Husna says: on September 25, 2012 at 1:10 pm
I am muslim girl from Karachi Pakistan, working abroad in a Logistic company. Doing my BBA in Logistic Mgmt., got a job in a foreign logistic company. I am in love with a Hindu boy, working as Logistic Manager.
I am supporting my 2 brothers studying in Karachi and father has no regular source of income. My mother is no more and father under tremendous financial pressure. He waits anxiously about remittance of money from me. I did my BBA by doing coachings in Mathematics and accountancy subjects immediately after passing matriculation.
Hindu boy, Name Ashok, loves me a lot. He is settled in the abroad from Mumbai. He has rented me his two room set to me. His mother keeps and cares me like his daughter.
I have decided to marry him Ashok only. I have not yet told my father. He wants me to continue job till brother(s) become self sufficient. I have told Ashok that financially I will have to help my parents. He has no objection. Rather he advised me to bring one of your brothers here.
He is likely minded and told not to change religion. Very honest, and respected by all in the company.
I seek comments from all like minded and god fearing persons through this site. -Husna.
Admin says:
Husna, first congratulations for your good education and a good job. Further, it is very honorable that you are willing to financially uplift your whole family. They must be very proud of you. Sorry your mother is not with you to help and guide you in your difficult times.
Now as soon as your family and relatives hear that you are associating with a Hindu, they will tell you that Ashok and his mother are Hindu idol-worshippers, sinners and on the Judgment Day, Allah will give Ashok Hell of Fire, in spite of Ashok being ….. “educated, manager, helping you, his mother is taking care of you like a daughter, not asking you to change your religion (meaning truly respecting who you are), willing to help your Muslim brother settle abroad, willing to help financially your Muslim family, honest, respected by all employees in your company”….. and what more?
What do you think; will (should) Ashok get Hell Fire on the Judgment Day? What qualities (over and above what Ashok or Gandhi has/had) does Allah look to send people to heaven? How much you believe in Koranic teachings? We hope, one day, just to please your father, you do not ask Ashok to convert to Islam. Why will you not tolerate Ashok for what HE IS?? -Admin.
Husna Says: on September 26, 2012 at 9:52 am
Amir, thanks for the comments below. It is not a fake story but a real life story based on realistic situation that I faced. I have read so many comments in this InterfaithShaadi.org about muslim girls marrying Hindu boys. Previously right from childhood, I was under the impression that Hindu guys are against muslims. So many things have been written here in praise of Hindu husbands.
I donot understand why islam gives so much previleges and leverage to the male community, imposing all sorts of restriction on female community. While Allah has made both male and females himself to come on this earth. Females are scared in the name of religion, but why not males? Recently in one of the islamic countries, women have been banned to pursue engineering and computer courses? In one country it is preached in the name of islam to have sex with dead wife? males allowed to keep 4 wives? why this discrimination? Marrying non muslims by a girl, becomes a religious issues, while males of respectable heads of the countries having foreign wives, just as their status symbol?
Regarding opposition by my Abbu or brothers, they are now realizing realities of the life, and discriminatory attitude of muslim fundamentalists. By going historical facts, ancestors of present 90% muslim community were Aryans(later called Hindus). Regarding excuse from God, why? every one has been made by him only, whereas the religious bindings are man made? like not to allow women to drive vehicles in certain countries, not allow them to caste votes?
It is due to restrictions and present day fast changing environment several pakistani actresses have worked in India against the wishes of fundamentalist. Even in a statement by President Musharaff for Newyork times, that majority of the women of the Pakistan wants to go abroad even if they are raped there. This is mentality of male dominated society? and Musharraf always keeping him surrounded by notorious women to feel pleasure?
There are so many couples in Indian Bollywood, whose mother was muslim. She never changed religion and husband respected her sentiments too. Actually the religious issues are raised in Islamic as per level/standard of a family. If the girl is from middle class, she is subject to numourous threats in the name of religion, but if the girl from high status family no body dares to raise any issue. Right and wrongs are decided in this world by the level of a person. A poor man stealing just a couple of dollars, is treated as thief, but a minister or politician grabbing millions of dollars is exonerated.
I have already made an indepth study of the future relations with Ashok. Through this forum, I wish to cross examine various logics that are made as restrictions to make some one to lead a miserable life by giving example of misinterpretated islamic laws. The worst conditions of the women are in Pakistan, Afganistan, Iraq, Libya where torture stories of women depict the dark side of humanity.
Thanks to the well wishers. – Husna.
Husna says: on September 30, 2012 at 2:15 am
Thanks my loving sisters Veena, Salma, Chand, Gauhar and Admin.sir,
I owe my special debts to all of you for giving sympathetic consideration and showing your all out support valuable guidance for boosting my moral in taking decision of my life.
Last night I chatted with my dad. I have told him that about my marriage only my decision will prevail and I shall not soccumb to any pressure against my wishes. As regards my respect to my great father and helping my family to come out of the present financial crisis shall be everlasting till I breath my last. Abbu said my doll I have no objection, I want you happy and cheerful but never leave your bros. in lurch. Tears rolled down from my eyes.
In the mean time, Ashok also chatted with him on web cam. He explained and assured that I need not to change religion, we will be life partners in true sense and your anxiety to groom kids is our joint responsiblity. Ashok invited Abbu and bros. to come to Singapore on travel visa. He told him to get first passport and then apply for vistors visa for which documentary support shall be provided by him and me and other things like ticket expenses shall be borne by us. The Abbu became so emotional, he also started sobbing and thanked Ashok but expressed inability to meet passport/ visa expenses as their old house got badly damaged during heavy rains and needs more than PNR 100,000/-to repair. I told Abbu that dont worry, you will be getting USD 1500 which shall be about PNR(pakistani rupees) 150,000. Ashok also promised if he wanted more, he will also send. Husna need not to incur any expenses here, she is our guest. His parents also talked briefly with him and said that Husna is our daughter now and they want to see ashok happy always.
I am so happy today, that God is creating favourable situation to facilitate my decision to come to a reality.
Always in pray to enjoy your good wishes. -Husna.
Husna says: November 14, 2012 at 10 AM
Hi every body, my Abbu came to me on 4th and gone back on 12th; He was amzed to see Ashok and his family. He has gladly agreed and allowed me to marry him. Husna
Husna says: December 20, 2012 at 11:18 am
I am back again with a new update. Ashok and myself have married and marriage registered. My father conveyed best wishes. We are so happy to get socially and mentally united for ever. Thank God. -Husna
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Husna says: March 11, 2013 at 11:44 am
I am pregnant now 3 months. Every thing is smooth. Helping my abbu in Pakistani by remitting financial assistance. -Husna.
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To marry someone with the same religion is better
till Katla with it all
You must given to death penalty for becoming apstacy and marrying with infidel husband you will go to hell with you husban and never never come out hell of fire in the day of resurrection in hadith in day od resurrection your hand will be with your infidel hasban very sad how a muslim girl can marry pig eaterinfidel
Stay in your world of imagination… Wake up come back to reality
I am happy to read yr story with Hindu BOY aSHOK. i HOPE AND PRAY gOD THAT U HAVE TAKEN A BOLD STEP TO MARRY A HINDU BOY. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE HAPPY AND CONTINUE TO PRSPER IN LIFE WITH HINDU BOY. i AM ALSO IN LOVE WITH A mOHMD. GIRL IN iNDIA.
You are Hindu and your girl friend is Muslim. Do you talk to your parents about her? Did she talk to her parents about you? When are you planning to get married?
hUSNA jEE
SALAM
i AM A hINDU bOY AND AM IN LOVE WITH A MUSLIM GIRL. iN HAVE GOT APERSONAL LIKING FOR MUSLIM GIRLS AS i hail from a mohmddan village. PL, GO AHEAD WITH aSHOK AND LIVE AHAPPY MARRIED LIFE BUT DONOT FORGET YOUR aBBU AND BROTHERS. hELP THEM TO THE MAXIMUM.
with love and affection
just show a big middle finger to islam and it’s women opposed bulshit teachings.you will feel better.
Sab fake hai yaar… Mera bhi is tarah ka 10 se zyada blog hai…*
SO HAPPY TO LEARN YOUR STORY BUT NOT EVERYBODY IS AS LUCKY AS YOU..SO I PRAY ON BEHALF OF THEM TO GOD…AND ALSO PRAY TO GOD FOR YOUR WELLBEING….
Husna excellent speech u gaved
Even m in the same condition don’t know what to do I love ma man a lot want to marry him
hi sadiya u should marry ur hindu lover as i like to see all muslim gilrs marry hindu boys my elder sister is doctor and she also lives in uk and living with a hindu ward boy of her hospital they did not married yet but living like huby and wife she is happy with him he loves her daily and soon she have a baby u too go for hindu baby
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Mere saare comments kahaan jaate Hein ? :(:'(
Husna jee Salaam, kaisien ho and hope u will return pretty soon and one thing mere zehen m ye baat baar baar aati Kay kahien ye post and usse likhne waala and Husna naam se conversation m shaamilat ye insaan anvai hi na ho kucch comments jinhone ye fake bataya hai vishwaash nahien gai unhpe but still they left a qualm in Mah mind i hope ye asli ho jo bhi hai, because u motivated me alot se bhi alot. Plz diL na todna mera i hope ye sabh kucch asli ho aur Masha’Allah aapka Nikah ho Gaya hai na 🙂 Bohot Bohot Mubaaraq aur Aap pregnant bhi ho na Alhamdulillah, that’s toh aur bhi great Insha’Allah u will have healthy Happy baby :)may Allah Tal’lah bless u with every possible Happiness and Transfer ur Sorrow to me. 🙂 Khush raho. And plz contact me mujhey aapse nadad air salah leni hai Mein ummeed Mein rahunga.. Allah haffizz.
Jee Salaam HUSNA jee :)meine aapka post kucch ik dedh saal pehley bhi padha ttha aaj bhi google krte krte kaise toh ye post ik nartaba dobarah mill gaya meine comment bhi kiya ttha shayad se but I am not gettin it.. Any ways hmm… Community aur borderline hmm itna fark toh hai magar fasalein nahien hain.. Hmmmm.. Mujhpe aapse baat karni hai and help bhi aapse suggestion lena hai .. Plz . hs9275@gmail.com, harshit92s@yahoo.com mein intezaar mein rahunga. Allah Hafizz khairiyat rahey i’m waitin.. Shab-Bakhair.
Hello every body,
The anti female elements will always create problems for muslim girls,
as they dont want to see them leading a graceful life. Islam is a greatest enemy of muslim females giving them inhuman and discriminate treatment and giving a lot of scope of pleasure to the males. Even if they are shot dead in an encounter due to insurgency and bomb blasts, they are provided 72 virgins in the heaven.
Is it a religion but cruel and antihuman mind set.
Jee bilkul many antyfemale eliments and corrupt people here thru are stick into mud i mean not in Islam ye harr jagah hai.. Here in India Hindu myths k hisaab se they sets wemen the most of top the girls they call them as goddess but treat them as dirt i dunno why they dnt think and give place to them as same and similar as mens? CZ one side they callin them Durga and all and at another they never think befor raping them or molesting them? When they will change there mind sets that wemens girls and every females are like same as males give them equal rights dnt make them underdogs dnt dominate them let them be free. U r no one to choose and do and decide anythin wrong or right for them Almighty is here for that. It hurts, i dunno when the discriminations and differences will be all gone. I hope very soon…
Islamic fundamentalists have crested a lot of fitna in India, which includes all of Pakistan and Bangladesh.
But for them we would have been one big family sharing the same values of love, compassion, understanding and
Acceptance of diverse faiths. That is what India is all about. India will be like that in the future also.
Now Islamic fundamentalists have nuclear weapons and they will definitely use these to expand Islam.
People are not blind, the only form of Islam which will survive is the one advocating a cosmopolitan and secular and progressive outlook. If anyone wants to destroy others in the name of Islam, he will be destroyed.
it is time to reflect and act in ways which will secure our future. Hindus are not out to convert Muslims but are merely asking them to moderate their views and live without conflict in a pluralistic society.
I love a Pakistani boy. He is 24 and I am 21. I am pregnant before marriage, what should I do? I don’t want to tell my family as they will go ballistic, and I don’t want to abort. I love my BF, please help or advise.
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Hi Husna!
Enjoy GOD Gifted HAPPINESS & be HAPPY “:-)”
Hello Admn/Satyen,
How are you both? I would like to share that I am pregnant now 3 months.
Every thing is smooth. Helping my abbu in Pakistani by remitting financial assistance.
Occaisonally read different texts here.
Thanks a lot.
We are VERY happy for you. You are a role model for many many deprived women of this World. Best wishes.
Dear Husna,
So a great news and my well wishes to you along with your family in Singapore and in Pakistan. I am sure you will be able to shoulder the responsibility as meticulously as you have done as a daughter, daughter-in-lawa and a wife.
God bless you.
I want to say Husna,I really respect u….as I read a lot of things u wrote…….
yes I’ve read koran and our Hindu religius books where there are a lot of things…..but I want to tell everyone in the whole world allah/bhagwaan- all is one and has made all religions are made by humans who are only thinks benefits for themselves……
i have read koran and I am against a lot of views…I have also read manusamhita(hindu book) and completely against the caste sysytem……..there are flaws in every religions….but islam is a complete male chauvinist religion which allows every possible freedom for males and women are scared in the name of religion…….
to all muslim girls,I want t say u just one thing allah on the judgement day will never punish u for marrying a hindu guy as allah is not just for muslims allah is the almight and just an urdu term of almighty allah does not want his daughter to be with a muslim guy (be he a bad,ruthless anti human),he wants his daughter to be with a guy who is good, who loves her who will keep her happy(let he be a hindu,muslim or of any religion)…….
follow right paths……..only can u then be near to allah/bhagwaan and not by following koran/manusamhita……………love u humanity may almighty shows path to every human…and I truely pray for all the female muslim victims who are scared in the name of wrong allah……allah is for all almighty(bhagwaan,god,allah) is for all and not just for one religion
Absolutely agree 100%. Well said.
Come back here to guide other youths.
Bhagvat gita also prevents idol worship and to worship one god.i think you do not know it.islam say every region was sent a prophet to tell them truth to worship one god but they corrupted that.i think your anciestors corrupted gita now read below.
Bhagavat Gita 7-22 : Endowed with such a faith, he endeavors to worship a particular demigod and obtains his desires. But in actuality these benefits are bestowed by Me alone.
Purport: The demigods cannot award benedictions to their devotees without the permissionof the Supreme Lord. The less intelligent living entity does not know this, and therefore he foolishly goes to the demigods for some benefit. But the pure devotee, when in need of something, pray only to the Supreme Lord. A living entity goes to the demigods usually because he is mad to fulfill his lust [for material things]. Devotional service to the Supreme Lord and the worship ofa demigod cannot be on the same platform, because worship of a demigod is material and devotional service to the Supreme Lord is completely spiritual. Bhagavat Gita 7-23 : Men of small intelligence worship the demigods, and their fruits are limited and temporary. Those who worship the demigods go tothe planets of the demigods, but My devotees ultimately reach My supreme planet.
Purport: Some commentators on the BG say that one who worships a demigod can reach the Supreme Lord, but here it is clearly stated that the worshipers of demigods go to the different planetary systems where various demigods are situated, just as a worshiper of the sun achieves the sun or a worshiper of the demigod of themoon achieves the moon. It is not that everyone, regardless of whatever demigod is worshipped, will reach the Supreme Personality of Godhead. That is denied here, for it is clearly stated that the worshipers of demigods go to different planets in the material world but the devotee of the Supreme Lord goes directly to thesupreme planet of the Personality of Godhead. Bhagavat Gita 7-24: “The ignorant believe that un-manifest Para Brahma (One God) incarnates or takes manifestations, because they do not completely understand My highest, immutable, incomparable, and transcendentalexistence.”
Bhagavat Gita 7:19-21: “All those who do idol worship, All those who worship demigods are materialistic people.”
Yajur Veda 3:32: “…Of that God you cannot make any images.”
Yajur Veda 32:3: “God is formless and bodiless”
Yajur Veda 40:8: “All those whoworship the uncreated things, they are in
darkness, and you’ll enter more into darkness if you worship the created things.”
Rig Veda, Vol.8,1:1: “All Praise are to Him alone”
Rig Veda, Vol.6,45:16: “There isonly One God, worship Him.”
Hello Admn. and Satyen,
So happy to see your mail above. Really proud of you, providing sincere guidance and moral support to the depressed and underprievileged female community.
Another update I would like to share that I have been considered by a departmental promotion committe for promotion to Sr. Logistics Manager, from 1st Jan.2013, with enhancement of salary by USD 550 per month, which shall be sufficient to remit to my dad and siblings, who waite for the same.
Thanks and regards,
Husna
This World is beautiful with full of happiness. The heaven is right here, right under our feels. Only thing an individual has to do is to open eyes and see it. If you see every one around you as nice, they will reciprocate the same way by being nice. Action and reactions are equal.
Unfortunately, people get tangled in man-made religions and start hating each other. Then there are fights, revenges, wars and destructions and ultimately you find out that this world is hell.
So heaven and hell are right here, it is your choice which one you want to pick and live.
Husna, you have learned to live a heavily life (inspire of all hell around you). For you, there is just so much to gain in life, no end to it. Best wishes.
Millions of thanks to Mr.Admn. and Satyen,
How nice to hear appreciation and good wishes from you both?
My special regards from core of hearts from us.
Regarding sweets, if ever we met in person, shall be glad to host a dinner party with you.
May I know your location to meet ever?
Sincere regards
Husna
Husna,
We expect to get sweets from you every week, right on this web site. Your guidance to other needy and suffering Muslim women will be sweets for us. Allah has made you smart and practical, now go spread the message of Allah (not Muhammad) to others.
I second the views of Admin and feel to have tasted the special sweets. Though, we may be so far in Noth America yet so near on this site, being the member of the extended family.
Hello Admn/Satyen,
I am back again with a new update. Ashok and myself have married and marriage registered. My father conveyed best wishes.
We are so happy to get socially and mentally united for ever.
Thank God.
Husna and Ashok,
Thanks for informing us of the auspicous occasion and we wish you both a happy and prosperous married life. Also expect that you both will taking care of both the families to your capacities. Equally important, spread the message to the whole world to see them as you both are.
BTW, where are the sweets of this sweet occasion?
Husna,
We are very happy for you and Ashok. Best you did is…you convinced your abbu (father) that you are going right thing. We wish all other young adults learn from your experience. Please come and guide to other youths in love as your time permits. We hope one day you will write a book on your interfaith marriage experience. Keep us posted for your married life, we will be waiting to her from you!
Allah has given you good THIS life and we are sure will give you (and Ashok) good AFTER life too. Best wishes.
Muslim girls in love with non-Muslims,
Think the road ahead before falling in love with non-Muslims. The Muhammad’s ideology has kept the Muslim males captivated in brutal acts. What a double standard for boys and girls! On the one hand the Muslim Umma is encouraging the boys to marry with non-Muslim girls after converting them while on the other hand the same Umma is making its boys vigilant so that no Muslim girl could befriend a non-Muslim boy.
Surprisingly, they don’t have any problem when a young charming Muslim girl is forced to marry a father like aged person from the middle East. Most of the time, this marriage lasts for a few days/weeks only and the respectable fatherly Muslim figures go to their middle east countries after a delightful sojourn, leaving the devasted Muslim girl behind for ever! Height of hypocracy with all the blessings of Muhammad! The naive and illerate parents lose everything before their eyes, covered by the ideologies of Islam!
Muslim sisters, respect and love your parents as they really love you and wish your happiness but many of them don’t know how they can make your life happy. Here comes your role to educate them slowly and in a way they understand. Take help of your other near and dear ones who can influence your parents if you cannot do it directly. Start with the unacceptable practices such as —
1. Marrying a cousin, aged person, already married, not well educated.
Thinking Muhammad as prophet and Quran as the divine revelation.
Shahada including Muhammad and considering him as the role model.
Always have a registered marriages even with a Muslim so as to safeguard your future. Never be trapped in Nikah, surrendering your future to the husband.
2. Burqa, Circumcision, not working, going out with a male of your
family only, having Muslim friends only, Qurbani etc.
3. Whereever, you may be, always have a like minded Muslim women’s organisation who can give you even a feeble assistance when you need it. This organisation can have even like minded Muslim men as well.
But, first go for the best of education and see if my suggestions are really in your best of interests. If you don’t feel so, leave it aside without any hesitation. I am not the best of the persons.
See the following video to discourage the Muslim girls from having friendship with non-Muslims:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=IckCStNi2HQ
Hey ! Husna !
realy lucky yaar !
Hats f to U ! 🙂
same is the case ovr here vid me !
myslf a muslim n love a hindu guy !
struglng vd evry1 !
lets c kya hoga humara !
realy afraid f if I wont gt him !
I’l b dead being alive yar !
Nt gtng what to do ?
Fiza,
Give us details and someone will guide you. We have excellent advisors from all faiths here.
helo..Husna
my self sunil sharma frm mumbai..i worked with telvesion/film industries as a Associate Director.. Currently i m doing CRIME PATROL SHOW for Sony chennel. I read ur blog..u r so confident girl who take her decision from own way..& i like ur respect abt ur father to inform him abt ur relation with Ashok..Ur so lucky girl you got everything as u want.. Here is same situation..But unfortuatnelly my muslim GF her name is ZEBA has so scared from her family to inform abt me..She Love me So much But her scared is big problem between us..plzz suggest me wat do i do..plzz help me i love her..
if any bdy has any solution plzz share with me on my email id..aakabh@gmail.com or contact me on my number..9022982576
thax..
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Hey ! Husna !
realy lucky yaar !
Hats f to U ! 🙂
same is the case ovr here vid me !
myslf a muslim n love a hindu guy !
struglng vd evry1 !
lets c kya hoga humara !
realy afraid f if I wont gt him !
I’l b dead being alive yar !
Fiza, can you give more details? What is stopping you?
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Although the Islamic Republic of Iran officials claim that terrorism is strange to them, an immense weight of evidence shows that orchestrated terrorism outside Iran is a major factor in practice of the regime. The first victims of the Iranian government terrorism were Shahriar Shafigh, the Shah of Iran’s nephew who was assassinated in 1979 in Paris and Ali Akbar Tabatabai, the former press attaché of the Iranian embassy in the United States under the Shah of Iran who was assassinated in 1980 in Washington. The assassination of Ali Akbar Tabatabai was committed by David Belfield or Dawud Salahuddin, an African-American who converted to Islam and after the assassination fled to Iran. In 2001, Dawud Salahuddin acted as the major character of the movie Kandahar, directed by one of the Iranian regime’s filmmakers Mohsen Makhmalbaf. After the first assassinations, many other Iranian dissidents were killed in different parts of the world.
Among the dead are, Dr. Shahpour Bakhtiar (the last Prime Minister of the Shah of Iran), Dr. Abdol Rahman Ghassemlou (the Leader of the Kurdistan Democratic Party of Iran), General Gholam Ali Oveisi (Tehran military governor), Fereydoun Farrokhzad (the famous Iranian showman, singer, and poet), and many other. One of the more notorious attacks by the agents of the Iranian government against its dissidents occurred in Mykonos restaurant in Berlin, Germany in 1992 that caused the murder of Sadegh Sharafkandi (the Secretary General of the Kurdistan Democratic Party of Iran) and his representatives and translator, Fattah Abdoli, Homayoun Ardalan, and Nouri Dehkordi. In April 10, 1997, the Berlin court announced that this assassination was plotted by Ali Khamenei (Iran Supreme Leader), Akbar Hashemi Rafsanjani (Iran former President), and Ali Fallahian (Iran former Minister of Intelligence). Two of the terrorists were Kazem Darabi, an Iranian who lived in Berlin and Abbas Rhayel, a Lebanese terrorist and a member of the Hezballah organization. Other Iranian and Lebanese terrorists were able to escape to Iran and Lebanon.
One of the most significant examples of the terrorist activities of the Iranian government against non-Iranians was the truck bombing of the Argentine Israelite Mutual Association in Buenos Aires on July 18, 1994. The Iranian government directed this terrorist activity through the terrorist group Hezballah. This was one of the deadliest bombings to have ever occurred in Argentina, killing 85 people and injuring 300. A major motive behind this atrocity seems to have been the suspension of a nuclear technology transfer agreement between Iran and Argentina. According to Argentine judge Rodolfo Canicoba Corral, the terrorists who were involved in this act were six Iranians (including Ahmad Reza Asghari, the third Secretary of the Islamic Republic of Iran Embassy in Buenos Aires, who used to work for Iran’s Revolutionary Guard before being posted to Argentina) and one Lebanese man. Evidence suggests that the terrorist attack was planned in 1993, when Ahmad Reza Asghari attended a meeting with the former President of the Islamic Republic of Iran, Akbar Hashemi Rafsanjani and his deputie
Fahad,
You are the illegal son of Osama Bin Laden perhaps. It is my right to marry as per my choice, You are no body to dictate your terms. People like you are the greatest enemy of islam, who do not want to see muslim women living a respectable and independent life. Quran favours criminal like you to treat women as sex doll.
Dont bark like a mad dog.
Miss husna you seem to have no knowldege about religon. This video I would like to share with u and all those eho are interested in marrying hindu boys. Its a bit long but dot u think undersgtanding what he believes in is also important. It is catered mainly to girls willing to marry hindu boys. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=xIzKgBxzg-I
U WILL GO DIRECTLY TO HELL
IF U WILL MARRY WITH HIM U WILL WAR WITH ALLAH
ITS A BETTER IF U WILL KILL UR SELF
Assalamu alaikum brothr nowdys muslim grils are asking wht is namaz.y thy hve to buraka for tat allah gve curse
Congratulations Husna,
God bless you always.
Please share with us your experience, emotions and feelings from time to time.
Hi every body,
My Abbu came to me on 4th and gone back on 12th; He was amzed to see Ashok and his family. He has gladly agreed and allowed me to marry him.
Mr. so called Indian, a Talibani and terrosit and enemy of muslim women. You are blot on the name of humanity. May God curse you to make a buffalo and pull a cart of 10000 tonnes in 50Deg. temp and your master beating you mercilessly.
Hello Husna,
Thanks for the update and I am happy to see two families happy.
To All the people who visit this website, consider that
ALL THE STORIES AND POSTS ON THIS SITE ARE FAKE
Hello Husna,
Vow, great development in your life. You must have educated your dad very nicely. God bless you.
Congratulations.
Hello every one. I am back after so many days.
Here is update to share with you. My dad has given permission to marry Ashok. He also discusses with him so many things. My dad is coming to see us next month. Its a nice moment of my life.
Good day every one.
Bye for now.
Husna
Thanks for updating us we are happy with your latest developments in your life. May the God help everybody in their rightful course of life.
Let’s all pray to Allah for the welfare of his/her (Allah has no gender) creation. As Allah has no gender, he/she should be addressed in a way that the gender is not attributed to Allah.
I also feel it’s shirk to remember somebody else like Muhammad during the prayer time. None except Allah should share our mind while praying to Allah. Why Allah will need somebody’s help to communicate us?
This is the Islam I believe in. People can call me Hindu, Muslim or non Muslim but my relation with Allah or Ishwar doesn’t depend on others proclamation. It’s very private spiritual/blissful affair that exists for ever. I feel myself a tool in the hands of Allah/Ishwar and that’s all.
May Allah shower his/her grace on his/her creation to show us the right path. Only it can ensure a blissful life here and hereafter.
Anyone with little sense is able to understand that this story of Husna is all crap.
A guy with even lesser sense will understand your comments are total crap.
Hello every body.
According to latest reports, the condition of Malala is satisfactory, her all vital parts are functioning perfectly well, but another 12 hours or so, are critical. It appears that in case she is needed to be flown to abroad, Govt. is ready to do so.
Its a great satisfaction. She is an asset for female community.
May God bless her speedy recovery.
Gazala and Nigar, thank you for the posts on Malala. We have been discussing a lot more then interfaith marriage on this forum. Does the Admin have a way to start a separate blog for general discussions?
Regarding Malala, the Pakistan/Afghanistan border area has always been inhabited by “Junglees”. Neither the Greek, Brits or the Russians could tame them. We should never use them as an example of true Islam.
I thank God that I am an Indian and not a Pakistani/Afghani. My family friends were the first ones to start a women’s university in Aligarh. As Indians we are far more progressive then the nations mentioned above.
True Islam?
What is that? Please, can any one share what is true Islam with me here? How does it look like? What does it say?
Seema Maheswari created her own version of Islam which nevertheless shares nothing with Islam as defined in Koran and Sunna.
If Taliban of Pakistan is not Islam, then is Pakistan’s constitution Islamic? Are people of Pakistan Muslims?
I ask this because Pakistan’s constitution , based on Islam, dehumanizes all Non-Muslims such an extent that Hindus and Christians living in Pakistan can hardly be called humans.
Consistent opinion polls have shown that 90% of Muslims in Pakistan support death penalty for apostasy i.e. any Muslim leaving Islam should be killed.
So much for true Islam.
Seema jee, we Indians are far more progressive (may not be richer though) than not only Pakistan and Afghanistan but also many other countries such as Saudi Arabia, Iran, Iraq, Bangladesh, Somalia, Malayasia (you canot quit Islam in Malayasia)Egypt, Bangladesh etc. where you cannot even raise your voice freely and you are compelled to live a lifestyle that may not be acceptable to you. Unfortunately, India is also at crossroads and the denial mode of many of its citizens may drag it to a state where Pakistan is today. Don’t forget that once upon a time Pakistan was also like India but the self denial of its citizens has brought it to the present condition. Now, you all have to reflect whether you all are willing to see your progeny living in India as our generation is living in Pakistan. In fact it may happen even in our life time. It’s a serious issue and time is ticking up. We all have to think over it and take a decision giving up arrogance or be prepared to live in the would be Pakistan.
Seema, considering your suggestion, we have set up this page for you
https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3477
I am copy pasting an excerpt from a former muslim woman below, they are not my words. Many muslim men follow the written word to the last letter. Unless someone ‘convinces’ them that violence against anyone is wrong (the ahimsa or non violence message of upanishads)muslim men will not stop. There is little you can do unless you use violence against these muslim men. The only language such muslim men understand is violence.That is hypocrisy, I agree. So what is the solution then. Hindus are fleeing Pakistan and seeking asylum in India as their daughters are abducted and forcibly converted and married off.
“…..Islam doesn’t want free souls; it wants slaves. Totalitarian regimes care only to implement propagation of their ideology through the outer control of large masses. And for this purpose they need a fanatic army. We’ve seen in history that at long this method doesn’t work, for human mind can always be awakened at the end.
Muhammad did more. He implanted directly in the most inner corner of men the semen of self-deception; making people bow down towards Mecca several times a day and think in the same way, like robotic workers in a cruel assembly line. Whoever stops is fired in Hell. He promised men a heavenly brothel putting aside reward for women (who must obey even there), and made wedding and childbearing a categorical imperative. The burden is of course almost on women shoulders, considered just a womb and a vagina for the satisfactions of their masters. Family is run as a military unit. The atheist philosopher Elias Canetti wrote similar things about religions in his greatest work, Mass and Power…..” from faithfreedom.org
The shooting of Malala Yousufzai along with two classmates while they were on their way home from school Tuesday horrified people in Pakistan and internationally. It has been followed by an outpouring of support for a girl who earned the enmity of the Taliban for publicizing their acts and speaking about the importance of education for girls.
The Taliban have claimed responsibility for the shooting, saying that the girl was promoting “Western thinking.” Late on Thursday, a spokesman for one of the group’s branches in the country’s north said the top leadership of the Taliban’s Swat Valley chapter decided two months ago to kill Yousufzai in a carefully planned attack after her family ignored repeated warnings.
All enlightened Muslim women and Men,
Though you might have got your love, your responsibility is not yet over. In fact it has increased many fold as you are the only hope for those remaining Muslim girls who have not yet seen the light of this freedom, passing their life behind the burqa/Naqab and are forced to live a miserable life. Will you all leave them in this condition which you all know how pathetic it is? Please raise your voice where ever you see injustice against them around your family, relatives or friends. Charity begins at home and the best place to do is the people around you who you can influence for the betterment. My suggestion is as follows:
1. Education must be allowed to them freely
2. No circumcision to any girl/boy child until maturity (age 18/21).
3. No Naqab/Burka
4. No marriage to Muhammad like husbands (aged,polygamist etc.)
Nothing against Islam but how many sensible people today would
chose Muhammad to be the groom of their daughters/sisters. Now it’s time to discard hypocracy and come to the open. Utmost respect to Allah but no to Muhammad (La ilaha Allalaha – Shahada should stop here).
To summarize: Utmost respect to Allah but no slavery to Muhammad.
Amir,
According to Islam, women must provide at least two male witnesses if they are to take any case to court. Should a woman in the Muslim countries which judge according to Sharia thus have the guts to report a rape, it would be impossible to win the case, as any possible male witnesses to the rape would most likely have been involved in the assault themselves.
In reality, a large part of the world’s almost 700 million Muslim women are thus without any real source of protection against sexual assaults by family members or other men in the surrounding environment. Only too often, this is exploited by Muslim men. When it comes to considering the actual wishes and desires of the women, the fact that a woman has any desire at all is frowned upon in many Muslim countries, even to the point of cutting off the erogenous parts of the female genitals preferably before puberty is reached. The New York Times thus related in the article ‘A cutting Tradition’ on the 20th of January, that 96 percent of all girls in the world’s most heavily populated Muslim country, Indonesia, are circumcised before they turn 14. Disgusting!
So much cruelty with facts have been described, still you favour the evils of Prophet,a rapist, murderer,who did not spare 9year old innocent girl.Really your close female relatives of 9 years need to meet same sexual assault.
Women are considered whores if they dress even nicely.
According to Islam a whore asks to be raped, abused, tortured beaten and turned into sex slaves.
Since it’s the women’s fault for tempting the man, men are not liable.
The Muslim rapists are even using this as their defense if caught.
It is an epidemic that is even more profound than we know because:
Muslim women don’t report rape because it brings shame on their family and they can be stoned for adultery.
Non-Muslim women have their families threatened or are kidnapped into forced marriage (sex slavery).
Mr.guypeaceful, why are you disguising yourself so. You are person of talibani mentality terrorist, determined to commit all sorts of cruelty in the name of Islam?
Why dont you read Wafa Sultan book, A God who hates?
First of all, I think either this story is made up or Husna has made up her mind and is looking for supporters not true feedback. I understand her situation and also about many people who are misquoting or quoting the holy book and sayings of the Prophet out of context. I don’t want to pin point but in the comments section most of you, your name and your writings reveal you are not the person who you claim to be. That is a (practicing) muslim. Some sisters have gone open on this form to claim that verses of Quran builds pressure on women. Firstly, I don’t think you are a scholar to understand the context, background of those verses. Please go to a scholar and try to understand the knowledge in its truest sense. Secondly, I totally understand people in many muslim countries are suffering, men and women equally to be fair. This is due to the cultural influences not because of Islam. If we understand Islam the way it should be understood then we would know the message in it is concise and clear. To do this enroll yourself in a good institution or go to a good and respected scholar who could teach you the basics of it.
Your actions will make you the person you want to be. So don’t take it for my word. Seek the pleasure of your creator, he has prescribed us certain things and forbidden us certain things for our own benefit. Some people in the commenst section highlight that so and so married a non muslims for status, and so and so married and did something with a dead wife. Since when did this become acceptable? Even you know that it is wrong and evil. That cannot be taken as a support for our wrong doings. Whosoever does wrong will be accountable for his/her actions not us. If we do wrong then we are accountable for it not them. As our elders say, they will go in their graves and we will in ours. So why bother with what others are doing, why not look at whether we are doing the right thing or not.
I can understand, financial pressure, improper upbringing (not poiting fingers at anyone) can deviate anybody. Add to that, wordly education and lack of religious meaningful education could lead to confusion. May Allah protect us from wrong doings and protect us from the wrong within us.
Admin, gives examples of Gandhi etc. Gandhi himself has acknowledged and got inspired by the likes of companions of the Prophet(pbuh). Google his words about Hadhrat Umar, a companion of Prophet(pbuh), and famous for his justice to the society.
Unfortunately, many muslims do not understand the depth of their belief. So the effort here first should go in understanding it. If someone gives example of veena malik then I can undestand what is the driving force in their lives. It is unfortunate to see people from muslim countries do not understand their religion. It is upto each invdividual to understand it not just upto Mullas and Qazis to teach us, and among them if someone is wrong, then it is his problem not ours. Islam gives you the path for each invidual to connect to his creator.
Things are not going to change overnight. First, we need to understand the true message of Islam. That comes with effort and investing time. The time which Allah has given us, and the time which also has an end, i.e. our death. First, take out few months a year in understanding the Quran and Hadith the way you have never understood it the make the decision by yourself whether you are doing the right thing or not. There is nothing to loose, you’ll learn and then you’ll decide. If you are a careful planner you would consider as a win win situation. I hope you do.
At the end of the day, you are writing you destiny with your own hands. Be mindful of what you choose, and avoid that is ‘doubtful’. Allah loves those who avoid even the doubtful, forget sinful. I repeat again, there is a reason why Allah has ordained few things for us and forbidden some, he knows us better than anybody else. He knows how we can corrupt ourselves or the society or how we can contribute positively to the ourselves and to our society.
Allah says, even if we fill up our sins from the earth to the skies and seek his forgiveness with sincerity and never commit the sin again, He will forgive us. Connect yourself to him. Rest all are going to get leave us at some point. Submit yourself to him and you’ll never be distressed.
May Allah give us the ability to distinguish between right and wrong and help us act upon it.
Finally, last but not the least, to begin with go to youtube and listen to a lecture called “Coca Cola Muslim Generation” by Abdur Raheem Green. Just listen to it, even non muslims have agreed to what he says in the lecture. It will take 45 mins of your life and it may guide you foreever, Inshallah.
hindu girls before marrying muslim guys should read quran and understand the worse condition of women in islam , see this video how women are treated in saudi arabia from the mouth of a saudi muslimah
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=fR-BdMeAvzE
Hi every body.
Having read so much about torture of women in Islam, I have been tempted present for all eudcated muslim girls to strive hard for the welfare of woman of muslim community:
Torture of Women in Islam
Posted by fitzg on April 11, 2009
“I am joining a number of articles together here because all women in Islam are tortured to some point. Domination is mental torture so I am not concentrating solely of the physical forms pf torture. By the time I have strung these together and we have read them we will have a clear idea of just how violent the men of this peaceful religion are.” – Fitz G
Torture of women under the Islamic Republic regime
This picture was sent to Dr. Homa Darabi from a woman in Iran.This picture was taken 20 days after she was lashed fifty times for being present at a family gathering where men other than her father and brother were present. Her crime? She is a single woman. It is forbidden for women to be present under the same roof with men other than their close relatives (father, brother and son) without proper hijab.
Women and Islam
“I was standing at the edge of the fire (hell) and the majority of the people going in were women.” – Prophet Mohammed
Ever since I began my activities in exposing Islam and it’s oppression of women, I have been attacked by Muslims, mostly men, about my misconception and misinterpretation of Islamic laws regarding women. I have been told that Islam has placed a high regards for women and that Islamic laws have given women quite a bit of power.
In the back of the Koran translated into English by M.H. Shakir is stated that, “the Koran is a complete and original compilation of the Final Revelation from God to mankind through the last prophet of Islam, Mohammed. The Koran has essentially three qualities that make it universal. Firstly, in its original Arabic form, it is a masterpiece of immense literary value – fusing the style of presentation with the substance being presented in a blend of unique proportions. Secondly, though its message is a continuation of that contained in the earlier Revelations made to Abraham, David, Moses and Jesus, yet this message has a sense of fulfillment and originality that attracts toward it Jews, Christians and Muslims alike. Finally, it has a wealth information – which provides the code of life for mankind generally and Muslims in particular. Indeed, the Koran’s miracle lies in its ability to offer at least something to non-believers and everything to believers.”
In this article I would like to analyze some of these “immense literary values” presented in Koran regarding women and my understanding of them to perhaps find out where is it that Islam has placed women on a pedestal for men to worship? And how is it that if we, women were given so many rights by this book, then why we are not able to assert ourselves as human beings?
According to Islam, “a woman is the ward of her father as long as she is in his care and then becomes the ward of her husband when she marries and when her husband dies she becomes the ward of her son, grand son, and so on and if she has no male relatives she becomes the ward of her community.”
The Webster’s New Word Dictionary defines “ward” as a person under the care of a guardian or court. Therefore, according to Islam a woman never matures, and she must always be under the care of a male relative, a guardian or Islamic court. I don’t consider this respect for women but an insult to womanhood.
Once a Muslim explained to me that this is because women get pregnant and take care of their children therefore their men should take care of them. This is a wonderful idea for men to take care of their women while they are pregnant or have small children. However, why should a child girl, an unmarried woman or a woman who is not pregnant, a grandmother or an elderly woman be under the care of a guardian? In addition only people with mental disorder or the crazy ones are placed under the care of a court. Women are not crazy and immature therefore, they don’t need to be under court or guardian supervision.
Recently an Italian-woman’s request for visitation rights from her Saudi Arabian husband to see her little girl was denied by an Islamic court in Saudi Arabia. When the woman stated that, “when my daughter reaches the age of majority she will come to Italy to be with me.” The Islamic court responded, that “women never reach the age of majority, so she will never see her daughter.
That is why in Saudi Arabia women are not given a birth certificate or an identification card. Just recently the Islamic government of Saudi Arabia allowed women to carry an identification card only if their guardian would allow. Just the fact that women need guardians is an insult to motherhood and womanhood.
According to Ayatollah Khomeini, the leader of the Iranian Islamic revolution and the past leader of the Shiite Muslims, the Islamic requirement for a judge is that “the person have reached puberty, know Koranic laws, be just, not have amnesia, not be a bastard and not be of a female sex.”
Therefore, women are not considered mature enough to be able to judge others. This is the reason for not giving women the right to vote in many of the so-called Islamic democracies. What an oxymoron statement, half the population or perhaps in many of these countries more than half the population cannot get involved in the destiny of their nations and they consider themselves a democracy. As an example in Kuwait women are not allowed to participate in their democratic process and vote in their elections. However, a member of their parliament stated that women should be able to vote after they reach the age of menopause. His assertion was that only after menopause women will be mature enough to vote.
Koran 2:222. “And they ask you about menstruation. Say: It is a discomfort; therefore keep aloof from the women during the menstrual discharge and do not go near them until they have become clean; then when they have cleansed themselves, go in to them as Allah has commanded you; surely Allah loves those who turn much (to Him), and He loves those who purify themselves.”
This entire Ayeh does not make sense and states that women are dirty for a natural occurrence. Menstruation is part of the female anatomy. This is an important function for women to bear children. How can such a natural event be dirty? Muslims like other religions believe that God created men and women. Therefore, why should God tell his prophet Mohammed that men should avoid women during their menstruation period? Why would anyone consider their own creation bad and dirty? Even humans do not do that. God told Mohammed that his own creation, women are filthy and most be avoided seven to ten days a month during a good portion of their life. Frankly, I don’t understand what does women’s menstruation have to do with the last sentence “surely Allah loves those who turn much (to Him), and He loves those who purify themselves.” Does this mean that God loves women who clean themselves or men that go into women after they are cleaned? It is not clear.
Koran 2:223. “Your wives are a tilth for you, so go into your tilth when you like, and do good beforehand for yourselves; and be careful (of your duty) to Allah, and know that you will meet Him, and give good news to the believers.”
What is the “good news” Allah has to give the believers? Could it be the clause that “your wives are a tilth for you.” so men can abuse women as they want?
Koran 2:226. “Those who swear that they will not go in to their wives should wait four months; so if they go back, then Allah is surely Forgiving, Merciful.”
Does this mean that if a man got mad at his wife he should not sleep with her for four months and if he does sleep with her in those months then Allah will forgive him? For what? Why is it the business of Allah if a man and a woman sleep with each other or not?
Koran 2:227. And if they have resolved on a divorce, then Allah is surely Hearing, Knowing.
This one says if husbands and wives divorce each other Allah will know. So what, everyone else will know about it too.
Koran 4:34. Men are the maintainers of women because Allah has made some of them to excel others and because they spend out of their property; the good women are therefore obedient, guarding the unseen as Allah has guarded; and (as to) those on whose part you fear desertion, admonish them and leave them alone in the sleeping-places and beat them; then if they obey you, do not seek a way against them; surely Allah is High, Great.
This Ayeh means that God made men in charge of women because men spend their money on women. Does this mean that if a woman spends her money on her man then she is in charge of him? Why would anyone tell a man or a woman to beat the other person? I have heard all kinds of explanations for the Arabic word “zaraba” or to beat. In my Persian translation of Koran, the translator felt so bad about the Arabic word “zaraba” that he added the clause “not too hard” in parenthesis. Many Muslims have tried to expand on this issue and add such things as beat her with a stick not larger than ones thumb or feathers or beat in a way that it does not injure. However, these are all appendages added to the saying in Koran. Again at the end of this Ayeh it says Allah is “High and Great”. How many times should God tell us that he is high and almighty?
We have a saying in Persian “You said it once I believed you. You said it again I doubted you, you mentioned it for the third time I knew that you were telling a lie.”
Ayeh 19:65 says, “The Lord of the heavens and the earth and what is between them, so serve Him and be patient in his service. Do you know anyone equal to Him?” Yes. I know some one, the Devil.
In Sura Light, 24:2 it says “(As for) the fornicatress and the fornicator, flog each of them, (giving) a hundred stripes, and let not pity for them detain you in the matter of obedience to Allah, if you believe in Allah and the last day, and let a party of believers witness their chastisement.”
Is this Allah a Merciful one? Not in my book. Why should people be flogged for having a little sex? The advise gets better as we go forward in this Sura. In 24:6 it states that “And (as for) those who accuse their wives and have no witnesses except themselves, the evidence of one of these (should be taken) for times, bearing Allah to witness that he is most surely of the truthful ones.”
So if a man does not have four witnesses to prove his wife has committed adultery he can just accuse her four times and that is fine and accepted. Such a just law?
Ayeh 24:31 “And say to the believing women that they cast down their looks and guard their private parts and do not display their ornaments except what appears thereof, and let them wear their head covering over their bosoms, and not display their ornaments except to their husbands, or their sons, or the sons of their husbands, or their brothers, or their brother’s sons, or their sister’s sons, or their women, or whom their right hand possess (slaves), or the male servants not having need (of women), or the children who have not attained knowledge of what is hidden of women; and let them not strike their feet so that what they hide of their ornaments may be known; and turn to Allah all of you, O believers! So that you may be successful.”
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Amir, you are not a true muslim, but a talibani mentality hardcore, hypocrite to supress the noble cause of females to live with dignity and honor.
Hello muslim sister, we should be cautious from the misleading and ill motivated attempts of persons like Amir.He is not worth for friendship and more over, it is an open forum to express and share experience of life in the overall interest of our female community. Face book or voice chatting/personal mails are not suitable for our common cause of miseries.Who is Amir to establish our orginality?Why he is getting involved in our personal matters of experience?
Admn. has rightly pointed out genuineness of this open forum.
” misleading and ill motivated” , is wrong word used for me.
Prove what was misleading and ill-motivated.
” interest of our female community”, so my say is in the interest of your ‘female community’ stop putting blames on muslims and glorifying others.
You can do so, but with logic and references.
However, it is sure you are not muslim. so you can marry whom you want, but a muslim can not. we love guidelines rather than cheap action of brainwashing others.
Amir,
Instead of helping and comforting Muslim girls in need, you are simply annoying them by making statement like “you are not muslim….marry whom you want, but a muslim can not.” Yes, uneducated and financially dependent Muslim women “can not” but educated and intellectual women are not going to wait for your permission. When so many “Muslim” women are crying here, you cannot remain in denial of today’s reality. Already 45.1% of Muslim girls are marrying to non-Muslims in America, why? …and this virus is going to spread all over! So, wake up, Amir.
A message to any young girl tired of women-oppression stories in your society, get a top-notch education and be financially independent. You cannot change your society in a generation, but you could certainly get liberty as an individual from all atrocities.
Without education, think Amir as your husband. He will wants you to be an “obedient” wife. He will promise you all wonders in AFTER life as far as you let Amir enjoy THIS life!
Being financially independent does not mean leave faith.
the women who cry here does not seem to be muslim, all statements appear to be same and looks like fake names are used.
As you mentioned 45.2% muslim boys and 45.1% of muslim girls are marrying to non-Muslims in America, and not just muslims even Hindu, christian and others too. it is because they are influenced by their society, which has no space for practicing religion.
Are you in favor of american culture? Yes or No.
There is nothing wrong in being an “obedient” wife.
“let him enjoy THIS life.” – In what way you think a man will enjoy but a woman will not? Please clarify.
This site is “InterFaith” marriage, so Faiths must be discussed, not just repeating again and again ‘be financially independent and do whatever.’
Is it the right advice you give?
I just want answers for following questions. Hope I will get without changing focus to some other point.
1. Are you theist or atheist?
2. Do you agree all religion are same?
3. Do you believe in God? If yes, then what are his attributes?
4. Do you follow your religious book? Do you find any error in it?
5. What are orders for women in your religious book?
Calm down Amir, you are just caught red handed again. But one thing for sure you are an excellent liar and manipulative. I would invite you to become a Christian. ( don’t ask me to become Muslim, islam is a fake religion, i dont consider it fit for sane human) ok coming back, you need to be speaking reality not whats written, allowed etc. Few days back a muslim girl was stoned to death for…for being with friends, and the boy was let go, both were muslims, now we all know how peaceful islam is isnt it? Now i assume you will come back and say, that i am lying, its fake story, i am muslim hater all that you usually say etc…but i dont care. We know you are a liar and untrustworthy so… That should take care of rest. bye bye kafir hater. BTW why dont you go to that life after death, thats the true jannat (acc ti Islam)…may be all this is virtual, please go to your real life soon. This life is for unbelievers kafirs. Let them live in darkness. We like it that way.
1. Are you theist or atheist?
Admin – “We believe in a religion of love and respect for all. etc.”
Me – There is no such religion called Love in this world, so basically you are atheist.
2. Do you agree all religion are same?
Admin – “No. All religions have different messages etc…”
Me – All religion are not same. Agree. But there are many things common.
3. Do you believe in God? If yes, then what are his attributes?
Admin – “Our job is to do good karma and let Allah ..etc..”
Me – you did not mention any attribute. however my perception is Everything is not God but created by God, unseen, uncomparable.
so i can’t worship anything just by saying i see God in it. the moment i say it is like God, i am making fun of his status.
4. Do you follow your religious book? Do you find any error in it?
Admin – “We have read the Koran, Bible and Geeta..etc..”
Me – It is good to take common message, but at the top of it is believe in Oneness of God. You deny this and even don’t seem to believe in God.
You find errors in books.
5. What are orders for women in your religious book?
Admin – “In our religion (best of Koran, Bible and Geeta), women ..etc.”
Me – yes equality is there, modesty for women is there, shyness is there, Not to reveal body parts is there. Since you don’t belong to particular sect ( which i assumed ), i won’t comment on that sect for orders on women.
Dear Husna,
I fully agree with you that it is nobody’s business to peep inside your personal life. Suggestion should be given to the extent it is welcome, not to annoy. Moreover, considering somebosy inferior and oneself superior is called arrogance and must be avoided. Humility and humanity should be the way and motive of discussion, not arrogance. I request every body at this forum, not to consider oneself a scholar and others as fools. Everybody has the right to interpret something as long as it is not agains the humanity.
Said thus however, I have every right to wish you a very prosperous and plesant life ahead. God (whosoever the God may be)bless you.
Thanks Admin.
Perhaps Amir is a Maulvi, does not want other women to read about, 10 oppressing points.
My sincere thanks and gratitude.
Hi Ayesha/ Sabia sister,
I also get fed up with the 10 oppressive rules of Quran against female community, treating them just as sex dolls. Atleast the modern age females of educative world should realize all these unethical methods to commit tortures on us and should raise our concern and voice for the ultimate service to the mankind.
God cannot be so cruel against females.
Husna,
can we be facebook friend? Since i doubt your originality.
Somebody rightly said on this site – if real then please tell link of facebook profile.
If not publicly then on my mail.
shairuf@gmail.com
And i will definitely contact you.
or alternatively send me chat request on mail. we may resolve doubts over voice chat. right?
Don’t hesitate, online familiarity cause no loss.
If you really want to know truth, do same.
If can’t do so then stop putting wrong blames.
Amir,
This is a very serious message and so many many women will read it here. If you try to hide under FB and personal answer on e-mail, how about other women readers?
Can your sister be my Facebook friend? Felt good? So keep your idiot ideas to yourself, if you have courage speak in this open forum.
Since my sis does not comment here, she need not.
However we could be. right?
Sometimes, I want to answer but there is no respond button.
And i feel live chat will help us know better about faith.
Thanks Zeba. I believe in Allah and never change my belief about me.
Allah and Baghwan are both same, believed by different communities in different form. Regarding reading books that is good enough but what about restrictions imposed on female at the cost of males privieleges. If females marry a non muslim, it becomes a religious issue, and when males marry outside their religion, it becomes a status symbol. Why males are allowed to have 4 wives, have sex with dead wife, why females not allowed to drive vehicles? not caste their votes? Is it islamic principle? Both male and females are creation of one God, then why so much discrimination against females? Males committing all sorts of attrocities, still they are unpunished why?
Hope you have no convincing answer?
“Allah and Baghwan are both same”
Difference between Allah’s & Bhagwan’s words!!
Allah says “Do not try to find me in idols. Worship me as unseen and you will go to heaven.”
Bhagwan says “You have the freedon to worship me in any form. I am not concerned about that. I am only concerned about the true faith you have for me in your heart.”
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Allah says “Pray 5 times a day. Only then I will be happy & send you to heaven”.
Bhagwan says “First take time to accomplish your duties & responsibilities. I’ll be happy if you call my name even a single time in a day with true faith”
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Allah says “Eat only Halal food & then you will go to heaven”.
Bhagwan says “I am not concerned about what you eat. However, I’ll be happy if you skip your meal & offer that food to the one who is starving”.
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Allah says “Kill idolators wherever you find them. You will go to heaven.” (Mentioned in Quran)
Bhagwan says “I do not want you to kill my own creations for no reason. However, you have the right to kill someone if he/she is posing a threat to your life, your loved ones life or to the society (which includes Hindus, Muslims & everybody).
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Allah says “Love your fellow Muslims as they are your brothers & sisters. And those who are non-muslims & those who do not believe in Allah, keep yourself away from them as they are Kaafirs”.
Bhagwan says “Love each and every creation of mine irrespective of their religion. Love even those who do not believe me and those who are atheists. I do not feel bad if people do not trust me or believe in me as I am the most mercifull. I do not have ego problem like humans & I do not punish some one for not believing me. Instead, I do miracles and make that person himself come towards me”
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Allah says “Do not drink alchohol if you want to go to heaven.”
Bhagwan says “I have given you a beautiful brain which I have’nt given to animals. Use it and find out if alchohol is good or bad for you. Regarding going to heaven or hell, it will be judged based on your good deeds and sins, and not based on what you drink or eat.”
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Allah says “Kill a Chameleon & you will get a booty for it.”
Bhagwan says “I do not want you to kill my creations for no reason. You can kill someone only if he causes a threat to you, your loved ones or the society.”
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Allah sayssays “You have the right to have sex with your slave women.”
Bhagwan says “I’ll love you if you respect women as woman is a giver of life. Any evil act against a woman is an evil act against me. I will punish you for such evil acts.”
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Allah says “You should bow down only in front of me as I am the supreme creator. You should not bow down in front of a human. You should not even touch your parent’s feet. By doing this, you will offend me, make me angry and will go to hell.”
Bhagwan says “Maatru Devo Bhawa, Pitru Devo Bhawa!! You have never seen me. But you have seen your parents. You have seen them sacrificing for your future. You have seen them crying when you get hurt. You seen them do everything they can for your better future. Therefore, for you, they should be not less that God. You do have the right to touch their feet. By doing this, you will not make me angry. Instead, you will make a special place for yourself in my heart.
If you cannot respect your parents and your elders, how can I expect you to respect me? After seeing everything your parents have done for you, still if you do not respect them, how can I expect you to respect the unseen?”
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Allah says “Only by being a Muslim, you can go to heaven.”
Bhagwan says “No matter what your religion is. Only by being a GOOD HUMAN, you will go to heaven”
excellent brother!!!hats off to u…..i realy dont understand that if allah is realy god how can he curse n provoke people against each other?God never differentiates between his people men or women,poor or rich,caste is a bullshit for him.Allah can not be God if he says all this.Lord Vishnu is the ultimate ‘saviour’.he takes birth to bring a revolution or change mankind.to destroy the evil.it will happen soon as these dumb people know no peace n have created hell on earth.
allah is not a god it is an idol to whom false prophet mohammad included in his man-made cult as his name was abdullah see last word is allah , allah and its character is mohammad’s fabrication
Very first thing these dialogues are your words and not of Allah or so called Bhagwan. If reference is there, it would make more sense.
OK i don’t mind you are free to write anything.
1. How many God you worship. Can you worship me as well, as you can worship anything.
2. Why even one time? You need not call God’s name even once in a day. God is happy on that too. So why there is need to remember?
3. Yes, you can eat anything, why don’t you eat flesh of human or insects? Try them.
4. Reference needed, but do mention the line before this line, which clearly says that – Fight against those who drove you out of your home or fight you against faith.
By the way, You are most genuine and humane so you must love everyone despite they pose threat to your life.then why kill them? Isn’t it?
These type of statements sounds good but not practical.
5. If you love all religion ( as you show ) , why have you written against muslims. You must write praise and not hate words. Be practical.
If you love me then why write such words that are unpleasant to me. And again for what you write I need reference from Quran or the religious book you follow.
6. There is no second thought to find Alcohol as good or bad. It is bad. so direct prevention is better than creating confusion.
7. You must not even kill a bacteria. right? But unfortunately, you kill them. You even kill plants even knowing they have life. You must not go for pest control as well. You must not use Anti-Mosquito elements. Right?
8. If sex is such an evil, I don’t expect you do so in your lifetime. Brahcharya is better for you. As far as slavery and Islam are concerned, and restrictions in Islam for Zina ( Unlawful Sex ) are concerned.
You need to study more over this since it is a wide topic.
9. Respect and worship are different things. Hadith says – Heaven is under feet of mother. If you can’t keep you parent happy, you can not please Allah. But worship is only due to Allah and no one else. Allah made parents and everything, we can respect creations but have to worship only the creator.
10. Can you be muslim? Why or Why not? If religion is nothing, than why call yourself Hindu, You must say – I have no religion , I just do good deeds.
What you say is a weapon of hypocrites who try to show equality and respect to all religion, but believe in just hatred.
If islam oppresses woman why people in west accept islam as islam is fastest growing religion in world. if there are four converts 3 are women to islam. just search fastest growing religion in world or go wikipedia and search women in islam and find rights of women in islam, islam is a religion who gave rights to women. You can go to http://www.usislam.org or http://www.muslimconverts.com and find the rights of women.
Islam is a scientific religion.
islam gives right to have own property which she may or may not share with their husband.
Islam gives rights to educate women.
Islam gives right to choose muslim husband.
Islam gives right to run their bussiness.
islam prevents women from barbaric acts.
Islam gives women right to vote.
islam gives women to have share of property from their parents and much more. go to above websites and find truth.
Really ? HA-HA-HA
@Husna…financial conditions are temprory….no big deal. But you should stick to your basic beliefs in Allah as he is the one who provides us all and will provide you as well. It is not about label of muslim, it is more about belief in the one unseen and the level of Imaan you have. I would recommend that you read books and also guide your future husband to be a good man with good deeds and to believe in one God Allah…Islam is for all humanity and everyone needs to get the wonderful message of Islam……..It treats everyone as sons and Daughters of allah. I hope you have a wonderful life and a enlightened life.
Thanks my loving sisters Veena, Salma, Chand, Gauhar and Admn.sir,
I owe my special debts to all of you for giving sympathetic consideration and showing your all out support valuable guidance for boosting my moral in taking decision of my life.
Last night I chatted with my dad. I have told him that about my marriage only my decision will prevail and I shall not soccumb to any pressure against my wishes. As regards my respect to my great father and helping my family to come out of the present financial crisis shall be everlasting till I breath my last. Abbu said my doll I have no objection, I want you happy and cheerful but never leave your bros. in lurch. Tears rolled down from my eyes.
In the mean time, Ashok also chatted with him on web cam. He explained and assured that I need not to change religion, we will be life partners in true sense and your anxiety to groom kids is our joint responsiblity. Ashok invited Abbu and bros. to come to Singapore on travel visa. He told him to get first passport and then apply for vistors visa for which documentary support shall be provided by him and me and other things like ticket expenses shall be borne by us. The Abbu became so emotional, he also started sobbing and thanked Ashok but expressed inability to meet passport/ visa expenses as their old house got badly damaged during heavy rains and needs more than PNR 100,000/-to repair. I told Abbu that dont worry, you will be getting USD 1500 which shall be about PNR(pakistani rupees) 150,000. Ashok also promised if he wanted more, he will also send. Husna need not to incur any expenses here, she is our guest. His parents also talked briefly with him and said that Husna is our daughter now and they want to see ashok happy always.
I am so happy today, that God is creating favourable situation to facilitate my decision to come to a reality.
Always in pray to enjoy your good wishes.
Husna,
This certainly great news, best wishes!
We are very hopeful that even Amir will come someday to wish you the best. That day will come, Amir, we are waiting!
I am always ready to wish best of luck and pray for Husna,
Therefore i try to make her understand difference between Haraam ( prohibited ) and Halaal ( Permitted ).
Hello Husna,
Great life story you explained here, full of struggles and now attempting to make financially strong. You remember I too got an opportunity to work in Hindi movie and came across a Hindu guy, very smart, loving and dynamic but due to religious pressures could not dare to marry him. One ultimately married to a muslim guy, initially he appeared sobre and gentle but later on became very rude, short temper and one day I had to leave apart. In fact to make life happy and cheerful, both the partners should be like minded, compatible to each other, respecting sentiments, loyal and committed throughout the life.But normally it does not happen in each case. In Bollywood I have seen so many muslim girls married to Hindu boys, are happy, enjoying both religions.
it is the fundamentalist of our community, who put restrictions on us.
I shall be glad to know your happy wedding ceremony with Ashok.
My sincere thanks for putting your life story here.
Always wishing you all the best and almighty showering all his blessings on you both.
Salma Agha
Please comment to Salma at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3021
Hi Husna,
Nice to know about your life story. All is well that ends well.
I am from Sialkot Pakistan and now settled in Canada with my Hindu husband, who met me in UK, while pursuing my MS in computer science. Since compatible match was not availble in muslim community, and Vikas, my husband was very intelligent, smart,loving, caring, decent in behaviour, I could not stop myself to marry him. In fact, it was a good decision. My other friend, who was also Pakistan, married to a businessmen of muslim community, despite her professional competence, is not happy. Her husband is cruel, rude and short temper, always talking about money matters even through unethical means.
Go ahead dear. Religion barriers are nothing but created by society. God is one, in different forms worshipped. There are thousands of girls who have married Hindu guys, as per their professional competencies.
God bless.
Comment to Gauhar at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3000
Hello Husna,
Congratulations for being so lucky to get a good job and a good guy, as would be husband. I fully endorse your views about innumerable hardships that we female community has to suffer in our society.Develop a good understanding for future relationship with your lover.
God bless you.
Hi, Husna,
You are lucky to get a good Hindu guy. My good wishes will be always with you. I am also working in Indian films for the last few years and found Hindu males very cooperative and helpful with ethical values.
Dont believe the quotations mentioned by Amir above. Had Amir would have been a female from lower class, only then she would have realized the mental torture that she had to suffer. The principles of Islam are not true reflection of actual miserable condition of muslim girls. I know how I have been tortured, insulted, defamed, when I started modelling to feed my younger brothers and sisters, due to poor condition of my parents. In an interview with Maulvi, you must have seen on You tube, how daringly I replied. He was advising me, whereas he was caught raping girls in madrasa. Females are just sex toys in Islam, no fundamental rights to them.
God is with you.
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veena malik- are you Real? I mean you are in this site hmmm. So how are hindus treated in Pakistan? Amir and few others say quran teaches give equality to non Muslims. So is that true that hindu girls are kidnapped, forcefully. Converted and married to muslim forcefully? How the Pakistani govt supporting this? Does indian external affairs says anything? I mean what’s happening with non muslims there? Plz clarify.
Thanks for the comments. It is not a fake story but a real life story based on realistic situation that I faced. I have read so many comments in this InterfaithShaadi.org about muslim girls marrying Hindu boys. Previously right from childhood, I was under the impression that Hindu guys are against muslims. So many things have been written here in praise of Hindu husbands.
I donot understand why islam gives so much previleges and leverage to the male community, imposing all sorts of restriction on female community. While Allah has made both male and females himself to come on this earth. Females are scared in the name of religion, but why not males? Recently in one of the islamic countries, women have been banned to pursue engineering and computer courses?, in one country it is preached in the name of islam to have sex with dead wife? males allowed to keep 4 wives? why this discrimination? Marrying non muslims by a girl, becomes a religious issues, while males of respectable heads of the countries having foreign wives, just as their status symbol?
Regarding opposition by my Abbu or brothers, they are now realizing realities of the life, and discriminatory attitude of muslim fundamentalists. By going historical facts,ancestors of present 90% muslim community were Aryans(later called Hindus). Regarding excuse from God, why, ? every one has been made by him only, whereas the religious bindings are man made? like not to allow women to drive vehicles in certain countries, not allow them to caste votes?
It is due to restrictions and present day fast changing environment several pakistani actresses have worked in India against the wishes of fundamentalist. Even in a statement by President Musharaff for Newyork times, that majority of the women of the Pakistan wants to go abroad even if they are raped there. This is mentality of male dominated society? and Musharraf always keeping him surrounded by notorious women to feel pleasure?
There are so many couples in Indian Bollywood, whose mother was muslim.She never changed religion and husband respected her sentiments too.Actually the religious issues are raised in Islamic as per level/standard of a family.If the girl is from middle class, she is subject to numourous threats in the name of religion, but if the girl from high status family no body dares to raise any issue. Right and wrongs are decided in this world by the level of a person. A poor man stealing just a couple of dollars, is treated as thief, but a minister or politician grabbing millions of dollars is exonerated.
I have already made an indepth study of the future relations with Ashok. Through this forum, I wish to cross examine various logics that are made as restrictions to make some one to lead a miserable life by giving example of misinterpretated islamic laws.The worst conditions of the women are in Pakistan,Afganistan, Iraq, Libya where torture stories of women depict the dark side of humanity.
Thanks to the well wishers.
Darling you are lucky to have such a beautiful relationship with this guy. I understand those hypocrites who say one thing for man and another for women ultimately its women who suffer. But bury all that in past- love can never be punished by allah or any god. You are lucky to have him in you life, best of luck and let us know if you need any help. keep him happy with your love and care and god bless you both !
Husna,
Very firstly, if it is not a fake story, then only consider my opinion.
If somebody is good, helping It does not always require to marry him or her. You said his mother thinks you as daughter, then take her as your mother and Ashok as brother, then this relation is pure.
Are you ready to break previous relations to get new relations. It is prohibited to marry out of religion ( for a muslim ) . Numerous reasons are there. It may be in other religions as well but others generally don’t follow religion so I am advising you since you are God-fearing.
Reply to Amir at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3051
Interesting, Ashok as a brother!! Why idol-worshipper brother and mother who are going to get Hell Fire? We thought you are going to tell her to convert Ashok and his mother to believer (in Islam).
Why don’t you advise her to move away from the Hindus, even she and her family suffers in THIS life as long as AFTER life is good?
Remind her the Koran…
2:191 Slay then wherever you find them. Idolatry is more grievous than bloodshed.
2:193 Fight against them until idolatry is no more and Allah’s religion reigns supreme.
2:216 Fighting is obligatory for you, as much as you dislike it.
2:217 Idolatry is more grievous than bloodshed.
2:221 You shall not wed pagan (idolaters) women, unless they embrace the Faith. A believing slave girl is better than an idolatress, although she may please you.
3:19 The only true faith in Allah’s sight is Islam.
3:27 Let not believers make friends with infidels in preference to the faithful.
3:118 Believers, do not make friends with any but your own people. They will spare no pains to corrupt you. They desire nothing but your ruin.
Quoting few lines without knowing their context is absurdity.
Quran ( 60:8 ) – “Allah forbids you not, with regard to those who fight you not for (your) Faith nor drive you out of your homes, from dealing kindly and justly with them: for Allah loveth those who are just.”
Quran (60:9 ) – “Allah only forbids you, with regard to those who fight you for (your) Faith, and drive you out of your homes, and support (others) in driving you out, from turning to them (for friendship and protection). It is such as turn to them (in these circumstances), that do wrong.”
By the way you quoted line 191 but forget to mention 190 which clearly says –
Quran ( 2:190 ) – “Fight in the cause of Allah those who fight you, but do not transgress limits; for Allah loveth not transgressors.”
and again you have written crap, what Quran say is –
Quran ( 2:191 ) – “And slay them wherever ye catch them, and turn them out from where they have Turned you out; for tumult and oppression are worse than slaughter; but fight them not at the Sacred Mosque, unless they (first) fight you there; but if they fight you, slay them. Such is the reward of those who suppress faith.”
Quran ( 2:193 ) – “And fight them on until there is no more Tumult or oppression, and there prevail justice and faith in Allah; but if they cease, Let there be no hostility except to those who practise oppression.”
I don’t know who teaches you Quran, or you just write whatever you like . You are really a hate monger. Learn Quran as it is and don’t quote it by your foolish words.
amir u better first change the scenario n plight of Muslim women.n then come n shout or bark.Saudi muslims have en number of wives n children.they treat women like dolls.still u support them?its ur sic mentality
Shame for you. Immediately obtained excause from GOD and told to your father for marriage with Muslim boy. He will arrange.
why dont u mind ur own business.men of these muslim countries r sic.n only a women has to bear it.asif u need to be a girl to undrestand it.u wont b goin to heaven for sure.u sic think after doing such crimes u all can get heaven?u wont get hell also
your Pakistani raised brothers will certainly oppose your marital plans. We saw so many cases from England already, especially in the Pakistani origin families, wherein the girls were attacked and even killed by brothers and fathers. Nowadays the law is made stricter and many of these men are getting jail terms. Since you are living outside Pakistan you maybe fine. Pakistani school text books depict hindus in a very bad manner, thats the reason all Pakistanis have very low opinion about hinduism. Strange it may sound to them, their ancestors were all hindus.Good luck to you, you are in a tough spot.
@Suma…if our ancestors were cavemen….that doesnt mean we need to become caveman. Let alone be hindu……There is no one who has ever told me the definition of being Hindu…everyone has it own meaning. Hinduism is not even a religion, but just a culture which changes constantly