Asha says: March 9, 2013 at 3:49 pm
I am also in same situation we loved each other alot i am brahman nd he is khan. His family have no prblm in marriage if i ll bcme muslim. even I have no problem to cnvrt my slf as muslim.
Bt he nevr force me to chnge my religion he can accept me as i m -Asha
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Asha,
You have a typical story but glad you reached to this site. Please ask Mr. Khan to share his views here. Other Muslim girls will come here to guide you for how to deal with Mr. Khan.
This is a serious issue that “His family have no problem in marriage if i ll become muslim“. Further, your boyfriend is playing innocent by saying, “Bt he nevr force me to change my religion he can accept me as i m“. It is your utmost stupidity by thinking, “even I have no problem to cnvrt my slf as muslim”. You are being a typical pluralist Hindu and they are monotheist, exclusivist, supremacist, Telibani, love-Jihadi, and nothing less (we hope we are completely wrong!). If you want to find truth, just say “NO BBS“, not in this life, not for this Brahmin Asha nor even for my children.
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Lot of difference between a Hindu guy and a muslim guy
convert him to hinduism and then marry him.don’t increase terrorists my sister.good luck.
One of Muhammad’s more interesting sexual statements dealt with the amount of times a man can have sex in one day in Paradise.
A man will have intercourse in Paradise with his wives from among al-hoor al-‘iyn and his wives from among the people of this world, if they enter Paradise with him. A man will be given the strength of a hundred men to eat, drink, feel desire and have sexual intercourse. It was narrated from Anas that the Prophet said: “The believer in Paradise will be given such and such strength for sexual intercourse.” He was asked, “O Messenger of Allaah, will he really be able to do that?” He said, “He will be given the strength of one hundred (men).” (Narrated by al-Tirmidhi, no. 2459. He said, (it is) saheeh ghareeb). Sunan al-Tirmidhi #2459 (Source)
An additional three Hadith from Ibn Sad’s “Kitab al-Tabaqat al-Kabir”9, volume 1, pages 438, 439. (I have omitted the isnaad and the obligatory blessing on Muhammad):
…The apostle of Allah said, “Gabriel brought a kettle from which I ate and I was given the power of sexual intercourse to forty men.”
…The apostle of Allah was given the power to equal to that of forty men and the people of paradise will be given the power equal to eighty men
…The prophet was granted the power of sexual intercourse to that of forty men.
Ibn Kathir commenting on 56:35-37 says regarding the amount of times a man can have sex in one day in Paradise:
(In Paradise, the believer will be given such and such strength for women.) Anas said, “I asked, `O Allah’s Messenger! Will one be able to do that’ He said,
(He will be given the strength of a hundred (men).)” At-Tirmidhi also recorded it and said, “Sahih Gharib.” Abu Al-Qasim At-Tabarani recorded that Abu Hurayrah said that the Messenger of Allah was asked, “O Allah’s Messenger! Will we have sexual intercourse with our wives in Paradise” He said,
(The man will be able to have sexual intercourse with a hundred virgins in one day.) Al-Hafiz Abu `Abdullah Al-Maqdisi said, “In my view, this Hadith meets the criteria of the Sahih, and Allah knows best.” Allah’s statement,
(`Urub,) Sa`id bin Jubayr reported that Ibn `Abbas said, “They are in an infatuated state with their husbands, haven’t you ever seen a she-camel in heat? She is like that.” Ad-Dahhak reported from Ibn `Abbas who said, “The Urub and their husbands are their sweet hearts, and they are their husbands’ sweet hearts.” Similar was said by `Abdullah bin Sarjis, Mujahid, `Ikrimah, Abu Al-`Aliyah, Yahya bin Abi Kathir, `Atiyah, Al-Hasan, Qatadah, Ad-Dahhak and others. Ad-Dahhak reported from Ibn `Abbas;
Muhammad claimed he was gifted to perform sexually 40 times a day and that men in Paradise can have sex up to 80 or 100 times a day. Do the math – 100 times a day is over four times an hour for 24 hours. That this doesn’t leave much time for anything else does it? Muhammad promised unlimited sex. So, what do you think was on Muhammad’s mind?
Orgasm is the epitome of Islam’s heaven. Isn’t this image of Paradise more like a teenage boy’s or lecherous old man’s vision… engaging in sexual act after sexual act?
You should vist http://www.womeninislam.ws which is opened by muslim sisters and do not go to these so called muslim using fake muslim name and posting fake stories.
ASHA U R SPOILN UR LIFE….COME OUT OF IT…TELL UR MAN TO CONVERT IF HE REALLY LUVS U.ISLAM IS WORST.ITS A CAGE FOR WOMEN..WR U DONT HAVE ANY WAY OUT.DONT BE MAD…LEAVE HIM
Veena Milik
hell is only for non muslim and evil doers and fighting is for those who spread hate againest muslims and thouse who fights againest muslim and helps enemies of islam and for thouse non muslims who want peace with muslim for them there is no compulsion in religion. For hadiths who are againest women may be true or false as hadiths are recorded after 100 years of death of prophet muhammad. Islam always encourage forgiveness and said to be mercifull as every chapter of quran begin and tells as allah is most mercifull. E.g when prophet conqured mecca he forgave all the meccan who had fought againest him also during first crusade when crusade conquired jerusalim they killed all muslim and burned jews alive and after about 100 years when muslims reconquired jerusalim they forgave all christians and give them all medical assistance. It is better you to go neutral sources like than muslim and antimuslim sources like wikipedia the free enclopedia
Zunaid,
Hell is for you and other people like you, who torture, commit attrocities on women in the name of Islam. You are the product of
Mutta marriage perhaps. Your mother had a contract marriage for a week and then you got produced by her. You dont know you real father.
Hell is meant for Prophet like rapist and murder and imams and maulvies, who are involved in rape and sodomy in the madrasas and creat terrorists by luring them 72 virgins in heaven if they die during blasts and criminal activities. Your mother was raped by atleast 110000 males so far.
From below it is clear that islam allows war only in self defense i.e to fight againest those who fight againest islam and it clearly say how to deal enemies of islam. There are also peacefull verses in quran which you people do not know these verses are
2:256 “Let there be no compulsion in religion. Truth hasbeen made clear from error. Whoever rejects false worship and believes in Allah has graspedthe most trustworthy handhold that never breaks. And Allah hears and knows all things.”
16:82 But if they turn away from you, (O Prophet remember that) your only duty is a clear delivery of the Message (entrusted to you).
6:107 Yet if God had so willed, they would not have ascribed Divinity to aught besides him; hence, We have not made you their keeper, nor are you (of your own choice) a guardian over them.
4:79, 80 (Say to everyone of them,) ‘Whatever good betides you is from God and whatever evil betides you is from your own self and that We have (O Prophet) sent you to mankind only as a messenger and all sufficing is God as witness. Whoso obeys the Messenger, he indeed obeys God. And for thosewho turn away, We have not sent you as a keeper.”
11:28 (Noah to his people) He (Noah) said “O my people! think over it! If 1 act upon a clear direction from my Lord who hasbestowed on me from Himself the Merciful talent of seeing the right way, a way which you cannot see for yourself, does it follow that we can force you to take the right path when you definitely decline to take it?°
17:53, 54 And tell my servants that they should speak in a mostkindly manner (unto those who do not share their beliefs). Verily, Satan is always ready to stir up discord between men; for verily; Satan is mans foe …. Hence, We have not sent you (Unto men O Prophet) with power to determine their Faith.
21:107 to 109 (O Prophet?) ‘Wehave not sent you except to be a mercy to all mankind:” Declare,”Verily, what is revealed to me isthis, your God is the only One God, so is it not up to you to bow down to Him?’ But if they turn away then say, “I have delivered the Truth in a manner clear to one and all, and I know not whether the promised hour (of Judgment) is near or far.”
22:67 To every people have We appointed ceremonial rites (of prayer) which they observe; therefore, let them not wrangle over this matter with you, but bid them to turn to your Lord (since that is the main objective of religion). You indeed are rightly guided. But if they still dispute you in this matter, (thensay,) `God best knows (the valueof) what you do.”
88:21, 22 ; also see 24:54 And so, (O Prophet!) exhort them your task is only to exhort; you cannot compel them to believe.
48:28 He it is Who has sent forth His Messenger with the (task of spreading) Guidance and the Religion of Truth, to the end that tie make it prevail over every (false) religion, and none can bear witness to the Truth asGod does.
36:16, 17 (Three Messengers to their people)Said (the Messengers), “Our Sustainer knows that we have indeed been sent unto you, but we are not bound to more than clearly deliver the Message entrusted tous.’
39:41 Assuredly, We have sent down the Book to you in right form for the good of man. Whoso guided himself by it doesso to his own advantage, and whoso turns away from it does so at his own loss. You certainly are not their keeper.
42:6, 48 And whoso takes for patrons others besides God, over them does God keep a watch. Mark, you are not a keeper over them. But if they turn aside from you (do not get disheartened), for We have not sent you to be a keeper over them; your task is but to preach….
64:12 Obey God then and obey the Messenger, but if you turn away (no blame shall attach to our Messenger), for the duty of Our Messenger is just to deliver the message.
67:25, 26 And they ask, “When shall the promise be fulfilled if you speak the Truth?” Say, “The knowledge of it is verily with God alone, and verily I am but a plain warner.”
60:8 Allah forbids you not, withregard to those who fight you not for (your) Faith nor drive you out of your homes, from dealing kindly and justly with them: for Allah loveth those who are just.
60:9 Allah only forbids you, with regard to those who fight you for (your) Faith, and drive you out of your homes, and support (others) in driving you out, from turning to them (for friendship and protection). It is such as turn to them (in these circumstances), that do wrong
Now look rape to slave is sin
Let’s read a hadith from “Sunan Abu-Dawud”:
Book 12, Number 2304:, Narrated Jabir ibn Abdullah
Musaykah, a slave-girl of some Ansari, came and said: My master forces me to commit fornication. Thereupon the following verse wasrevealed: “But force notyour maids to prostitution (when they desire chastity).”
Can a female sex who have sex with her owner become his wife?
— Islam encourage muslims to marry his slave and give her freedom as Mahr or dower. Otherwise, if a female slave give birth a child of her owner, then that child is not a slave and also that female slave will be freeafter her owners death.
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Let’s see, situation of Slaves at Islam:
This is best part of slavery in Islam –
From Holy Quran, Verse 24:33 “Let those who find not the wherewithal for marriage keep themselves chaste, until God gives them means out of His grace. And if any of your slaves ask for a deed in writing (to enable them to earn their freedom for a certain sum), give them such a deed if ye know any good in them: yea, give them something yourselves out of the means which God has given to you. But force not your maids to prostitution when they desire chastity, in order that ye may make a gain in the goods of this life. But if anyone compels them, yet, aftersuch compulsion, is God,Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful (to them),”
Here what is Allah saying, a slave can ask for freedom and with freedom, if they ask something else (which God has given to you), owner must give them also.
Now some copy/paste from Wiki:
The conquests of the Arab armies and the expansion of the Islamic state that followed have always resulted in the capture of war prisoners who were subsequently set free or turned into slaves or Raqeeq (رقيق) and servants rather than taken as prisoners as was the Islamic tradition in wars. Once taken as slaves, they had to be dealt with in accordance with the Islamic law which was the law of the Islamic state, especially during the Umayyad and Abbasid eras. Accordingto that law, slaves are allowed to earn their living if they opted for that, otherwise it is the owner’s (master) duty to provide for that. They also can’t be forced to earn money for their masters unless with an agreement between the slave and the master. This conceptis called مخارجة in the Islamic jurisprudence. If the slave agrees to that and he would like the money s/he earns to be counted toward his/heremancipation then this has to be written in the form of a contract between the slave and the master. This is calledمكاتبة (mukataba) in the Islamic jurisprudence. Muslims believe that slave owners in Islam are strongly encouraged to perform mukataba withtheir slaves as directed by the Qur’an:
… And if any of your slaves ask for a deed in writing (to enable themto earn their freedom for a certain sum), give them such a deed if ye know any good in them: yea, give them something yourselves out of the means whichAllah has given to you….
—Qur’an, Sura An-Nur[43]
Slavery was tradition in the birth time of Islam. It wasn’t something you can easily remove. So, Islam change all the rules for slavery in the good way. You have to remember, first time in history, who announce (unable to find better word of announce to use here) the adhan was a slave.
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Let’s finish this;
– You can’t have sex outside of your wife and slave
– can’t force your slave to sex with you
– If your slave become mother of your child, she will be free after your death and that child will be not a slave from the birth.
– A slave can ask for freedom.
– A slave can become Imam or any kind of leader in Islami country
Like as you can’t force your wife to have sex with you, also you can’tforce your female slave to have sex with you.
Sorry for my bad grammer, not good at english.
Source(s):
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Arab_slave_trade
How does that feel that your mother and sister is slave, the master does not feeds then well and your mom and sister decide to give sexual favor, which master did not ask,, bit was offered, you and your Islam is full of slave concept, you don’t want to see you mom and sister as slave, bit your Qur’an says to keep non Muslims girls as slave, sex slaves, you must be an one great idiot to revealed what your religion really is.
As-salaam Alaikum,Admn.Sir,
I have been reading almost all blogs here and found them educative and interesting. I have a different problem.My question is regarding Anal Sex. I know clearly that anal sex is forbidden in Islam. However my husband is not a well practicing Muslim. I try to practice Islam as closely as possible and try to remove things in my life that may be sinful. My Husband is overall an understand person and does not create any obstacle in me trying to follow Islam. However, when it comes to Sex, he does not like it at all when I put restrictions on him. He likes to have full freedom in this aspect. He reallys wants to do anal sex and i stop him but then he gets very upset and mad at me. Due to this he is even fading away his understanding for me in other areas of life. He is frustrated, and some times even if I dont like it, he has still peformed anal sex with me. My question is, am I going to be punishable for this? In my heart, I know its wrong and I also try to stop him, but sometimes he just does not listen, will Allah hold me responsible for this? Am i sinful?
Please suggest, what should I do?
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Make your husband understand that in anal sex is sin in islam . Perheps you should do google search and write is anal sex allowed in islam it will show you lot of wapsites show these wapsites to your husband and he will understand
Sabeera,
If you don’t like or is not your preference, just say NO to him. He should not impose things on you. If he does not try to understand you in many little and big things, where will it stop? How far you will go? Don’t do things you are not comfortable. You are not slave of him, you have to work things out.
Hello Asha
I think you are getting trapped. I am muslim and I know how they deal with their wives, just for sex purposes, no hamanity, no mercy. If you married him ever, from day one your problems and bad days will start.On the wedding night you have to prove your virginity and blood stains shall be displayed in the morning, and in case no bleeding you will be kicked out. Bridegroom need not be virgin.
Restrictions shall be imposed on your movement and meetings with relatives. You will be forced to eat Beef, wear Burqa and remain at the mercy of the husband even if he marries another 3 women, as prescribed in the Koran.Most probably your genital may be mutiliated.
Islam is the only religion that has not changed with passage of time and rather put other evil practices on the females, like sex with dead wife,(in Egypt), no higher education for female like in Iran,no driving permission, no identity card, no voting rights.
I apprehend you are going to spoil your future and 100% one day will be kicked out. I know how cruel are muslim, how intolerant are they? Just to trap innocent girls they can go to any extent and converting them through false and treacherous methods, Koran permits to do so and it is not a sin. Being a Brahman can you eat Beef?
You should accept islam by heart.first read quran and hadiths from islamic sources then convert.you can vist http://www.discoveringislam.org http://www.muslimconverts.com
Yes Asha, you should read and understand Islam.
Read what Koran and Hadith has to say for Hindus. Make sure when you except Islam, you COMPLETELY forget your Hindu faith and Hindu relatives. You will have to merge 100% with your new faith and relatives.
If you have any doubt or not ready to give up your culture, do not convert. Remain what you are, it will be a good insurance, in case.