sameera says: March 24, 2014 at 12:47 am
Hi Admin
My bf is ready to convert in ISLAM.
But the only thing is he is scared about Circumcision and am also scared because his age 27.
It is about the matter of life and death if anything happens to him. I cant leave without him. And he requested his parents they accepted for register marriage under special act.
I want to change his name as muslim name. I want to marry him in Islamic way.
Please tell me how to do this..
Need urgent reply please please please…… -Sameera
Admin says:
Hi Sameera,
We are not very clear about your request. You said “it is a matter of life and death”, “I cant leave without him (a Hindu)” and “they (Hindu parents) accepted for register marriage under special act”, then what is the issue? When it is a matter of life-and-death, what is wrong with the Special Marriage Act?
Explain us why you want him a Muslim name, circumcised, convert him to Islam and then have Nikaah? He is a good human being, is that not important enough for you? What is conversion has to do with your TRUE love for that Hindus? When you were dating him, did you not realize that he is a Hindu?
If you wished for a Muslim husband, why you bothered dating a Hindu guy? He will never be the way Koran or Muhammad wanted him to be, never. If you wanted a rose, why you bothered with a carnation? You cannot convert a carnation to rose, may be a fake-rose but never a real rose. Likewise, if you want a Muslim husband, go to your local Mosque and look for a circumcised guy who is performing namaz five times a day. Even your THIS life with that real-Muslim man may be in hell, that should not matter because Allah will take you to heaven in your AFTER life. This way, you will be happy in the END. Is that not all about being a good Muslim? Please explain all these to us, thanks. -Admin
Admin says: April 5, 2014
Sameera,
You asked, “suggest me please what do I do“. We hope you are intellectual and critical thinker to comprehend what we are going to say.
If you believe all that is said by Muhammad and Koran, you are already a sinner destined for hell. Your imam will wish you to dump that Hindu guy and marry a Muslim who is performing namaz five times a day in the mosque. Even he beats you and have three other wives, Islam will still not let you take a divorce. Even your THIS life is in hell, they will keep promising you heaven in the AFTER life. If you wish to follow all these, go for it!
God has made this world for all. We (Christians, Hindus, Muslims) are all God’s children. Nothing happens without Allah’s wish, probably it was Allah wish that you got into love with a Hindu. Go for it!
God made man and man made religions. There were Jews. Then Church (not Jesus) created Christianity. Later, Muhammad created a new religion and said don’t make friends with Jews and Christians, why? Later came Shia and Sunni… and more. Religions are silos created by man, not Allah.
Why Allah is only in (the direction) Saudi Arabia and not in Vatican, Kashi or in a poor man’s house? Why bowling five times a day is more important than being a good human being? Why Muhammad and Jesus are two most idolized human beings in the history of this world? Why that extra skin on penis is bothering powerful Allah? Why there are so many cruel words for innocent non-Muslims in the Koran? Why Mahatma Gandhi and Mother Teresa will get into Hell because they were not Muslims? Even someone with an IQ of 80 will realize that there is something wrong with all this religion-bussiness.
Learn the religion of humanity. If you think your bf is truly a good human being and will take good care of you till your death, go marry him. Forget this circumcision and conversion to prove he is a good man. Be honest, be truthful, don’t lie. Your mother will not like all these for a while, but she will come around later (read Shamim). Good luck! -Admin.
sameera says: May 22, 2014 at 12:38 am
Hi
Finally we got married. -SameeraHey I wish you all the very best for your successful life ahead since my brother (Hindu) who loves a Muslim girl is also in a same situation as you are in I pray that everything goes well. I wish for your dream to come true.
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Hi
Finally we got married.
Congratulations!! Now tell us how did you get around all issues we discussed earlier. What did you finally settled for? Keep us posted for your life-events.
Thank you Admin…for your Wishes…
Mind your words Mr.David..
Did I Said that, Circumcision for my bf is compulsory. If anything happens to him even I cant live. Without circumcision I want to convert him. Might be it is not possible.
My only intention is that I want to introduce him as a Muslim in front of my parents with his Muslim name. So that I need muslim name with certificate. Then my parents will allow me to marry him. And in front of my boyfrd’s family am acting as Hindu.
So that society people cant hurt them by saying your son married a muslim girl. vice versa.. Am not able to explain clearly.
Sorry if anybody got hurt by my words.
Dear Sameera,
We understand that you love and respect all and wishes to make both sets of parents happy, that’s all. This is a noble thought. However, Islam is an exclusivist religion and you cannot be both, a Hindu and also a Muslim. Milk and yogurt won’t mix. You need to decide one of two. If you are not sure what we are saying, read Koran on Hindus?
Now on what you said, “in front of my boyfrd’s family am acting as Hindu”, lets assume you are already married and living in a Hindu home. Now there is a Diwali day. They will ask you (since you are a Hindu) to wear a sari, a bindi and join them for pooja in a Hindu temple. What will you tell your parents who saw your video on your bf’s Facebook that you were praying to Lord Rama? Let us know how will you explain your parents that Isvar Allah hero nam (Allah and Lord Rama the same).
Hi Admin
Am not going to stay with his parents. We will be staying in another state. As You said that on their festival day I have to wear bindi and sit for pooja. only on that particular day I will do that for their happyness. And I will beg for forgiveness infront of allah for this. Almighty will surely understand my situation. And after marriage also I will read Quran and I will do the prayers. And one more thing I already told them that I dont want to convert. They just said infront of our relatives be a Hindu girl.
I know am hurting his parents… As his parents know my situation.
My parents dont know about our relationship. I want to introduce him as a Muslim guy. I dont have my father, he died 4years back.
If I say that am in love with a Hindu guy,I cant even expect how she will react, if she got any attack,or Low bp. I lost my father…I cant lost my mother. Thats the main reason I want to introduce him as muslim. After marriage(2-3years later) slowly I will explain my mom about his caste.
So that she can understand, may be she will scold me. Noproblem.
Our concern is you are making lies and deceptions as a foundation for your married life. How long you could fool others? Your mother will know in 5 min that he is not a true Muslim (unless she is mentally weak). How she will feel when she find out that you lied to her? In general, people say “honesty is the best policy” for a good reason.
How could fool you Allah? He knows it well that he is a Hindu and he has already told that dating a Hindu is against Islam for a Muslim girl. Have you read what Koran says for Hindus? Are you going to follow up? How will you explain all your tricks to Allah on the Judgment Day?
Hi
I cant live without him. I cant hurt my mom as well.
Tell me what to do now in this situation.
I committed big sin by loving a hindu guy, but he really loves me alot and I too.
I clearly said to him while accepting his Love in the starting itself that I cant marry a hindu guy. He must be muslim. And he said in the beginning itself that he will convert for me. And he stick to that promise now also.
But for this conversion he need to do circumcision. That may lead health problem for him. If anything happens I cant even imagine that.
Now suggest me please what do I do. Please don’t say to leave him.
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Sameera, dear sister, circumcision is actually not a must for males who are older and convert to Islam later in their lives. I know many boys who converted and didn’t get circumcised and are practicing praying Muslims. Please don’t let someone with little knowledge about Islam and many opinions about it convince you to leave this boy. Not sure what happened, but if you have to wear bindi in front of his parents, do it. Allah knows what’s in everyone’s hearts.
Putting bindi on forehead doesn’t violate the fundamental principles of Islam, so it can be done, especially if it is to please the in-laws. But if something is done like idol worship, then it is totally haram, muhammad(saw) never did idol worship to please the meccan idol worshiper, instead he reasoned with them.
Iam a muslim grl too in pure love with a hindu guy…my parents also are torturing me to convert him, hv me almost abandoned! ! Bt not evn once, It ever occurd to me dat he could convert n go thru circumcision. ..I would rather entire world alone then letting him go through it…I feel really sorry for your bf..i lost a brothr due to unfction caused by this ritual…its disgusting…n let me tell u r not in love with him, you are jus using him to raise islamic population…I cn imagine d pain in his parents’ heart that their son who they hv raised fr 27 yrs, is goin to cut his main organ to gain lady love..wow!!!!! I wish ut bf reads it n slaps himslf to consciousness n get out of this muslim conversion business .
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Readers,
Circumcision is not only for males but also for female which is known as FGM, a cruel practice in islam. May be Sameera also undergone this cruel practice.
Female genital mutilation (FGM) includes procedures that intentionally alter or cause injury to the female genital organs for non-medical reasons.
The procedure has no health benefits for girls and women.
Procedures can cause severe bleeding and problems urinating, and later cysts, infections, infertility as well as complications in childbirth and increased risk of newborn deaths.
More than 125 million girls and women alive today have been cut in the 29 countries in Africa and Middle East where FGM is concentrated (1).
FGM is mostly carried out on young girls sometime between infancy and age 15.
FGM is a violation of the human rights of girls and women.
Sameera has not replied on the above issue when asked by one of writers on this blog.
She must write on this issue also.
Sameera,
Adult circumcision comes with some risks. Bleeding and infection is of significant concern. In addition, adult males who undergo circumcision may also be at risk for having too much or too little foreskin removed and a change in nerve and sensation. As a result, before considering circumcision, be certain you are familiar with these health risks.
In addition to surgical risks, the time for recovery from circumcision surgery may take as long as six weeks, requiring abstinence during the recovery period. This includes absence from any sexual stimulation.
Your post-operative circumcision treatment will also require regular dressing changes using sterile gauze and petroleum jelly. The surgical site will need to be closely monitored for up to 48 hours. After the 48 hours, the surgical area will need to be washed and kept clean for about five to seven days. This type of cleaning must be necessary to avoid infection during this first 10 days, post-surgical.
That Guy is a Idiot, Loving a Muslim girl and Converting to ISLAM….What the fuck is this! Let them welcome to Hell ( ISLAM ), ISLAM means terrorism. Thank God, I left ISLAM.
Raesa Singh Khan ( EX- MUSLIM).
Hi Sameera
What about your own circumcision? Has your clitoris been removed as part of FMG?