Pranav says: November 14, 2015 at 8:06 pm
So basically you’ve (Nusrat Khan) started to like a religion which says your parents will go to hell regardless of anything for no good reason simply for being a non Muslim? Well you’ve made a mistake and the only reason you’re liking islam is cause now you have no option left.
I’m from england and my wife was muslim her family literally forced me to become muslim for over 2 years. Rather than deceiving my family and disrespecting my God I offered her a simple solution “you follow your faith and let me follow mine” I’m sure only a Non-Muslim can say something like that.
Now I’m divorced and much happier rather than following a faith in which God wants to suffer others. I believe in merciful God like Krishna who’s equal to all and who only sees your Karma.
I pray that one day you leave islam and realise your mistake.
P.s – if your husband really loved you then this won’t have happened. Beside I feel sad for your parents. Pranav
Pranav says: November 14, 2015 at 8:18 pm
Sister Sandhya,
Abuser can never be your lover. Why do you wanna kill yourself for someone who never deserved you at first place ? Think about your mother and don’t let yourself further tortured by them.
Your life is a precious gift given by God don’t end it. Go to the police and report the incident in Domestic violence category. Divorce your husband and I’m sure sister you’ll find much deserved someone.
Krishna is there and he will make sure that they will pay for their Karma.
Please start a new life and Keep your faith and your mother.
I’ve done the same I had to divorce my muslim wife and saved myself from 3 years long mental depression, suicidal thoughts. Now Im happy being a Krishna devotee by reading Bhagvad Geeta, keeping my Hindu tradition which I love and my parents and family whom. If I can’t change my parents I can’t change my religion. Beside Hinduism is a true way of life for me and never imposed on me. -Pranav
Pranav says: November 14, 2015 at 10:03 pm
Hello everyone,
I am Pranav from London, England. Back in 2012 while doing my masters in London I came across my Ex-wife Axxxxx. Soon we fell in love & During that time I was looking for a flatmate since So she left her student accommodation and moved in with me. Her family was unaware of the step for a while, but once they found out they got really pissed at her. She had to leave the house and we stayed away for a while. Soon I’ve finish my study and got a job placement in London and she was still studying her degree. We could only see each other once in a while but, we were madly in love so we decided to get married. Then after view got a date for a registered marriage and got married in presence of two witnesses. Everything was going fine her family even accepted me which took a long time and my family was happy as well since everything worked out well. We have never planned for a religious marriage however I always wanted to do a traditional Hindu marriage.
For first few months everything was okay as we were so happy together. But then after finishing her studies Axxxx couldn’t find a job so rather than waiting for me at home alone she would go and stay with her family for few days during a week and come back during weekends. Which took a dramatic turn in my relation. We would always fight and argue for small things. At first I didn’t realise the mood swing but then one day she has asked me to visit a local mosque for a function where one Imam started giving me dawah about islam which I found awkward and strange. Once we got home we had a huge fight about it and then she has confessed that her family wants me to convert and they are against the marriage and putting pressure on her. I took her in my arms seeing that she’s crying and very depressed about the situation.
Everything was okay for a while but we would hardly talk despite of living together and then one day she tried to commit suicide by taking sleeping pills.
We got separated soon after as I told her family I love my religion and family & I’ll never leave any of them.
Axxxx wasn’t very religious and occasionally she used to drink alcohol. Also seeing me doing meditation, prayers and yoga she got curious about Hinduism and learned a lot of things by researching online and reading Bhagvad Gita. Although I have never forced her to do anything so, I thought maybe she wants to become a Hindu. I used to call her Asha & we were living a happy life. But due to constant torture and mental abuse on her finally after 18 months of separation I’ve filed a divorce as I couldn’t see her suffering more. She was willing to revert to Hinduism but, I offered her to keep her faith if she wanted to. Clearly her family couldn’t see that so they had to ruin her life by mentally torturing her. After years of life full of depression and separation we are finally now strangers.
She still loves me but, we just couldn’t be together.
P.s – Many things are so personal that I can’t even tell here but, hope in the name of religion another Axxxx won’t be mentally tortured and abused.
In addition of that I’ve isolated myself for well over a year and She’s gone into depression. I only pray for her recovery. Her family didn’t even hesitate to ruin her life in the name of religion and culture. It’s funny how they expect others to convert but when it comes for them to convert all the problem starts. I had the perfect solution of Keeping the faith and the family. Sadly their mentality was either my way or high way.
I just hope people like that change with new era. Axxxx couldn’t tell me in detail about the torture but, she was physically assaulted too. I can’t even believe that someone would do something horrible to their own blood. -Pranav
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Mr.Pranav – Its a complicated matter when young ones from a orthodox religious backgrounds to adjust. Most of western society do not cares unlike islamic or asian backgrounds. And being brought up in religious flavours all time its very difficult for both to understand and adjust, and families play a role to break it up. I lived 36 yrs in european pluralistic world and has seen many stories.
Her parents saved her after-life. Ideal parents. Every parents must protect their child from going towards wrong path, sometime they use sweet way by giving chocolate or sometime by hard hitting slap, but the goal is same, to save child from wrong path. They saved their daughter from going in hell fire.
You didn’t call her by her real name aisha but called her by your given fake name asha, you also wanted hindu marriage ceremony, you didn’t like her islamic name, called her by hindu name but the moment she tried to give a taste of her culture, you had spat, it means you were the intolerant partner. She tolerated all you hindu influence but you didn’t. Now you will say you didn’t wanted her to convert to hinduism,etc,etc. Truth is in hinduism there is no conversion coz there is nothing in reality called hinduism, anything and everything can be regarded as hinduism. Since now a days rss is tikedhar of hinduism, so look for them to get the definition of hinduism. Hinduism is more of cultural while islam is faith practice. You were so happy when you were applying your culture on her. Every muslim girl should take note of this, you may think ur hindu guy is secular and tolerant, bt in reality may not be, though u may thing my guy is nt like that, though there r exceptions, i am not generalising all hindu guys. Also this guy pranav contradicted himself and contradicted in big way, he critised his ex-wife’s parents as they ruined hers happy life, fair enough, but then this pranav is advising nusrat to ruin her life, coz nusrat is now happy with islam and i think happy baby but this guy is advising opposite. He is nothing but a hindu fanatic. Muslim girls save yourself from fanatic hindu boys,there are plenty who are planning day and night to ruin your life, to drag you to hell fire.
In addition of that I’ve isolated myself for well over a year and She’s gone into depression. I only pray for her recovery. Her family didn’t even hesitate to ruin her life in the name of religion and culture. It’s funny how they expect others to convert but when it comes for them to convert all the problem starts. I had the perfect solution of Keeping the faith and the family. Sadly their mentality was either my way or high way.
I just hope people like that change with new era. Axxxx couldn’t tell me in detail about the torture but, she was physically assaulted too. I can’t even believe that someone would do something horrible to their own blood.
Hello everyone,
I am Pranav from London, England. Back in 2012 while doing my masters in London I came across my Ex-wife Axxxx who’s originally from xxxx. Soon we fell in love & During that time I was looking for a flatmate since So she left her student accommodation and moved in with me. Her family was unaware of the step for a while, but once they found out they got really pissed at her. She had to leave the house and we stayed away for a while. Soon I’ve finish my study and got a job placement in London and she was still studying her degree. We could only see each other once in a while but, we were madly in love so we decided to get married. Then after view got a date for a registered marriage and got married in presence of two witnesses. Everything was going fine her family even accepted me which took a long time and my family was happy as well since everything worked out well. We have never planned for a religious marriage however I always wanted to do a traditional Hindu marriage.
For first few months everything was okay as we were so happy together. But then after finishing her studies Axxxx couldn’t find a job so rather than waiting for me at home alone she would go and stay with her family for few days during a week and come back during weekends. Which took a dramatic turn in my relation. We would always fight and argue for small things. At first I didn’t realise the mood swing but then one day she has asked me to visit a local mosque for a function where one Imam started giving me dawah about islam which I found awkward and strange. Once we got home we had a huge fight about it and then she has confessed that her family wants me to convert and they are against the marriage and putting pressure on her. I took her in my arms seeing that she’s crying and very depressed about the situation.
Everything was okay for a while but we would hardly talk despite of living together and then one day she tried to commit suicide by taking sleeping pills. We got separated soon after as I told her family I love my religion and family & I’ll never leave any of them.
Axxxx wasn’t very religious and occasionally she used to drink alcohol. Also seeing me doing meditation, prayers and yoga she got curious about Hinduism and learned a lot of things by researching online and reading Bhagvad Gita. Although I have never forced her to do anything so, I thought maybe she wants to become a Hindu. I used to call her Asha & we were living a happy life. But due to constant torture and mental abuse on her finally after 18 months of separation I’ve filed a divorce as I couldn’t see her suffering more. She was willing to revert to Hinduism but, I offered her to keep her faith if she wanted to. Clearly her family couldn’t see that so they had to ruin her life by mentally torturing her. After years of life full of depression and separation we are finally now strangers.
She still loves me but, we just couldn’t be together.
P.s – Many things are so personal that I can’t even tell here but, hope in the name of religion another Axxxx won’t be mentally tortured and abused.
Pranav,
Thank you for sharing details. This is something all Muslim-Non-Muslim dating couples should know. Religion could ruin your otherwise beautiful life.
It is not a good idea to give someone specific name and town, so we have removed it. If there is any other specific details, let us know and we will be glad to remove it for your both’s privacy.
Yes, this is Islam, “their mentality was either my way or high way.” Only Koran and Islam is truth, rest are wrong and to be converted by hook or crook. Yes, Axxxx was open minded for a while but “openminded” or being a pluralist is non-Islamic. There is only one God and that is as described by Muhammad.
Please make a point to visit this site every week and come educate all new youths in love. This is Godly work. This is humanitarian work. Please join us.
Hey sure I would love to share many incidences I had in my life. And I’ll ask my mate to join it too. Peace
Why my Ex- wife’s name is not visible and it’s ( Axxxxxx ) ?
I would like her name to be there and visible.
It is not ethical to put someone’s name and details here. You first have to ask her for her permission. You could get into legal trouble (not us; she may sue you) if she/her parents contact a lawyer. On any public forum, do not disclose your too much specifics (if you wish to change your name, let us know), it could hurt you some day. Be smart!
Dear Pranav,
We will not say we are sorry but rather happy that you did the right thing to get out of this marriage. There is no way you would have survived in that marriage. It is working out for Nusrat Khan because she is a submissive type personality, her only objective is to save her marriage. She gave up her job, gave up wearing jeans and now in hijab, gave up facebook, gave up her Hindu faith, even she was allowed to meet her parents only twice in 9 months but that is okay with her, and instead of her parents she spend all times with her mother-in-law (like her new mother). Every Muslim is looking for Nusrat but unfortunately Pranav was different.
Pranav, tell us how did you got married? By Nikaah? Hindu wedding? Court marriage?