only goodwill says: February 7, 2013 at 7:45 am
till 1 year ago,I used to be completely anti communal.in favt nowa I try to be communal a lot but I fail to be…..neways I am a hindu guy and I read koran(not completely),bible(not completely),Bhagavad GitA,other hindu mythology books(not completely)……being neutral I found out hindu religion being most modern and far better anti male chauvinist than islam and christanity….But I must include one thing I dont worship any idol and respect love…..
but there is one thing muslims allow their menfolk to marry any one but women are not allowed to do so…….in fact murder occurs too when such an incident takes place that a muslim girl is marrying a hindu guy…girls!!!!!!!!!!!wake up and guys too!!!!!!!!!I know what koran says but if there would be any allah(muslim term for god) or bhagwaan(Hindu term for God) they would have never wanted to grow population of a particular religion but want only love and peace to be spreaded and that is what the world requires…..
i love a muslim girl but I am not sure if we will have a happy ending but if we have so I will never stop her if she reads namaaz and there is also one more thing love should be both sided so the boy should never convert his religion to any other religion…..and to muslim men(only who are idiotic orthodox),change yourselves allow your women to any man(hindu,christian,muslim any one)just see that the guy is good and only then will u do something for the “Allah” and get jannat…and remember every man and woman(all religions) allah,bhagwaan and god all is one and no author’s religius books have every right things…..just spread peace….only then can you be nar to allah/god/bhagwaan
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My parents expect him to convert to Islam
Exactly
I’m a Muslim girl
I’m in love with a Hindu boy
But no one understands my feelings
Which are at it extreme
I’m in Pakistan
And he’s in India
What can happen ???
I wish you’ll have happy ending
And mine too
🙁
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To know about hinduism vist
http://www.angelfire.com/journal/wrote/Hinducontents.html a great religion ha ha ha
Wow! Eye opener. Thanks for sharing.
Agree a “Muslim” should not marry a Hindu. Lets not mix milk and yogurt.
I married by muslim girlfriend after a 1 year hard fight with both my and her parents. We knew we would face big problems in the early days infact we even decided to split but the power of true love never let us and we were ready to face the consequences as expected. It was very hard for me especially with the job I do in Air force but nothing stopped us.
You need to be very patient,and talk with her about how to go about this, best thing is to talk to the parents directly and assure them that you will take care of their daughter and will not let her down, sounds easy but not. When I went to talk to her parents their family pushed me out of the house in front of the whole neighbourhood and my parents were not happy at all either, both our family went into the fight but we never gave up we were firm in our position. we consulted many consultants both legal and religious ones all of them gave us positive thoughts. we fought and stood really firm with only thing in our mind, I am for her and she is for me. It wasnt easy, sleepless nights, lots of fights and there was even a point where I nearly resigned my job in the airfoce. Without taking steps nothing will happen, stay committed and be there for eachother.
Finally, around a year later my parents gave me the support as I convinced them for long and with their help I married her. her parents are still against us but we have hope they will understand us one day. We are happily married now and soon to be blessed with a child.
Reply to Raman at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=4623
Salaam,
My name is Sasha. My full name is Aleksandr and I was born in Chisinau, Moldova to an Uzbek father and a Moldovan mother. My father is a Jew and my mother was baptized as Eastern Orthodox Christian (her mother was half Jewish). I grew up as a half-Uzbek half-Moldovan boy, but deep down I always knew I was Jewish by blood. It took me until the age of 12, when I finally realized I didn’t have to hide it. That was from the help of a girl I had met, a Muslim. Over the year and a half, we had become friends, and she was not very religious nor was I. Together, we made promises to be halaal (kosher) together, and always watched out for each other. I made sure no man had ever touched her, and she gave me the friendship I had long needed in my life, she was my first friend.
Months passed (I was 13), and she had left to go back to Pakistan to visit relatives, then moved to a different state. I had lost contact until I turned 15, and we found each other again on a site. We grew back to our old friendship, and I had told her I had waited for many years for her return. She had apologized to me for never telling me, and we continued to talk. Valentine’s Day had come, and I was ashamed to tell her, but we shared the same feelings. I knew she was a Muslim, and she had known I was a Jew, but it didn’t bother us. We decided to further our friendship, but not become boyfriend/girlfriend. With our friendship, I had read the Qur’an with her, and she told me because of my caring and kindness to her, she no longer feels ashamed to be Muslim. I stopped calling Him Yahweh, and accepted Allah as the name.
Months turned into years and our feelings slowly started progressing to the point where we wanted to marry. We knew we were young, but it was the first instance of love we had ever had in our lives. I wrote her poetry in Farsi and Urdu for her to show my devotion to this girl. I have never looked at her with “imagining eyes” (sex, kisses, hugs), and I always encouraged her to wear her dupatta because it was beautiful and I had always appreciated her modesty. I told her sex is a marital bond and should only be shared between husband and wife, and she said she had felt so happy to know that I felt the same way about marriage as her.
At the time of her 17th birthday, I had sent her a gold nose ring, and some poetry, to show my affection for her, in which I told her I got her special gifts. The gifts quickly turned into nightmares though. Her mother had found my gifts first! While she was at school, her mother had peered into my gifts and was deeply shocked. By the time Aisha (the girl’s name) got home, she had found her mother in tears, praying Allah to forgive her for what Aisha has done.
I have felt shame in what I did, I had taken away her daughter’s trust, her respect, and also, her heart. Aisha had told me that we could not be together, not even friends because her mother now knows. She feared that if I came to ask for her hand, her mother would hurriedly rush her off to Pakistan to be arranged. I felt broken. The one girl I had loved, I lost over a gift. Our feelings were true, and we were never haraam with each other. Ever since that day, I have not smiled, eaten, slept, or felt any sort of happiness. We continue to secretly talk, but no longer with emotions. She does not want her family to lose their reputation, and begs me not to ask for her, as to not ruin my family’s name as well.
I find myself praying to Allah more and more, asking for my forgiveness for ruining such a family. I ask Allah to allow me to be with her and her family, not for sex or any haraam desire, but for the happiness we give each other, and I am willing to provide everything for her and her family. We have felt unhappy, but she asks me not to try to convince her mother. I feel like Allah has punished me for my actions. I was born a Jew, but feel Muslim at heart because of her. I do accept Muhammad as the Prophet, and tell her ways she can improve being Muslim everyday, which she has never thought of.
I want to tell her family that I will provide for her, and will never hurt her, and am willing to become Muslim for them if they wish me to. Her mother thinks I am any other man, who only seeks sex and to hurt and bring shame to her. She claims she has found everything in my letters to prove it, overlooking the obvious poetry I have written. She will not even give Aisha the chance to tell her about me. I try to pray to Allah to tell her mother that I am not the man she is thinking of, I am true in what I say and feel. I wrote her poetry from my heart, and I support Aisha’s decisions, I will raise my children as Muslims, for I have always loved Islam, even if I am Jewish. I wrote her mother a letter that Aisha does not know of, asking her mother for forgiveness and to give me a chance to explain myself.
My question is: If I become Muslim, what would I tell my family and what would I have to do? My grandfather who is a practicing Christian (father’s side) hates Muslims and Jews. I have told him about me being Jewish, and he told me “Never! You must not damn yourself that way. You are not Jewish and never will be. Absurd! (Insert long list of Russian cuss words)”
When I told him I thought Muslim women were the most beautiful women in the world, he had yelled and said in Russian (Uzbeks and Moldovans all speak Russian due to Communism) “Sickly! They hide themselves in rags and never even know the desire to love! They will never treat a man right, they only know their Allah! They are so sickly, and I hope you never find one! God will curse you to Hell for loving one of THEM!!”
I obviously do not agree at all with this, so please help me in finding a way to tell both families of the way I feel.
Khuda Hafez
Reply to Sasha at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=4363
Sasha, it is so great that you truely love this girl. Here is my genuine advice as someone who is Muslim and used to come from a strict family (they are more liberal now). If you want her, fight for her – don’t give up. What is the worse that can happen? if you convert, then it is no longer a religious issue – it is cultural – culture which is man-made and is not divine so you do not have to follow it. If you really love her, go after her and don’t stop. Trust me, I can’t type my whole story but I come from a really really traditional family and preservence and patience will make whatever you want happen as long as you have faith and go after what you want.
Dear H,
This is a forum to teach youths and who could be a better teacher than the ones with experience? Can you share your life story? No one knows who “H” is or from which country. This is the beauty of this forum. Please share your experiences of life, please. Thanks.
Have faith on God, you will have happy ending of your love story.
Have patience and convince her wherever she has doubts and confusion.
If she has true love, she will not go against relationship with you.
Best wishes
Hey readers,
I am Farah from Malaga Southern Spain, aged 28 years, working in a logistics company for the last 3 years and deeply in love with a Hndu Guy from India, working in another logistic company. We have close interaction in the matter of business deals. I am deeply attracted with his behaviour and other personality traits.My parents wants me to marry with a muslim guy but I dont like their anti female attitudes.No condition from him to change to Hinduism. He has told his parents in India, who came few months back to Malaga and met me also. They have accepted our relations, if we both decided so.
Seen wonderful pieces of advices here.
Please advise.
Reply to Farah at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=4318
Hello Good will,
If the understanding is good, no problem in marrying her. Firm commitment and loyality is needed to be together in all phases of life, as true soul mate.
Yes u will have happy ending truly. dont worry.
You have clear heart and only love …very well said there should only be love.
Only ask your girl that will she be your soulmate at each and every step of life and if she says yes. so allah and ram both will be with you two. So dont worry you will have happy ending. please don’t let her loose from you. you both will regret later if you leave now. so be in love and respect each other.
Knowledge from personal experience girl must be with you at any cost. only she can lead you to a beautiful life. so if she is with you. dont worry let there be love.
TC