AMIRA says: November 2, 2020
I am Muslim. I have a relationship with Hindu guy for last 9 years. We studied together. He really love me. I love him too but my parents specially my mom she really don’t accept our relationship. She only thinks her side log kya kahenge teri wajah se kahi muh nai dikha paungi badnami etc etc….
She clearly said to me if I marry with him she won’t even contact me. Why she so heartless? Every single day I suffer a lot my mother tonts me everyday… Her words break me in inside what should i do??? –Amira
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Allah means almighty creator.
In Islam there is only one God and there are 99 names of that one God each of which evokes a distinct attribute of God.
Assalamu Wailaikum
Dear Sister Amira,
Myself Akash, a Hindu guy who married a Muslim girl five years ago.
Islam doesn’t allow marriage of Muslim women with non-muslim man. The man has to convert to Islam.
I converted to Islam and practicing Islam from past 5 years.
You should introduce your guy to Islam and if he converts you can proceed onto marriage. It is not about your mother, that you have to convince, it is about Allah that you have to convince.
Verse 2:221 of Quran forbids marriage with Non-muslims especially those who do Shirik i.e associate partners with Allah.
Reply at https://interfaithshaadi.org/a-hindu-guy-married-a-muslim/
Akash is a very popular name on this website. We are wondering if you commented here before or visited here for your conversion. We are wondering if it is about Allah (God), are Christians and Hindus not talking the same? We thought the difference is Muhammad or Jesus or many other names in Hinduism. Explain us in details about your understanding.
Hi Amira,
We are sorry you are in this very difficult situation. Parents want you to give up your 9 years of love just like nothing. It must be hard to hear all those harsh words from your own mother whom you love.
Before we give you other points to deal with, let us know your situation. Are you religious? You know your community well, if your mother finds someone good from your community/Mosque, how acceptable that to you? How important it is for you to raise children only in Islam and not at all in Hinduism? After marriage, where will you stay, with Hindu in-laws or your will have your own place to live? Are you financially independent? Is the boy respecting you and well educated? Let us know these answers and then it will give us better idea how to deal with your mother. Please get back, thank you.