Hindu in relationship with a Muslim naval officer

RealityCheck says: July 14, 2014 at 10:58 pm

I was in a relationship with a Muslim naval officer who was all friendly and open before getting into a relationship. He didn’t think or care much about the distance. We’ll recently while he was away I told him about how a guy tried to physically assault me and guess his reply, “so you think you are a victim? We’ll I will too get drunk and bang someone up and tell you it was the girl’s fault!” Even his best friend who is a hindu understood my part but he didn’t. These are the teachings of Muslims and Islam. They think of women just as sex objects. What was my fault? My fault was I am born with a vagina! That I am a girl and that’s equal to door mats in Islam. And so. I called my relationship off because Muslims are just dogs and ruthless people. Shame on you men! -RC

RealityCheck says: September 15, 2014 at 11:51 pm

Hi admin,
Sorry for such a late reply. But here’s your answer.
We never spoke about religion and in presumed we will follow our own paths and live in harmony. But now I know that wouldn’t have happened. My life has always revolved around Krsna and I know I would t have left my religion for him because my love is completely devoted to Krsna. Now I think Krsna let all this happen so that he could make me meet the one I am supposed to be with.
My current status is that I am about to get engaged later this year to a hindu punjabi boy. He is my living Krsna and was my backbone through it all. I love him and he loves me too. Hari has blessed us and is watching over me. I hope he blesses you too.
Jai Sri Krsna. -RC


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21 Comments

  • September 18, 2014 8:08 am

    Is there any country where muslim terrorists are not creating havoc?
    Why they are killing, kidnapping, raping in masses?
    They are doing openly in the name of islam.

    What is happening in Madarsas, training terrorists, brainwashing innocent kids. Jihad, Fatwa, human bombs are being creating. Even by these activities muslim countries are most sufferer.

  • mac
    September 17, 2014 12:05 am
    • rafat
      October 5, 2014 5:18 am

      You fools dont say anything about that you have no idea it’s not the rape victim it’s for the guy who rape a girl he needs 4 witnesses.I am shock you guys talk about rape now India has the second highest record of rapes after U.S where 70-80% peoples are Hindus.But you guys has no fault because it’s in your religion if dev raj indra can be the king of heaven after raping bramas Daugher aheliya(Just Suppose even Tridev’s dauther is not safe in India in that era)then why not normal Hindus and also the role model of woman the draupadi who has five husband because her mother in law said so in Dhan wow and the another interesting or you can say the most disgusting thing is that every husband has one year trail period.Soory if I hurt you I dont want to hurt anyone It’s very hurting when anyone says anything about ur religion I never do that but when i saw this guys talk bullshit about Islam I can control myself just read quran not for conversion but to clear ur misconceptions about Islam.

      • chandanj
        October 5, 2014 10:45 am

        Rafat my friend
        Ill clear draupadi is not role model
        for hindus.in those days words were given importance.when pandavas mother
        said what u have got share it among
        Brothers it was obeyed but the mother had not seen what the son had got him
        she also felt bad after uttering such
        Words. Mahabaratha shows how not to live life.one laugh od draupadi at durodhan created fights among brothers.

        • chandanj
          October 5, 2014 10:52 am

          Lord indra also has paid for his karmas in full.nobody escapes karma(deeds).if somebody speaks ill ignore it.learning about some culture
          Is not wrong but comparing is wrong.
          if u like somethings in hindus accept it and if u dont leave it.i like somethings in quran which i try to follow. Nothing wrong. Knowledge is free utilise my friend.god bless u

          • chandanj
            October 5, 2014 10:57 am

            Dear admin
            Ur doing a great job.

  • mac
    September 16, 2014 11:59 pm

    JUDIO-CHRISTIAN RULES:-

    Death for Adultery
    If a man commits adultery with another man’s wife, both the man and the woman must be put to death. (Leviticus 20:10 NLT)

    Death for Fornication
    A priest’s daughter who loses her honor by committing fornication and thereby dishonors her father also, shall be burned to death. (Leviticus 21:9 NAB)

    IN ISLAM/QURAN

    “Those who commit unlawful sexual intercourse of your women – bring against them four [witnesses] from among you. And if they testify, confine the guilty women to houses until death takes them or Allah ordains for them [another] way.”
    This is quoted from an authentic site. Google quran 4:15 and click on any site and find this. If you can read Urdu and have a quran then read it there as well.
    And yes, not all Muslims are this way but this is what they think of women. A woman is half as compared to men[quran 2:282]

    Okay, now coming to your point, even i had misconception about it, but recently my confusion got cleared.

    Once Asiha ra was lost from Caravan, she was then brouht back to medina by childhood friend of mohammad pbuh, people(enemy of mohammad pbuh and islam) spread rumour that aisha ra had scandal, she was accused of adultery, but she refused the allegation , at that time mohammad pbuh got confused whom to believe, then a new revelation came which laid the foundation of deling with further adultery allegations against any women, that 4 eye witness must be produced against the women, and it is very difficult to prove by 4 eye witness, because if any women hadn`t done anything how will people bring 4 eye witness, also those people who failed to bring eye witness they will be punished, and it is very difficult to prove thats why god made a such difficult rule and it is not about rape, rape in islam if any eveidence found is punishable to death.

    If you think 4 eye witness needed to prove rape innocence then how these are possible, remember muslim countries are the only countries which gives death punishment to rapist

    Watch this video, A BBC documentry, for make you things easier, watch this video from 2.22.50min which talks about 4 witness and rape http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gXTZDBNVmIo

    Rape, murder, apostasy, armed robbery and drug trafficking are all punishable by death under Saudi Arabia’s strict version of Islamic sharia law.
    http://www.ndtv.com/article/world/saudi-beheads-yemeni-for-rape-murder-572377

    Saudis behead two for raping minors
    http://gulfnews.com/news/gulf/saudi-arabia/saudis-behead-two-for-raping-minors-1.1352696

  • mac
    September 16, 2014 10:36 pm
    • RealityCheck
      September 16, 2014 11:20 pm

      There is nothing wrong in punishing rape victims and considering men superior than women? Hope God saves your soul! God is so funny at times that he creates mistakes like you.

      • mac
        September 16, 2014 11:52 pm

        when did i say punishing rape victims is okay, hello madam, i am muslim and i can`t support a rapsit, we give rapist death punishmetns you elect rapist and send them to parliament,

  • September 16, 2014 10:22 pm

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  • Mohammed
    September 16, 2014 10:31 am

    realitycheck,

    hey ! mind ur words !! its the fault of him not the religion. .k
    Islam never teach like this things. . . .
    Search the articles about Islam. .then u become to knw that what Islam is. .
    without knwng anythng dont say anythng
    Islam is alawys a true religion. . .
    Islam gives a right path. . .

    • RealityCheck
      September 16, 2014 10:24 pm

      Dear Mohammud,
      Here I have for you,
      Quran 4:15
      Sahih International
      “Those who commit unlawful sexual intercourse of your women – bring against them four [witnesses] from among you. And if they testify, confine the guilty women to houses until death takes them or Allah ordains for them [another] way.”
      This is quoted from an authentic site. Google quran 4:15 and click on any site and find this. If you can read Urdu and have a quran then read it there as well.
      And yes, not all Muslims are this way but this is what they think of women. A woman is half as compared to men[quran 2:282]
      Please don’t lose your temper. My first post was written in a lost state as I was devastated my exbf’s reaction. I am cool now so please mind your language.
      Lord shall help you.
      Thank you.

      • mac
        September 16, 2014 10:39 pm

        so what wrong in this verses

        • RealityCheck
          September 16, 2014 10:52 pm

          Are you serious? What’s wrong?do you hear yourself? Isn’t it wrong to treat women less than men? And a rape victim needs witnesses and even then she will be punished? So bad of you!
          And FYI that quoting of yours is wrong.
          According to rig Veda the classes, brahmin(preacher), kshatriya(leader), vaishya(merchants and business men) and kshudra(skilled and man power) were the divisions. They were divided on the basis of skill. But as generations passed people misinterpreted it and didn’t peruse their talents and continued to fwork within their classes which later on became concrete castes. So please stop false quoting without knowing.

          • mac
            September 16, 2014 10:55 pm

            I am again asking whats wrong in that verse, do you have knwoledge about islam

      • mac
        September 16, 2014 11:57 pm

        JUDIO-CHRISTIAN RULES:-

        Death for Adultery
        If a man commits adultery with another man’s wife, both the man and the woman must be put to death. (Leviticus 20:10 NLT)

        Death for Fornication
        A priest’s daughter who loses her honor by committing fornication and thereby dishonors her father also, shall be burned to death. (Leviticus 21:9 NAB)

        IN ISLAM/QURAN

        “Those who commit unlawful sexual intercourse of your women – bring against them four [witnesses] from among you. And if they testify, confine the guilty women to houses until death takes them or Allah ordains for them [another] way.”
        This is quoted from an authentic site. Google quran 4:15 and click on any site and find this. If you can read Urdu and have a quran then read it there as well.
        And yes, not all Muslims are this way but this is what they think of women. A woman is half as compared to men[quran 2:282]

        Okay, now coming to your point, even i had misconception about it, but recently my confusion got cleared.

        Once Asiha ra was lost from Caravan, she was then brouht back to medina by childhood friend of mohammad pbuh, people(enemy of mohammad pbuh and islam) spread rumour that aisha ra had scandal, she was accused of adultery, but she refused the allegation , at that time mohammad pbuh got confused whom to believe, then a new revelation came which laid the foundation of deling with further adultery allegations against any women, that 4 eye witness must be produced against the women, and it is very difficult to prove by 4 eye witness, because if any women hadn`t done anything how will people bring 4 eye witness, also those people who failed to bring eye witness they will be punished, and it is very difficult to prove thats why god made a such difficult rule and it is not about rape, rape in islam if any eveidence found is punishable to death.

        If you think 4 eye witness needed to prove rape innocence then how these are possible, remember muslim countries are the only countries which gives death punishment to rapist http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gXTZDBNVmIo

        Watch this video, A BBC documentry, for make you things easier, watch this video from 2.22.50min which talks about 4 witness and rape
        Rape, murder, apostasy, armed robbery and drug trafficking are all punishable by death under Saudi Arabia’s strict version of Islamic sharia law.
        http://www.ndtv.com/article/world/saudi-beheads-yemeni-for-rape-murder-572377

        Saudis behead two for raping minors
        http://gulfnews.com/news/gulf/saudi-arabia/saudis-behead-two-for-raping-minors-1.1352696

      • Mohammed
        September 17, 2014 10:32 am

        Dear realitycheck,

        I come to ur point. .i thnk u didnt read ths properly. . .check ths to clearify ur doubts
        http://www.ummah.com/forum/showthread.php?305969-Can-anyone-explain-to-me-quran-verse-4-15-for-Non-muslims

        actualy like you girls r playng with us by the name of love. .by todays world
        peopls lovng to someone, sex to someone and marry to someone. .ths going on in most hindu religion but Islam doesnt Allow ths. . Ok
        dont be smart act. . . . . . . . . . .

  • September 16, 2014 7:25 am

    Best wishes. Come guide other youths here.

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