Deepa says: July 25, 2013 at 7:45 am
Hello, Need a suggestion, im a hindu brahmin girl planning to marry a Muslim Guy. I read as without converting we can register as per special marriage act. But is it practical in day to day life. I respect all religion and believe in god, only the way of worship is different. But still I have fear in converting as i feel it is a big sin. If at all i convert i can not stop praying hindu god as its inborn in me. And im aware if i keep idles and pray im not considered as a muslim so there is no point in converting but..his parents are ready to accept me only if i convert. Iam ready to learn islamic culture and follow but i can not give up my religion nor i can not leave him.-Deepa
Admin says:
Dear Deepa,
We feel your pain. It is unfortunate that their primary interest is to convert you to Islam. They do not see how good a person you are, but their bottom line is to expand Islam. Be very clear that if you don’t convert, that guy will run away from you.
The Special Marriage Act applies only in India. If you are in an Islamic country, a Hindu cannot marry a Muslim but must convert to Islam to make that marriage legal. If you are in the West, it does not matter how you get married, but that you register your marriage that matters.
To have an Islamic Nikaah (wedding), both couples must be Muslim only. Not a single Imam will perform Nikaah of a “Hindu” to a Muslim. You must take 5 min of Shahadah oath and convert to Islam if you wish a Nikaah.
Why you said, “If I keep idles and pray”? You do not pray to idols, you pray to murtis. You see God through an object, made of a marble. Muslims use Kaaba Black cube as an object to pray to their Allah, Christians use a wood-cross, Jew’s go to the Jerusalem Wall and Hindus use a marble statue. There is no difference. Either all are idols or all are Godly object. Actually Jesus and Muhammad are the most idolized human beings in this World’s history. So go tell your bf to remove Kaaba and Muhammad before you remove your murtis out of your married life.
You have good reason to be fearful of converting. Remember the FAKE-conversion will ruin your life as well as your husband’s too. Do not plan to fool your husband, his relatives, Imam, Muslim community and to God. Do not fake-convert.
So, you convert only if you wish to be a true Muslim. Now if you don’t know, following will (could) happen to you if you become a Muslim. Other Muslims, please correct us if we made a mistake.
• You will take the Shahadah oaths, that is, conversion to Islam.
• You will have the Islamic Nikaah (marriage).
• You will be given an Arabic name.
• You will not have your original name on your wedding card, but only a Muslim given name!
• The Muslim boy cannot be a part of Hindu wedding because it is idol-worship prohibited by Islam
• Your Muslim lover cannot enter a Hindu temple and bow to Hindu Gods because it is prohibited in Islam. However, your Muslim lover will expect you to accept 100% Islam and quit 100% Hinduism.
• You cannot carry any Hindu god photos or Ganesh murti in your new married Muslim life home because, as per your Shahadah oath, there is no God but Allah
• You cannot (should not) enter a Hindu temple any more because Hindus pray to false gods
• You will not be encouraged to go for further education or a job
• You will be rushed into having several kids.
• Your children will have Arabic names and circumcision
• Children will be taught only from Koran, not at all from Geeta
• Children will not be allowed to be a part of Holi, Janmasthami and Diwali, not even when they are at your parents home. Instead you will celebrate bakra-id and Ramadan
• Your Muslim sons will be allow to mingle with your Hindu relatives and girls, but not your Muslim daughters
• Your children will marry to their Muslim cousins
• Your children will marry to (former) Hindus (after converting) like their mom did. This saga will continue for another 1000 years till no more Hindus left to convert!
• You will have to reduce association with your Hindu parents and Hindu friends, and ultimately forget them. You will have a new set of Muslim relatives and Muslim friends
• You will have to cook and eat meat
• Your husband and his family may ask you to start wearing burqa
• Your Muslim husband has rights to get three other young girl as wives stacked next to you. If you behave well, you will get more love from your husband compared to the other three wives
• If you don’t behave well, you husband may (lightly) beat you.
• If you are tired of your married life, sorry you cannot ask for a divorce. A Muslim wife don’t have that right
• If you continue not behaving well, your husband may say talaak, talaak, talaak and you are out of that marriage, simple!
• If you get talaak in the middle of a cold night and asked to move out without any bags of your own cloths, where will you go from here? Your Hindu friends? Back to your Hindu father and Hindu brother with whom you spoiled relationships with? If you are smart, you got to have a back-up plan for this day
• If your former Muslim husband#1 realize his mistake of talaak, he cannot take you back. You MUST marry another Muslim, have sex with this temporary husband#2 then get (hope) a divorce to remarry your #1 husband.
• You (a Muslim after shahadah) cannot convert back to any other religion EVEN AFTER your divorce, otherwise punishment could be stoned to death (as per Islamic law)
• If you are divorced, most probably you will not get your child custody
• You (a Muslim lady) MUST marry only a Muslim
• After Shahadah and talaak, if you re-marry to a Hindu by a Hindu ceremony, your marriage may be invalid (read Supreme court’s ruling).
• If you die, you will be put in a grave and given Islamic final rites. On the Judgment Day, Allah will need your body to unite with your soul
• You will be happy to know that Islam is the only true religion; others are false (including Christianity, Hinduism, Sikhism and the rest). Further, on the Judgment Day, you will go to heaven; while your Hindu parents, Mahatma Gandhi, Mother Teresa, Barak Obama and all non-Muslims will get Hell of Fire.
Deepa, we will be here all times and waiting to help you. Get back to us for what else you wish to know. -Admin
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Convert Islam 2 christian in guwahati…how 2 process…contact details…help me…
Why you wish to give up Islam?
What you do not like about Islam?
Why you like Christianity?
Do you like their church or Jesus?
Faith is embeded in heart and mind. Flowers, fire, words are oral and physical presumtions. In Hinduism no one can be converted to high caste BRAHMIN, they are converted as low cast SHUDRAS AS per MANUSMRITI:
No collection of wealth to be made by a Shudra even though he may be able to do it. Brahmin can take Shudra’s property by force. (Manusmriti X,129).
Brahman can have 4 wives, Kshatriya can have 3 wives , Vaishnava can have 2 wives, Shudra cant have more than 1. (Aitreya Veda, Brahma VIII, 29 page 201).
The tongue of Shudra who spoke evil about Brahmin should be cut off (Apastamba Dharma Sutra II/10-26.
Those who are with stinking conduct they will enter a stinking womb, either the womb of a dog or the womb of a swine or womb of Shudra (Chandogya Upanishad 5-10-7)
Shudras must be prohibited from hearing, studying Vedas (Brahma Sutras 1.3.9.38)
More on google Why Dr.Ambedkar burnt Manusmriti.
Due to Brahmins discrimination of Shudra Hindus converted in 550Bc to Jainism, in 500Bc to Budhism, 712Ad to 1700 to Islam and after British rule till today Shudras are converting to Christianity.
You said, “Brahman can have 4 wives” but that was the past. Today that is outlawed. Are you okay if ALL are outlawed to have more than one wife? In other ways of saying, are you supporting or against polygamy?
first of all I challenge with every muslims to prove them as there are nothing like these in islam. if you disprove given statement,then I accept islam.
child marriage (sorry molestation)
sex slavery
polygamy
division
gender inequality
talaaq
killing of non-believers
killing of just being of non muslims
questioning of islam and his prophet
freedom of speech
does not tell followers to lie
islam does not ask followers to over dominate his wife
it preaches universal brotherhood
it did not copy from other religion
hails killing of who leaves islam
it does not officially preaches terrorism
allah has exitence in this universe
allah does not narrow minded thoughts over other religion and women
islam is the only true religion
there is scientific for proving your own quote-there is no god but allah
circumcision is useful according to logic
please dont come up with negotiable answer
You must be really sick if u decided to convert into this sick religion, god will never force anyone to practice any particular religion,religion just a way of approoching god, being a good human being is more important.
Dear All,
Learn to live free.
Follow any religion which gives you freedom to join or leave
as per your wisdom and at all times so that you do not feel compulsive
or suffocated there.
Good Luck!
JAY SHIRI KIRSHNA
I (bahgwan dass new name) m from Pakistan 46 year old Man have 4 children Physics Teacher 4 months before I seen a dream
A person is saying
You should Chang your religion and leave your wife & children they r not yours go Hindu area marry with Hindu girl
HE Give me few Prediction ——–After few days Prediction be come True
I ve divorce my wife (but giving money )
I Worship secretly (Ganesh Pooja) because in Islam and Pakistan change of religion forbidden
WHAT SHOULD I DO PLZ HELP ME
flyingbird95@yahoo.com
Mr. Bahgwan Dass,
Welcome to this site. We are glad you are now enlightened. Now you are probably going back to your ancestors’ faith. You are a free man to believe in what gives you a piece of mind. Read all about Hinduism and Geeta from Internet.
Being in Pakistan, we recommend to be careful making statements in public about your leaving Islam. Further, we are not happy for why you left your wife and children? Unite with them and educate them too. Even you told her talaak, talaak, talaak, considering now you are a Hindu, you could ignore those talaak and unite with her. Best wishes.
Dear deepa
If u want to convert its ur decision no1. Is forcing u..and dear admin please dont give false statement..its abt a guys thnkng that he wants 2marry nther women instead of his wife..nd let me remind u in hindusim. Der r mny god u had married more than 100 wife lord Krishna had married 183 women so its means all Hindu men will marry 100 women.Der r mny men u had married women instead if his wife.so pls dont blame Islam..nd every1 force d boy/girl to get convert 2his religion not only Islam.my frnd she got married to a Hindu guy nd boy iforces her to get convert nd evn he beats him nor let her to tlk wide her family nd friends ..nd hesitant having affair wide his bhabhi dey both also hvng sexual relatipnship does Hinduism teaches this nd i have seen many Hindu guy hvng sexual relationshop wide their bhabhis..my frnd is such tried wide him but what she can do nor she can go back home she has only to sufeer.so its nther abt Muslim guy nor Hindu boy its all dat its abt a guuys mind nd his thoughts how he can respct a women..di is.its all man made rituals whch made such differnce in religion.so dnt blame ny religion pls first lUK at urs e religion has its good nd bad so no1 is forcing to convert.its all about the human mind.and its nt so complusry to wear burkha its our decision am also but i dnt wear nor my sis shes also married.and every women has a right 2 study nd Islam does tel dat a women get maried so she get study it only tel she should study nd also Luk after her fmly nd its right.nd its nt dat we haveto marry in our family its abt our paresnts thinking and our jodi made by god.i.i nd my sis got married out of our familirs nd we mch happier wide our husbnd nd familyiofamily Ital
Islam as I get to know it by my study on the materials spread on various websites is that it has got an unique inherent mechanism to safeguard it from onslaughts from outside influences. When it proclaims that none but a devout Muslim can enter in Heaven, it has closed doors of Heaven for every other human being. So how a Muslim can ever think of leaving such a faith ? Likewise, nobody can marry a Muslim while retaining one’s original faith so whoever is in conjugal relation with a Muslim is in fact a Muslim too. Also once you convert to Islam, you have to necessarily give up your faith and all practices related to it. Such kind of strong mechanism has saved this religion called Islam and has also enabled it to spread to four corners of the world. Alien to such a faith like me think of it as a rigid structure and sometimes devoid of freedom like we witness in our own religion. It also bewilders us that no Muslim can ever praise good things about alien religions as it is sheer sin in Islam. While all devout Muslims are proud of this edifice that is called Islam, the freedom loving humanity sees it as confinement and suppression of free speech and rational thought. However nobody can dispute about the sheer intelligence of father of this religion to devise ways of keeping this sect intact and growing at the same time. In one aspect only, Hinduism can compete Islam is caste system which is very rigid and even till date has maintained it’s character and it is very difficult to break away from this rigid edifice. Also beef eating is so hateful that a Hindu cannot even dream of doing so and this aspect is so strong in Hindu psyche that nobody can shake his faith in this regard. There is another aspect of Hinduism which is strongly inbuilt in a Hindu psyche and that is cremation of dead bodies. Alien religions abhor this practice but to a devout Hindu, this practice is very pious and sacred and is the last rite of total 16 rites throughout his life span till death. While other faiths tilt towards a concept of a single God, Hindus feel it natural to worship anything on earth as symbolic of Ishwar or God. While rest of the world is bewildered, it is an unique worship system evolved in Hinduism which no other religion is ready to buy. Also hinduism does not believe in proselytism of any kind to its fold and this is also a smart mechanism to defend the faith. So reason behind my jumping from the concept of Islam to Hinduism is that protagonists of Hinduism were also very smart and intelligent to set up a strong mechanism to safeguard it from alien onslaughts. That is why Hinduism is still intact despite severe repeated onslaughts. While rest of the world is bewildered, Hindus are very proud to have such a religious system in order and intact. No matter how much people make hue and cry about rigidity ingrained in both religions, adherents of two grand religions will go on continue with these belief systems.
Omg
Don’t become Muslim
End of story.
If you don’t want to, DONT.
And DON’T marry a Muslim…
It is VERY CLEAR in the Qur’an that a Muslim cannot marry a polytheist… Polytheists go to hell according to the Qur’an….
Just stick to what you believe and be peaceful and love life.
But the guy can convert to Hinduism and then marry the girl. That option is still open. Its clearly written here.
Jamal Katuwe, Madharchod,
Suwar ki aulad, your mothers, sisters were raped by muslims and then under fear you converted to muslims.
Still your mother,boys, girls are raped by imams, mullas in Madrasas.
All Muslims,
The true Islam is surrender to Allah, not surrender to Muhammad who has demeaned Allah in various ways!
1.Muhammad has limited Allah’s powers and has spread the rumour that Allah is dependent on the so called self professed Prophets to propagate His message.
2. Allah is not impartial and shows partiality. For example, He communicates only with the prophets, and not others! Others have only to rely on the prophets. Moreover, Allah favours males in Jannat! Males are given 72 hoors but what’s about the women? The Muslims are silent on the fact that women hardly get anything in the Jannat. Also, Muhammad declared that Allah is partial as males are allowed to ahve four wives but the women just one husband!
3. All the prophets have been only the males! Not even a single woman has been a female! This is sheer partiality.
Can Allah be like this? It’s all the Muhammad who has caused this misery and demeaned Allah. So, Debunk Muhammad and pray Allah.
Allah o Akbar!
See a muslim herself saying
how a convert was dumped by muslim guy after marriage (Nikaah) .
https://www.facebook.com/groups/revertgroupindia/permalink/642151095796480/
Deepa,
Perhaps you have lost your sense and determined to jump in the fire.
Your days are numbered and your BF will force you to eat beef, get removed your clitors, face presence of another 3 wives and if you objected you will be beated and one day thrown out of the house by trpple talak and you need to practice HALALA to allow other males to fuck you and evenif you dont agree, you will be handed over to terrorists for sexual purpose and your life will be worst than a prostitute and soon will get infected by HIV virus.
Hello readers,
Is there any religion in the world that:-
(i) practices female genital mutiliation,
(ii) sex with dead wife,
(iii) males allowed to keep 4wives,
(iv) female needed to be virgin and bleed on the wedding night,
displaying bed sheets before family members
(v)Mutta marriages,
(vi) Halala and tripple talak,
(vii) 4 witnesses needed to seek justice by a female in the event of rape against her,
(viii) females treated as whors, sex dolls and field to be ploughed like any thing,
(ix) has any prophet 0f 59 years old raped 9 years old girl, married and raped hundred of girls? and claiming to be messnger of God.
Did Allah find this rapist his messenger, no one was available for preaching noble things to the mankind?
(x) any religion preaching killing non-muslims?
(xi) any religion luring terrorists by false propaganda of 72 virgins for sex in the heaven, those killed as terrorists?
Shame on you and other propagators of climinal idelogy of islam.
Respond
Preity(Deepa)
Believe in the guy and not the religion !.
All Muslims are not how they are described neither all Hindus are the way they are !.
Marriage is about two people on what they believe and the belief is GOD.
Thanks,
Ashraf
Ashraf,
Should she have a Nikaah after Shahadah conversion? Can/should a Muslim marry a “Hindu”?
Hindu and Muslims girls must know it that the so called muslims follow Muhammad in the name of Allah. If not, why do they follow Quran which is given to them by Muhammad? Why do they believe in everything mentioned by Muhammad regarding Allah? All the Muslim laws and customes have been shaped by Muhammad. If the Muslims want to quit Muhammad, they must quit Quran and the customs such as sunnat(circumcision), burqa, talak, halal and halala, qurbani, hizab, Makka etc.
Most importantly, why Muhammad is required to be named in Shahada? True Islam is following Allah in your own way, not the way Muhammad has told you.
Hi
I think Sheeba is correct to express her views.I am sure that non-muslim girls in general are used for sex and thereafter passing to Talibanies for their enjoyment. Several unfortunate girls have been trapped and used for talibanies, for which they pay good money. This is big business flourishing in most asian countries.
Kavery and Deepa are their next targets and once they are in the hands of talibanies, they will never be able to get free from their clutches and every day, they will have entertain many talibanies for sexual enjoyment.
Hi dear readers,
Myself from rural India, where no education facilities are available for girls. I had one Baji in urban area of that city. I saw mostly girls in muslim families neglected and always subject to abusive behaviour with many restrictions. I used to help my baji in domestic works too and so she gladly required my presence with her and permitting me to pursue higher studies upto graduation level. I passed my graduation in science stream and luckily got job in a hospital, where I met with a Hindu Pharamasicist and with his excellent support and behaviour fell in love with him. I supported my parents with my earnings and so parents allowed me to continue the job.
Ultimately, one day I married him. Initially they were not happy but soon after my continuous support to them financially they agreed the relations.
Here I would like to point out the basic difference between Hindu guys and muslim guys, that they are supportive, well mannered and adjusting nature. Though I did not convert but I like the hindu messages like kindness, treating wife as goddess, associating her in all decisions, respecting good things of muslim religions too, very caring, whereas in Islam females are treated very badly, tortured, restricting their basic freedoms, all in the name of Islam.
We both are working in the same hospital together, enjoying a lot with blissful life.
Dear sheeba..
Being a Muslim u r spreading wrong message abt urs religion..its nt dat in Islam women r being tortured…its all abt our destiny wht we get..as i had tld abt my frnd shes also lyk u got married to a Hindu guy nd her husbnd beats her with stick.rod.nor let her to tlk wide her fmly nd friends..hd evn hvng sexual relationship wide her bhabhi.before he hd promised all fake thngs nd nw he md her lyf miserable.dat she once tried to commite suicide.as she cant go bck ter fmly no1 is Der for heo hr..so pls dnt blame any religion if u want to.blame..blame the man.
As soon as you both are trapped by so called marriages, you will be forced to eat beef, then get removed your clitoris , with strict
instructions to wear burqa.
A good concerned raised by Human. It is possible that the guy may change after marriage. Make a point of not having children at least 3 years into your married life. After children (that he will insist on ASAP), you will be trapped for ever. This way, you have sufficient time to know him. If you sense any trouble, just walk out of that marriage and start a brand new life.
You both girls are mad to marry to the guys who are criminal and terrorists, just trapping you for sexual purpose with other talibanies.
They can go to any extent to trap non muslims for sex and mutliplication of terrorist generation.
You both will repent definetly one day, when you will be stonned to death before regular beating and abusive behaviour.
Dear Human,
We cannot say all Muslims are “the guys who are criminal and terrorists”. It is possible that he may be a decent human being and in many respect better than many other Hindus.
If he is a Muslim, he has rights to follow his religion and practices. If he asks a Hindu girl to convert or marry and then keep pressing the Hindu wife to accept Islam, there is nothing wrong he is doing. This is what Islam is all about.
See what Muslims are suppose to do .. http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=vdEXD_xKua0
Actually it is the same Christians and Jews also do. Only difference is Muslims are honest and upfront.
So, don’t blame Muslim guys. Hindu girls have choices and they have to decide if Islam is right for them.
Deepa give me ur email id….i want to tok to you… even i am also in a relationshp wid amuslim guy…. just want to tok…..
Take me as ur sister….. 🙂
Kaveri
Kaveri and Deepa,
This is an excellent idea. Do not disclose your e-mail address on the web but instead write to InterfaithShaadi.gmail.com. If both of you write, then we will disclose your e-mails.
Deepa,
Why don’t you get guidance from a Brahmin girl who has been with a Muslim? You can request the Admin and he can provide you with her email id after getting her permission. She is also from India and probably you can discuss with her.
One could see Brahmin girl-Muslim boy here
https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?cat=29