priya says: June 20, 2017 at 11:30 pm
I am in relationship with CSI guy..Suddenly he is saying that CSI Christians won’t accept love marriage even I am ready to convert and I am ready to speak with my parents..He is saying that In Bible there is a thing relationship with someone is wrong.Is it true? -Priya
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I am ready to be 100% CSI Christian because I love him more than anything.But my heart always says If he allow me only with his permission I will go to temple. And in my case he is not ready to speak with his parent is there any other reasons even I am ready to wait till his parents accept.
As per Christian faith, going to Hindu temple is sin (idol-worshipping). You cannot enter Hindu temple, now bow to any Gods there, cannot eat prasad, and not associate with Hindus in mandir.
Do you know this is what the Jealous God says in the Second Commandment: “I am the Lord your God. You shall have no other gods before me. You shall not make for yourself an idol, whether in the form of anything that is in heaven above, or that is on the earth beneath, or that is in the water under the earth. You shall not bow down to them or worship them; for I the Lord your God am a jealous God punishing children for the inequity of parents, to the third and fourth generations of those who reject me.”
Read this .. https://interfaithshaadi.org/?p=1249
Ok it is very sad to hear.But by birth am a Hindu..ok I am accepting the rules in Bible ..There is only one God in my point..So I will think Jesus as vinayagar,Siva and Perumal because Jesus as no image right..like this I can worship all God.
Priya,
Jesus is our hero. He was very progressive thinker and gave great messages. However, these churches are teaching all exclusivist teachings to create spit between Hindus and Christians. Please read this article… https://www.interfaithshaadi.org/?p=7914
It is not what you think “Jesus as vinayagar,Siva and Perusal” is our issue but what your CSI church think is our issue. Go meet main priest of their church and tell them what you are telling us. Find out first hands what are their expectations.
If you were smart and want to be happy for ever, marry this guy, accept Jesus in your life and heart but keep this church out of your married life (meaning no baptism). There is nothing you have to gain by baptism but troubles. Later, we will discuss legal issue by fake-converting.
Hi Priya,
Read what Bible has to say for Hindus here. Let us know are you willing to be 100% CSI and 0% Hindu? Will your parents and community be proud of you?
Lets talk more.
I like to be 40% CSI and 60% Hindu.If i convince my mom she will allow me. In some situation i will be CSI for his parents in their presence only.He is saying that In Bible there is a thing relationship with someone is wrong.Is it true?. He is afraid to speak with his parent because of my religion.
Priya,
Christianity is an exclusivist religion (Christians may not). Have you read the Bible link we provided you? Do you have any doubt that CSI will allow that 40%-60% deal? It it is the church, they will want 100%-0%, are you ready?
From the link we provided, this is what Bible says…
Part VIII: Interfaith Marriages
The Bible has many stern warnings against interfaith marriages. Probably for this reason, a fearful Christian (Muslim or Jew) will want to solve this interfaith marriage problem by religious conversion of his or her Hindu fiancée (or children by this marriage; read BBS).
Here are Bible’s recommendations on interfaith marriages:
Then Miriam and Aaron spoke against Moses because of the Ethiopian woman whom he had married; for he had married an Ethiopian woman. (Numbers 12:1)
And when the LORD your God delivers them over to you, you shall conquer them and utterly destroy them. You shall make no covenant with them nor show mercy to them. Nor shall you make marriages with them. You shall not give your daughter to their son, nor take their daughter for your son. For they will turn your sons away from following Me, to serve other gods; so the anger of the LORD will be aroused against you and destroy you suddenly. But thus you shall deal with them: you shall destroy their altars, and break down their sacred pillars, and cut down their wooden images, and burn their carved images with fire. (Deuteronomy 7:2-5)
When a man takes a wife and marries her, and it happens that she finds no favor in his eyes because he has found some uncleanness in her, and he writes her acertificate of divorce, puts it in her hand, and sends her out of his house, when she has departed from his house, and goes and becomes another man’s wife, if the latter husband detests her and writes her a certificate of divorce, puts it in her hand, and sends her out of his house, or if the latter husband dies who took her as his wife, then her former husband who divorced her must not take her back to be his wife after she has been defiled; for that is an abomination before the LORD, and you shall not bring sin on the land which the LORD your God is giving you as an inheritance. (Deuteronomy 24:2-4)
But you shall destroy their altars, break their sacred pillars, and cut down their wooden images (for you shall worship no other god, for the LORD, whose name is Jealous, is a jealous God), lest you make a covenant with the inhabitants of the land, and they play the harlot with their gods and make sacrifice to their gods, and one of them invites you and you eat of his sacrifice, and you take of his daughters for your sons, and his daughters play the harlot with their gods and make your sons play the harlot with their gods. You shall make no molded gods for yourselves. (Exodus 34:13-17)
And they took their (idolater’s) daughters to be their wives, and gave their daughters to their sons; and they served their gods. So the children of Israel did evil in the sight of the LORD. They forgot the LORD their God. (Judges 3:6)
Judah has dealt treacherously, and an abomination has been committed in Israel and in Jerusalem, for Judah has profaned. The LORD’s holy institution which He loves, he has married the daughter of a foreign god. (Malachi 2:11)
From the nations of whom the LORD had said to the children of Israel, “You shall not intermarry with them, nor they with you. Surely they will turn away your hearts after their gods.” Solomon clung to these in love. And he had seven hundred wives, princesses, and three hundred concubines; and his wives turned away his heart. For it was so, when Solomon was old, that his wives turned his heart after other gods; and his heart was not loyal to the LORD his God, as was the heart of his father David. (I Kings 11:1-4)
And he did likewise for all his foreign wives, who burned incense and sacrificed to their gods. So the LORD became angry with Solomon, because his heart had turned from the LORD God of Israel. (I Kings 11:8-9)
Now therefore, do not give your daughters as wives for their sons, nor take their daughters to your sons; and never seek their peace or prosperity, that you may be strong and eat the good of the land, and leave it as an inheritance to your children forever. (Ezra 9:12)
Should we again break Your commandments, and join in marriage with the people committing these abominations? Would You not be angry with us until You had consumed us, so that there would be no remnant or survivor? Ezra 9:14
We have trespassed against our God, and have taken pagan wives from the peoples of the land; yet now there is hope in Israel in spite of this. Now therefore, let us make a covenant with our God to put away all these wives and those who have been born to them, according to the advice of my master and of those who tremble at the commandment of our God; and let it be done according to the law. (Ezra 10:2-3)
Then Ezra the priest stood up and said to them, “You have transgressed and have taken pagan wives, adding to the guilt of Israel. Now therefore, make confession to the LORD God of your fathers, and do His will; separate yourselves from the peoples of the land, and from the pagan wives. (Ezra 10:10-11)
These joined with their brethren, their nobles, and entered into a curse and an oath to walk in God’s Law, which was given by Moses the servant of God, and to observe and do all the commandments of the LORD our Lord, and His ordinances and His statutes: We would not give our daughters as wives to the peoples of the land, nor take their daughters for our sons. (Nehemiah 10:29-30)
So I contended with them and cursed them, struck some of them and pulled out their hair, and made them swear by God, saying, “You shall not give your daughters as wives to their sons, nor take their daughters for your sons or yourselves. Did not Solomon king of Israel sin by these things? Yet among many nations there was no king like him, who was beloved of his God; and God made him king over all Israel. Nevertheless pagan women caused even him to sin. Should we then hear of your doing all this great evil, transgressing against our God by marrying pagan women?” (Nehemiah 13:25-27)
They have dealt treacherously with the LORD, for they have begotten pagan children. Now a New Moon shall devour them and their heritage. (Hosea 5:7)
And a woman who has a husband who does not believe, if he is willing to live with her, let her not divorce him. For the unbelieving husband is sanctified by the wife, and the unbelieving wife is sanctified by the husband; otherwise your children would be unclean, but now they are holy. But if the unbeliever departs, let him depart; a brother or a sister is not under bondage in such cases. But God has called us to peace. (I Corinthians 7:13-15)
A wife is bound by law as long as her husband lives; but if her husband dies, she is at liberty to be married to whom she wishes, only in the Lord. (I Corinthians 7:39)
Judah has been unfaithful. A detestable thing has been committed in Israel and in Jerusalem: Judah has desecrated the sanctuary the LORD loves by marrying women who worship a foreign god. (Malachi 2:11)
Now am facing a bad situation..Give me some suggestions please..He is a Christian Nadar am not in the caste..He is just simply said that his parents won’t accept and left me..even he is not tried..I am ready to do anything for him but he is not..Here i am seeing somepeople worshipping Caste and Religion more than God right..I feel very bad for this..For this anything there in Bible..
Pray, he is a religious fanatic and you are not going to be happy in his orthodox religion. He is not a trust worthy person to start with. He is not even trying to talk to his parents. If he is so scared of his parents, there is no way you will be happy with him.
Start a brand new life. In a little while, you will forget all these. Settle with someone trust worthy. Best wishes.