Imran Khan says: September 12, 2012 at 2:46 pm
i m a muslim guy in love with a jain girl, i really love her and want to marry her. my parent are ready for all this but his parents are against our decision, infact now they are not even allowing her to out of house. his uncle is a politician (minister and member of parliament), i dont want her to change her religion, i really love her and want to spend my whole life with her only plz suggest me something that how can we live happy together forever.
guys plz anything, suggest me whatever you can.
i really need ur help.
and most importantly she is ready to live with me going against her family but his uncle is also a major problem in doing all this.
plz plz plz help me. -Imran Khan
Admin says:
Imran,
You mentioned that, “you don’t want her to change her religion”. This is a very honourable thought. But, do you know what does that mean? Are you okay not having an Islamic Nikaah (including conversion)? If you marry a Jain without conversion, your marriage is not valid by Koran and all Islamic teachings. Are you ready going against Islamic beliefs? Have you talk to your family and relatives about your plan?
What will you do marrying a Jain idol-worshipper? Look, this Pearl Jain girl’s Muslim boyfriend is…
This Muslim will marry in a court, not by Nikaah
This Muslim is ready to give up meat when she is around
This Muslim will have children with non-Arabic names
This Muslim guy is already going to Jain temples
This Muslim guy is bowing to her (Jain) Gods
This Muslim guy is taking part in parjyshan
This Muslim will raise Jain (and Muslim) children and teach them from both scriptures.
Is he a Muslim?
We are not here to tell you what you should and should not do. You just decide what is the right thing for you to do.
It is cool to talk secular life at your age 23 something, but as a Muslim, it will be very difficult for you later to raise a family. Again, we are not here to discourage from being a secular (or religious). These Shamin, Seema, Salman and Shah Rukh Khan decided to run their life secular/pluralist and apparently happy, so why not you?
Most important advise we could give today is to get a top notch education and then a high paying job. Once you are financially independent and move to a different city, rest will be lots easier for you two. Start working on it now.
Let us know what else you wish us to tell you? -Admin.
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Hi Imran,
Love is paramount. You should do anything and everything for love. Since the girl is a Jain, you too convert to a Jain or a Hindu. To hell with objections raised by your parents, relatives, friends, well wishers or mullas. Leave islam forever and embrace Jainism or Hinduism. This should help convince her parents about your honourable intentions. Promise them that marriage shall be conducted only as per provisions of the Hindu Marriage Act, 1955 and that your future children would only follow Hinduism or Jainism. Promise them that you won’t ever visit a mosque or follow any islamic traditions. Also, promise them that you would never kill innocent animals and eat them. Promise them that you would have a bath everyday. Promise them that you would visit temples regularly with your wife. Promise them that you would never harm anybody and never involve in any illegal and terrorist activities in future. I am sure you can do this much for love. I am pretty sure that the girl’s parents and other relatives would get convinced. If possible, also try to convince your parents and relatives also to convert to Jainism or Hinduism so that all of you could live as one big happy family.
Hello everybody,
I am not from India but I truly Love India. I went to church, mosque, and Temple. I don’t think knowing about different religion to be bad. I love people, human beings and I truly want to know about their thoughts and belief. But it is so unfortunate when I read all your comments. I truly feel sorry for the worst thoughts of you all (Sorry to say so). India is a diverse country with different religious beliefs. I highly appreciate and respect all religions.
In 2011, I visited India and went to temples and met some Jains too. We talked about their religion and I shared about my belief and thoughts. I am really interested in knowing more about Jainism. While searching about Jainism, I came to this website where I found many discriminations and racism against one another. What I believe is, it is always good when you see and observe people face-to-face like I met people from different religions. I do not want to mention what my religion is ( cuz I really don’t think it’s important to know for anyone of you), however one thing i know is that it’s not bad if a Muslim marries a Hindu/ Jain or even vice versa.
This is 21 century so grow up people. Insulting someone’s religion and faith is a crime. And I don’t think any religion has allowed insulting other religion believes. Why do we have to hate religions? It is just our beliefs, and we have to have respect for that. For the Muslim boy who wants to marry a Jain girl, my advice is you better sit and talk to the girl. You both should talk about your future life so as think about your Children’s future. Please, do not make your children be victims of what you have done (like married a person whose religion is different than yours). If you both (The girl and the boy) are happy and thought about all aspects of life then go ahead.
P.S: I do not represent any perticular religion in here because i love all religions therefore i highly appreciate if you (the reader) do not take it personal.
Dear Unknown,
We loved your message. Basically, you are a pluralist and believe in respecting all religions. People could marry to who ever but they should respect each other the way they are.
Can you please come and guide others on this web site for those who are in live. We hope to hear from you. Thanks.
IMRAN KHAN… THE TRAITOR…PLEASE DON’T LURE INNOCENT GIRLS OF OTHER COMMUNITIES INTO BECOMING A MUSLIM. I DON’T THINK ANYONE WILL FALL INTO YOUR TRAP. DON’T TRY TO BE INNOCENT. ALL AROUND THE WORLD MUSLIM YOUTH TRY TO BEFRIEND GIRLS FROM OTHER COMMUNITIES INTO MARRYING THEM SO THAT THEY CAN TREAT THEM AS THEY LIKE. MANY HAVE BEEN ARRESTED FOR THE SAME, AS REPORTED BY THE TOP NEWS CHANNELS. KEEP YOUR WOLF-IN-IN-THE-SHEEP ATTITUDE WITH YOURSELF.AND I AM SURE IMRAN YOU WILL NEVER SUCCEED. BE READY TO FACE HEAT…,AS SUCH YOU WILL ALREADY GET SLAUGHTERED MANY TIMES FOR THE INNOCENT ANIMALS YOU HAVE SLAUGHTERED, BOTH YOU AND I KNOW THAT… THERE IS NO USE POSTING AGAINST THIS AS YOU AND I KNOW THAT NATURAL JUSTICE ACTS AND THAT YOU WILL PAY FOR YOUR SLAUGHTERING OF ANIMALS WHEN YOU YOURSELF GET SLAUGHTERED.GO VEG.
SISTERS FROM OTHER COMMUNITIES: BEWARE OF SUCH “IMRANS” LURKING AROUND. NEVER EVER FALL INTO THEIR TRAP. MANY MARRIED MUSLIM WOMEN’S TESTIMONIALS SAY HOW THEIR LIFE HAVE BECOME HELL AFTER MARRYING A MUSLIM. HAVE SOME BRAINS.DON’T MAKE YOUR LIFE A LIVING HELL BY MARRYING INTO MUSLIM COMMUNITY. I HAVE SEEN HIDDEN VIDEOS OF HOW MUSLIM WIVES ARE TREATED AND FEEL SORRY FOR THEM. SO PLEASE DON’T FALL INTO THIS TRAP.
To All the people who visit this website, consider that
ALL THE STORIES AND POSTS ON THIS SITE ARE FAKE
This website is governed by a Muslim who wants to Convert Non Muslims into ISLAM irrespect to if the individual is a Boy or a Girl.
For Muslim Guys marrying Non Muslim Girl the advice leans towards converting a girl with Islamic reasons of Not acceptance of Marriage
For Non muslim guy mARRYING Muslim girl it is suggested that Hindus are Idol worshippers and giving references of qurans.
Moderator -Please stop sugar quoting and make it clear.
what a sugar quoted answer by Admin, instead say clearly convert her…LOL
Brother Imran!!
Really are you a MUSLIM boy??If yes!!then very sad to say…Have you forgoten ALLAH’s and HAZRAT MUHAMMAD S.A.W.W teachings???
Didn’t you know that in ISLAM there is prohibition to marry a MUSLIM with a NON-MUSLIM??
Will you leave ALLAH TALLAH , just bcoz of a non-muslim girl???
You know that ALLAH loves us more than 70 mothers…and HAZRAT MUHAMMAD S.A.W.W cries to ALLAH at nights to forgive UMMAT-E-MUHAMMADIA….
After marrying a NON-MUSLIM girl!!you will become restless not only in the world but also the world hereafter!!!
Brother!!!instead of offering her to accept ISLAM,,you yourself are going to become disobedient of ALLAH TALLAH…
ALLAH TALLAH have shown you the right and wrong path..
now it depends on you whether you want to go to hell or JANNAT….
HAZRAT MUHAMMAD S.A.W.W said: ”That person would be a MUSLIM when I(HAZRAT MUHAMMAD S.A.W.W)become most important in his life”
And you are giving preference to a NON-MUSLIM girl without thinking what happen with us after death in grave and on QAYAMAT!!!
INSHALLAH!!ALLAH TALLAH will show you the right path….Stay blessed!!and concentrate on QURAN….life is short for us to make ALLAH TALLAH happy!!!
KEEP YOUR RELIGIOUS CRAP OUTTA HERE…
LET THE MUSLIM GUY CONVERT IF HE WANTS TO
hey Imran all the best to you. but stand by what u say now. don’t change it later like most Muslim guys do after getting married to the Hindu girls. go for court marriage if u really luv her. and give space to her for her religious beliefs and support her in every way. Don’t ever fool her. I really like guys like you who are quite secular about religion. God bless u both
Have you ever understood what Islam is?
Just read and learn Islam and then make any decision.
For your help , listen tafseer of Quran by Dr. Israr Ahmad.
InshaAllah that will guide you.
Dont believe in Kafir girls, do you know how many boyfriend she had in past, and with whom all she must have slept? Do whatever comes in you mind if she is with you, But always choose a muslim girl for marriage.
There are numerous reason why not to marry a non-muslim, if you have not posted a fake question and really want to know why no girl other than muslim, plz mail me shairuf@gmail.com
Amir,
“Do whatever comes in you mind if she is with you,” …meaning what ever, free fun!!
“But always choose a muslim girl for marriage.” …THIS IS A DOUBLE STANDARD. Do you have any ethics?
All non-Muslim girls in relationship with a Muslim guy should read this message.
O my God.
This site is definitely run by Mischeivious people. They changed my comment in thier own words so that they could present a malicious image of muslims.
If you can’t stand with truth, then please don’t run this site and don’t do such shameful act.
I never posted whatever is written in middle paragraph.
Are you afraid of me that you altered my comment.
Shame on you guys.
This is the message e-mail we got from the web hosting company and with their help we could prove it in a court for its authenticity:
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Have you ever understood what Islam is?
Just read and learn Islam and then make any decision.
For your help , listen tafseer of Quran by Dr. Israr Ahmad.
InshaAllah that will guide you.
Dont believe in Kafir girls, do you know how many boyfriend she had in past, and with whom all she must have slept? Do whatever comes in you mind if she is with you, But always choose a muslim girl for marriage.
There are numerous reason why not to marry a non-muslim, if you have not posted a fake question and really want to know why no girl other than muslim, plz mail me shairuf@gmail.com
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Amir, what did you meant to say when you wrote “Do whatever comes in you mind if she is with you“? If you have to rewrite, how would you say?
Further, what do you mean by saying “Dont believe in Kafir girls, do you know how many boyfriend she had in past, and with whom all she must have slept?” Do you mean to say Jain (or Hindu, Sikh, Christian) girls are of low character and sleeping around with many guys, while Muslim girls are clean? Where did you learned of this fact?
Amir, we asked you, “Do you have any ethics?” Do you?
Yes i have,
When i said i did not post middle part of it , you are not agreeing to it.
It seems somebody has modified my comment. Please take care of your site so that nobody is allowed to alter others comment.
Amir,
It is not fair to question the ethics of this web site. We just forward you the original e-mail that came from the web-hosting site to convince you for authenticity. If you decide not to believe or forgot for what you wrote, sorry we can’t help it.
We value our comments on this web site. Can you tell us how a Kaafir girl should be treated?
Hey Imran – you don’t want her to change her religion” That means, she can be a Jain for the whole life. But as per Islamic ways, you can not marry a Non-Muslim. And you have a “True” love for her. Therefore, I can see a good way is for you to become a Hindu!! If you become a Hindu, then you can marry her. She will be most happy person.Besides, becoming a Hindu does not take you to very alien world ! It was yours-I mean, almost all the Muslims had Hindus as their forefathers!! Thus, you will be joining to ‘your ORIGINAL religion!Besides, as a Hindu, your lover will have the freedom to wear colorful dresses and sarees, Veil will not be there for her. She would be able to take her further education, would be able to drive, perform religious rights etc..There are many many advantages of leading a Hindu life like Practicing Yoga, Pranayam, Dhyan (Meditation) etc. Hence, you should become Hindu. It will solve the dilemma in seconds !!
Imran, Admin is right. The most important thing is to get a good education and become financially independent. Only then, can you marry and live your life the way you want too.
Hello imran,
i can undrstand wat ur girlfrnd is gng thru..i dnt knw much abt u nd ur gfrnd…bt in a general way…i wud jus tel u dat if u both r young….dnt tk hurried decisionz…u have to b financialy independent…to live alone…nd pls dnt run away nd marry…bcoz watevr it is…dey r our parentz…nd i wud suggest dat respect her religion..nd d most imp thing is pls think abt how wil she adjust in ur family…bcoz as a jain she may nt b able to tolerate eatng habitz..so u hav to think abt ur situation practicaly too…..4 both of u…act maturely…be firm….nd try to meet her parents nd convince dem dat u wil take care of her…nd take tym…nd tk d right way….else dis is jus wat i can say
rest is all on u..bcoz…if u tk d wrong path…thingz r liable to get awry…emotionaly nd legaly too…this is jus ma suggestion…bcoz as i say evry case is difrnt…nd u need to act accordingly….
All d best