Niharika says: on October 7, 2012 at 9:07 am
Hi.. I am a 25 year old Hindu girl in a relationship with a 33 year old muslim sunni guy… we have been in relation for around 4 years now.. Initially he would say that he is ready to live seperate from his parents n i need not convert.. but as years passed i understood that he is very much attached to his mom and cannot leave her for anyone… also later on things like conversion and wearing a burqa came up… I love him a lot.. but I am not too sure if i should take this forward and get married to him.. he loves me too.. but the fact that he is too attached to his mom makes me insecure too at times and i also would not like to get converted. -Niharika.
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Dear Readers,
This Niharika’s case is a typical case where a Muslim keeps saying that the Hindu need not convert and enjoys 3-4 years of romantic time, and in the end will suddenly changes the tune that now the Hindu lover must convert.
What would you say….
Was this Muslim innocent and was honest for love?
Should the Hindu give up his/her birth religion just to please Muslim lover’s religious requirement?
Are these Muslims Sikh meat love-Jihadi Telibanis?
Is it unethical to ask a non-Muslim to change his/her religion after years of relationships?
Is this practice of religious (fake) conversion (just to please imam or parents) for marriage wrong?
If someone touches you with a wrong intention, punishment could be 3 months inprisonment. What should be a punishment for stealing Niharika’s 4 years of youth?
Will Allah punish this Muslim guy for lies and stealing 4 years of youth from Niharika?
How would you know if your Muslim boy or girl lover is a love-proselytizer?
Yaq’ub says: April 24, 2016 at 6:29 am (Edit)
I read this in the post “Is this practice of religious (fake) conversion (just to please imam or parents) for marriage wrong?”
I can only share my story. I tried so hard not to fall for that ‘trap’ … 4nad half years of love wore away at my soul…
Bad advice from an uncle told me to surrender just for the sake of love… so I made the required compromises and we ‘fooled’ her family.
It wasn’t 100% fake, but we kept some secrets…
But in the end, once our son was born EVERYTHING CHANGED!!!
:'(
I could not conform to Islamist ideology, and now I have lost my son. ”
Please be careful. If it is true love, they won’t require you to change your principals. -Yaq’ub
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Im a hindu girl my lover is a muslim..we both love each other unconditionally..he is afraid of his parents that they will not accept..but he needs me he truly loves me he never wanna leave me..what to do pls suggest any idea
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Don’t marry him.. This is a typical love jihad. Your parents didn’t raise u so that they could see u in a burkha. Atleast think about them.
But i need him and he needs me..our love is true
my advice is to go for your love,no matter what happen because its ur life and you have the right to choose your love. i am in love with a hindu girl since 9 months.. we both deeply feel for each other and wants to live life together.we both not get offended by each other religion.to be very honest i dont want her to change her religion. whatever she wants to do she is free to even after marriage…i love her not i hate her religion.i do respect it….conversion is not important love is.even God ask not to force…so why we humans separate others from their religion.we dont have the right to do …God is there to look after them. its not their mistake .in my relationship we both love each other endlessly.and i will bring her easily in my home and will not let her convert..but the only problem is her parents. her dad has a doubt on us as we r friends in his eyes.her every family members respect me but my love says they said very few muslim are good not all. we have not disclose to our parents yet. but i have fear in my heart.i dont wanna lose her…she is the first and last girl to whom i loved allot….i need any suggestions…plz help me pizzazz
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I read this in the post “Is this practice of religious (fake) conversion (just to please imam or parents) for marriage wrong?”
I can only share my story. I tried so hard not to fall for that ‘trap’ … 4nad half years of love wore away at my soul…
Bad advice from an uncle told me to surrender just for the sake of love… so I made the required compromises and we ‘fooled’ her family.
It wasn’t 100% fake, but we kept some secrets…
But in the end, once our son was born EVERYTHING CHANGED!!!
:'(
I could not conform to Islamist ideology, and now I have lost my son. ”
Please be careful. If it is true love, they won’t require you to change your principals.
Hi Yaq’ub,
This an excellent advise. What was (is) your religion? Can you share more details so we can educate other youths, like you wish to do.
All stories fake under muslim names and Those who marry non muslims did not remain muslims and will go to hell forever life after death tell them you are not muslims. To learn about islam vist http://www.usislam.org for more ioformation about islam.do not belive these posts as they lie about islam.learn truth about islam from website.
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Hello every body,
I have been reading comments on different blogs on this site and found that Amir, Indian,Srinivas,even Hindu girl, posing different names, disguising their exact identity, are writing all non sense here in favour of cruelty, discrimination, rapist character. Our muslim girls should be aware of these types of persons. Such people are responsible for the worst condition of muslim women in the world.
All the women,
I bow my head to you all women (Hindu, Muslima, Christian etc. whoever you may be) as the manifestation of the Durga/Allah/God during this auspicious period of Navratri. You are the true deity of prosperity, power and intellect. That nation will always be blissful where the women are respected and they have smile on their faces. I wish each couple must have at least one girl child as a symbol of Lakshmi (happiness).
Again, my all respects to you. May, Durga/Allah bestow all the happiness and prosperity on you all, only smiles, no tears ever.
Niharika ,
My heart goes out to you. The person whom you know for last 4 years is not the person you know. To be honest, people try to be at their best and present a different picture for a time, but that is not sustainable. The truth has to come out and the real picture is so many a times shocking and is not pleasant.
Life is not 4 years , its much beyond. Look ahead and take a hard decision of life.
Life is not measured by the breaths we take but by the moments that take our breaths away. Go and live with a partner , who will be what he is !!!
Get rid of that bastard immediately, don’t contact or meet him. He is shaitan. Save yourself from hell during your life time itself. If still you interact with him, you will die like a dog, repenting throughout life and you will get punishment of your immatured and dangerous decision.
May God prevail good sense to you before falling in the hell.
You remind us of chand osmani on this blog, read what she wrote and email talk with her. Your movie is over miss, now you are facing the life after all your dreams have disappeared. What he is saying is that love is gone and only life is there left to live. You are a door mat from now on.
Get a job even if it means working as a servant maid and live with self respect and more importantly with independence. Hindu families gave you independence and that’s what you lose in your marriage with this selfish man. Otherwise alternatively live as his slave. Once you marry him you are a slave and slaves wont get any love.
Run when you still can….away from him.
We would like to add to your summary,
….kick VERY hard (you know where we mean) to him and then… run when you still can….away from him.