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I am Malaysian in love with a Muslim
marured.people lol…
cookie i ask u a very simple question?
u r converting to get married? or getting married to convert?…u said “faith is not lyk shoes” ryt?
but u r doing the same…changing ur shoes lol..
every religion has flaw.. u know y? because they hav their own “gods” n they are the creators of the god…no religion is flawless….so keep “changing.shoes” everday..whole life u will.b doing the.same.instead of beleiving in love n.living ur life peacefully u r stuck with religion..if u really know what is god and who is god..why converting? did god said m only for specific religion?
keep i guess i guess you met with your god and he told u to convert..
Hmm I was never a devout hindu..i was from childhood asking questions about hinduism and was honestly a sad excuse for a hindu..then I read about islam and after a lot of time,I got the guts to take my shahada..people who convert for marriage are the ones who convert taking faith as shoes..i converted faith after reading the Bhagwad Gita and noble Qoran..thus thanks but you need not worry about me changing faith everyday ;)..me converting doesn’t mean I have a low opinion on hinduism,it means it is not my thing..everything in Islam makes sense to me..ultimately I believe in doing what makes me happy and I don’t need advice on the same from people..becoming Muslim was a life changing decision for me..It’s better to be a practising Muslim than be a hindu having identity crisis..and the constitution of India has no problem with it so I dunno why you do?:/..live and let live 🙂
Admin first of all no one is forcing me to do anything. .I’m an educated woman living in a city and no one can force me to do anything small also, let alone something as big as changing my faith. .It was I who asked them for help with legal process of conversion..i am not changing my faith coz of my fiance (don’t call him Boyfriend coz that’s haram in our faith and he from day 1 asked me for marriage not a bf gf thingy )
Secondly, I am no Authority to say which religion is good and which is wrong and I respect people’s wish to follow whatever they like even though I might personally disagree with the same..my decision is solely based on reading the bhagwad gita , the Quran and my personal understanding on what I see in our society at large..For me, I’d like to worship one god not 1 crore and since I have personally never seen him, I find worshiping his photos or idols to be inconsistent with my belief system..ultimately, God guided me in the right path and I saw the truth for what it is and choose to accept it..my guy was in fact not a very serious Muslim when we started but now prays at least twice everyday, coz i motivate him to..I’m in my 20s and no one can manipulate me to follow something I don’t believe in..
as for what you saying about non Muslims going to hell I hope you know that even Christian ideology involves non Christians going to hell, coz they have not been saved by Christ pbuh..even jews believe that only they are the *chosen people* by god so that ideology is not by islam alone..
Again I’m not trying to prove Hinduism wrong coz its their life choice to follow what they like and having grown up as a Hindu girl, I can honestly say that it doesn’t teach wrong things, although I don’t agree with some of its aspects. .i am no fool and realise that faith is not like a pair of shoes which one may change whenever they wish to and fully know what I’m doing. .He is coming to India very soon and we are going to break the news to my family and inshaallah everything will workout ☺☺:)
Ultimately Allah knows best.
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8508&cpage=1#comment-345083
This was the bang on point reply that i have not seen for a long time. Your every sentence was to the point. wao you must be an intelligent girl. Have a nice halal future …cookie
Masha Allah sister . .
I am really happy for what u hav said in each and every point. .
you have comeup with a logic and right faith..
I will pray for u to Allah (s.w.t) to give u more hidayath and take over to the Jannah…
I think many people wants to teach from you…
Jazak Allah for your concern sister
All the best for your future
may Allah guide more to you for succusfull faith
Iam requesting you to understand more and be a practise muslim. . .
Well ok thanks a lot. .The support means a lot to me 🙂 🙂
I think you are this cookie https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8508
Yes, cookie, we do not want to assume anything. Are you with that Kuwaiti guy? Is he ready to marry you? Are your parents okay with it? Have you read Koran and Hadith? Mac will confirm that conversion to Islam is one way street (and not an on-off switch) and punishment to leaving Islam could be up to death. For this reason, take your time to make fully informed decision for your life.
dear cookie,
dont go with loose admin , he will divert you for ur hope. .and dont lose ur hope.. . you have taken a good decision… understand islam. . i hope you go with Islam
Mohammed,
Why mac and you are in rush to convert her? Let her first understand what Islam is. It is better in long run if she makes fully educated decision for her life, is it not?
Her interest in converting to Islam is her boy friend. If that guy were a Christian, today she would be talking about Baptism.
Many of pluralist/secular Hindus are fool. They think it is okay to pray to Krishna, then to Sai Baba, then take Shahadah, then pray to Shiva and then go to Gurudwara. However, those pluralists don’t know that Shahadah is a one-way street.
Once one takes Shahadah (convert to Islam), that person can’t (means never till death) ever pray to Hindu Gods or pray to Jesus or celebrate Holi and Diwali. Is that not true? Mohammed, be honest and tell her.
where we are forcing to take shahada.. .
by the way u only stoping her to take shahada…
its her decision that she wants to take shahada..
she doesnot want to go hell like you. . .
Cookie, do you believe in Islamic logic of ALL non-Muslim going to hell? Do you believe your Hindu parents and Hindu friends will go to hell because they do not follow Muhammad’s teachings?
” Once one takes Shahadah (convert to Islam), that person can’t (means never till death) ever pray to Hindu Gods or pray to Jesus or celebrate Holi and Diwali. Is that not true? ”
what a joke is this. .i want to laugh in this..
you are beliving hindu gods but praying for jesus(peace be upon him) which is the part of cristianity.. you are beliving three of the holy books but against only in islam. .
What is punishment for apostasy?
There is no punishment for people who converts to Islam and then reverts back to his/her religion. Admin, stop giving wrong information. Islam is vast subject and reading some news column article is not enough to understand Islam.
see..
who are forcing. . u or us. . ?
you forcing her to stop from taking shahada..
If you are going to take shahada then y u are fearing for it.?
Yes this is true @mac…I’m an Indian hindu and eager to take my shahada soon. .btw I have heard these days right wing groups have become very active and try to physically harm or honor kill hindu Muslim couples like myself and many others…is there a danger of this in cities too ??someone please answer my question. .and if there is a danger then what can we do to avoid it? ?
Are you in love with a Muslim?
if you are going to take shahada then y u are fearing…
no body force you. .you are a mature person and you have rights what u to do
Yes ,but how to legally go about the process of changing religion..I’m a hindu girl and interested in changing to islam..also I’m scared about these right wing people who might not like this fact and might cause troubles..can someone please enlighten me on the legal procedure for the same?
dont worry about others….contact the imaam of local mosqudm in your area. . they will give procedure to take shahada and further procedure for practicing. .
Masha Allah… you have camed on to the right path.. i will pray for you to enter the paradise and give successfull life in this world..
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Dear cookie, if there is problem then you don`t have to register, just read with me these words ” la ʾilaha ʾilla-llah, muḥammadun rasulu-llāh
There is no god but God, Muhammad is the messenger of God.” DONE, now you are a muslim,change from heart is the main point here, regitration is secondary.
Thanks
Bro its
” la ilaha illallah muhammadur rasulillah ”
Meaning : There is no god but Allah and Muhammed is messenger of Allah
“My story is beautiful!
I had become completely lost, filled with depression and sadness, hopeless. I woke up one Friday morning and decided I needed to take an adventure! I woke up my eighteen year old daughter and said get up we are going on an adventure, though she thought I had lost my mind she followed. I had decided we were going to find a mosque in our area just to see it. We got ready for the day, made a trip to the local library, went and had lunch and set out to find a mosque. When we arrived at 12:20 that afternoon we stood outside wondering if we could go inside. There was a man walking up and I asked him is it okay if we look inside? He gave us a strange confused look as we were wearing tee shirts, no hijab and as casual as can be.. He said why do you want to go in? I replied, we just want to see what it looks like. He said oh then you have to go around where the women are. So we did and we were asked to remove our shoes and cover our heads and bare arms which we did out of respect.
It was so welcoming, we were told we could sit in back and observe, we were invited back, and ever since that first time I couldn’t help but go back and learn more, the next week they had a teaching session for a local college we sat in on that. Everything I was so confused about and so depressed about has started to come together and I’m so happy now! It was Allah that led us there that day at that time. And ever since he has been putting different people in my life to teach me things. How funny my life changed on a Friday at 12:20.
So I wear Hijab because it has truly unveiled me, it has in turn revieled Allah’s love and protection, and I have a new life with it! Its a gift to me…”-Aydree Stuart (Vancouver Washington)
What is being taught in mosques and training camps,brainwashing innocents
for pleasure of 72 virgins ?
How islam expanded in the world?
Only due to bloodshed,hatred, killing,murder and raping?
How Hindus reduced to few thousands in Pakistan? How Hindus thrown out of J&K?
because Islam is only truth and people accepted truth, do you think people are fools to worship only false gods in the form of idols.
“I cannot sit by and let the world think that Islam is a killing religion. It hurts me to see what radical people are doing in the name of Islam. These radicals are doing things that God is against. Muslims do not believe in violence.”
Muhammad Ali previously known as Cassius Marcellus Clay,Junior , all time best boxer. who converted to Islam from Christianity.
Listen some of his best speeches
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=2QE9XBovMk0
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h8RpiqEfdsY
admin you also watch these videos and learn something, these videos are not about Islam.
Great.. Pandit belives in islam. .
check this out :
This is those who are always against to islam
must watch !!
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7foUag40MgA
Admin i warned you if you delete this then you want to delete those comments which are against islam..so dont delete it !!
Nice post/video.
Islam is a terrorist religion. Paris has been hit today.
Islam is not a terrorism and we have discussed this earlier. .
I have one question for you. . if islam teach terrorism then till now why both muslim and hindu are living in india..why muslim doesnt kills hindus in india?
why both hindu and muslims are living in the same country?
Tell me this answer. .
Muslims are living all over the world. Only the educated ones are living without problems everywhere. That is true with any and every educated religion people (not just muslims).
In India, its different… people of all religions have come here. Abhramic ones have tried to even spread everywhere(They were acting as its there in their books).
If you look at European History, First it was Christianity… then islam pervaded all the way upto Spain… and through Reformation/Rennaisans period, they were reconverted back to Christianity (Catholic or Protastant).
Islam spread well in Middle East and now is spreading in Africa (Countering Christianity’s expanse during British/Portugeese conquests).
Now, it came to India before European conquerers (Christianity). If you go through Babur, the Mughal’s words, you’ll know why Mughals were relatively more succesful than the sultanate before them.
Only one religion has been succesfull is influencing India to a very high extent.
Buddism.
The reason Buddism succeded is rather counter-intutive to Abhramic religions. Its sucess in India was by intellectual and argumentative promotion followed by Logical reasoning.
This also led to the sub-continent’s weakness against foreign powers as it excessively promotes Peace.
When its expanse and influence was very high, it was quickly reversed by extreamly effective counter-argumentative approaches, making Buddism’s reach and expanse dramatically reduce over a shoter period of time.
Currently, Hinduism has all that it has to offer along with what buddism had to offer.
So, why Islam and Christianity’s spread is limited? Because it has nothing to offer to India Intellectually that Indian religions don’t already know are or aware of.
Secondly, Indian indigenous religions do not promote discontent or anger against people of other religions/thoughts.
So, Mr. Mohammed (PBUH),
Islam and Christianity came, attempted their spread which lasted quite a while and finally slowed their proselectization.
The real reason for Islam or Christianity being peacefully co-existing in India is infact nothing to do with the religions themselves.
Both these religions have nothing to offer that the sub-continent does not know (Limited intellectual addition potential), so the only way they have any chance to make a major change is nullified. The sub-continent religions do not basically believe in ‘conversion’ concept => Which is the primary cause of strife and war between the Abhramic religions.
a) Indian sub-continent’s inherent ‘acceptance’ (Not just tolerance) to people of differnt faiths.
b) March of Science and Technology, which is currently making the relevance of all relgions obsolete.
I seriously doubt any other country/region in the world is this religiously diverse and yet relatively as peaceful.
Excellent analysis and superb thoughts. We would like to make it a separate post, but found a few statements not well thought out or not cohesive to publish it. Can you rewrite (like you would do for Times of India) and post it right here? Thanks.
Muhammad,
Q: Why muslim doesnt kills hindus in india? A: It is because Muslims are still minority in India. Islam is an exclusivist and supremacist faith. Once Muslims reach to a certain critical mass (like Kashmir, Pakistan and Bangla Desh), Hindus will have to pack up and go somewhere (or convert to Islam).
In 1947, there were 31% Hindus in Bangla Desh. Today, Bangla Desh’s population is 162M, meaning there should have been 50M Hindus there, but actually there are only 14M Hindus left there. What happended to 36MILLION Hindus in Bangla Desh? Why during the same time, Muslim population is growing in Hindu majority India? This is an unfair game!
“In 1947, there were 31% Hindus in Bangla Desh. Today, Bangla Desh’s
population is 162M, meaning there should have been 50M Hindus there, but actually there are only 14M Hindus left there. What happended to 36MILLION Hindus in Bangla Desh? Why during the same time, Muslim
population is growing in Hindu majority India?
This is an unfair game! ”
Religion is not a game admin. .
In Bangladesh, they came to know which the right path of religion
but unfortunatly in india they are going far away from the right path
you guys dont understand. . its a waste of time…
Stupid inslomophobic reply from an literated uneducated admin
Millions of Bangladeshis came here in India, same in case of Pakistanis, thatswhy now modi government is trying to give them permanent citizenship, also many of them converted to Islam, Kapil Dev went to Pakistan in search of his hindu maternal uncle and found that his uncle to be a Muslim, if Hindus in India are converting to Islam,Christianity then do you think it is hard for Pakistani,Bangladeshi Hindus to convert to Islam. think about it.
Muslims ruled India for about 800 years, according to admin`s logic, there shouldn`t have been single Hindu in India, I ask how come 80% Indians are Hindus???
Admins your hatred towards Islam and Muslims are exposed once again…