I (Hindu) am in a relation with a muslim girl…

Sameer says: June 17, 2012 3:38 am

Hindu Muslim marriage
No need to convert if the love is true!
my name is Sameer m in a relation with a muslim girl for two years. few days back their parents somehow came to know about our relation. they took her cell and seems caged her. they are not allowing her out of her house. there has been no contact between us for few days. i know her family would never agree a hindu guy. we seriously love each other and cant live without each other. we are even not too grown ups to take much big decision but i could do anything for her i just wanny marry her and stay with her throughout my life. we are in 2nd year of graduation. plz help us out every hour is difficult for me to spend feel like killing myself. her college would open on 2nd july. dont know what to do.

AryanDude says: June 17, 2012 at 7:26 am

Dude, I must say that your love is true for her, and you will be very complete once you two get married. Right now just ask her friends about her and get info where she can be met, i have been in the same situation and know how badly you need to see her.

Plus have friendship with groups of hindu dudes, who will help you in bad times. From my experience Muslim friends did not help me for my love and those secular hypocrites had hindu girlfriend. In college mostly girls are cause of fight. Complete your study and do court marriage. All the things will work but your love must be true for her and you should make yourself a tuff fighter. That is what going to win your love. Trust me this girl is fantastic for you but her father would not be. Be a fighter trust me that works. I m married to my muslim girlfriend.

Admin says: June 17, 2012 at 10:56 am

Rome was not built in one day. Have patience, nothing is going to happen overnight. Give a top priority to your education and after completing it get a good job. Without good education and financial independence, you cannot achieve (and later maintain) your love. If she has true love for you, she will wait for you. In long run, this approach is better for both of you.

Never convert (shahadah for Islamic nikaah) to Islam for just love with a girl, unless you truly believe in all Koranic teachings. Find out what type of life do you want…(this) or [that]? Some day she may come and tell you to be a Muslim for the heck of it. If so, know that she is nothing but a Love-Jihadi out to trap and convert you. NO BBS, please!

Consider yours and her’s safety. Are you aware of Islamic practice of honour killing? Fights may get ugly. Be smart, make well thought out moves, have patience!

Sameer says: on September 25, 2012 at 12:53 pm

I have got a good job and Salma and myself meeting and discussing future course of action. She has also given interview in two companies and hopeful to get a job soon. She has finally decided to marry with me, in all phases of life, as husband and wife. We seek blessings from all well wishers. -Sameer.

Salma says: on 27 September 2012 at 11:45 am

Hello every body. By the grace of Allah, I have got job consistent with my expectation, credit goes to Sameer, who appeared on this blog in June. With his strong determination and persistent efforts we both have got job now. Tomorrow is an auspicious day for me to start as working woman in my life for the first time.

Please bless me with your good wishes and also for our unification as husband and wife. Hahahahhaa.

Always expecting blessings from my well wishers. -Salma

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Salma says: January 28, 2013 at 8:03 am
Hello Admin and Satyen

Myself and Sameer have decided to marry on 14th April according to Arya Samaj rituals and then getting marriage registered legally.
Every thing ok now by your good wishes and blessings.

Please shower your blessings on us on 14th April 2013. -Salma

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101 Comments

  • December 25, 2017 8:42 am

    Hello sir
    Meri gf hm dono ek dusre se bhut pyar krte h ek dusre ke bina nhi rh skte but problem ye he ki meri gf Muslim he or ME hindu ye smaj hme accept kbhi nhi krega hum dono ek dusre se sadi krna chate he sir pr meri gf bol rhi h mujhe islam religion ko kabul krna pdega sbke samne bhle aap Uandr se jo Hindu ho jinko mante ho unko mano Sir ME bhut depression ME aagya hu kyoki ME uske bina nhi rh skta OR ME hindu tha hu OR rhna chahunga ME kya kru Sir kbhi to lgta he me susite kr lu kosis bhi kiya pr fir meri family ka OR meri hoNE wali life patnar yane meri gf ka face samne aajata he sir plz plz plz kuch solution dijiye kya kru

    Reply at https://interfaithshaadi.org/?p=13134

  • Mohit Rathore
    July 31, 2017 5:57 am

    Sir,

    sir m hindu hu.. but m ek muslim ladki se bhut pyar krta hu…wo bhi m,ujse bhut zyada pyar krti h.. hum apne future m ek dusre se shadi krna chahite h.. bhut serious h ek dusre k liye.. but we know ki hmre parents nhi manege kbhi bhi.. but hme shadi krni he h hm nhi rhe skte el dusre k bina..
    plz sir ,ujhe btaiye ki hm shadi kese kre..
    plz help me…..

    • Mohamed
      August 1, 2017 7:36 am

      There is no option left to convince both the parents biy my recommendation is without convince don’t marry, your parents got thought times which has given for you from the child hood… Remember those child hood days then take a decision…if you both wish can marry with special marriage act…

      Best of luck
      ~Mohammed~

      • August 1, 2017 8:59 pm

        A great suggestion to marry by the Special Marriage Act 1954. Best wishes.

  • Avinash
    April 24, 2016 4:35 am

    Help karo plz mai Muslim girl meri life my sh M khan 786 Use bhut pyar karta hu

    uske bina kuch bhi Nhi

    • April 24, 2016 9:04 am

      Most probably her parents will ask you to convert to Islam. Are you ready to be 100% Muslim and 0% Hindu? Will that be okay with your family?

    • vprith
      September 5, 2016 11:05 pm

      It’s time to take stand and change your rules and regulations..muslium aaj b 18th century m jo rhe h..mai khud ek muslim ladke s pyar kro hu.hum 8 saal s sath m h.aur wo mjhe convert hone bol rha h..par maine use chhod diya h..use shuru s pata tha mai hindu hu aur mai hindu hi rhungi.ek muslium jake mandir m pooja nhi kr skta balki ek hindu jake kahi b kug b look skta h..aur wo mjhe ye bola ki fi nhi h tb b mere ghr wale tmhe except kre jb ki uske ghr m sb ko pata h hamare bare m…so dear plz stand kro apni g k liye ek ladki hardum ye chahegi ki uska bf uska huby uske liye stand kre bhale tb koi aur kre ya na kre.aur agr tm use pyar krte ho to tm ghr m baat kro aur use bina convert use except kro hindu muslium law k acc. tm use marriage kr skte ho bina convert hue aur ye legal h.. mai Muslim ban b jati hu to koi

  • shakira (Nandini)
    August 5, 2015 10:35 am

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  • June 16, 2015 7:58 am

    Mac,

    You are mistaken to identify every one as the same, like you, some time posting comments as Haque,Pakhi,Zahid, Muhammad.

    You are a fake, boaster, misleading personality, associated with ISIS groups.

  • June 15, 2015 9:00 am

    Hi readers,

    Me 26yrears old,divorced 4 years ago by muslim husband, as he brought another wife, now myself working in a private college of engineering, as data operator,in love with a prof. of instrumentation age 27 years.He knows every thing about me.he is popular and known as best performer in the college.My parents are still against my marriage outside faith, as they are afraid of muslim fundamentalist anger.

    This is what is a legacy of islamic culture. Women should not be allowed to live gracefully, she should be kept under restrictions. Males committing so many attrocities on women, still allowed to live freely, give talak any time, bring another wife.My ex husband brought 15 year younger girl, as his wife.

    • mac
      June 15, 2015 9:13 am

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      Assalamu alaikom wa rahamatu Allah wa barakatoh, My name is Khalisa ( Claire), 27 years old , was born to an English family who didn’t believe in religion, my mother left when I was 6 months and I was put into different people homes to care for me , later my father got me back to live with him along with my brother and sister .
      I’ve felt that there should be a higher supereme , but wasn’t sure how to worship.
      On 2003, i started a rough journey after finding out that I was pregnant, things were really tough and I had to grow up faster and bear responsibilty. I was very lonely and prayed to God to guide me.
      It wasn’t until 2012 when I met my Muslim husband and learned about Islam, I declared Shahada and started wearing the scarf.
      My family didn’t accept that and fought with me, but I kept learning day by day with the help of my husband and started now to pray five times a day.
      I thank Allah as I’m enjoying the beauty of Islam. Islam is my life now , it’s like an oxygine that I can’t live without.
      Alhamdulillah, I live the best life though it can be hard sometimes and will fast for the first time this year. Allahu Akbar.

      Source: COnvert To Islam

  • June 10, 2015 4:41 am

    hi my name is Akash my story is same of sameer story. i have my own computer Institute. but her parents can’t agree with our marrige i wanna marry her but with help of my parents. i’ll convince my parent. if have any idea to help us to marriage. plz plz i can’t live without her. plz help me.

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=9996

  • Kumar
    May 23, 2015 11:01 am

    i seriously need ur help

    • admin
      May 23, 2015 12:57 pm

      Hi Kumar,
      Yes, for sure. Can you detail you issue here? Are you in love with a Muslim girl (we assume)?? Tell us how long are you in love, what you wish to do and is the girl agreeing to it. How about parents? We wait to hear from you in details right here.

  • Kumar
    May 23, 2015 11:00 am

    Can anybody help me?

  • JDZ
    March 31, 2015 1:48 pm

    This article is just a troll! Dont take it seriously, if anything Hindus go after muslims!

  • sagufta perween
    February 4, 2015 9:25 pm

    Hi i m sagufta going to marry with amit according to arya samaj rituals I think Hindu r better than Muslim .

  • sagufta perween
    February 4, 2015 9:23 pm

    Hi I’m sagufta I m engaged in love with Hindu boys amit Kumar we have decided to marry according to the arya samaj rituals. Kya koi yahan mujhe samjhayega ke Hindu se arya samaj ke according marriage kaise kiya jata hai

    • admin
      February 4, 2015 9:40 pm

      Dear Sagufta,

      We assume you are a Muslim. The Hindu marriage ceremony is easy part, but first your have to get support from yours and his families. Are they ready? Have you met the guys parents, are they ready to accept a Muslim?

      What Islam, Koran and Muhammad mean to you? Other Muslims will tell you that you cannot be a part of Hindu ceremony, what would you reply to them? Are you also planning to have Islamic Nikaah? Let us know more, please.

  • November 11, 2014 10:30 pm

    i am Muslim Girl but now i am convert in Hinduism and marrige to Mukesh Nathani. I am very Happy and feel very well. iam 100% satisfy to my life. some body want to kill me in my country. so i am living now in Portugal. kindly i am requesting to all hindu families please pray me and my sweet husband.
    regards
    Nandini Nathani (Ex-Shakira Khan) Model Pakistan
    i will wait your comment and pray on my Facebook

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8724

    • mac
      November 12, 2014 1:54 am

      Thank God you left islam, we don`t need evil people like you who disrespect women, force them to walk nude/half nude on ramp in front of men, so thanku very much

    • sagufta perween
      February 4, 2015 9:28 pm

      Best wishes sister u will soon get a healthy baby

  • October 2, 2014 6:38 pm

    I am a Hindu Brahmin from India who has moved to the US to complete my studies. I’ve recently got into a relationship with a Pakistani Muslim girl who is also doing her post graduate. We’ve been going put together since 2010 and now thinking about marriage. She is thinking of converting to Hinduism, but her parents will disown her. Please tell me what we can do to work on things. I made it clear to her, that I will not convert nor do I except her to

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8531

    • Kafir
      November 17, 2014 5:56 am

      Go head Ajay. Ancestors of your girl friend was Hindu. So, make her converted in to her forefather’s religion and get married. God bless you brother.

  • A muslim
    July 10, 2014 2:43 am

    Fakeee people..

  • A muslim
    July 8, 2014 11:25 am

    Ap muslim bheno se guzarish he..
    Ap hindu boy se marriage zror karen..q k har insan kud apni zindagi apne hissab se guzarne ka haaq he..but please ap islam k sat mazak mat bnao q k ek muslim start hi quran se hota he..ap ko quran ki to izaat karna parhe ge..quran kareem me ha agar koi woman kise non Muslim se marriage kare aur us k shohar ka religion convert na ho islam me to wo girl b muslim nhi rehti.
    To agar quran ap ko muslim nhi keh raha to ap muslim nhi hen..
    Please marriage k sat apna religion b change kya karen..q k jo quran ko nhi man raha ho wo muslim nhi hota..hindu religion accept karlen aur apne partner k sat achi life guzaren..q k ek muslim to ap rahe ge nhi to ek achi hindu hi bun jae..

    • mac
      July 8, 2014 10:34 pm

      koi hindu ya kisi b murti pujak se shadi karne se non-muslim nehi hota leken quran ki against jane kilea use bohot saja milega marne ki bad or uski maa baap ko b, wo saja 9000000000000000000000….billion years b ho sakta he, or agar wusne apne pati ka sath lund puja(shiv ling) ya murti puja karna suru kardia to wo hamesha kilea narak me jelega

  • July 4, 2014 5:16 am

    Hy iam a muslim girl in love with a hindu bt from about last 3 years. Iam engaged now with sum muslim guy by my parents wish im not happy.I was ready to marry my boyfriend and he was ready but his mom refused he backstep now he again came to me and saying that he wants to marry me I luv him alot and he says he also luvs me alot. What should I do. I mean can we live happily?

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8161

  • January 11, 2014 5:58 am

    Hi readers,

    After a long gap, I am on this blog. I married as per schedule.
    I am enjoying my life with Sameer. Very respectable life, no
    restriction. There is a lot of difference in the attitude of my
    inlaws, as compared to any muslim family, where abusive language,
    scolding, wife beating, harrassment is a routine matter and poor
    muslim wife has to lead a miserable life.

    • Sakib
      September 5, 2014 12:04 pm

      Hey,
      Not all muslim families have the same thing. you can’t generalize anything on you experience of on or two.
      Religious believe and marriage are two thing. Religious belief is a way of living once own life and marriage is with other. Quran doesn’t say a muslim girl cannot marry a non-muslim but ha it is not preferred for a muslim girl to marry a non-muslim man/guy. And this non-preference is just due to the chance that she might have to change her religious belief. If she can have her belief(if she feel then she is muslim) after marriage then its okey.

  • kallyan
    September 3, 2013 4:09 am

    you just wait untill she is free and try to communicate with her.go away and marry her after converting to hinduism.dont do any mistake to convert her my brother

  • Zubair
    July 12, 2013 1:46 pm

    There is nothing wrong in muslim girls marrying hindu boys.Muslim boys are jealous of hindu boys who marry muslim girls.Thats why they lecture muslim girls against conversion whereas they encourage hindu girls to convert to islam.This is where the fault lies.I am not blaming any religion but only showing where the problem of muslim mentality lies.I have done a full study of muslim and hindu mentality as per my observations in the society in day to day life.I found that muslims dont adjust.They ask others to adjust!This is the imbalance which muslims have created.Now I know muslims will think I am another salman rushdie but I dont care.All muslims know that they wrong in the name of religion but justify the wrong in their statements for the sake of their religion.Muslims have forgotten that true religion is humanity only.Regards..

  • jamel ahmed
    May 16, 2013 10:10 pm

    IN THE NAMR OF ALLAH THE MOST METCIFUL THE MOST KIND

    THERE IS NO GOD BUT ALLAH MUHMMADPBUH
    IS HIS TRUEPBUH SLAVEPBUH SERVENTPBUH MESSENGERPBUH

    GLORLY BE TO ALLAH
    ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
    ALLAH IS THE GREATEST

    GLORLY BE TO ALLAH ALL PRAISE IS HIS
    GLORLY BE TO ALLAH THE MAGNIFICENT

    INSALLAH MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS jamel786@hotmail.co.uk

    My mobile no is 07857200667

    I WOULD LIKE TO LET YOU KNOW YOU ARE TRYING TO BE NICE BUT

    IN FACT YOU ARE A CROOK WITH A HOOK WHO DOES NOT KNOW ABOUT

    THE HOLY BOOK QURAN AND YET YOU CALL YOURSELF A MUSLIM.

    WHERE I LIVE AND GRADUATE IS NONE OF YOUR DAMN BUSINESS?

    HAPPINESS IS STATE OF MIND. YOU CAN BE POOR AND YET THE MOST

    HAPPINESS PERSON IN THE WORLD. LOVE IS A FICKLE THING.

    YES YOU SACRIFICED YOURSELF, YOUR PARENTS, YOUR LIVE TO GET TO

    YOUR ‘SO CALLED’ HINDU LOVE. CONGRATULATIONS BITCH.

    YOUR SPEECH ABOUT CHALLENGES IN LIFE IS BULL CRAP.

    YOUR CHALLENGE WAS TO GET FUCKED BY A HINDU AND YOU DID THAT.

    HURRAY. WHAT A GOAL !!! THAT SHOULD BE RECORDED IN WORLD CUP HISTORY.

    MY ADVISE TO ALL MUSLIMS BE IT DOGS(MALE) OR BITCHES(FEMALE), PLEASE

    GET YOUR ACT TOGETHER AND HAVE PRIORITIES FOR YOUR LIFE AND HEREAFTER.

    INSHALLAH

  • March 31, 2013 12:04 pm

    Hi Salma & Sameer!!

    Almighty GOD is always with You.

    So don’t be afraid of any one.

    • Jamel
      May 11, 2013 8:41 pm

      IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE MOST MERCIFUL THE MOST KIND

      THERE IS NO GOD BUT ALLAH MUHMMADPBUH IS HIS TRUEPBUH
      SLAVRPBUH SERVENTPBUH MESSENGERPBUH

      GLORLY BE TO ALLAH
      ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
      ALLAH IS THE GREATEST

      GLORLY BE TO ALLAH ALL PRAISE IS HIS
      GLORLY BE TO ALLAH THE MAGNIFICENT

      PEACE BE UPON YOU AND THE MERCY OF ALLAH AND HIS BLESSINGS

      SISTER SALMA DONT MARRY THIS HINDU MAN
      IT IS FORBIDDEN HARM IF YOU TRULLY LOVE ALLAH YOU WILL NOT
      MARRY THIS HINDU IF YOU LOVE ALLAH MARRY A MUSLIM MAN

      THERE ARE PLENTY OF PIOUS WELL MANNERED EDUCATED
      RESPECTFUL MUSLIM MEN

      INSALLAH MARRY A MUSLIM MAN
      MAY ALLAH BLESS YOU GUDIANCE AND HELP YOU FIND A NICE MU
      MUSLIM MAN TO MARRY INSALLAH

      MAKE UP WITH YOUR PARENTS THEY ARE YOUR KEY TO
      PARADISE

      IF YOUR PARENTS ARE ANGRY WITH YOU THEN ALLAH IS ANGRY
      WITH YOU IF YOU PARENTS ARE HAPPY THEN ALLAH IS HAPPY
      MEANING ALLAH SAYS IN THE HOLY QURAN

      IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE MOST METCIFUL THE MOST KIND

      DO NOT SAY UFF TO YOUR PARENTS DO NOT SPEAK TO THEM
      WITH DESRESPECT OR YOU WILL END UP IN HELLFIRE
      NO DOUHT

      ALLAH IS MERCIFUL MOST KIND MOST FORGIVING

      SAY SORRY TO YOUR PARENTS AND TELL THIS HINDU TO GET
      LOST STAY AWAY FROM YOU AND YOU WILL INSALLAH MARRY A
      MUSLIM MAN

      I AM AVAILABLE FOR MARRIAGE
      IT IS BETTER TO MARRY A MUSLIM THAN A HNDU

      ALLAH SAYS UNBELIVERS TAKE YOU TO HELLFIRE
      ALLAH TAKES YOU TO PARADISE

      THANK YOU FOR TIME

      INSALLAH LEARN THE HOLY QURAN AND TEACH IT
      INSALLAH RECITE IT MEMORISE IT ACT OBEY IT

      INSALLAH YOU WILL MARRY A MUSLIM MAN
      FEAR ALLAH HAVETAGWA
      FEAR ALLAH LOVE ALLAH

      MAY ALLAH GUIDE YOU AND FORGIVE YOU

      AMEEM THUM AMEEN

      MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU

      • May 11, 2013 10:16 pm

        Jamel,
        It is nice to offer, “I AM AVAILABLE FOR MARRIAGE”, this is certainly a generous offer. If Salma is not married on Apr 14, 2013 as she has stated, she may want to know how much you are educated and what type of job (professional?) do you have. Yes, you are a Muslim that is a major qualification you have, but it would be good to know little more about you too.

  • March 31, 2013 11:54 am

    Hi Salma & Sameer !!

    BRAVO !! Well done !A Bold Step.Congratulation.Wish A Happy Life.

  • March 31, 2013 11:49 am

    Hi Salma & Sameer !!

    My all Well wishes & Blessings are always with You.Be Happy.

  • March 31, 2013 11:48 am

    Hi Salma & Sameer !!
    Hearty Congratulation to BOTH.
    My all Well wishes & Blessings are always with You.Be Happy.

  • rider
    March 24, 2013 7:23 am

    Hi Fatima, Sabana, Eram, Farida so you muslim girls are still muslims or u will become hindus? Which religion do you like most?

    • jamel ahmed
      March 24, 2013 1:16 pm

      IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE MOST MERCIFUL THE MOST KINDKIND

      IT IS HARAM FORBIDDEN FOR MUSLIM MEN AND WOMAN TO I
      MARRY A IDOLATER SOMEONE WHO IS ENEAMY OF ALLAH
      HINDUS ARE IDOLATERS THEY COMMIT SHRIK WHICH ALLAH
      WARNS US OUT YOU ARE MAKEING A PLACE FOR YOOURSELF IN THE
      HELLFIRE.

      ALLAH SAYS ALLAH PROMISES YOU PARDISE
      WHILR THE IDOLATERS NON BELIVERS TAKE YOU TO HELL FIRE

      REPENT BROTHERS AND SISTERS MAY ALLAH FORGIVE YOU AND GUIDE YOU
      AMEEN THUM AMEEN

      IT IS BETTER FOR YOU SISTERS TO MARRY MUSLIM MAN
      IT IS BETTER FOR YOU BROTERS TO MARRY MUSLIM WOMAN

      • jamel ahmed
        March 24, 2013 1:42 pm

        IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE MOST MERCIFUL THE M
        OST KIND

        THERE IS NO GOD BUT ALLAH MUHMMADPBUH IS HIS TRUEPBUH
        SLAVELBUH SERVENTPBUH MESSENGERPBUH

        GLORLY BE TO ALLAH
        ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
        ALLAH IS THE GREATEST
        GLORLY BE TO ALLAH ALL PRAISE IS HIS
        GLORLY BE TO ALLAH THE MAGNIFICENT

        PEACE BE UPON YOU AND THE MERCY OF ALLAH AND HIS BLESSINGS

        ANY SISTER WANT TO GET MARRIED ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH

        I AM A MUSLIM MAN
        I FEAR ALLAH. I RESPECT WOMAN

        PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH SAID THE BEST AMONGST YOU IS
        THE ONE WITH PERFECT MANNERS AND THE ONE YOU WITH PERFECT
        MANNERS IS THE ONE BEST TO HIS WIFE

        BE KIND TO WOWMAN RESPECT THEM TREAT THEM WE’LL
        LOOK AFTER THEIR NEEDS PROVIDE FOR THEM PROTECT THEM
        TREAT THEM WITH A SOFT GENGLTE HEART THIS FOR ALL WOMAN

        THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME

        MAY ALLAH HELP YOU FIND A GOOD MUSLIM HUSBAND

        MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU

        MY NO IS 07857200667

        NO OFFENCE TO NON BELIVERS WE LOVE ALLAHSWT MORE THAN EVERTHING
        ALLAH SWT IS OUR CREATER PROVIDER SUSTANER PROCTER
        OUR GOD

        THERE IS NO GOD BUT ALLAH MUHMMADPBUH IS HIS TRUEPBUH
        SLAVRPBUH SERVENTPBUH MESSENGERPBUH

        I PRAY DUA TO ALLAH TO BLESS GUIDANCE FOR MY SELF MY FAMILY
        ALL OF US PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH UMMATPBUH AND ALL
        OTHR CHILDREN OF ADAMPBUH AND EVEPBUH

        ALLAH GUIDE US AL TOWARDS THE TRUTH FAITH YOUR FAITH ISAM
        ISLAM. AMEEN THUM AMEEN

        ALLAH SAYS

        THIS DAY I HAVE COMPLETED MY FAVOUR ON YOU PERFECTED YOU
        RELIGION FOR YOU AND CHOSEN FOR YOU ISLAM

        THANK YOU ALLAH FOR MAKING US MUSLIMS PROPHETPBIH
        MUHMMADPBUH UMMATPBUH MUSILM

        ALL PRAISE AND THANKS FOR ALLAH ALONE
        ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH

        US PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH UMMATPBUH THE BEST OF
        ALL UMMATPBUH NATIONPBUH

        WE INSALLAH INVITE TOWARDS GOOD
        AND STOP FROM WRONG

        MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU

        MY NAME IS JAMEL AHMED
        I AM A HUMBLE MUSLIM ALWAYS LEARNING MY FAITH
        INSALLAH I WILL BE A HAFIZ OF QURAN INSALLAH LEARN
        THE QURAN AND TEACH THE QURAN
        INSALLAH OBEY THE QURAN UNDERSTAND THE QURAN
        CONTEMPLATE ON THE QURAN ACT AND LIVE ACCORDING THE
        QURAN

        INSALLAH

        PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH SAID THE BEST AMONGST
        YOU ARE THR ONE WHO LRARN THE QURAN AND TEACH IT

        INSALLAH WE ALL PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH DO THIS

        AMEEN THUM AMEEN

        ALLAHSWT WILL HELP TEACH GUIDE US INSALLAH
        AMEEN THUM AMEEN

        INSALLAH ALLAH HELP US GUARD AND PROTECT OUR NAMAZ
        NAMAZ PRAYER ALLAH FORGIVE US OUR FAULTS ALLAH HELP AND
        GUIDE US TOWARDS QURAN AND HADITH AND SUNNAHPBUH
        AMEEN THUM AMEEN

        MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU

        ANY MUSLIM WOMAN LOOKNG TO GET MARRIED MY NO IS
        07857200667

  • Akshay
    March 11, 2013 6:08 am

    Dear All,

    IF YOU TRULY LOVE SOMEONE BE WITH THEM, COME WHAT MAY BE TOGETHER, GET MARRIED, SHOULD BE TILL THE END AND TILL BOTH DIE, OR ELSE DON’T GET INTO LOVE I MEAN DON’T EXPRESS IT.

    LOVE IS GREATER THAN ANY RELIGION,COMMUNITY, CASTE ETC. DON’T WORRY ABOUT THE SOCIETY, LOVE SHOULD BE ACHIEVED, LOVERS SHOULD BE TOGETHER.

    About My love…..

    I am a Hindu boy, was more committed to my work/career, always thought about family and parents, dreams about my life and never wanted to get into love, never wanted to love, never wanted to hurt my parents and their thoughts. But LOVE HAPPENS and that cannot be planned.

    End of 2011, A female(Muslim) joined in my team only female in my team, as she was in my team,my responsibility was to protect her, guide her, teach her, support her, learnings from each her, to value each other thoughts etc. More than colleagues We became friends.

    In month of Sep. 2012, she said her parents decided to marry her with Muslim boy and engagement is over and she will get married in month of Dec. 2012. So I just smiled and was not able to sit in the office and I just walked out and I was not able to understand exactly what kind of emotion bond it was, I convinced myself that this is obvious feeling as my close friend is going away from me, but i should wish all good to her life.

    She completed 11 months at work, we never thought about love, but LOVE was somewhere, but we never knew that it was a love. We never expressed before each other, Especially i never wanted to express my love to her as she was already engaged to someone.

    Later on she started telling about the guy who was engaged to her, she started telling that she doesn’t like him, he is very rude in approach, he is still having affair with other female, my engagement happened as it was some kind of a obligation, I cannot be happy with him, etc.

    But Play master is on the top, in mid of October, Office trip was arranged at a hill station. During the time of trekking we were just calm and some different kind of feeling was there between us and never expressed our love.

    After coming from the trip, while chatting on the phone, she started telling you are different guy, you don’t have girl friend, you don’t know how to get girl friend and all, We arrived at a CHALLENGE, I said I can convince anyone and i can convince you also, as indirectly she also wanted to play pranks with me and the next challenge was to behave like a Boy friend and Girl Friend.

    Without know to each other we forgot about the challenge and we were in LOVE, which was expressed during the time of challenge period. We never knew that we loved each other so much since 11 months but we did not expressed.

    We used to exchange each other feeling and OUR SOULS WERE TOUCHED…She used to take care of me like anything, it was an unconditional love. She loved me so much, i loved her like anything.

    I decided I should get married to her, as SHE WAS MY FIRST LOVE, WANTED TO MARRY HER, WANTED TO BE WITH HER FOREVER…..

    She also said the same-thing, she wanted to be with me forever, lifelong… but she was having some doubt that whether will be together or not…. So she said we will get married for our understanding, so that we will be husband and wife, we got married on end of November 2012, and witness was only the GOD and only GOD. On that day I was so much satisfied as she became my wife and i am her proud husband. But I was not able to tell to anyone on this world. But I decided to life together forever with her after all she is my wife and she is only mine.

    So God’s decision was different, some relative passed away in her family and everyone was there at her home and started telling that deceased person always wanted to her marriage before the death. Later on everyone started speaking about her marriage, pressure was much on her.

    I never new that there was such kind of twist in my life, I exactly do not know what happened to her, she started telling “we were in a dream, we have to live in reality, i dont want to hurt my parents, i don’t want to kill them, my sister cant get good groom if i come with you, i have to get married to that person whom i am engaged with.

    I was totally into black room, i requested her so many times, that she cant be happy with that guy whom she doesnt love, he cant keep you happy, moreover i cannot live in this world without you.

    I am married to you, you are my wife and i am your husband, i cant let to go with someone or you cant leave me and go with someone. As a husband i need to protect you, i ll protect you, i am here to fight for anything, ready to fight against this world, society, etc.

    Then she started telling (mid of January 2013)”ours is not at all a marriage, we married in Hindu tradition, according to me, according to ISLAM it is not a marriage and we are not husband and wife. Later on she started convincing me that all love at the end it is more of a sacrifice, we should not be selfish, we cannot be mean to our parents, we should not hurt them, we need to SACRIFICE OUR LOVE”. She used to cry, i want not able to control my tears or emotion as i loved her truly and accepted her as my WIFE, life partner and my soul mate. She started telling that she would kill herself if I speak about my love with her again or if anyone one in her family comes to know about it. I made it clear to her, i cannot force you on anything, I wanted her to tell only one YES, if she was ready, i would have got her. This never happened

    She distributed her invitation cards to all in front of me at office. She also said my presence is required in her marriage if not others will speak bad about her/me. if i don’t attend her marriage.

    Embarrassing situation was that, she wanted to see me first, before she enters the Marriage Convention Hall, I was waiting for her to enter and she saw me, later on my colleagues saw me, i gave her a presentation (attending my own wife’s marriage???????), and i walked away from that place.

    I think no one on this earth should get this kind of a situation, where a actual husband was not able to tell to anyone about the marriage his own marriage, and attending his own wife’s marriage with some one and giving presentation??????

    I prayed to GOD, to give her happiness in her life…….I always wanted her to be happy and keep smiling, i never wanted or want to hurt her.

    But what about me? i cannot get married to anyone, My Will is not able to accept any female in my life apart from my love…But one thing for sure memories cannot be erased, i cannot forget her. But i cannot think about her as she is somebody’s property. i cannot be in touch with her and do not want to be.

    But what about her can she be happy with someone whom she never like at all and got married to him in front of all? that too in front of me????

    What about her parents in-case, in-case if she is not happy with the marriage which they liked? they marriage where society accepted this marriage? Can parents be happy if something goes wrong with the new married couple?

    Here only for the satisfaction of society, religion, obligations people get married. NO one can be happy here

    So if you love someone truly, be with them till your last breath…..Do not hurt your love, don’t give pain to your love, do not betray your love.

    Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=4550

  • January 28, 2013 8:03 am

    Hello Admn and Satyen

    Myself and Sameer have decided to marry on 14th April according to Arya Samaj rituals and then getting marriage registered legally.
    Every thing ok now by your good wishes and blessings.

    Please shower your blessings on us on 14th April 2013.

    • January 28, 2013 10:05 am

      Wow!! We wish you the best.

    • proloy
      February 18, 2013 9:30 am

      Congratulation.

  • December 29, 2012 8:47 am

    Hello every one.

    I am back again after a gap of almost 3 months. Myself and Sameer have got a job offer in an another company with 15% rise of compenssation. We shall be joining that manufacturing company in the new year , with E2 shop management software, a very challenging assignment for both of us. I never expected such a favourable situation for me and Sameer together and look for future everlasting relations, perhaps due to well wishes from all of you.

    So grateful to almighty.

  • raja
    December 11, 2012 3:22 am

    hi i am raja from bangalore

    • December 11, 2012 10:12 am

      Welcome Raja,
      Do you have any personal experience to share?

      • Anik
        January 6, 2013 1:42 pm

        Hi, frnds my name is Anik saha i want help from u al who r reading this. I love a muslim girl nd my love is true and she also love me . Hum dono ek dusre ko bohot payar krte hain aur hamara rista pichle 3 saal se chal raha hai but my prblm is our parents . Recently uski mom ko pata lag gaya aur uske mom ne usko bohot torchture kiya bol ki agar usne mujhe nahi chora toh woh uski papa ko bol dange . Aur woh dono fasi laga k mar jaiyenge lekin mera gf apne mom , papa ko bohot payar krti hai isiliye usne mujhse brkup krliya lekin mujhse brkup kr k bhi woh roj ghar mein roti hai par mere pas bapas nahi ah rahi hai . Woh mujhe bohot payar krti hai aur mein uske liye kuch bhi krne k liye taiar hu . Plzz… Help me

        Reply to Anik at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=4053

        • proloy
          February 18, 2013 9:36 am

          Do anything you think best but don’t convert in Islam as that is the religion of barbaric Arab tribes & you are the descendent of the greatest ancient civilization .Be proud of your religious identity.

  • fair
    December 2, 2012 4:51 pm

    Hey sameer….do not worry. Everything will be ok. Agar wo tumse such mein pyaar karti h to wo tumse kabhi door nahi ja sakti. Bas thoda confidence hona chahiye.aur ye tabhi possible hoga jab tum use mentally support doge.chahe jaise bhi situation ho ek dusre ka saath kabhi mat chordna.

    main 11th standard mein thi tabse ek hindu ladke se pyaar karti hun. aur 2007 mein humne shaadi bhi kar li. humdono bahut khush hain ek dusre ke saath. hum dono saare festivals saath mein celebrate karte hain. na usne mujhse kabhi kaha ki tum puja karo aur na maine usse kaha ki tum ibadat karo. hum dono ke god ek hain chahe unhe kisi bhi roop mein dekho.

    shaadi ke 5 saal baad bhi hamare parents ready nahi hain. maine apne in-laws ko manane ki bahut koshish ki par wo shayad kabhi nahi manege. par koi baat nahi hum apni koshish jaari rakhege aur

    tum apni girlfrnd se milne ki koshish karo. life mein sab tarah ke din aate hain. so pareshan mat ho. allah ta aala aur shiv ji dono tumhare shath hain fir to jeet tumhari hi honi hain. All d best

    Comment to Eram at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3540

    • dr.s
      December 3, 2012 11:08 am

      Hi eram nice to hear about u..i m also in love with a girl from last 5 and half year n she is muslim.she is not indian i went her house to convince her parents 2 times but they never agreed n when i asked my girlfriend to marry with me against her family she refused.she asked me to convert n stay in her country but i m not ready for it.she told me she will marry me only if u convert and stay with her in her country and also she said if we have children she want they all convert to muslim.My family is against our marriage even then also i told her that i will stay with her n for me she dont have to convert or do puja n all i m ready to accept her as who she is but she is not ready to accept me as who i m she said she will marry me only if i m muslim.i love her alot from past 5 years whatever i do i do considering her as my wife.What do you think she love me true??or i m stupid that i love her alot n she just want take advantage of it n make me muslim.I dont know what to do can u give me any advice??

      Reply to Dr. S at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=3554

      • fair
        December 3, 2012 6:05 pm

        Hi. Dr. S. Do not worry. Sab kuch behtar ho jayega.koi dharam nahi kehta ki meri puja karo.aur agar hum ibadat karte hain to hamara pyar aur respect hain apne god ke liye.dharam ke sahi mayne hum insano ne khud hi change kiya hain.aap khud socho ki aap us ladki ko poori tarah se apnane ko ready hain.aur aap apne decision mein stand bhi lena chahte hain.par love relation hamesha doo logon ki understanding se chalta hai.chahe wo understanding apki family ke liye ho ya fir dharam ke liye.aap apne dil ke haathon ek baar majboor hokar ready bhi ho jaoge ki aap kisi aur country mein jao.par jab aapko apni family ki yaad aayegi.tab bahut bura lagega.aur fir wo pyaar aapko saza lagne lagega.aap unko samjhao pyaar se.after all aapke family wale bhi aapse pyaar karte hain.keep faith on ur luv.

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        • kush agnihotri
          December 20, 2012 5:34 pm

          hiii
          i hope you would be fine there.. mujhe bus yah kahna hai ki maine bhi kai saal pahle ek muslim ladki se pyar kiya tha. magar mai un dino apne pairo me nahi khada tha aur na samajh tha. shayad yahi karan tha ki uske ghar wale aur mere ghar wale iske khilaaf the. mera manna hai saccha pyar hasil karna nahi hota balki apne pyar ko khush dekhna hota hai,. mumbai me aaj 8 saal akele gujarne ke baad ekaek mujhe pata chala ki uski shadi ho gayee hai vo bhi kisi brahman se.. i m very happy for her.. mai bahot khush hu ki vo khush hai bhale shadi is janam me na ho payi meri is janam me usse magar ye dua hai ki agle janam me mera pyar mujhe mile wapas, aur mai ek maafi bhi mangta hu jo mai uske pyar me khara nahi utra ,, aaj bhi mai kuwara hu aur shayad hamesha rahne wala hu.. my best wishes with her alwyas

    • October 13, 2014 9:31 pm

      Hi all…maine kuch time pehle ye article likha tha..sab kuch us time achcha tha..par waqt kisne dekha tha..2013 mein us insaan Jisse maine shaadi ki thi uske uske gharwalon ne Bahut xor diya..aur wo kamzor pad gaya..unlogon ne use mere saath nahi rehne diya..Kahin na Kahin wo bhi shayad yahi chahta tha..maine itna sab hone ke baad bhi maine 1 saal aur uska wait kiya..fir baad mein Pata chala ki uske affairs bhi the..par fir bhi dil nahi maana…maine usse ye sochkar saare contacts khatam kar liye ki use shayad aakal aayegi aur wo mujhe hamesha ke liye apnayega..but use to Ek mauka chahiye tha..maine jo documents the use usi insaan ke samne jala diya..usne ye game aur lambasted chalane ka socha tha..Aaj wo Hamesha ke liye mujhse door ja chuka h..uski November mein shaadi h..uske gharwale Bahut khush hain..shaadi ki shopping chal rahi h..main usse ye sochkar door huyi ki use meri value Pata chalegi aur wo mujhe apnayega..par use to ye mauka laga..hamara divorce nahi hua h..aur uske gharwalon ko lagta h ki shaadi huyi nahi thi kabhi..jabki aaj bhi mere paas shaadi ki pictures se lekar documents ki xerox h..aur court se paper nikalwane mein koi problem nahi aati…unlogon ne mujhe ekdum side mein kar diya..ye bhi nahi socha ki Mera kya hoga..uski shaadi to ho jayegi..par main ab kaise zindagi mein aage badh paungi..agar main Sirf Ek complain Daal dun ki usne divorce liye bagair shaadi kar raha h..to unsab par case chalega..mujhe sabne bola ki divorce file karo..alimony maango…par mujhe paisa nahi insaaf chahiye tha..wo log Bahut strong hain..mere saath kuch bhi ho sakta h..meri family insecure h..uske gharwalon ko ye nahi samajh aaya ki maine Unke ladke ko itni asaani se kyun Jaane diya..duniya mein Jin logon ke divorce hote hain wife Kitna kuch maangti hain…kitne allegations lagayi hai..mera dard koi nahi samjhega..agar main kuch officially karun bhi..to wo mujhe kabhi wapas nahi milega…usne.meri Puri lyf spoil kar di…maine usse kabhi kisi cheez ki farmaish nahi ki..aur usne sabko ye bola ki maine uske Bahut paise kharch karwaye..usne jo jo kiya h…wo koi ladki nahi jhel sakti..uski harkaton se tang aakar maine use choda..ki wo shayad sudhar jayega..par uski engagement to pehle hi ho chuki thi..mera Mann karta h ki suicide kar lun..par main kamzor nahi hun..main use saza nahi dungi..Allah taala hi denge..bus mujhe mera insaaf chahiye..family ka soch kar court nahi gayi..maine sabar kiya h…Allah taala mujhe aur taqat de..maine apne aap ko change kiya h..depend banaya h khud ko..bas mujhe intezaar rahega..main apni galti maanti hun ki uske kehne par maine uske gharwalon se bas ye jhoot bola ki main Hindu hun..ye uska plan tha..Sirf ye galti huyi officially engagement ke baad maine unlogon ko sachchai bata di ki main Muslim hun..main chahti to jhoot bolkar uske gharwalon ko andhere mein rakh sakti thi..par maine sab kuch bata diya shaadi se pehle..humlogon ne pehle ho court marriage ki thi...koi nahi bas mujhe Pata h..god will do justice for me..

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      • October 14, 2014 6:53 am

        Sorry to hear of your story, Eram. You are legally married and he cannot marry a second wife. It is same for you too. For this reason, get a formal divorce. He has responsibilities as a married man, and cannot walk away just like this.

        • October 14, 2014 1:44 pm

          Mujhe bas ye samajh nahi aata ki uske gharwalon ko ya use ye nahi lagta ki main unlogon ke khilaaf complaint kar sakti hun..agar main itni hi buri thi to ab tak to mujhe court mein hona chahiye tha..wo kabhi ye nahi samjhega ki..i still luv him..Tabhi itni asaani se wo shaadi kar raha h..wo keh raha h ki usne us ladki ko sab kuch bata diya h…par Aisi kaun si ladki hogi jo us ladke se shaadi karna chalegi jiski wife Abhi tak zinda h…mujhe bas insaaf chahiye..mere 7 years nahi wapas aa sakte..usne har wo paap kiye jo Ek shaadi ko khatam kar deta h…par main sehti rahi..plz Allah taala…agar main uske saath loyal thi..to plz mujhe mera insaaf chahiye..

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          • October 14, 2014 5:08 pm

            Eram,
            Legally you are his wife today, if you have documents to prove it. He cannot and should not marry someone else. He and his Gharwale should understand it. You have only one month to act, sooner the better. Understand that even he stop his marriage plan, still he may not accept you. However, he (and other love boys) must be taught a lesson.

            Why don’t you approach a local women abuse support group in you area? If that does not work out, contact local news media or police. Make sure to inform to your other friends/relatives and accompany with them for your safety. Good luck!

      • latif
        October 20, 2014 2:44 am

        Just faith and have patince woh shayad tumhrey layak nahi tha.Nayea siray say apni zindagi ki shurwat karo…i thing you are a strong woman

  • Basheer
    December 2, 2012 9:00 am

    Hi, Same story, But Im in love with Hindu women, we got married and she is ready to convert to Islam at her will. Now after 2 years her parents are also happy with our life as they are more interested in Islamic values. Thanks to all. Basheer

    • December 2, 2012 4:54 pm

      U r vey lucky.

    • December 2, 2012 9:10 pm

      Basheer,
      We are glad that things are going well for you. We are curious how did you got married? Hindu wedding, Nikaah or civel wedding? Above Eram Faridi is a pluralist respecting both faiths (“allah ta aala aur shiv ji dono tumhare sheath hain”), how about you? Please share more details. Please also come to guide other youths.

  • October 5, 2012 9:01 am

    Thanks Admn. for your valuable advice.
    in fact one more year of BCA is crucial. Being in the job, gain practical experience of application part, shall help a great,in project submission and viva, an integral part of the last semester. MCA could be done online. One who is already on the job, using various software programmes for fianncial engineering, he or she does not face much difficulty. The present company is new one and attempting to expanction its activities and so freshers like us have great opportunities to excell for career growth.

  • Salma
    October 4, 2012 12:09 pm

    Hi Dear Nargis,

    Thanks for the interest shown towards. I have joined my job. Orientation programme in financial engineering with latest software applications is under progress. Very challenging job, but because of our Bachelor of Computer Application programme that we (myself and Sameer) have been pursuing, has facilitated me to earn good will from my bosses so early. I have to burn my mid night oil to complete my study also. With blessings of all well wishers, dramatically postive signs are appearing in our life.

    May please shower on us your best wishes.

  • Nargis Khan
    September 30, 2012 10:50 am

    Hello Sameer/Salma,

    How about job of Salma? Did she join?
    Salma if you see this,let us know, how were your initial days in the job?
    God bless you both

    • Salma
      October 4, 2012 12:09 pm

      Hi Dear Nargis,

      Thanks for the interest shown towards. I have joined my job. Orientation programme in financial engineering with latest software applications is under progress. Very challenging job, but because of our Bachelor of Computer Application programme that we (myself and Sameer) have been pursuing, has facilitated me to earn good will from my bosses so early. I have to burn my mid night oil to complete my study also. With blessings of all well wishers, dramatically postive signs are appearing in our life.

      May please shower on us your best wishes.

      • October 4, 2012 8:36 pm

        For now, “burn my mid night oil to complete my study” is more important than to marry. Sameer should do the same. After you have your 4 years of college education, start thinking of marriage. Education first, rest will follow.

  • Salma
    September 27, 2012 11:45 am

    Hello every body.
    By the grace of Allah, I have got job consistent with my expectation, credit goes to Sameer, who appeared on this blog in June. With his strong determination and persistent efforts we both have got job now. Tomorrow is an auspicious day for me to start as working woman in my life for the first time.

    Please bless me with your good wishes and also for our unification as husband and wife. Hahahahhaa.

    Always expecting blessings from my well wishers.
    Salma

    • September 27, 2012 11:21 pm

      Good news, best wishes. You are not out of woods yet, but one step at a time.

      You are only in 3rd year of college, so take two more years to make up your mind about marriage. It is very easy to fall in love, but difficult to maintain it. To make an informed decision for your life, have you read this .. https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=2646 ? Are you sure for your marriage to an idol-worshipper?

      Expect all Muslim relatives to tell you that Sameer has to convert to Salman!! What will you tell them?

  • sameer
    September 27, 2012 6:00 am

    Hi Every body.

    Matter of great pleasure to share all of with you that Salma has got job now, about 1 km. away from my office.
    Thank God. Now we are independent. She will be joinging her job tomorrow. Great occasion to us.

    Hope we both will enjoy good wishes from all well wishers.

    • September 27, 2012 10:16 am

      Congrats!!

  • Farida
    September 27, 2012 5:32 am

    Hi Admin. Hahahhahaha…….you are great.

    Thanks a lot for interpretation of word, God Fearing. You are right in your interpretation. I meant to say that God is watching every action of any individual, so there should be fear of God, punishing for those evil deeds done by an individual during life. God is like father true, but as a child we have fear of father before doing any wrong act. I meant to say only on that cotext.

    The service you are doing to the mankind cannot be described in the words.

    Waiting for end result of Sameer and his GF with happy ending for a new life.
    God bless you and all of us.

    This has been moved https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=1914&cpage=1#comment-31256

  • September 26, 2012 11:12 am

    Hi Sameer Thanks for the update and also thankful to Admin, always giving rational advice with out any prejudice or bias. The comments by some muslim girls about hindu guys are based on practicality of life and not necessarily just to paternise.

    Sameer when Salma gets and job and you plan to marry, please convey updates, as your life story shall be a source of inspiration to so many loving couples to break the unwarranted barriers of society for a happy life.
    God bless you both.

    Also read more at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=1914&cpage=1#comment-31169

  • Sameer
    September 25, 2012 12:53 pm

    Hi Farida

    Thanks for the interest shown by you. I have got a good job and Salma and myself meeting and discussing future course of action.

    She has also given interview in two companies and hopeful to get a job soon.

    She has finally decided to marry with me, in all phases of life, as husband and wife.

    We seek blessings from all well wishers.

    • September 25, 2012 9:13 pm

      Best wishes Sameer.
      A reminder, tell her not to try to convert a rose into carnation. Tell her who you are and will die that way, a Hindu. She should remain what she is, a Muslim. There no place for the conversion business in a true love.
      Read https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=2643

  • Farida
    September 21, 2012 11:47 am

    Hello Sameer,

    What is the latest status of your marriage with your muslim GF?
    Is your mental swing stable?
    I wish to marry a like minded God fearing guy, intelligent, liberal, educated and loyal, even if he is Hindu.

    • September 25, 2012 9:02 pm

      Farida,
      Why you want a “God fearing guy”? God is like your father (or mother), you don’t have to “fear” of him unless you are doing something bad to him? Do that is good and your father will love you. This “fear” is only Islamic and Christian concept, Hindus are not taught to “fear” of God nor they are “born sinners.” If you want a “God fearing guy” then only look for an Abrahamics.

      • Farida
        September 27, 2012 5:32 am

        Hi Admn.Hahahhahaha…….you are great.

        Thanks a lot for interpretation of word, God Fearing. You are right in your interpretation. I meant to say that God is watching every action of any individual, so there should be fear of God, punishing for those evil deeds done by an individual during life. God is like father true, but as a child we have fear of father before doing any wrong act. I meant to say only on that cotext.

        The service you are doing to the mankind cannot be described in the words.

        Waiting for end result of Sameer and his GF with happy ending for a new life.
        God bless you and all of us.

        • September 27, 2012 10:06 am

          If (when) you have children, don’t teach them with “fear”, instead just explain them the full situation. Children are lots smarter than the parents think. The “fear” limits growth of a child. Even if a child makes small mistakes, that is okay, that is the way to experience real life. Gandhiji stole and did many bad things as a child, but he turned out okay. If you wish for intelligent children don’t use the “fear” as a tool. Only weak parents will use the “fear” factor.

  • suma usa
    July 30, 2012 3:03 pm

    muslims enjoy personal freedom in non-muslim countries. All their fears of marrying nonmuslims evaporate instantaneously if they are no more living in islamic republics. India has only partial relief because of large numbers of muslims living there and politicians favoring the mullahs for vote bank purposes. But then courts will protect them if they marry hindu men.

    High court helps Muslim girl to live with her Hindu husband
    PTI | Jul 30, 2012, 09.43PM ISTMADURAI: Coming to the aid of a Muslim girl who alleged threats from her family members after she married a Hindu, Madras high court bench here directed them not to interfere in her life as she was a major. Disposing of a petition by 21-year old K Fathima seeking police protection, Justice K Venkataraman said the parents should not interfere and precipitate as the girl was a major. The girl, an engineering student in Tirunelveli, was in love with her collegemate S Kannan and both got married at the famous Lord Muruga temple in Palani in Dindigul district on June 29 despite strong opposition from her family. She claimed to have received many threatening phone calls from her relatives and also from a fundamentalist organisation for having married a Hindu youth.

    The judge had summoned the girl, her husband as well as her parents to know the facts. Fathima told the judge she feared that she might become a victim of honour killing and sought protection. When questioned by the Judge, her parents insisted on taking her back with them but budged as the girl was adamant on living with her husband, who filed an affidavit promising to register the marriage.

    The Judge recorded the undertaking as well as the presence of a police official who stood witness to the entire episode and let the girl go with her husband. He also said the police could intervene only if any complaint was lodged by either of the parties making out a cognizable offence and not otherwise.

    • The Jew
      July 30, 2012 8:05 pm

      Here is the truth of Muslims – “She claimed to have received many threatening phone calls from her relatives and also from a fundamentalist organization for having married a Hindu youth.”

      Muslims have an active muslim fundamentalist organization, does zains,sikhs,buddists,jews have this? What I cant understand is whats wrong with Muslims, when a muslim girl wants to marry a hindu, or a non Muslim, whats there f*ing problem. This Muslim girl did what a normal human would do, tell her parents and what her parents did- contact the nearest islamic fundamentalist- the mosque. How can someone brand their daughter in front of unrelated guys, Its would have been better if the girl would have just run away with that hindu guy. Just because hindus are peace lovers they don’t encourage violence, but muslims take undue advantage- good you have an opponent now 🙂

  • paki_girl
    July 1, 2012 10:22 pm

    Fathima,

    Sabana is right to point out. Nothing is obtained without struggle for everlasting happiness and pleasure.

    Have patience and be tactful to achieve goal and in the mean time make realistic assessment of your boy friend.

    God bless you.

  • June 29, 2012 7:24 pm

    Thanks Admn. atleast allowing my comments posted as above.

    Please in the name of humanity, dont patronise attrocities/restrictions on the muslim girls in the name of religion. Maximum attrocities have been committed in the world in the name of religion. Half of the population should not be allowed to be deprived of their fundamental human rights. I have read recently comments of Veena Malik, a pakistani actress, who supported her 4 sisters and 1 brother to get educated and
    live a respectable life, how the mullas, maulvies have attempted to tarnish her image, without knowing factual position of her acts.

    It is real fact that any muslim girl marrying good Hindu girl has led a peaceful and respectable life.

  • June 28, 2012 3:34 pm

    Last time I pointed out certain things that are committed in the name of religion in Islam to pose restrictions on muslim girls, which was posted but it appears that the same has been deleted after moderation.
    Perhaps this is prejudiced and biased web site not to allow true picture of barbarism committed on women folk in the Islam.

    • June 28, 2012 10:00 pm

      Thanks for pointing this out. We found your comment in the spam folder (and un-spamed it).

      Request to all readers, unless a blogger is using dirty words, we do not sensor comments. However comment do go to spam (delete folder) automatically for several reasons. If so, please write back, like Chand did.

  • June 24, 2012 3:44 pm

    Hi Fathima,

    I am too a muslim girl, married a Hindu boy about 3 years back.
    When you both are earning and attained the age of majority, there is no problem to marry Hindu guy. I have realized that Hindu guys are far better than a muslim guy, as a soul partner. Hindus are more liberal and respectful and adjusting. My inlaws never forced me to change my religion and they equally respect my sentiments.

    In muslim community in the name religion, girls are treated very badly and even talak process for them is very rigid, whereas just a matter of game for males to give talak.

    Be bold and tactful, apply for court marriage and get registration certificate. My other 2 sisters are married with muslim guys, who are leading a very miserable life.

    Ask your soul mate for court marriage.

    • fazal mahmood
      March 5, 2014 4:05 am

      I find common sense missing in your message. Read ur msg again and u will find it is a made up message.

    • fazal mahmood
      March 5, 2014 4:05 am

      what u say is correct but fake is the true meaning of ur msg

  • fathima
    June 24, 2012 7:03 am

    Am a 21 year old muslim girl of kerala…i am in love with a hindu guy..he loves me truely but, my parents never accepts this relation..they are now in a hurry to look a perfect man for me..The guy i love have not got a good job yet..am having a pretty good job now..am waiting for him to settle in life..i cant tell my parents..pleas help me with solution.

    DO NOT COMMENT HERE, this comment is moved to https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=1973

    • sabana matlub
      June 24, 2012 3:44 pm

      I am too a muslim girl, married a Hindu boy about 3 years back.
      When you both are earning and attained the age of majority, there is no problem to marry Hindu guy. I have realized that Hindu guys are far better than a muslim guy, as a soul partner. Hindus are more liberal and respectful and adjusting. My inlaws never forced me to change my religion and they equally respect my sentiments.

      In muslim community in the name religion, girls are treated very badly and even talak process for them is very rigid, whereas just a matter of game for males to give talak.

      Be bold and tactful, apply for court marriage and get registration certificate. My other 2 sisters are married with muslim guys, who are leading a very miserable life.

      Ask your soul mate for court marriage.

      • fathima
        June 25, 2012 2:08 am

        where are u from???am really tensed as my family has started taking about my marriage..

        • fathima
          June 25, 2012 2:13 am

          I am unable to take a decision as my lover is not having a good job at the time being…we have just completed our graduation..is it safe to take a firm decision at this time???i wud be earning in a couple of months anyway..

          • June 25, 2012 4:52 pm

            Hi Fathima,

            You have to keep your mental swing stable in case you love him truely.
            I am now in Canada, originally from Indonesia. I am a software engineer, that I could attain due to my Hindu husband only.

            If financially you both are not strong right now, work hard to get a good job and then think for the marriage.

      • jamel ahmed
        March 24, 2013 2:17 pm

        IN THE NAME OF ALLAH THE MOST MERCIFUL THE MOST KIND
        THETE IS NO GOD BUT ALLAH MUHMMADPBUH IS HIS TRUEPBUH
        SLAVEPBUH SERVENTPBUH MESSENGERPBUH

        GLORLY BE TO ALLAH
        ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
        ALLAH IS THE GREATEST

        GLORLY BE TO ALLAH ALL PRAISE IS HIS
        GLORLY BE TO ALLAH THE MAGNIFICENT

        PEACE BE UPON YOU AND THE MERCY OF ALLAH AND HIS
        BLESSINGS

        SISTER SORRY TO READ YOU HAVE HAD BAD EXPERICENCE WITH
        PAKASTANI BOYS OR MEN BUT SORRY TO SAY SISTER THAT IS NOT
        ISLAM HOW THE PAKASTANI BOY OR MAN HAVE TREATED YOU

        I AM PAKASTANI MUSLIM ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH

        I KNOW MY DEEN MY FAITH MY ISLAM
        WHAT YOU EXPERICNED IS CULTURE PAKASTANI CULTRURE
        ARRANGED MARRAGES FORCED MARRAGES BRATING UP WIFT
        COOKING AND CLEANING NOT WORKING NOT GOING OUT NOT
        STUDING THIS IS ALL PAKASTANI CULTURE NOTHING TO DO
        WITH ISLAM

        LET MY TELL YOU ABOUT ISLAM AND HOW THE WOWMAN
        ARE TO TREATED AND RESPECTED IN ISLAM

        THE WOMAN IS ALLOWED TO CHOOSE HER OWN HUSBAND
        ONLY ONE CONDION HE MUST BE A MUSLIM MAN. CAN BE
        PAKASTANI MUSLIM INDIAN MUSLIM ENGLISH MUSLIM AFRO
        CARRIBEAN MUSLIM EUROPEAN MUSLIM ANY MUSLIM MAN
        YOU WANT TO MARRY YOU CAN MUST BE MUSLIM REMBER
        VERY IMPORTANT MUST BE MUSLIM

        WOMAN ARE ALLOWED TO WORK ALLOWED DO HAVE
        BUSNINESS LIKE PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH WIFEPBUH
        KADIGARAPBUH PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH WIFERA

        WOMAN CAN READ QURAN READ NAMAZ LEARN ABOUT ISLAM
        AND GIVE IVITAION DAWAT INVITE TO ISLAM

        WOMAN KEEP ALL THEIR EARNINGS IN ISLAM
        HUSBAND IS THE PROVIDER TAKE CARE OF WIFE FINACIALY
        AND PHYSICALLY SPRITUSLLY ETC

        WOMAN ARE TO BE LOVED RESPECTED AND HELPED IN ISLAM
        PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH SAID

        THE BEST AMONSGT YOU IS THE ONE WITH PERFECT MANNERS
        THE ONE WITH PERFECT MANNERS IS THE ONE BEST TO HIS WIFE

        MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU

        THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME SISTETS AND BROTHES
        MAY ALLAH FORGIVE US OUR FAULTS
        MAY ALKAJ HIDE OUR FAULTS
        MAY ALLAH GUIDE US TOWARDS ISLAM
        MAY ALKAH GUIDE US TOWRDS QURAN HADITHPBUH AND SUNNAHPBUH

        ANY SISTER LOOKING TO GET MARRIED
        INSALLAH I AM LOOKING TO GET MARRIED TO A MUSLIM WOMAN
        PLEASE INSALLAH FOLLOW WHAT PROPHETPBUH MUHMMAFPBUH
        SAID

        LOOK FOR THINGS IN WOMAN TO MARRY

        1 RELION FAITH ISLAM MUSLIM
        2 PROPERTY
        3 STATUS
        4 BEAUTY

        INSALLAH ALWAYS GO FOR NO 1 RELIGION FAITH ISLAM MUSLIM
        INSHALLAHSHE OR HE WILL HAVE EVERTHING ELSE

        AL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
        FORGIVE EVERONE CAUSED OFFENCE OR SAID SOMETHING
        WHICH HAD HURT YOUR FEELINGS I APPOLIGISE SAY SORRY TO EVE
        EVERYONE FROM MY HEART SORRY SORRY SORRY PLEASE FORGIVE ME

        PROPHETPBUH MUHMMADPBUH SAID

        BE MERCIFUL TO ALLAH CREATION ON EARTH AND THE ONE
        WHO IS ALL MERCIFUL IN THE HEAVENS WILL BE MERCIFUL
        TO YOU

        IM SORRY EVERYONE
        ALLAH FORGIVE ME AND EVEYONE

        AMEEN THUM AMEEN

        BLESSED IS THE PERSON MINDFUL OF HIS OWN FAULTS DOES
        NOT PICK FAULT IN OTHERS

        ALLAH MERCY OUTWEIGHT HIS WRATH
        ALLAH IS ALL MERCIFUL VERY MERCFUL VERY FORGIVING
        ALLAH FORGIVES AGAIN AND AGAIN
        ALLAH FORGIVES ALL SINS

        SISTERS MY NAME IS JAMEL AHMED MY NO IS 07857200667
        YOU CAN PHONE ME INSALLAH ANY TIME

        INSALLAH LOOK FORWARD TO HEARING FROM YOU SISTERS
        THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME
        MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU

        ALLAH BE WITH YOU

        • jamel ahmed
          March 24, 2013 2:37 pm

          IN THE NAMR OF ALLAH THE MOST METCIFUL THE MOST KIND

          THERE IS NO GOD BUT ALLAH MUHMMADPBUH
          IS HIS TRUEPBUH SLAVEPBUH SERVENTPBUH MESSENGERPBUH

          GLORLY BE TO ALLAH
          ALL PRAISE IS FOR ALLAH
          ALLAH IS THE GREATEST

          GLORLY BE TO ALLAH ALL PRAISE IS HIS
          GLORLY BE TO ALLAH THE MAGNIFICENT

          INSALLAH MY EMAIL ADDRESS IS jamel786@hotmail.co.uk

          My mobile no is 07857200667

          INSALLAH I LOOKING TO GET MARRIED
          INSALLAH ANY MUSLIM SISTERS WOMAN LOOKING TO GET MARRIED
          CAN PHONE ME

          INSALLAH MY MOBILE NO S
          IS 07857200667

          MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU

          I AM A HUMBLE MUSLIM
          I READ MY NAMAZ I READ MY QURAN
          I DONT DRINK I DONT SMOKE I DONT TAKE DRUGS
          I DONT HAVE GIRLFRIENDS
          I DONT PLAY AROUND

          INSALLAH LEARNING TO BE QURAN HAFIZ

          INSALLAH LEARN THE QURAN INSALLAH TEACH THE QURAN
          QURAN HADITHPBUH AND SUNNAHPBUH

          INSALLAH NEVER GO ASTRAY

          AMEEN THUM AMEEN

          ANY SISTERS WITH OR WITHOUT HIJAB
          INSALLAH YOU CAN COMPLETE 50 OF MY FAITH
          INSALLAH MUSLIM SISTERS WOMAN PHONE ME
          THANK YOU FOR YOUR TIME
          MAY ALLAH REWARD YOU

          • November 16, 2013 11:06 am

            Janab Jamel,
            There is a proverb which says ” You can`t make drink to an unwilling horse.” Similarly these non Muslims not listen to what you or other Muslims say/advise.
            Md.Zia-ul-Haque,Alim & Advocate

      • Mahek
        November 9, 2013 12:09 am

        Hi sabana..m totally agree with u. Me and my husband ankit both have face very crucial time in our several years of marriage.only because that our parents would be agree.but I think it will never possible until all of us should understand the real meanings of indianism.because India mein hi Kaha jata h ki hindu-muslim bhai bhai. Every Muslim and Hindu girl/boy should get the freedom about inter religion marriage. Our Indian law says that we all have free to take own decision about this scenario. But hamare gharwale Jo hamesha humein sikhate hain..ki hamesha sabse miljul kar raho..baad mein wahi sab humare saath itni problem create karte hain..if two people loves each other..understands each other feeling..then…ye dharam kahan se beech mein aa jata h..koi boy agar kisi ladki ko like karta h to kya pehle he should ask..r u Muslim or Hindu…we should change our thinking…

        Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7337

        • November 16, 2013 11:01 am

          Mahek
          Why can`t you sacrifice for your husband and revert to Islam? Kindly go through Manusmrity to know status and “liberty” of women in hindu religion.
          Md.Zia-ul-Haque,Alim & Advocate

  • Sabana matlub
    June 9, 2012 3:55 pm

    Your love, if true will certainly meet you one day. But at the moment you are just pursuing graduation and perhaps not earning any thing. You should complete your graduation and become an earning hand.Only then your marriage could become compatible to face challenges of life.May I know where do you live presently?and also what graduation? i.e professional or simple academic?

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