Sunita says: January 18, 2018 at 9:52 am (Edit)
Hi I’m sujata same problem I’m facing .I’m a hindu girl n hv a relationship with a Muslim boy from last 3 years . He was ready to marry me in last two year he was try to agree his family bt all aforts were failed. Now we will helpless n he said that he can’t marry me because of thier society . Love marriage not allowed n hindu girl never accepted by them I hv SC category too. We can’t leave without each other. what to do plz help us. -Sunita
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Hi Sunita,
We have changed your name for your privacy, we hope that is okay with you.
You should not consider this “I hv SC category” because your category is “Godly” and “human being”, that’s all. If any one think of you any less, walk away from that relationship.
This statement is very disturbing, “He was ready to marry me in last two year …. Love marriage not allowed n hindu girl never accepted by them.” Either he is a love-jihadi or a person with small brain capacity. Go ask 100 Muslims if Muslims are allowed to marry a Hindu and almost all will tell you it is absolutely impossible. Why your lover never heard of this before????? Even living in that Muslim conservative home for life, he did not know this fundamental fact that he cannot marry a non-Muslim and instead got into love relationship with you for past 3 years. Unless you age a gullible, you must agree that he has been fooling you for past two years. We do not know what else is he hiding from you? We believe lots more trouble is waiting for you with this guy and you should not trust for any thing he says.
His intention is clear from the first day to convert you to Islam (100%) and make sure you are 0% Hindu. Is that okay with you? Let us know what you are thinking about converting?
I hv no problem with converting even he has no problem with he just pressurized by his family . They trying to do his brain wash his father said to him that its my last wish to from u that u can’t marry with other cast girl emmotional blackmailing is going on plz do something he is want to be with me.
even if you marry they infact he will never treat you well as most muslims know their caste as initially they were all Hindus. See casteism matters in india, maybe now he is cool but after marriage he will realize and see all his felow friends married an upper caste muslim gal he will start resenting you. He is already thinking you as an option so man up and tell him a straight no. Just becase you are an upper caste he cant treat you like shit.
HI SUjata
I have seen situations like your very closely. You honestly have only 2 options
Option 1 (Preferred option according to me)
– If you really love him and cannot live without him then you have to convert to Islam immediately. Start talking to your parents right away to make sure they are okay with the situation.
– Tell your bf to talk with his family as well. Once they see that you are serious about converting to Islam and following its rules I am sure they will accept you into their family.
– Please keep in mind that if the bf family is religious then they would expect additional compromises from your side. They will for sure want you to change your name to an Islamic name. This may or may not be a big deal but this will change your life for sure.
Option2:
– Forget your bf and move on. If you are unable tell your parents to search for a good match for you to get married.
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