Vasu says: January 2, 2016 at 11:21 pm
I’m 19 and a Hindu in love with a Pakistani Muslim guy,my uncles are against this even my mum at times but she supports us …they are afraid he is a Muslim and he might marry even after me…and we’re together for abt 1 year but he wants me to convert …what should I do ? I feel it’s impossible leaving him as I’m still young..he is only 21…any feedback?he always tells me he swears he loves me and will do so till the end
I’m a Malaysian Hindu and my boyfren is frm pakistan he wants me to convert to Muslim but to me if possible I do not want to convert so is there any possible ways to go to the overseas marrying him without converting..? I heard there r possible ways but what r the requirements and how to do so? Much appreciated-Vasu
Admin says:
Dear Vasu,
You are only 19 and thus have to learn many reality of this life. First, on any public forum life this, do not disclose your real name, we have modified your name here to protect you. Second, in real life, promises made in blind love has very limited value. For example, go ask all married people how much of their today’s life is running by promises made during their premarital period.
He is a typical Muslim. He already asked you for religious conversion, that should be a warning sign. He does not love you (a Hindu girl) but wish you to be a Muslim (that you are not). If he wants carnation, why he is looking for a rose? Can a rose be converted to carnation? Can you be a true Muslim? Do you know what means to be a Muslim wife? Yes, as a Muslim, he could marry up to 4 wives legally (even in India). Further he could lightly beat his wife as allowed in their scripture. Divorce are as easy as talk, talk, talaak, done deal! After your divorce, you MUST marry another Muslim, not to a Hindu or Christian. Are you ready for all these?
For all these reasons listed above, you start learning on Islam and see if you wish to be a true Muslim. Read all recommended videos and articles above and also read from Google on your own. So, the first question for you is are you ready to be a true Muslim wife?
You are stuck because you live in Malaysia. The government will not allow you to marry a Muslim and settle for good in Malaysia. You could always go to Singapore and marry him and come back to Malaysia as a visitor, however you will have difficulty settling and raising children in Malaysia as a Hindu-Muslim couple.
We understand you do not want to convert but is he ready for it? Please ask him and his Pakistani parents for it. This should be your first step. Best wishes. -Admin
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Dear Vasu,
You are just 19 yrs. and does not know the realities of life particularly with a muslim guy from pakistan, which is a country of terrorists. You are emotionally attached with him.
Dont get trapped, whole life you will repent. Get yourself dissassociated from that guy, who may be showing very good manners, politeness, submissive, but lateron, his real personality will come out with dreaded evil practices against you.
hope you will realize your emotional mistake.
Never convert to Islam just for marriage, one should only become a Muslim if their heart loves Islam