hina says: February 28, 2013 at 6:36 am
…he’s brahmin…and very religious..and i too very religiou..i pray for his conversion to islam. every time in namaz…hes a great guy…very good at heart…probably nicer than hundreds of muslim guys…v luv each other a lot..cant think of life without each other.
having affair is prohibited in islam but i believe pure love has to be acceptble in the eyes of allah…
but the problem is our parents approval and how. our life would be after marriage…i am thinkng of having children… both islamic and hindu teachings and let them decide what to choose when they attain the age when they are old enough to think wisely over it..and also am sure if they get islamic teachings they l will surely gonna follow that…
but if as a bahu iam asked to performsome rituals and i do without heart…reading. Taubaastakhfa heart will that b wrong??? And i do have argumnts on religious topics….what do i do to convince him that islam is a true religion…without straing our relationship…because if i dont get him i may never marry in my life..
Also he belongs to a famly who are very narrow minded…consider muslims impure and all that shit…he too was like that before i came…but still has some. flinch for other Muslims…he can accept me and my famly..but the fact he doesn’t respct my community drowns me…
i get over emotional over religious topics because i am follow and believe in islam. not just because i m born into. it but i have actually understod it soo well..and i want him to undrstnd but preconceptions and ego will not allow him to see what am trying to say…
is there any way i can at least make him understand without ruining our relationship? -Hina
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Admin says:
Hi Hina,
Allah knows everything and does everything. Probably, Allah has made you fall in love with that Brahmin boy and sent you to this web site for enlightenment. Please hang on here and other Muslim girls will show you truth to life.
After you get educated here, not only your THIS life will turn out to be joyful and loving with your Brahmin husband, probably Allah will make your AFTER life good too because you did godly work. Here you will learn lessons of humanity; how to respect fellow human being that Allah has created.
You said, “hes a great guy…very good at heart…probably nicer than hundreds of muslim guys”, why? You liked that Hindu for a reason. Why did you NOT liked Muslim guys you met all your life? You know it clearly that the Muslim husband, as per Sharia laws, could have multiple wives, could beat you or could give you talaak in a second. After knowing all these, why you want that Brahmin to convert to Islam and give him all these new options? If you are smart, marry him AS IS, as a Brahmin.
Instead of “i pray for his conversion to islam, every time in namaz”, you should, “I thank Allah that he is not following Sharia laws, every time in namaz”!!
You have presented beautiful pluralistic views, “i am thinking of having children… both islamic and hindu teachings”, that is the way it should be. Let the child decide his/her own faith when he/she is 21 years old.
You said, “perform some rituals and i do without heart”, yes just do it for his sake. He will come to your Mosque to pray to Krishna. It is not that Krishna-statue of Allah or Saudi Arabia direction or that Mosque walls that are important to pray, it is your faith that is important.
You said, “he belongs to a famly who are very narrow minded…consider muslims impure”, agree that they are narrow-minded and you have to educate them. Likewise, you are also equally narrow-minded by wishing him to convert. Give up this conversion business, and learn to love and respect others.
Islam is a peaceful religion and teaches to respect others, even people from “other faiths” and “other practices”. Show it to him by example and he will realize his wrong concept about today’s Muslims.
You are wrong in saying, “i have actually understood (Islam) soo well”, if you understood it, you would not have got into love with a Hindu Brahmin to start with. Now learn Islam from all these intelligent Muslim girls, soon they will come back to guide you.
Love is not easy to come by. If you got into love, now maintain it. Truly love him the way HE IS. Do not fake-convert him into what he is not. By showing your true love for him (instead of being a love-jihadi), you could change his thinking for other Muslims. Ultimately, it will be a win-win for both of you.
Bottom line, you have two choices: accept him AS IS (that is as a Brahmin) OR the second option you have it to run away from him to marry a Muslim boy who pray five times a day and wishes to follow in footsteps of Muhammad. Make up your mind.
Let us know in 6 months what have you decided. Best wishes. -Admin
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Sorry sister, BT don’t listen to them.. U r a gud muslimah, I m reverts Muslim, before Islam I was Hindu, Islam is beautiful, and u know it far more better then me sister, so sister nt to go against ur religion, wat u r going to teach ur children’s, u want ur children to to hell and u too. U said he is hundred times better then Muslim, as he is doing shirk..
Hi every body,
Myself married now with my BF after prolonged thoughts and discussions. He did not convert and I am continuing my faith. I am enjoying with him and have a 6 months old son.My interest in Hindu rituals is rising on every hindu festivals.
Sister Hina, being a muslim, you are not allowed to follow rituals of other religion where concept of other gods are involved, like fasting in karwachat where wife fast for husband, but in islam, we fast for allah, we are not allowed to fast for anyone else, if we fast for anyone else, then it is shirik
hina i know i am late to reply but if you had married or not i don`t know, plz inform me whether you got married or not, if married and he has truly reverted to islam then its okay, but if not then show him this video if a EDUCATED INTELLIGENT BRAHMIN GUY WHO WAS ALSO A MEMBER OF RSS ACCEPTED ISLAM(actually reverted coz every child is borned as muslim) NOT BY MARRYING A MUSLIM GIRL BUT BY READING KUR`AN. SEE THIS VDO and show him. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=t7bBQ7uh3vw(this is a full clip video from youtube)
Also if you need more advice and help from me i am ready to help you. ALLH BLESS YOU ALL.
try to convert yourself to hinduism knowing actual islam.
hINA again double standards in ur thoughts….y do u actualy pretend to luv dat guy???mayb its just ur lust and not love..and dat guy is good because he has hindu teachings.if u want a muslim only as husband dn go n find 1 in ur caste.y spoiln dis guys life?first undrstand luv and then say u love him…u can get thousands muslim guys.marry them.but spare this good hindu boy from ur selfish wants……
Hello Hina,
Take bold step and marry your BF in your own interest.Hopefully he is earning and you too could help in joining some job.
God will help you always for your true love.
Educated Muslim Girls/Women,
Please help others and yourself as it’s you who can contribute a lot to change the fate of Muslim girls/women.
This is really pathetic that the Muslim women/girls are themselves responsible for their ignominy. See the example of Hina who wants to be guided by the sharia laws! I (and many free thinking Muslim women) am surprised to see the slave mindedness of such women. She is praying the Allah to let her boy friend follow Muhammad! She doesn’t know what she will get in return. She thinks that she will enjoy the paradise.
Unfortunately, her expectations will be shattered once she comes to the truth face to face. I ask her, will she love to have a husband like Muhammad who married a grand daughter like girl of 6 years when he himself was of 54 years and bedded the women by killing their husbands, brothers and parents on the same night! If she cannot accept the person considered by the Muslims as the best of men ever walked on the face of the earth, why she is willing to make her husband his follower? Once a husband is a Muslim, there is the possibility of the following:
1. In the paradise, he will have 72 virgins while the Muslim wife will have just to watch them with her own husband. Her husband will have hardly any time for her as he will be busy with those unfathomable beauties.
2. He is allowed to bring other 3 women and the first Muslim wife may have to watch them helplessly.
3. He can beat her and divorce at ease just by saying talak talak and talak. She won’t be even helped by any court and the Muslim Mullah will side with her husband as his decision is in conformity with Sharia law.
The above instances are just a few and there could be many more against the Muslim wife. Unfortunately, Hina is oblivious of these and mesmerized by the prophet, so much so that she wants to drag her life back to slavery even after getting the chance to break the shackles.
I don’t ask any Muslim women to convert to any religion. Only thing I request them to abandon Muhammad and question his teachings. The simple reason is he has abused the concept of the God and has delineated the supreme, all powerful and merciful God as a demoniacal horrible being. And all this has been done for his own glory. In this process, he has indoctrinated his followers to abuse the women and those who question his prophet-hood. He has not only made himself the broker between the God and the creation, but also made Allah obey the prophet’s recommendations! In such a way, he very cleverly made his position supreme and made the Allah his instrument to bring the followers to fulfill his wishes.
Today, the prophet is no more but the same tradition of be-fooling others is carried out by the Mullahs and Maulavis to serve their own purposes. Now the Mullahs and the Maulavis have made the so called prophet and the Allah as their instruments by claiming the right to interpret the fictitious books!
The moot question is, “why this tradition of exploiting others to serve one’s own purpose is carried out for centuries”. The simple answer is, the victims themselves are working for the perpetrators. This is the success of the perpetrators to enslave the minds of the slaves of this tradition. And this enslavement of the minds is the reason why the Muslim women/girls such as Hina are praying for their own destruction.
I request again that differentiate between Allah and Muhammad. Allah is very different and far superior as well as merciful than described by Muhammad in Quran. Every one is the loving child of the God and is a prophet to himself/herself. The actual Quran is encoded in your hearts, just you need to read it. Muhammad has committed a great sin by demeaning Allah and abusing the women and those who questioned his prophet-hood. Those who follow him, cannot be the friends of the humanity.
Please, you educated and enlightened Muslim women/girls do a favor to your sisters/daughters by educating them of the truth to make the latter generations of girls, a happier lot.
Reply to Satyen at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=4621
Hina,
So, you want an ideal Muslim man to marry. How would you feel if the Brahmin boy becomes a clone of Muhammad, the ideal person to be your husband? Will you marry him? First read the life story of Muhammad written on this site ate various places and then think about him. The virtues of the brahmin boy are the product of his Hindu way of living. Why do you want to turn him Muhammad like. There are numerous who are good Muslims and you can choose one of them.
Goodness and Muhammad’s teachings don’t go together. You will have to choose one of them. Now, it’s you who will have to decide.
Hind, you are confusing yourself.
If religion comes ahead of everything else, then why not find someone from your own faith and be happy?
Hello Hina,
Why are you interested his conversion to Islam. If you are so coward, why did you love him? You have appreciated him, loved him and now thinking of raising family with him. Be Brave and bold to face the situation like so many muslim girls faced and expressed their life story on site. Read them and take judicious decision in your own interest.
I am also in love with a Hindu boy and shall be marrying him only. We both are working 27/25 years old in Srilanka.
I hate islamic restrictions and practices particularly, Burka, proving viriginity on the wedding night and no freedom of movement.
Good day.