Akhilesh says: January 24, 2013 at 10:03 am
I am a hindu boy from India and live in Singapore. My love is Malaysian muslim. We both know each other for 2 years now and working in the same company. Now we have realized that we are just irreplaceable for each other. We have to workout something on this to get married. Though we have already accepted each other as husband & wife symbolically, including sexual encoungters too but at the same time we have to make it legal and with consent of our parents.
She wants me to convert but its impossible, whereas I am ready to accept her as she is. I have an idea in mind. need help & suggestion of you guys! Please!
The plan is:
1. Just act of converting to islam to her parents and then get married as per Malaysian rituals (without letting my parents know)
2. Get married as per Hindu rituals in India and get it registered legally in India / Singapore (without letting her parents know)
3. She can practice her religion freely and i will practice mine. At the same time we both will try to understand each others religion without any force / hope of conversion
4. We will settle down in Singapore and whenever we visit each others parents, we will not let them know it
5. Kids – Thats an issue. She wants them to be muslim. Whereas i have proposed that we will have one hindu & one muslim. Girls as muslim & guy as hindu. In case of both boys/girls, we will raise one into hindu and one into islam.
She don’t mind moving back to India in later years in case it is required.
We are really trying hard to find out some examples or references, where marriage between Hindu guy & Muslim girl has happened without conversion.
Please help us out and we will always keep you in our prayers! -Akhilesh
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Admin says:
Akhilesh, you are in DEEP trouble. NEVER EVER fake-convert to Islam; if you wish, be a true Muslim. Tell her that you will do all other things of going to a Mosque, reading Koran & Hadith and wearing cloths, etc, but not the shahadah (conversion; endorsing Muhammad as THE messenger of God; not Buddha, not Krishna, not Jesus!).
Read what we said to the Muslim_girl. What conversion has to do with your love? Why you want to convert to something you are not? Why to make lies and deception a foundation of your marriage life? Read all that is written about being a Muslim on this web site, think, think!!
Here is what someone from Malaysia has to say, “As for Christians, the Christian partner in Malaysia always demands that spouse convert and Hindus who believe that all Gods and religions are the same usually fall prey. But there are some Christians who also follow Hindu way of life. A marriage with Muslim has one strict condition- convert to Islam. Once one converts to Islam, there is no way out even there is an urge to be otherwise.” Read more.
Do you know Malaysia laws? You could be in a major legal trouble there and may not be able to come out ever, even if you wish a divorce. Government Marriage Procedures Between Muslim and Non-Muslim: A non-Muslim must convert from his/ her religion to Islam in order for him/ her to marry a Muslim. He/ she must refer to the State Religious Department or seek help from an Imam at the nearest mosque in the area. After which, the same marriage procedures for Muslims apply.
Another option is to take her to India and get registered marriage there. After that, you come back to Malaysia as a married couple. You do not have to marry again, just live as you are living. The Malaysia government cannot do any thing to you considering you were married in India.
Just tell her NO BBS! Please, please, do NOT convert, it will ruin your life. -Admin.
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Akhilesh says: January 28, 2013 at 9:34 am
Hi Admn. and Satyen,
Thanks for your wonderful advice. I discussed with my GF all relevant issues raised by you for my guidance.
So grateful to your courtesy and kindness.
I have decided not to marry in Malasiya but take her to India, marry there in Arya Samaj and get marriage registered in Special Marriage Act. I have told her this plan. She has asked some time to think. If she did not agree, then I have told to part our ways for ever.
Shall be giving update soon to this effect. -Akhilesh
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Muslim: I am love with a Hindu Brahmin boy
how to get Muslim marriage registration certificate?
Which country are you talking about.
If Malaysia, read marriage laws here … https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=11100
Hello,
Im a Chinese Malaysian and my husband is a Singaporean malay. I/ve converted. We have gone through the nikah in Indon. Now i need a marriage cert because indon doesn’t provide one to prove that we are married. Can i know how to get the marriage cert from overseas?
Please reply to my email hessaamanda@yahoo.com.sg.
Thank You.
See https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7587&cpage=1#comment-362071
I am christian women had an affair with muslim man. We love each other and our relationship is more than 5 years now. We planned to get marry but i dont want to convert from my faith. And now we had a baby… I really need help. Please…. We malaysian.
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8297
Without conversion, you cannot register your marriage in Malaysia, sorry. Can you move out to some other country? After baby, now that guy will have upper hands. We have many stories about Malaysia, please let us know what other information we could provide you.
Others in this blog suggested to marry in singapore without conversion then register as muslim couple from another country. May i know what country i may get wedding certificate then register in malaysia.
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=8297
Yes, others have said those things. Keep in mind, that in Malaysia you are registered as Muslim and your children will be Muslim. Any time there is a conflict in married life or someone tip to the government of your situation, you could be in a big legal trouble then.
Hello ,
Can someone who married a Malaysian Muslim girl please guide me with the procedure. Information needed very urgently, Thanks a lot !!
We hope Human will get back to you soon… https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7587
Can you give more details of your issue?
Bottom line, we strongly request you NOT to fake-convert to marry a Christian or Muslim. In the end, it will cost you a lot.
Am Hindu and She is Malaysian Muslim neither of us follow our religion.
Both are freethinkers and I dont have intention to convert to other religion for purpose of marriage.
Am aware of that Malaysian Muslim Girl can not marry Non Muslim perso,
So anyone could please suggest an alternative way.
She is not interested in loosing her citizenship and even I wish the same, We loved each other neither country or religion.
Someone can pinup there approach , I have an option marrying her in India under the Special Marriage act , any other inputs are welcomed.
Thanks a lot.
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7645
Hi akhilesh. I’m having same problem as yours. Would you mind to share with me. Please email ya
Danesha,
We could help, can you tell us details of your situation?
Do not convert and plan to raise children in both faiths.
Hi Danesha,
We have gone through the same and here is what we did:
Do let me know if you like to meet us in Singapore / Malaysia and help you in this regard.
1. We got married in India with proper hindu ritual and function (Without letting her parents know)
2. We got married in Singapore under civil law (without any convertion)
3. We paid money and got the muslim marriage certificate from overseas and registered our marriage in Malaysia. Just a piece of paper can’t change someone believe. right?
4. Kids born in Singapore with independence of religion as Indian Citizen and we are raising them with good values of both religion and not to believe in just one religion. Best thing about India is that while registering the child, it do not ask for the religion of child to state in the paper 🙂
My view: Both party needs to understand and respect each others believe. Since we wanted to be together, we both took extra steps to make it happen…Raising one child Hindu & one Child Muslim is like raising the boundary among selves. Rather let them be free to learn the good things and make decision when they grow up without any influence or hidden agenda. If you go to temple, bring your kids along too or possibly your wife too..If she wants to to pray and wants to bring kids to mosque, let it be. Pls do not create limitations or boundaries between each others believe. And i don;t believe in the theory that kids will be confused…Rather they will be more mature and good human being.
Reply at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7587
izit possible if we are both from Malaysia, and get married without my bf to convert into muslim? looking for an urgent reply
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Hi akhilesh,
i have the solution for you. do you have any email id to reachout?
how to reach you? i am based in singapore and have would be glad to help you. i have crossed yhe river uou are trying to and can guide you 🙂
cheers!
Human, We learned that interfaith marriage is illegal in Malaysia, it is true?
How did you managed it?
Yes Admin. Its illegal in Malaysia. A muslim can not be married to non-muslim. But if there is a will, there is a way 🙂
How?
Only way possible is to go out of the country, correct? But how do they enter back in country as married couple?
These are trap set by Islamic countries to increase Muslim population, under the name of God. So sad!
1. We got married in India with proper hindu ritual and function (Without letting her parents know)
2. We got married in Singapore under civil law (without any convertion)
3. We paid money and got the muslim marriage certificate from overseas and registered our marriage in Malaysia. Just a piece of paper can’t change someone believe. right?
4. Kids born in Singapore with independence of religion as Indian Citizen and we are raising them with good values of both religion and not to believe in just one religion. Best thing about India is that while registering the child, it do not ask for the religion of child to state in the paper 🙂
My view: Both party needs to understand and respect each others believe. Since we wanted to be together, we both took extra steps to make it happen…Raising one child Hindu & one Child Muslim is like raising the boundary among selves. Rather let them be free to learn the good things and make decision when they grow up without any influence or hidden agenda. If you go to temple, bring your kids along too or possibly your wife too..If she wants to to pray and wants to bring kids to mosque, let it be. Pls do not create limitations or boundaries between each others believe. And i don;t believe in the theory that kids will be confused…Rather they will be more mature and good human being.
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Hi Humano…. My name is Anoop. I’m from Bangalore. My gf is a muslim from Johor. I read your experience. Please share ur e-mail id. So that i can write to you. You will be of so much help.
My girl is ready to come to India and settle here.
Best Regards
Anoop
How are you planning to get married in Malaysia (India is not a problem)? Read Malaysian laws here… https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=981
Hi Humano
I’m Malaysian, my gf is maldivian muslim. I really want to marry her without any conversion. Please guide me through this. Really need ur guidance. appreciate.
Hi ZC,
We assume you are not a Muslim. With Malaysian governmental law of Muslim can marry only a Muslim, it will be difficult. If you do not want to convert, then she may have to convert and marry outside Malaysia, like in Singapore. Then come and re-register your marriage in Malaysian and both as non-Muslims. However, they may ask for all details about her including her birth name and passport. Maldiv is 100% Muslim country and thus it will be difficult to prove that she is not a Muslim. That will be risky strategy. Only other option is to go settle in some different country. Sorry, we do not see many other options.
Dear humano,
Hope I’m not too late for asking this from you based on what you had gone through and shared with us.
I’m currently having the same situation with which you had. I’m a Malaysian Chinese Buddhist while my dearest is a Indonesian Muslim. We fall in love with each other deeply. Both of us respects each other’s religion and we would like to settle down in Malaysia. Problem is I’m unable to convert to Muslim due to issue with my own family.
We feels each of us are irreplaceable and we would like to find out what options are available for us, in order for us to be able to living in Malaysia.
Thank you.
-Richard
Hi akhilesh,
i have the solution for you. do you have any email id to reachout?
cheers!
hai humano…can sahre with me too… my email nana_jgm@yahoo.com
Can you share your details, we could help.
Lets home Human-O will be back to guide you right here.
why you both are playing with two lifes of your selfs + Next generations life. If there is no secrifice to day , no compromise to day how long this relation will continue in distorted manner. This life is not given you to spoile in just emotional atteraction of some physical means. understand you both can do a lot in this life if think positively on the ground of reality and low of nature.
See only you are not alone, many others will have to suffer for yours desission and an uncomfertable situation will cover many many things.
Akhilesh,
You may be fake or you are real. It doesn’t matter.
Following is the truth.
Even if you want to marry your girlfriend in Malaysia you can not unless you convert to Islam.
Malaysia simply bans these kind of marriages. Of course, it will allow Hindu women marrying Muslim men.
http://sri000.wordpress.com/2013/02/02/hindus-denying-islamic-supremacism-by-saying-all-religions-are-same-should-look-at-muslims-in-moderate-malaysia-negating-it/
Akhilesh,
Good to know that you have known the truth carefully hidden by the Followers of the prophet. I would also suggest you to let your girl friend know more about the so called prophet and his attitude and behaviour towards the women folk. In fact Muhammad and his elk must be exposed for the welfare of our sisters/daughters/mothers. These people should be behind the bars and ostracized, not respected. We have only to spread the truth of Muhammad with right reasoning because his cult has not only caused immeasurable agony to the womenfolk but is still active in enslaving them. Irony is the women, though victims, still try to justify Muhammad’s action and hold him as prophet!
Muhammad is also guilty of tarnishing the image of the God/Allah whom he has painted demoniacal. Allah is all merciful, impartial, omnipotent, omniscience and omnipresent. But see Muhammad what he says about Allah. First, Muhammad has made Allah a helpless who cannot even send His messages without the help of a human Messenger called Muhammad! Not only this, Allah cannot send another prophet after Muhammad.
Second, Muhammad declared Allah full of partiality who is totally against the women. He made sure, no women can be considered any prophet or lead the males in a prayer! Even his followers made sure that none of the women should be made the Khalifas! Can Allah be so cruel against the woemn who are also His creation and equally loving to Him/Her? Why would the Allah give 72 nymphs to the males in paradise and nothing to the women! Also most of the occupants in the hell will be women!
Muhammad has to be remembered with Allah in the Shahada! In other words, Muhammad has made himself at par with with Allah. In fact, Muhammad has been creating his empire twisting the Allah and using Allah to fulfill his won desires. In Quran, many places Allah has been forced to speak in favour of Muhammad’s despicable actions!
It’s not a rocket science to come to the conclusion that what was the motives of Muhammad and the intention of his followers. Now it’s time to get rid of this cruel cult and awaken others, especially the women who have suffered so much as it was primarily targeted against them. It doesn’t matter whether the women are Hindus or Muslims, they are equally maltreated. So, get up united and put this cult to its logical end.
Hi sisters,
In Islamic Egypt brides use hymen kits to “prove” virginity
The hymen is a vaginal membrane which normally ruptures and bleeds at
the first intercourse. For Egyptian Muslims and in other Islamic
countries it is assurance that the bride was truly a virgin. It is
customary
for a new groom to soak a handkerchief in the blood, step out of the
honeymoon chamber, and proudly wave it to a crowd of friend eagerly
awaiting the verdict. If this does not happen, the bride may be
abandoned.
That could be the case if a menstruation has already removed the
hymen,
yet a virgin girl may face rejection because she did not bleed.
God! What will make these animals at least part-way human? And when?
“Conservatives condemn the Artificial Virginity Hymen Kit as
technology that will promote promiscuity. Others say the furor over
the device raises disturbing questions about double standards.”
By Jeffrey Fleishman and Amro Hassan
October 7, 2009
Reporting from Cairo – Whether it’s seen as a clever little gadget to
help a woman keep a secret or a devilish deception that threatens
Islam, the Artificial Virginity Hymen Kit is not welcome in Egypt.
The kit allows a bride who is not a virgin to pretend that she is. A
pouch inserted into the vagina on her wedding night ruptures and leaks
a blood-like liquid designed to trick a new husband into believing
that his wife is chaste. It’s a wink of ingenuity to soothe a man’s
ego and keep the dowry intact.
Egyptian conservatives condemn the device as technology that will
promote promiscuity in a culture that forbids premarital sex. Their
protests are arising in a nation that over the last 40 years has gone
from miniskirts and secularism to hijabs and religious devotion. But
seldom have conservatives faced such brazen advertising.
“No more worry about losing your virginity. With this product, you can
have your first night back any time,” states the website of Gigimo, a
Chinese mail-order company that sells the kit and other sexual
products, including sex dolls and bondage toys, worldwide. “Add in a
few moans and groans, you will pass through undetectable.”
Members of the Muslim Brotherhood, which controls 20% of the seats in
Egypt’s parliament, have called for banning the kit and arresting
anyone selling it on the black market. Cleric Abdul Moeti Bayoumi has
issued a fatwa urging that peddlers of the $29.90 device be charged
with banditry and punished for spreading immorality and sin.
“Egyptian girls are normally afraid to lose their virginity before
marriage,” Sayed Askar, a lawmaker and member of the Muslim
Brotherhood, recently told parliament. “A product like that can make
it easier and tempting for girls who don’t have strong wills to commit
such a sin. It will be a crying shame and a blot on the government if
they allow the selling of this product in our markets.”
Lina Samaan, an accountant, said the furor raises disturbing questions
about her country and the double standards that often apply to women:
“I think it’s a shame that we are discussing a product like this. If
most girls don’t have sex prior to marriage only because they want to
keep virginity, then there is something wrong with the way we think,”
she said. “Sex is a right for every woman but unfortunately we started
turning to products like these because men — even non-religious ones
who have sex before marriage — wouldn’t marry a girl if she’s not
virgin.”
The emotion over the kit speaks to a traditional society that is
increasingly pious, whether it’s rich professionals seeking moderate
Islam on websites of progressive imams or poor and middle-class
families adopting strict religion as a buttress to the influence of
Western media and a loss of confidence in a state that has failed to
provide prosperity.
The government of President Hosni Mubarak is troubled by
ultraconservative Islam imported from Saudi Arabia and the Persian
Gulf. Egypt’s leading Muslim cleric, Mohammed Sayed Tantawi, is
considering forbidding the niqab, or face veil, at the university and
schools run by Al Azhar, Sunni Islam’s top educational institution. A
similar edict barring nurses from wearing niqabs has been loosely
enforced.
The Egyptian media quoted Tantawi telling a student that the “niqab
has nothing to do with Islam. . . . I know about religion better than
you and your parents.”
Many parents, however, did not grow up with the economic and social
problems that their children face. Single women have traditionally
lived with their families until they found a husband. But today’s
inflation, joblessness and poverty are forcing many couples to delay
marriage until money is saved and dowries are accumulated. With men
and women single longer, dating, breakups and natural impulses
challenge religion and tradition.
“Having something like the virginity kit can cause complete mayhem
within the Egyptian social life,” said Farid Ismael, a member of
parliament’s health committee. “It can lead to the spreading of vice
and the loss of all the good morals and values we had and that totally
contradicts with our Islamic beliefs.”
The kit — like surgical repairs to the hymen that Middle Eastern
women have relied upon for years — is marketed to offer a sleight of
hand. Such secrets keep prospective brides in the graces of their
families and avoid what in rare cases are honor killings of women
accused of promiscuity.
Choosing to have “sex or not is something every girl and woman should
decide regardless of the society’s perspective toward her,” said
Samaan, the accountant. “Even if she is religious then she shouldn’t
do it because of her religious belief and not in fear of other people
or fear that she will not get married if she’s not a virgin.”
“If a girl decided to have sex before marriage,” she added, “then God
already knows it and she shouldn’t hide it from anyone else.”
Zahid is pleading on the same lines, as imam and mullas do, to defend their ego at the cost of miserable condition of female commmunity in Islam.
My GF told me several times repeatedly that she does not like the restrictions imposed on her monther after marriage. Rather she would like to marry a non muslim to live a blissful life.
Hi Admn. and Satyen,
Thanks for your wonderful advice. I discussed with my GF all relevant issues raised by you for my guidance.
So grateful to your courtesy and kindness.
I have decided not to marry in Malasiya but take her to India, marry there in Arya Samaj and get marriage registered in Special Marriage Act. I have told her this plan. She has asked some time to think. If she did not agree, then I have told to part our ways for ever.
Shall be giving update soon to this effect.
Best wishes. Meantime, learn more on interfaith marriages in Malaysia and let us know for others to know.
Please come back to this site routinely to guide other youths, this is our payback!
Gandhijee was a firm Hindu, so much so that he had memorized 13 chapters of the Geeta and used to discuss the nuances of it with Vinoba Bhave. Gandhijee had taken a vow of Non-voilence and truth and practiced celibacy for almost last 40 years. He was a strict vegetarian as well. All of these are against Islam as is obvious from the life history of Muhammad who had almost daily multiple sexual intercourses, primarily was a non-vegitarian, believed in voilence and himself killed many, allowed untruth if it’s useful in propagating Islam. So, labeling Gandhijee as a follower of Muhammad is as saying Muhammad a Hindu! He proclaimed that he would welcome the pleasant wind from various cultures/religion in his home of Hinduism but won’t like to be blown away by the winds. He always talked about Ram rajya in India where cow slaughter will be strictly prohibited! Will the followers of Muhammad like this idea? Has there been Muhammad in the era of Gandhijee, he must have started Satyagrah against his policies and would have tried to get India rid of it.
Muhammad and Gandhijee are just the antonyms of each other. You will have to choose one of them as both of them cannot co-exit. By the way, Muhammad or his cult, cannot co-exist with any other religion.
Foundations of Spiritual and Human Equity in Islam
In the midst of the darkness that engulfed the world, the divine revelation echoed in the wide desert of Arabia in theseventh Century with a fresh, noble, and universal message to humanity, described below.
(1) According to the Holy Quran, men and women have the samehuman spiritual nature:
“O mankind, fear your Lord, who created you from one soul and createdfrom it its mate and dispersed from bothof them many men and women…” (Quran 4:1, see also 7:189, 42:11, 16:72,32:9, and 15:29)
(2) God has invested both genders with inherent dignity and has made men and women, collectively the trustees of God on earth (see the Quran 17:70 and 2:30).
(3) The Quran does not blame woman for the “fall of man,” nor does it view pregnancy and childbirth as punishments for “eating from the forbidden tree.” On the contrary, the Quran depicts Adam and Eve as equally responsible for their sin in the Garden, never singling out Evefor blame. Both repented, and both were forgiven (see the Quran 2:36-37 and7:19-27). In fact, in one verse (Quran 20:121) Adam specifically was blamed. The Quran also esteems pregnancy and childbirth as sufficientreasons for the love and respect due to mothers from their children (Quran 31:14 and 46:15).
(4) Men and women have the same religious and moral duties and responsibilities. Each human being shall face the consequencesof his or her deeds:
“And their Lord responded to them (saying): Never will I allow to be lost thework of (any) worker among you, whether male or female; you are of one another…” (Quran 3:195, see also 74:38, 16:97, 4:124, 33:35, and 57:12)
(5) The Quran is quite clear about the issue of the claimed superiority or inferiority of any human, male or female. The sole basisfor superiority of any person over another ispiety and righteousness not gender, color, or nationality (see the Quran 49:13).
The Economic Aspect of Women in Islam
(1) The Right to Possess Personal Property: Islam decreed a right of which woman was deprived both before Islam and after it (even as late as this century), the right of independent ownership. The Islamic Law recognizes the full property rights of women before and after marriage. They may buy, sell, or lease any or all of their properties at will. For this reason, Muslim women may keep (and in fact they have traditionally kept) their maiden names after marriage, an indication of their independent property rights as legal entities.
(2) Financial Security and Inheritance Laws: Financial security is assured for women. They are entitled to receive marital gifts without limit and to keep present and future properties and income for their own security, even after marriage. No married woman is required to spend any amount at all from her property and income on the household. The woman is entitled alsoto full financial support during marriage and during the “waiting period” (iddah) in case of divorce or widowhood. Some jurists require, in addition, one year’s support for divorce and widowhood (or until they remarry, if remarriage takes place before the year is over). A woman who bears a child in marriage is entitled tochild support from thechild’s father. Generally, a Muslim woman is guaranteed support in all stages of her life, as a daughter, wife, mother, or sister. The financial advantages accorded to women and not to men in marriage and in family have a social counterpart in the provisions that the Quran lays down in the laws of inheritance, which afford the male, in most cases, twice the inheritance of a female. Males do not always inherit more; at times a woman inherits more than a man. In instances where the men inheritmore they ultimately are financially responsible for their female relatives: their wives, daughters, mothers, and sisters. Females inherit less but retain their share for investment and financial security, without any legal obligation to spend any part of it, even fortheir own sustenance (food, clothing, housing, medication, etc). It should be noted that before Islam, women themselves were sometimes objects of inheritance (see the Quran 4:19). In some western countries, even after the advent of Islam, the whole estate of the deceasedwas given to his/her eldest son. The Quran,however, made it clear that both men and women are entitled to a specified share of the estate of their deceased parentsor close relatives. Godhas said:
Islam and war
Islam sets down clear guidelinesas to when war is ethically right,and clear guidelines as to how such a war should be conducted.
In brief, war is permitted:
*. in self defence
*. when other nations have attacked an Islamic state
*. if another state is oppressing its own Muslims
War should be conducted:
*. in a disciplined way
*. so as to avoid injuring non-combatants
*. with the minimum necessary force
*. without anger
*. with humane treatment towards prisoners of war
Muslims must only wage war according to the principles of Allah’s justice.
Those who believe fight in the way of Allah, and those who disbelieve fight in the way of the Shaitan.
Qur’an 4:76
Islam allows war in self-defence (Qur’an 22:39), to defend Islam (rather than to spread it), to protect those who have been removed from their homes by force because they are Muslims (Qur’an 22:40), and to protect the innocent who are being oppressed (Qur’an 4:75).
But some Muslim thinkers in the past, and some more radical Muslim thinkers today, take a different view. They say that other verses in the Qur’an , the so-called ‘sword verses’, have”abrogated” (revoked or anulled)the verses that permit warfare only in defence. They used these’sword verses’ to justify war against unbelievers as a tool of spreading Islam (Qur’an 9:5, 9:29).
Others take this further and regard non-Muslims, and Muslimswho don’t conform rigorously to the Islamic code, as non-believers and thus as”enemies of God” against whom it is legitimate to use violence.
But the idea of a total and unrestricted conflict is completely unIslamic.
Fight in the cause of God against those who fight you, but do not transgress limits. Goddoes not love transgressors.
Qur’an 2:190
Islam is in favour of peace and against violence. Murdering the innocent leads to punishment in Hell:
If anyone killed a person – unless it was for murder or for spreading mischief in the land – it would be as if he killed the whole people
Qur’an 5:32
The aims of war
The Qur’an emphasises that war should be fought only for noblemotives without seeking any earthly reward:
Those who readily fight in the cause of God are those who forsake this world in favor of the Hereafter. Whoever fights inthe cause of God, then gets killed, or attains victory, we will surely grant him a great recompense.
Qur’an 4:74
The conduct of war
Islam bans the killing of non-combatants (Qur’an 2:190, above), or of a combatant who has been captured.
Muslims are forbidden from attacking wounded soldiers (unless the wounded person is still fighting).
The Prophet ‘s view of non-combatants is shown by a hadith in which Muhammad seesa woman killed in the battlefield and condemns the action.
When an enemy is defeated he should be made prisoner rather than be killed:
So when you meet in battle those who disbelieve, then smite the necks until when you have overcome them, then make(them) prisoners, and afterwards either set them free as a favor or let them ransom (themselves) until the war terminates.
Qur’an 47:4
Abu Bakr (the First Caliph) gave these rules to an army he was sending to battle:
Do not commit treachery or deviate from the right path.
You must not mutilate dead bodies.
Neither kill a child, nor a woman, nor an aged man.
Bring no harm to the trees, nor burn them with fire, especially those which are fruitful.
Slay not any of the enemy’s flock, save for your food.
You are likely to pass by people who have devoted their lives to monastic services; leave them alone
Abu Bakr
A noble example of ideal Muslim conduct of war is the capture ofJerusalem by Saladin in 1187. Although a number of holy Muslim places had been violated by Christians , Saladin prohibited acts of vengeance, and his army was so disciplined that there were no deaths or violence after the city surrendered. The residents weretaken prisoner, but their ransomwas set at a token amount
Ash you missed the important rule as per your allah- to hijack a plane in Christian or Hindu country and kill crash..like 9/11. Ooh on more behead the Christians and Hindus when Muslims kidnap them. Great your allah is just great man! The religion of peace?
9/11 was due to jews to get more information vist http://www.usislam.org
Hello Zahid,
You are misleading by posting unrealistic texts. The realities of islamic evils are already exposed on this site by learned sisters. Can you still deny:-
1. males always need a virgin wife,
2. males allowed to keep 4 wives,
3. females are fields to be ploughed in any manner,
4. females to wear hizab,
5. females kept under restrictions,
6. females beating, domestic violence and torture after marriage,
7. females treated sex dolls
8. females not allowed to pursue higher education in most countries,
9, females attracted to for Mutta marriages,
10. females genital mutiliations,
11.females need to be bleed on the wedding night,
12.males can marry even a child, like rapist prophet did,
13.females need witnesses to seek justice even if raped,
14.females forced to halala,
15,females not allowed to drive vehicles in some countries,
16.females not allowed to cast their vote to elect representatives.
17.males allowed to have sex with dead wife,
18.males allowed to have 72 virgins in the heaven for sex.
19.males allowed to marry even their cousins,
I KNOW SEVERAL MUSLIM GIRLS WHO ARE LEADING A MISERABLE LIFE SINCE BIRTH.
ISLAM IS A RELIGION OF TERRORISTS, CRUELS AND BARBARIC INDIVIDUALS.
OTHER RELGIIONS HAVE CHANGED A LOT IN HUMANITARIAN GROUNDS, BUT ISLAM IS STILL RELGIION OF RAPISTS, ANTI FEMALES.
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I’m 24, i know that dating is against islam and all and i feel totally crap about loving this boy (lets call him derek – not really his name) So derek is a christian and i feel really bad about it, but i know i’m in love with him, please don’t say that “over time i will get over him” because it’s been nine months and i just find myself loving him more every single day. He’s always my first thought in the morning and last thought at night and he’s all i think about 24/7. I hate this feeling of betrayal against both my religion and my parents, i hate it but i’ve tried so hard to get over him and i just can’t. It’s not like i can do anything about loving him because of restrictions from religion but i’m very mature, but also know how to live young while i am. I’m a very very strong muslim, i’ve never drunk, read the Quran 3 times through, pray 5 times a day and fast too so it’s killing me that i love derek but i just can’t stop, and then on top of that, he’s one of my best guy friends. He knows that i used to fancy him but when he asked me if i still did i said no, because technically i didn’t fancy him anymore, i loved him by then, and hes called me stunning and one of his favorite girls and all. it’s getting really hard to be around him because there’s so much i can’t say, every thought is about him and so when im with him (3 out of 5 lessons a day) i have to stop myself from bringing anything to do with him up. please please please can anyone give me any help? it will be well appreciated!I have no hesitation to say that we both have enjoyed sexual pleasure also;
p.s. don’t say pray to god asking to make me stop loving him, because i do that 5 times a day, yet it never seems to work and loving him is genuinely tearing me apart…
thank you so much for your time
Reply to Parveen at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=4268
es Against Women and Children in the Name of Islam
Mohammed, the prophet of the Islamic world, married his last bride Aisha when she was just six years old, and the consummated the marriage with her when she was just nine years old. In Islamic states, partly because of this precedent, this practice still happens in fundamentalist countries like Afghanistan. Muslims will say that a child of six or seven is almost certain to be a virgin. Mohammed was at least 50 when he married Aisha.
The practice of forced marriages (as opposed to arranged marriages) in some Muslim states such as Afghanistan is very common. Some reports claim that somewhere between 60-80 percent of marriages in Afghanistan are forced upon the girls involved or without the consent of the girls. These marriages are seen as a way to resolve conflicts between families, or as a way to absolve someone of a wrongdoing. The girls are treated as they would treat cattle, and are given to these men as offerings.
Some reports also estimate that 57 percent of Afghani girls are married before the age of 16, and it is unusual to find an unmarried girl older than 18 years of age. The practice is justified twofold; that the girls are helping to keep the peace between families, and that the Islamic prophet Mohammed had set this precedent.
In Afghanistan the legal age to be married is 16, but many people ignore this law or claim they were unaware of it. The children in this situation are robbed of childhood, and as you will see, many are robbed of their life. This practice is abhorrent, and any civilised culture will see it as such.
In Nigeria, a 49-year-old Muslim Senator has reportedly married a 13-year-old girl, and has allegedly previously married a 15-year-old in 2006, citing that he paid a dowry of $100,000 to the parents for her. Although looked down upon by other ministers in Nigeria it is still happening.
Women in Islam have no rights, especially if they are non-Muslim, and these men get away with their evils because people are too afraid to stand up against the barbarity of the culture which the religion they follow has instilled in them. Threats of death are imposed upon those who would stand up against this. In Lahore, a man and his entourage of Muslim lawyers has threatened to “burn alive” anyone who will come to the defence of a 12-year-old servant of his, whom he raped and murdered.
Many girls will find themselves in a marriage with a man much older than they are, and will be given the sole duties of looking after the household and giving offspring to the man. Some men have multiple wives, and the women become a harem for that man. The men are often abusive to these girls, sometimes to the point where the girl should be hospitalised, but often is not. The beating of wives is seen as the “honourable thing to do”, for the wife must be kept in line with the wishings of the man and of Allah.
Often these girls will find themselves in these abusive relationships, and will seek a way out. But the way out is a problem in itself; if the girl were to leave she would bring shame upon her own family and her husband’s, and would be hunted down and possibly stoned to death or just beaten withing an inch of her life; if she stays, she may be beaten thus anyhow. Sometimes out of pure desperation, a girl seeking to be free from the bonds of this abusive relationship will choose self-harm rather than bringing shame upon her people.
In Afghanistan, it is believe that more than 10 women and girls choose self-immolation (warning very graphic content) as the escape from their bondage. Around the web there are numerous stories of women who, feeling there was no better way, have chosen to set themselves on fire rather than continue living in such conditions. Some girls die from their injuries. Some do not but are so badly scarred so as to lose their legs, or are severely disfigured by these burns. Those that live may wind up on the streets, homeless.
The culture in Afghanistan is such that women are treated as slaves, and in some cases, worse than dogs. Not only do they wear the burqa in public at all times, they are not allowed to leave the home alone, not allowed to speak to anyone they don’t know, and not allowed to make their identity known nor engage with any of their husband’s friends they may meet in the street. They are not treated as second-class citizens, rather as livestock that can produce more sons for the family.
People blame Islam for these practices. And yet, there are many more Islamic people who don’t practice this than do. Islam itself is not to blame wholly for these atrocities, rather the culture that bases itself upon Islam, then justifies these stone-aged practices based on the words of the Koran or the Hadeeth, saying it is God’s will that this be done. When a culture is poor and has little or no access to education, these kinds of barbaric practices continue to happen.
The culture in Afghanistan is sick. The barbarism and sheer disrespect for human rights that occurs there is all so often backed up by the perverse and outmoded words of their holy books. This illness in the Afghan culture continues, even after the ousting of the Taliban, who were ultra conservative and would set upon women with batons for showing ANY skin, but it is not much better now.
While this culture is deeply ingrained in their societies, these practices in the name of Islam shows it toi be, in its extreme, nothing more than an ultra-conservative ultra-violent “boy’s club” where it members all look after each other. And as sickening as all this is, nothing seems to be getting better.
These girls stories are the same story I have heard again and again of extreme desperation, of girls who see their only escape from forced marriage as being self harm. It is gut-wrenchingly sad to see such lives destroyed by the greed and stupidity of men. Here is an example of one girl’s account of the horrors she has faced at the brutal hands of an extreme Islamic patriarchy
It was not gandhiji who revart his son back to devil religion(hinduism) but it was hindu (terriorist) who threatned him to revart back or you will get be killed.at last they sent a hindu to kill him.movies can say anything which are most lies for terasa god will decide.
It was not gandhiji who revart his son back to devil religion(hinduism) but it was hindu (terriorist) who threatned him to revart back or you will get be killed.at last they sent a hindu to kill him.movies can say anything which are most lies
Dear Akhilesh,
To keep the long story short, there seem to be three vital issues with your case:
1. Your would be spouse is a love proselytizer. Why should you be converted to Islam to follow the psychopath Muhammad and consider all the non Muslims and the female Muslims as inferiors? Why shouldn’t she convert to Hinduism to consider all the humans as family members? There could be a mid way that none of you convert and remain as you are.
2. Why this partiality to your children that the siblings will be forced to follow the inimical religions. One following Muhammad is expected never to consider his/her Hindu sibling as a family member as the non Muslims consider the non-Muslims as subject to the Allah’s wrath. Moreover, the Muslim mother will never be impartial to the Muslim and non-Muslim though born of her uterus. She is susceptible to side with the Muslim child.
3. The Islamic law of Malaysia is one way road where there is no exit for the Muslims.
The root cause of your problem as is with almost all the Hindus, is the awareness regarding Muhammad and his propagated cult Islam. The remedy is very simple as mentioned below:
1. Read the life history of Muhammad as written at many place on this site. Pay attention to his life after his revelations i.e. after he reached around 50. He was the one who married with a grand daughter like 6 year old girl and consummated the marriage when she was 9, he being 55 or so! Also, he married his own daughter-in-law after forcing his adopted son to divorce her! He celebrated his wedding nights with brides on the same day as of killing of their father/husbands/brothers!
Altogether, he married 10 women in the last 12 years of his life, dying with his tongue in the mouth of his youngest wife, Ayesha! And you are willing to follow the cult propagated by such a sex maniac!
2. Yoiur would be spouse is equally oblivious of the consequences of converting you to Islam. She is arming you to have her 3 co-wives and to dovorce her in a shot!
So, my brother, never ever convert and allow her to bring up your children as Muslim by circumcising them. Circumcision si a horrible scene to watch but ironically to be celebrated!
Decision is yours but try to prevent all the chances of repentence by having all the informations about Islam and pondering over its consequences/ramifications on your life.
I appeal all hindu males and sisters to please teach the truth, hinduism is peaceful religion, and let our muslim sisters to marry hindu men. we are ready to embrace hinduism.
I come from pathan family of mumbai. as usual I was taught hindus are termites (malayouns), and hindus killed muslims in mumbai riots. hindus dont do sunat, so unclean. hindus worship idols, very bad.
My dad is hindu hater, though he has lust for hindu girls come to islam. My dad is follower of jehadi idiot zakir naik, whose only intention is to make india an islamic country. i never had freedom from child life, as i always starred to sri shiva temple from chilhood. i hated reading namaz like moron 5 times day. I was taught that i cannot go alone, always with my brother, wear black veil, so that hindus cannot see us. i was taught and brainwashed that hindus are kidnappers they can devastate good looking muslim girl.
I once came to kolkata with my parents, i saw bengali guy named as rakesh chattopadhyay in same hotel. i dont know i was very jealous of hindu girls from childhood, that if i could ever escape and elope with hindu guy, i will never have to wear black veil. Actually my dad wanted i marry 60 years old pathan man, living in saudi arabia,home in kolkata. i saw hindu guys never looked us in bad way, only the dumb muslim guys look us as sex object.
One day, when i saw rakesh chattopadhyay alone, i pulled his hand in lone room. I told him please save me, and take me anywhere from my parents, as i hate to marry that old scum 60 years nazrul khan. Somehow Rakesh was very scared. Sorry to seduce him and to accept me, so that he feel good and attracted to me. I dont know hindu guys are so dashing, i just cant remove my eyes from thier looks. I hated bengali girls, because i never wanted any ifiot bengali girl to marry Rakesh. Somehow i managed to marry Rakesh to take me to his home. I went to his home, and said her mother give me any job to do, i am ready to be housemaid, but sane my life. I was falling deep in love with Rakesh, and when i saw alone i use to kiss him like a doll all over his body. I love the bengali way of wearing saree. This way i told Rajesh to help my younher sister to het eloped from his home , and my younger sister Runina also left home. Inshallah….
I asked Rakesh mom, that we 2 sisters want to convert to hinduism, and i want to marry Rakesh in hindu bengali way. Before marriage, i and Rubina converted to hinduism in Arya Samaj temple in vivekanada road, north kolkata . I changed my name to Asha Chattopadhyay and my sister as Rambha . I feel Rajesh mom as my own mom, i am so pleased that i have got a mother like Rakesh mother. I apeeal to Allah, that i in next life born in brahman family. Hindus are so kind and generous people, they dont hate any religions. Tell me why we muslims specially women not allowed to marry hindu men, why phedophile mualvis teach never to mix with hindu males, who themselves plan to kidnap hindu girls. Your know Rakesh mom (Gayatri Devi) said me i am his daughter and not maidservant.
INSHALLAH !!! TODAY MY LOVING HUSBAND ALLOW ME TO TAKE ADMISSION IN SCHOOL. I HAVE ALREADY FINISHED SCHOOLING AND NOW MY MOTHER JAYATRI DEVI AND RAKESH WANT ME TO DO ELECTRICAL ENGINEERING FROM BITS PILANI, ALLAH WANT EVERY MUSLIM GIRL TO GET CONVERTED TO HINDUISM AND MARRY HINDU MEN.. ALHUMDUILLAH!!!! I AM CONVERT TO HINDU !!! I AM PROUD TO CALL MYSELF AS SANATAN HINDU !!!
You know hindus give freedom to muslims to haj pilfrimahe . Govt of India loses 650 of rupees every year, and these stinking mualivis teach, if you convert hindu girl to islam to will achieve jannat and landsome reward of 10,000 rupees. Shame on you muslims .
I appeal to every smart hindu brahman guys, please look on muslim girls, we love your attention, as i was so desperate to marry hindu brahman guy like Akshay Kumar. I appeal Indian Govt. a hindu muslim unity forum to correct kuran and declare jehad against maulvis, muftis, imams and gibe acha every maulbi death penalty, for not allowing muslim girl to marry hindu guys.. Please envourage hindus to marry muslim girls, as i did this wi;l bring hindu muslim unity and secularism will be preserved
Reply to Ayesha at https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=4251
What a joke a hindu said that he had converted to hinduism.
You the Muslim sisters,come under the umbrella of Great religion of Hinduism and feel the taste the freedom of life.Leave Islam. It is the religion of uncivilized barbaric people of Arab. You are the descendants of Great Hindus, who have created civilization which have been destroyed by Muslims. Look at Muslim countries. If Islam is the religion of peace, why chaos are prevailing in almost all Muslim countries. Why most of the anti socials and terroists are Muslim? Be practical & think rational.
to all: contrast the Love of finding Jesus the Savior who has said to us: “Hell is only for evil angels, not for humans, & I will rescue all who come to me, my name means “rescue”! I died to prove my love for humankind!” please read John 8 which shows the Forgiveness of God in sending His Perfect Son to be King of Kings. You meet Him in the Spirit, now He has gone to Heaven after His sacrifice for us: أَمَّا يَسُوعُ فَمَضَى إِلَى جَبَلِ الزَّيْتُونِ. ثُمَّ حَضَرَ أَيْضاً إِلَى الْهَيْكَلِ فِي الصُّبْحِ وَجَاءَ إِلَيْهِ جَمِيعُ الشَّعْبِ فَجَلَسَ يُعَلِّمُهُمْ. وَقَدَّمَ إِلَيْهِ الْكَتَبَةُ وَالْفَرِّيسِيُّونَ امْرَأَةً أُمْسِكَتْ فِي زِناً. وَلَمَّا أَقَامُوهَا فِي الْوَسَطِ قَالُوا لَهُ: «يَا مُعَلِّمُ هَذِهِ الْمَرْأَةُ أُمْسِكَتْ وَهِيَ تَزْنِي فِي ذَاتِ الْفِعْلِ وَمُوسَى فِي النَّامُوسِ أَوْصَانَا أَنَّ مِثْلَ هَذِهِ تُرْجَمُ. فَمَاذَا تَقُولُ أَنْتَ؟» قَالُوا هَذَا لِيُجَرِّبُوهُ لِكَيْ يَكُونَ لَهُمْ مَا يَشْتَكُونَ بِهِ عَلَيْهِ. وَأَمَّا يَسُوعُ فَانْحَنَى إِلَى أَسْفَلُ وَكَانَ يَكْتُبُ بِإِصْبِعِهِ عَلَى الأَرْضِ. وَلَمَّا اسْتَمَرُّوا يَسْأَلُونَهُ انْتَصَبَ وَقَالَ لَهُمْ: «مَنْ كَانَ مِنْكُمْ بِلاَ خَطِيَّةٍ فَلْيَرْمِهَا أَوَّلاً بِحَجَرٍ!» ثُمَّ انْحَنَى أَيْضاً إِلَى أَسْفَلُ وَكَانَ يَكْتُبُ عَلَى الأَرْضِ. وَأَمَّا هُمْ فَلَمَّا سَمِعُوا وَكَانَتْ ضَمَائِرُهُمْ تُبَكِّتُهُمْ خَرَجُوا وَاحِداً فَوَاحِداً مُبْتَدِئِينَ مِنَ الشُّيُوخِ إِلَى الآخِرِينَ. وَبَقِيَ يَسُوعُ وَحْدَهُ وَالْمَرْأَةُ وَاقِفَةٌ فِي الْوَسَطِ. فَلَمَّا انْتَصَبَ يَسُوعُ وَلَمْ يَنْظُرْ أَحَداً سِوَى الْمَرْأَةِ قَالَ لَهَا: «يَا امْرَأَةُ أَيْنَ هُمْ أُولَئِكَ الْمُشْتَكُونَ عَلَيْكِ؟ أَمَا دَانَكِ أَحَدٌ؟» فَقَالَتْ: «لاَ أَحَدَ يَا سَيِّدُ». فَقَالَ لَهَا يَسُوعُ: «ولاَ أَنَا أَدِينُكِ. اذْهَبِي وَلاَ تُخْطِئِي أَيْضاً». ثُمَّ كَلَّمَهُمْ يَسُوعُ أَيْضاً قَائِلاً: «أَنَا هُوَ نُورُ الْعَالَمِ. مَنْ يَتْبَعْنِي فلاَ يَمْشِي فِي الظُّلْمَةِ بَلْ يَكُونُ لَهُ نُورُ الْحَيَاةِ». فَقَالَ لَهُ الْفَرِّيسِيُّونَ: «أَنْتَ تَشْهَدُ لِنَفْسِكَ. شَهَادَتُكَ لَيْسَتْ حَقّاً». أَجَابَ يَسُوعُ: «وَإِنْ كُنْتُ أَشْهَدُ لِنَفْسِي فَشَهَادَتِي حَقٌّ لأَنِّي أَعْلَمُ مِنْ أَيْنَ أَتَيْتُ وَإِلَى أَيْنَ أَذْهَبُ. وَأَمَّا أَنْتُمْ فلاَ تَعْلَمُونَ مِنْ أَيْنَ آتِي وَلاَ إِلَى أَيْنَ أَذْهَبُ. أَنْتُمْ حَسَبَ الْجَسَدِ تَدِينُونَ أَمَّا أَنَا فَلَسْتُ أَدِينُ أَحَداً. وَإِنْ كُنْتُ أَنَا أَدِينُ فَدَيْنُونَتِي حَقٌّ لأَنِّي لَسْتُ وَحْدِي بَلْ أَنَا وَالآبُ الَّذِي أَرْسَلَنِي. وَأَيْضاً فِي نَامُوسِكُمْ مَكْتُوبٌ: أَنَّ شَهَادَةَ رَجُلَيْنِ حَقٌّ. أَنَا هُوَ الشَّاهِدُ لِنَفْسِي وَيَشْهَدُ لِي الآبُ الَّذِي أَرْسَلَنِي». فَقَالُوا لَهُ: «أَيْنَ هُوَ أَبُوكَ؟» أَجَابَ يَسُوعُ: «لَسْتُمْ تَعْرِفُونَنِي أَنَا وَلاَ أَبِي. لَوْ عَرَفْتُمُونِي لَعَرَفْتُمْ أَبِي أَيْضاً». هَذَا الْكلاَمُ قَالَهُ يَسُوعُ فِي الْخِزَانَةِ وَهُوَ يُعَلِّمُ فِي الْهَيْكَلِ. وَلَمْ يُمْسِكْهُ أَحَدٌ لأَنَّ سَاعَتَهُ لَمْ تَكُنْ قَدْ جَاءَتْ بَعْدُ. قَالَ لَهُمْ يَسُوعُ أَيْضاً: «أَنَا أَمْضِي وَسَتَطْلُبُونَنِي وَتَمُوتُونَ فِي خَطِيَّتِكُمْ. حَيْثُ أَمْضِي أَنَا لاَ تَقْدِرُونَ أَنْتُمْ أَنْ تَأْتُوا» فَقَالَ الْيَهُودُ: «أَلَعَلَّهُ يَقْتُلُ نَفْسَهُ حَتَّى يَقُولُ: حَيْثُ أَمْضِي أَنَا لاَ تَقْدِرُونَ أَنْتُمْ أَنْ تَأْتُوا؟» فَقَالَ لَهُمْ: « أَنْتُمْ مِنْ أَسْفَلُ أَمَّا أَنَا فَمِنْ فَوْقُ. أَنْتُمْ مِنْ هَذَا الْعَالَمِ أَمَّا أَنَا فَلَسْتُ مِنْ هَذَا الْعَالَمِ. فَقُلْتُ لَكُمْ إِنَّكُمْ تَمُوتُونَ فِي خَطَايَاكُمْ لأَنَّكُمْ إِنْ لَمْ تُؤْمِنُوا أَنِّي أَنَا هُوَ تَمُوتُونَ فِي خَطَايَاكُمْ». فَقَالُوا لَهُ: «مَنْ أَنْتَ؟» فَقَالَ لَهُمْ يَسُوعُ: «أَنَا مِنَ الْبَدْءِ مَا أُكَلِّمُكُمْ أَيْضاً بِهِ. إِنَّ لِي أَشْيَاءَ كَثِيرَةً أَتَكَلَّمُ وَأَحْكُمُ بِهَا مِنْ نَحْوِكُمْ لَكِنَّ الَّذِي أَرْسَلَنِي هُوَ حَقٌّ. وَأَنَا مَا سَمِعْتُهُ مِنْهُ فَهَذَا أَقُولُهُ لِلْعَالَمِ». وَلَمْ يَفْهَمُوا أَنَّهُ كَانَ يَقُولُ لَهُمْ عَنِ الآبِ. فَقَالَ لَهُمْ يَسُوعُ: «مَتَى رَفَعْتُمُ ابْنَ الإِنْسَانِ فَحِينَئِذٍ تَفْهَمُونَ أَنِّي أَنَا هُوَ وَلَسْتُ أَفْعَلُ شَيْئاً مِنْ نَفْسِي بَلْ أَتَكَلَّمُ بِهَذَا كَمَا عَلَّمَنِي أَبِي. وَالَّذِي أَرْسَلَنِي هُوَ مَعِي وَلَمْ يَتْرُكْنِي الآبُ وَحْدِي لأَنِّي فِي كُلِّ حِينٍ أَفْعَلُ مَا يُرْضِيهِ». وَبَيْنَمَا هُوَ يَتَكَلَّمُ بِهَذَا آمَنَ بِهِ كَثِيرُونَ. فَقَالَ يَسُوعُ لِلْيَهُودِ الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا بِهِ: «إِنَّكُمْ إِنْ ثَبَتُّمْ فِي كلاَمِي فَبِالْحَقِيقَةِ تَكُونُونَ تلاَمِيذِي وَتَعْرِفُونَ الْحَقَّ وَالْحَقُّ يُحَرِّرُكُمْ». أَجَابُوهُ: «إِنَّنَا ذُرِّيَّةُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ وَلَمْ نُسْتَعْبَدْ لأَحَدٍ قَطُّ. كَيْفَ تَقُولُ أَنْتَ: إِنَّكُمْ تَصِيرُونَ أَحْرَاراً؟» أَجَابَهُمْ يَسُوعُ: «الْحَقَّ الْحَقَّ أَقُولُ لَكُمْ: إِنَّ كُلَّ مَنْ يَعْمَلُ الْخَطِيَّةَ هُوَ عَبْدٌ لِلْخَطِيَّةِ. وَالْعَبْدُ لاَ يَبْقَى فِي الْبَيْتِ إِلَى الأَبَدِ أَمَّا الاِبْنُ فَيَبْقَى إِلَى الأَبَدِ. فَإِنْ حَرَّرَكُمْ الاِبْنُ فَبِالْحَقِيقَةِ تَكُونُونَ أَحْرَاراً. أَنَا عَالِمٌ أَنَّكُمْ ذُرِّيَّةُ إِبْرَاهِيمَ. لَكِنَّكُمْ تَطْلُبُونَ أَنْ تَقْتُلُونِي لأَنَّ كلاَمِي لاَ مَوْضِعَ لَهُ فِيكُمْ. أَنَا أَتَكَلَّمُ بِمَا رَأَيْتُ عِنْدَ أَبِي وَأَنْتُمْ تَعْمَلُونَ مَا رَأَيْتُمْ عِنْدَ أَبِيكُمْ». أَجَابُوا: «أَبُونَا هُوَ إِبْرَاهِيمُ». قَالَ لَهُمْ يَسُوعُ: «لَوْ كُنْتُمْ أَوْلاَدَ إِبْرَاهِيمَ لَكُنْتُمْ تَعْمَلُونَ أَعْمَالَ إِبْرَاهِيمَ! وَلَكِنَّكُمُ الآنَ تَطْلُبُونَ أَنْ تَقْتُلُونِي وَأَنَا إِنْسَانٌ قَدْ كَلَّمَكُمْ بِالْحَقِّ الَّذِي سَمِعَهُ مِنَ اللَّهِ. هَذَا لَمْ يَعْمَلْهُ إِبْرَاهِيمُ. أَنْتُمْ تَعْمَلُونَ أَعْمَالَ أَبِيكُمْ». فَقَالُوا لَهُ: «إِنَّنَا لَمْ نُولَدْ مِنْ زِناً. لَنَا أَبٌ وَاحِدٌ وَهُوَ اللَّهُ». فَقَالَ لَهُمْ يَسُوعُ: «لَوْ كَانَ اللَّهُ أَبَاكُمْ لَكُنْتُمْ تُحِبُّونَنِي لأَنِّي خَرَجْتُ مِنْ قِبَلِ اللَّهِ وَأَتَيْتُ. لأَنِّي لَمْ آتِ مِنْ نَفْسِي بَلْ ذَاكَ أَرْسَلَنِي. لِمَاذَا لاَ تَفْهَمُونَ كلاَمِي؟ لأَنَّكُمْ لاَ تَقْدِرُونَ أَنْ تَسْمَعُوا قَوْلِي. أَنْتُمْ مِنْ أَبٍ هُوَ إِبْلِيسُ وَشَهَوَاتِ أَبِيكُمْ تُرِيدُونَ أَنْ تَعْمَلُوا. ذَاكَ كَانَ قَتَّالاً لِلنَّاسِ مِنَ الْبَدْءِ وَلَمْ يَثْبُتْ فِي الْحَقِّ لأَنَّهُ لَيْسَ فِيهِ حَقٌّ. مَتَى تَكَلَّمَ بِالْكَذِبِ فَإِنَّمَا يَتَكَلَّمُ مِمَّا لَهُ لأَنَّهُ كَذَّابٌ وَأَبُو الْكَذَّابِ. وَأَمَّا أَنَا فَلأَنِّي أَقُولُ الْحَقَّ لَسْتُمْ تُؤْمِنُونَ بِي. مَنْ مِنْكُمْ يُبَكِّتُنِي عَلَى خَطِيَّةٍ؟ فَإِنْ كُنْتُ أَقُولُ الْحَقَّ فَلِمَاذَا لَسْتُمْ تُؤْمِنُونَ بِي؟ اَلَّذِي مِنَ اللَّهِ يَسْمَعُ كلاَمَ اللَّهِ. لِذَلِكَ أَنْتُمْ لَسْتُمْ تَسْمَعُونَ لأَنَّكُمْ لَسْتُمْ مِنَ اللَّهِ». فَقَالَ الْيَهُودُ: «أَلَسْنَا نَقُولُ حَسَناً إِنَّكَ سَامِرِيٌّ وَبِكَ شَيْطَانٌ؟» أَجَابَ يَسُوعُ: «أَنَا لَيْسَ بِي شَيْطَانٌ لَكِنِّي أُكْرِمُ أَبِي وَأَنْتُمْ تُهِينُونَنِي. أَنَا لَسْتُ أَطْلُبُ مَجْدِي. يُوجَدُ مَنْ يَطْلُبُ وَيَدِينُ. اَلْحَقَّ الْحَقَّ أَقُولُ لَكُمْ: إِنْ كَانَ أَحَدٌ يَحْفَظُ كلاَمِي فَلَنْ يَرَى الْمَوْتَ إِلَى الأَبَدِ». فَقَالَ لَهُ الْيَهُودُ: «الآنَ عَلِمْنَا أَنَّ بِكَ شَيْطَاناً. قَدْ مَاتَ إِبْرَاهِيمُ وَالأَنْبِيَاءُ وَأَنْتَ تَقُولُ: «إِنْ كَانَ أَحَدٌ يَحْفَظُ كلاَمِي فَلَنْ يَذُوقَ الْمَوْتَ إِلَى الأَبَدِ». أَلَعَلَّكَ أَعْظَمُ مِنْ أَبِينَا إِبْرَاهِيمَ الَّذِي مَاتَ. وَالأَنْبِيَاءُ مَاتُوا. مَنْ تَجْعَلُ نَفْسَكَ؟» أَجَابَ يَسُوعُ: «إِنْ كُنْتُ أُمَجِّدُ نَفْسِي فَلَيْسَ مَجْدِي شَيْئاً. أَبِي هُوَ الَّذِي يُمَجِّدُنِي الَّذِي تَقُولُونَ أَنْتُمْ إِنَّهُ إِلَهُكُمْ وَلَسْتُمْ تَعْرِفُونَهُ. وَأَمَّا أَنَا فَأَعْرِفُهُ. وَإِنْ قُلْتُ إِنِّي لَسْتُ أَعْرِفُهُ أَكُونُ مِثْلَكُمْ كَاذِباً لَكِنِّي أَعْرِفُهُ وَأَحْفَظُ قَوْلَهُ. أَبُوكُمْ إِبْرَاهِيمُ تَهَلَّلَ بِأَنْ يَرَى يَوْمِي فَرَأَى وَفَرِحَ». فَقَالَ لَهُ الْيَهُودُ: «لَيْسَ لَكَ خَمْسُونَ سَنَةً بَعْدُ أَفَرَأَيْتَ إِبْرَاهِيمَ؟» قَالَ لَهُمْ يَسُوعُ: «الْحَقَّ الْحَقَّ أَقُولُ لَكُمْ: قَبْلَ أَنْ يَكُونَ إِبْرَاهِيمُ أَنَا كَائِنٌ». فَرَفَعُوا حِجَارَةً لِيَرْجُمُوهُ. أَمَّا يَسُوعُ فَاخْتَفَى وَخَرَجَ مِنَ الْهَيْكَلِ مُجْتَازاً فِي وَسْطِهِمْ وَمَضَى هَكَذَا.
يوحنا 8
Follow Jesus, not the church!
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It is a fact that Zahid,s mother also used artificial hymen kit on her wedding night and her husband was glad to see huge quantity of blood that spoiled bed sheet and he proudly shown the same to his all family members.
I think your father had shown the bleed of blood of your mother on her wedding night to your family that is why you are talking such nonsense.islam did not permit to disclose your sexiual life with others.it is zina in islam to have sex before marriage and hell is waiting for them.
Zahid,
In true sense, devils are imams, maulvi and mullas who commit attrocities and interpretate islamic laws against females. Virginity is necessary for a female and why not for a male? Why they are allowd to keep 4 wives? why they are allowd to have sex even with a dead wife? These are all characteristics of devils like you.
Hindus are more polygamous than muslims
Do to your blind knowledge about islam you are telling such nonsense thing about islam
hadiths on women.
1.Paradise lies under the feet of the mother.
2..Ayeshah, says, ‘A girl came and stated that her father had given her in marriage to his nephew and she disliked him. I told her to wait till the Prophet arrived. When the Prophet came, I told him the full story of the girl. He at once sent for the father of the girl and enquired whether the facts stated were true, after which he told the girl the she was at liberty to choose or repudiate her husband. The girl replied that she chose to retain her marriage, and she wanted only to know whether women had the rights in the matter.’
(Nasai).
3..A believer must not hate his wife, and if he is displeased with one bad quality in her, then let him be pleased with one that is good in her.
3..Abu Hurairah says, “The Prophet of Allah said that if a person has three daughters whom he provides for and brings up, Allah will surely reward him with paradise.”
(Kanz al-Ummal).
4..According to Abdullah ibn Mas’ud, the Prophet is reported to have said; “If a daughter is born to a person and he brings her up, gives her a good education and trains her in the arts of life, I shall myself stand between him and hell-fire.
(Kanz al-Ummal)
5..A report from Bahz b. Hakim states: I inquired the Prophet (peace be upon him) about hi teaching in respect of women. Hereplied: “Feed them as you feed yourselves, clothe them as you clothe yourselves, and do not beat or scold them.”
(Kanz al-Ummal).
6..Abu Hurairah reports that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: ‘A grown-up girl shall be asked permission about herself. If she is silent, it is her permission; and if she declines, there shall be no compulsion on her.’
(Muslim).
7..Ayeshah, says, ‘A girl came and stated that her father had given her in marriage to his nephew and she disliked him. I told her to wait till the Prophet arrived. When the Prophet came, I told him the full story of the girl. He at once sent for the father of the girl and enquired whether the facts stated were true, after which he told the girl the she was at liberty to choose or repudiate her husband. The girl replied that she chose to retain her marriage, and she wanted only to know whether women had the rights in the matter.’
(Nasai)
8..A report from Abu Hurairah says: ‘No believer should be angry towards his wife. If some of her qualities are displeasing, there will be many other qualitiesworth appreciation.’
(Nail al-Autar).
8.The Angel of Allah advised me so many times about women that I became convinced that it isnot lawful for a man to divorce his wife, except when she commits adultery.
9.Ali reported, The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) forbade temporary marriage with women, and the eating of domestic asses, on the day of Khaibar. (NOTE 33)
(Bukhari).
10.Abu Huraira told that when Allah’s messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was asked to invoke curse on thepolytheists he replied, “I was not sent as one given to cursing; I was sent only as a mercy.”
(Muslim).
11.”Messenger of Allah, who is most deserving of friendly care from me?” He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) replied, “Your mother.” He asked who came next, and He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) replied, “Your mother.” He asked who came next and He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) replied, “Your mother.”He asked who came next and He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) replied, “Your father.”
(Bukhari, Muslim).
12..He who throws himself from a mountain and kills himself will be thrown down in the fire of hell and remain in it for ever and ever; he who sips poison and killshimself will have his poison in hishand will sip it for ever and ever in the fire of hell.
(Bukhari, Muslim).
13..A believer will continue to find ample scope in his religion aslong as he does not kill anyone unlawfully. (Bukhari).
(Sayings of Muhammad. by Prof. Ghazi Ahmad).
76.Shedding of blood will be the first matter about which judgement will be given on the Day of Resurrection.
(Bukhari, Muslim).
(Sayings of Muhammad. by Prof. Ghazi Ahmad).
77.If anyone kills a man who had made a covenant (anyone who belongs to a Non-Muslim community with whom a treaty of peace has been made, or a member of protected communities) will not experience the fragrance of paradise.
(Bukhari).
14..The lawful thing Allah hates most is divorce.
15..A believer must not hate his wife, and if he is displeased with one bad quality in her, then let him be pleased with one that is good in her.
Do to your blind knowledge about islam you are telling such nonsense thing about islam
hadiths on women.
1.Paradise lies under the feet of the mother.
2..Ayeshah, says, ‘A girl came and stated that her father had given her in marriage to his nephew and she disliked him. I told her to wait till the Prophet arrived. When the Prophet came, I told him the full story of the girl. He at once sent for the father of the girl and enquired whether the facts stated were true, after which he told the girl the she was at liberty to choose or repudiate her husband. The girl replied that she chose to retain her marriage, and she wanted only to know whether women had the rights in the matter.’
(Nasai).
3..A believer must not hate his wife, and if he is displeased with one bad quality in her, then let him be pleased with one that is good in her.
3..Abu Hurairah says, “The Prophet of Allah said that if a person has three daughters whom he provides for and brings up, Allah will surely reward him with paradise.”
(Kanz al-Ummal).
4..According to Abdullah ibn Mas’ud, the Prophet is reported to have said; “If a daughter is born to a person and he brings her up, gives her a good education and trains her in the arts of life, I shall myself stand between him and hell-fire.
(Kanz al-Ummal)
5..A report from Bahz b. Hakim states: I inquired the Prophet (peace be upon him) about hi teaching in respect of women. Hereplied: “Feed them as you feed yourselves, clothe them as you clothe yourselves, and do not beat or scold them.”
(Kanz al-Ummal).
6..Abu Hurairah reports that the Prophet (peace be upon him) said: ‘A grown-up girl shall be asked permission about herself. If she is silent, it is her permission; and if she declines, there shall be no compulsion on her.’
(Muslim).
7..Ayeshah, says, ‘A girl came and stated that her father had given her in marriage to his nephew and she disliked him. I told her to wait till the Prophet arrived. When the Prophet came, I told him the full story of the girl. He at once sent for the father of the girl and enquired whether the facts stated were true, after which he told the girl the she was at liberty to choose or repudiate her husband. The girl replied that she chose to retain her marriage, and she wanted only to know whether women had the rights in the matter.’
(Nasai)
8..A report from Abu Hurairah says: ‘No believer should be angry towards his wife. If some of her qualities are displeasing, there will be many other qualitiesworth appreciation.’
(Nail al-Autar).
8.The Angel of Allah advised me so many times about women that I became convinced that it isnot lawful for a man to divorce his wife, except when she commits adultery.
9.Ali reported, The Messenger of Allah (peace be upon him) forbade temporary marriage with women, and the eating of domestic asses, on the day of Khaibar. (NOTE 33)
(Bukhari).
10.Abu Huraira told that when Allah’s messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) was asked to invoke curse on thepolytheists he replied, “I was not sent as one given to cursing; I was sent only as a mercy.”
(Muslim).
11.”Messenger of Allah, who is most deserving of friendly care from me?” He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) replied, “Your mother.” He asked who came next, and He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) replied, “Your mother.” He asked who came next and He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) replied, “Your mother.”He asked who came next and He (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) replied, “Your father.”
(Bukhari, Muslim).
12..He who throws himself from a mountain and kills himself will be thrown down in the fire of hell and remain in it for ever and ever; he who sips poison and killshimself will have his poison in hishand will sip it for ever and ever in the fire of hell.
(Bukhari, Muslim).
13..A believer will continue to find ample scope in his religion aslong as he does not kill anyone unlawfully. (Bukhari).
(Sayings of Muhammad. by Prof. Ghazi Ahmad).
76.Shedding of blood will be the first matter about which judgement will be given on the Day of Resurrection.
(Bukhari, Muslim).
(Sayings of Muhammad. by Prof. Ghazi Ahmad).
77.If anyone kills a man who had made a covenant (anyone who belongs to a Non-Muslim community with whom a treaty of peace has been made, or a member of protected communities) will not experience the fragrance of paradise.
(Bukhari).
14..The lawful thing Allah hates most is divorce.
15..A believer must not hate his wife, and if he is displeased with one bad quality in her, then let him be pleased with one that is good in her.to know more islam and prophet muhammad vist http://www.muhammad.net
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If she marry a hindu she wil not remain muslim and will go to hell. Do not marry a muslim.
Agree, give up this idea.
Do not marry any Muslim who is expecting a Hindu to change his/her religion. That Muslim is nothing but a telibani, love-proselytizer, love-Jihadi. They want to go to heaven and end up making your this life hell.
Yes since hindus worship devil that is why i am trying to say this that devils(hindus) have no right to marry muslims. hell is waiting for hindus. gandiji was more muslim than hindus as he did not belive in hinduism. as he said i did not believe in ramayana as it is a story like arabian nights. He was close to accept islam and hindu fundamentilist threat him. And last hindus killed him.
Zahid, we are glad you like Gandhi who was a devotee of Krishna.
Like you said, “He was close to accept islam”, so this close to is enough or one has to be full Muslim to go to heaven?
After praying to Krishna all his life, will Gandhi go to heaven or Hell?
He did not believe in hinduism as he thinks hinduism is a epic storie like arbian nights.nor your krishna a devil or your gods. He was impressed by teaching of islam and i have already what gandhaji tell about islam in my early posts.as he was close to accept islam hindus killed him.
Now allah will judge him on judgement day will he go to heaven or hell.allah will judge what was in his heart. He will be rewarded accrodingly
Zahid,
Gandhi was certainly a Krishna lover. Watch “Gandhi, my father” movie and you will know that Gandhi almost made his son revert from Islam to Hinduism. Gandhi was a pluralist and thus he had no problem saying good for other religions, but does not mean he as a Muhammad follower.
How about Mother Teresa, will she go to Hell?