
Taking some time to think all these all over again is a good idea; at least there is no down side risk. If your (both sides) love is true and are compatible, you will still reconnect later. Please keep in touch with us. Best wishes.
yes you are right …thanks again…i will think more and talk to u….i will keep in touch with u surely…
Tara,
We love you. Our heart goes out to you. We hope this experience had prepared better for life. It is a beautiful world but you have to be smart! Heaven and hell are right here, and right now. You can easily convert your heaven into hell with one stupid mistake. We know you will not do that. Best wishes.
Hi Tara,
Going to India or getting married is not a big issue, but to make sure you are getting into what you are dreaming for is.
After your marriage, are you planning live with his parents? If yes, at least you should ask his parents if they are willing to accept in their home, is it not good idea?
Is your boy friend ready to defend you if his parents don’t treat you well?
Is your boyfriend financially stable to support you, if necessary?
Are your parents happy to send you off to India?
Shia/Sunni issue could be some issue. Are you okay if the Sunnis don’t consider Shia as a “true” Muslims?
Tara, we are not trying to discourage you, but it is important to keep these points in mind.